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Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by CaptainFM1: 11:54pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
praxs: Report to your own parent first! They will scold you...,they will take it up from there. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 11:59pm On Jul 28, 2018 |
adetoroamos: You obviously didn't read the write up. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by jasmeel: 12:03am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Boy this isn't nolly nor holly, you jst scatter dis girl life as you no send for your own d girl should b d one seeking advice not you . boy yiu dont even regret what you did. U just dey list all wetin you suppose do before u faya her na now u kon dey shout. Boy whatever happens take am like that... |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by jimcaddy(m): 12:03am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Hahahahahahahahahaha.... First and foremost, a hearty congratulations on becoming a father of triplets... Your own don cast... Which ever, you are in trouble. If you allow her abort it, and she ends up dying in the process, the police will hunt you down. If she keeps it, the baby (babies) will keep growing. And how do you hide fire without the smoke sifting out? You have to report yourself to her family and explain things to them and how you are ready to be a father, and marriage plans as well... Once again, I say congratulations... Shebi when you were closing eyes in sheer bliss and pouring hot, thick akamu inside her puna, you no know abi... |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Jazmiynne: 12:07am On Jul 29, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: The Bible explicitly stated "FLEE from Fornication!" 1Corinthians 6:18 1 Corinthians 10:8 Ephesians 5:3 It cannot be in support of fornication at all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:13am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jazmiynne: Praxs might be 28 but the girl is a 22 year old student who doesn't want the baby and wants to stay in school in peace. Stop acting like its only one person in the relationship. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:14am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Originalsly: He didn't say they were dating for one month, he said they had sex one month ago. Read again bro. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:17am On Jul 29, 2018 |
CSTR1005: How did you turn this whole thing to still blame the girl?? Na wa o. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:18am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Olabestonic001: She's also playing with present death. Maternal mortality rate is high in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:19am On Jul 29, 2018 |
kushercain: The op might be 28 but the girl is 22, and she doesn't want the child because she does not want to dedicate 3 compulsory years of her life to raising a child when she can instead be in school. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Jazmiynne: 12:19am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre: The girl is 22 and so? I don't even understand how that makes her a baby. Once you're old enough to have consensual sex, you are automatically old enough to bear the consequences. A cousin got pregnant at 18, she and the guy loved each other and they got married. They current have 3 beautiful kids and are all over each other - she's currently 23. Pregnancy doesn't make anyone stay in school "in pieces". I would have been worried if she wasn't already in school, maybe seeking admission or so. It's 2018, pregnant ladies even without support of their men, are moving on successfully with their lives AND their babies. The question we should be asking is "Why REALLY doesn't she want the baby?" Op can't answer that cos he probably doesn't know which is why I have requested that he send a PM. So at which point am I behaving like there's only one person in the relationship? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Nobody: 12:20am On Jul 29, 2018 |
praxs: Mumu So you dont know what condom is abi?? You deserve to spend some time in the police station because of this statement you made |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:20am On Jul 29, 2018 |
2odd: If anything goes wrong during childbirth only the woman will DIE and be BURIED. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:20am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Netanyahu1: She does not think. She knows. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by ennon92(m): 12:21am On Jul 29, 2018 |
okwusdidi:exactly....[Mother of Brazilian soccer star reveals she considered abortion] is good,have a look at it! https://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/mother-of-brazilian-soccer-star-reveals-she-considered-abortion-11151 |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Jazmiynne: 12:23am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre: Babe it's year 2018. People who REALLY want an education no longer have to leave school to spend "3 compulsory years" raising a child. And for goodness sake stop making 22 seem like a kid. People have attained some good stuff to their names at exactly that same age. She is NOT a baby. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by debssycharles(f): 12:24am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Marry her and settle d matter.... |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Teegelop(f): 12:24am On Jul 29, 2018 |
