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Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Surefire1: 9:52am On Jul 25, 2018 |
My brother you dont have to run away. faced it once and for all. Divorce is not the best. remember your kids and what will you tell them that happen between you and their mother. Faced the challenge and dont run from it. Call your wife to order and if need be let both parents discuss that you both need freedom to plan your own family. Always remember there are no job security and the money you both think you have if not invested would be a disaster and both of you will regret decision and action made. Advice: Invest your money Invest in your self and family invest in your kid(s) future Dont lived a luxurious life Lastly, have a multiple stream of income. Your wife will come to herself. Dont fight or quarrel her. Be wise and act ahead of her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Radiant1020(f): 9:52am On Jul 25, 2018 |
If you marry Na wahala, if you no marry na wahala Which kind wahala be this 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by adebajosnr: 9:54am On Jul 25, 2018 |
have been in this situation once but not as a married man, before u call for divorce think it through if you and your wife love and need each other first then call a meeting with the two families and place your card on the table if your inlaw disagree then stand up and remove the ring that bind you together and declare yourself single right there and then, note : make sure you have the meeting on record for court evidence incase of matter arise.... goodluck bro meanwhile what part of abuja re you tho 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by TalkingBird: 9:54am On Jul 25, 2018 |
"My wife and her family members are driving me crazy.... ' You and your wife are one family. Your own family. Every other family is an extended family. If you note this then work on making it a reality. To begin change the narrative and then we talk. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Nobody: 9:55am On Jul 25, 2018 |
TDonald:Hahaahahah |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by 5ircreepy(m): 9:55am On Jul 25, 2018 |
In case you meet up with your brother in law, buy him breakfast and be generous enough to give him transport fare back to Lagos. Thank me later.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by olu4life(m): 9:56am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Don't really meddle in family ish but this? I am super angry at OP. Seriously? THANK God you had the nerve to switch off the phone. What nonsense! Where's your family in this matter? You better call your wife to order and don't you dare give in to accommodating any stupid, lazy and useless inlaw. Arrant nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by kushme: 9:56am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Rushmore: Wetin this one dey talk? What alpha male.. Guy is a beta bux already.. He can only reduce it cos most beta men don't become alpha men over night.. Abi, you just heard the word for the first time.. And you wanna try it in a sentence |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by daddyfreeman1(m): 9:57am On Jul 25, 2018 |
my brother,divorce is the best thing to do so that you can get rid of all this riff-raffs,that called them selves inlaws.and wife......they want to suck you dry and build there own so called family,watch out if you failed to do the right thing now,you will blame yourself at last,you will become poorer than ever before,believe me.......an inch in time saves nine,so do the right now...... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by victorazyvictor(m): 9:58am On Jul 25, 2018 |
joa2013: My brother, your a man, take your stand, this is your house and life. If your wife want to relevant embrace her but if she decide to be a liability plz step on her and work towards your destiny. Thanks. |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by neonly: 9:59am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Hedonisst:
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Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Cumtroller: 10:00am On Jul 25, 2018 |
So you now want nairalanders to poke nose into your private family affairs? Be a man and sort out your shit.... |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 25, 2018 |
TDonald:Seconded 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by oruma19: 10:01am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Go and sit down and stop the noise, u v been a foolish man from inception. its men like u that would have driven their family members away because of ordinary toto. Men who behave like the poster are those stupid spirikoko guys that never dated before they got married, so when they managed to date and see toto they start acting like nothing else matters in life. idiot face ur problem and stop disturbing us because we were not there when u chased ur family members away to please ur wife and her family. Enjoy the useless marriage that u entered. thunder fire u if u post anythin on nairaland again. mtchwwww (Didnt anyone else notice he neva talked about his own family? its becos he chased them away to please his wife...man wey neva see toto before..toto will kill u..lol 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Pricelessangel0(f): 10:02am On Jul 25, 2018 |
@OP, how come you and your friend Samuel are in the same dilemma? or is it the same ancestral spirit that is following you? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by yoged(m): 10:03am On Jul 25, 2018 |
What some men face in their marriage, no be small thing. Maybe you should talk to family relatives from wife side. |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by mikeige(m): 10:03am On Jul 25, 2018 |
TDonald:Jesus you wicked oo |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Oreofepeters: 10:04am On Jul 25, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Tekzyflex(m): 10:04am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Bros just stick to your guns. I think your wife and her people want to take your kindness for granted. Be strong brother... Problem too much for marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by D1zion: 10:06am On Jul 25, 2018 |
The earlier the better you run for your life. This is the type of family that can plan to kill you just for your wealth since their daughter is in support of her family. I think you should let your family know what you're passing through so they will wade into it too. To me o will go with the majority of the people here. Run now before is too late for u. My brother all those people saying you're not man enough have never tested life the hard way to know we're it pinches. Pls take to your heals now. Say hey while the sun shines. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Nobody: 10:06am On Jul 25, 2018 |
donstan18:Im surprised you gave this advice. I'm sure the op has discussed and begged to no avail. It's very bad when people allow their family come inbetween their immediate family. |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Nobody: 10:08am On Jul 25, 2018 |
yoged:Which family relatives again? They will frustrate the op until he goes under. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Osolo1(m): 10:10am On Jul 25, 2018 |
My brother I feel for you,best step was moving away from your in laws and wife first.Next cut off all communications from your in laws for now.If your wife continues insulting you cos of her family, cut off communications with her for about three months or more.If however, you have kids together, keep in contact with your wife.If she agrees to your terms and conditions, relocate her to your new place,your sanity is important, divorce should be your last resort. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Eketem: 10:11am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Maxvasia: After much venom please kindly point out where you saw me write that he was spendin money on women! Thank you |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Nobody: 10:11am On Jul 25, 2018 |
Maxvasia: oga! you will marry and you will be discreet about it. you will make rules governing your marriage before you say I DO. make sure u don't marry out of pity but out of love and friendship because love fades but friendship never. see me giving you advice like I am not scared too. let me come and be going abeg..... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by mikeige(m): 10:12am On Jul 25, 2018 |
You self you for don travel out you no no Sey them go see money borrow enter bus come Abuja if na out who won borrow them flight money na so monitor sprit dey do |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Maxvasia(m): 10:13am On Jul 25, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by Nobody: 10:13am On Jul 25, 2018 |
TalkingBird:It is his wife that has to get that into her brain. She's letting extended family come inbetween her own family. Not surprised, that's what happen when men marry for artificial beauty without getting to know a lady's innate character. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by hope4life: 10:21am On Jul 25, 2018 |
My brother I feel your pain because most of us can relate with this.Some women don't have shame.The nonsense you couldn't do in your father's house,you're doing it in your matrimonial home.Some of them see marriage as a money spinning machine.What is their contribution: bedroom and children.Some no character to even make you happy to do those things.When a lady puts her extended family responsibilities on her husband, you're simply showing how cheap your family is.Sorry for my harsh tone,it can be annoying when you feel you enter into trouble because you marry.Back to your matter:1.Pray over it .2.Let your wife know your stand 3.Let your extended family know your stand.Don't be a coward.People try you with what they will never take.4Be patient and apply wisdom where necessary. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by afilaka(f): 10:21am On Jul 25, 2018 |
This same guy wrote this story last year,i tink i bliv him nw............Am so sorry yoa in this. Samuel is my childhood friend, he got married to Dorcas in 2014. The marriage just like every other has series of issues but theirs assumed a dangerous dimension since 2016. The issue has been on the overbearing attitude of Dorcas's mum who likes to be part of everything that happens in the home. Samuel has also been complaining about the amount of money he spends on his in-laws. Dorcas will always cry each time her family's financial demand is not met. Samuel saw this as being placed under too much burden by his wife and her mother. He claimed to have made several attempts to discuss things with his wife to no avail. So in February 2017, he worked his transfer to Abuja from Lagos and comes to Lagos only at month ends, Dorcas now gets only a fixed monthly allowance which Samuel said she could give to her mum and stay hungry for the month if she like. This didn't go down well with Dorcas and her mum, they stylishly redeployed Dorcas's younger brother who was to serve in Nasarawa State to Abuja to be accommodated by Samuel, he rebuffed this and refused to accommodate the guy. This has been generating tension in the home with Samuel already making attempt to call off the marriage. This I believe will not be good especially for their 2 year old baby boy. Dorcas's mum hasn't seen anything wrong in her attitude till now. How can this marriage be saved please? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And Her Family Are Driving Me crazy by sunbilor(m): 10:21am On Jul 25, 2018 |
joa2013:Wahala dey o. |
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