oolongtea:All you just want is for them to terminate the pregnancy and you know the bible frown against such act. Let the baby live and they both face the consequence of formication. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:26am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jazmiynne: She is 22 and she does not want to spend her mid-20's raising a child. Because a cousin did it does not mean it is a STANDARD for everybody. My mother also was advised to abort me because she was hypertensive and had also developed some other pregnancy complications that would have taken her life. She opted to keep me and luckily she pulled through. But I will NEVER EVER use that as an excuse to advice people to keep a baby. My mother was lucky and she was also MARRIED and had the love and support of her husband, a lot of other women die on the hospital bed or do not have the support of a man in their lives. Stop trying to guilt women to make decisions they don't want to make because of your anonymous cousin. Its clear you didn't read the write up. The girl does not want to keep the baby because she is a student. Gbam! |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:28am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jazmiynne: But she doesn't want to HAVE A BABY and HAVE AN EDUCATION at the same time period. She wants to do one and then do the other. What is so hard to understand about that people. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Jazmiynne: 12:32am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre: Oh dear... First read my initial post, no where did I mention my cousin as reason why the Op and his babe should keep their child. I did say the child should be kept because abortion is MURDER and brings displeasure to our creator. However when YOU mentioned the girl's age as hindrance, that's when my cousin's story came in - not as 'standard' practice but as an illustration to explain to YOU (not the Op) that age 22 is not a hindrance to the child being kept i.e. It is not impossible. And yes, I DID read the write-up. If being a student is her only reason for not wanting to keep the child, that's exactly why she needs to be advised to see that it is doable to keep her child and still finish her education. Plus, if she didn't want to spend her mid 20's raising a child, she should have shut her legs tight. 6 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by wisdomdc: 12:34am On Jul 29, 2018 |
My brother this is just like the case I handled few months ago and it went successfully well, so you can trust me check my signature to confirm, what I wantmtomsaymis this 1. Don't listen to all those demons up there telling you to go and abort the baby, what my heartmis telling me now is that you should marry the girl point blankly 2. Abortion as you known it is also murder, terminating the plan of God fro man on earth without the concept of that man, I nam a year older than you andnInthink ifnyoiu marry that girl, its not too early. 3. If a person wants to commit suicide what will you tell the person and how will you ndeter that person from committing suicide, that is exactly what you shouldndo to your girl, make her know how much you love her, with your both will be strong enough to fight through 4.!Everyone one who commits abortion already have a curse hanging on their head which they pass from generation to generation are yoiu ready for that Now to allay your fears: don't be the one to break the news to her parents let you parents do that, I am talking from experience.,this will be the third successful case I will be handling. Let your parents make the family know they they will take responsibility for the girl and if they wish you are going to marry the girl, forget thosenfears the girl is battling with she will get over them when she knows you will marryher and her parents are accepted, you know women are generally emotional and sometimes act on impulses. But then, you have to be very prayerful and seek counsel from a trusted pastor, all the samenbrase up tonfacenthe challengesnthat will comemafterm, your parents maynsxold you, the church may suspend you her parents may threaten to beat yoiu up and loxck you up. It doesnt matter. All you are after is protect in your seed, you jeritqge , your future, your child. Don't let the wrath of God fall on you oh becausenour Godnisna xonsunpming fire. It is better men laugh at you than for God to do so. And you must act fast!!! You can call me as you move on 08138907267. Imcan help you break the news to whoever you deem fit, I have done that before for others. Thanks and good morning |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:34am On Jul 29, 2018 |
ennon92: I'm happy that he turned out great, but there are thousands of "children" who live in ghettos and will never be great, using this one instance is pretty much the definition of "Confirmation Bias" 1 Like |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Jazmiynne: 12:37am On Jul 29, 2018 |
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Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Jazmiynne: 12:37am On Jul 29, 2018 |
MarieSucre: No dear. You don't get to eat your cake and still have it. If she wanted that orderly life, she'd have closed her legs. People don't breathe in pregnancies as air, it's not a communicable condition and it doesn't fall from heaven. People who want their lives in a certain way, make CONSCIOUS decisions towards the actualisation of that reality. She wasn't raped. They had consensual sex and without a condom. Need I mention that she had sex with a guy who doesn't know the meaning of "Nemesis"? praxs: When a person decides to go about their life without mapping out standards for the life they want, they get the life they create. And then they should wake up and deal with it, not run away from the reality they self-created. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Bluehill1051: 12:39am On Jul 29, 2018 |
praxs:Lies. You're the one that wants the abortion. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:39am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jazmiynne:No you didn't read it, because if you did you will see that she DOESN'T want to spend her mid 20's raising a child and she is TAKING ACTIONS TO THAT EFFECT, there in comes the 'abortion' part. It might be doable in your eyes but it's not to HER. And since we're talking about an issue that concerns HER body, HER opinion and preferences come before YOURS. But then again you're more interested in talking about YOUR beliefs and YOUR creator. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by cococandy(f): 12:42am On Jul 29, 2018 |
The decisions is hers to make |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by MarieSucre(f): 12:44am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Jazmiynne: Ermmm... yes she will eat HER cake and have it. It's HER cake. Shaking my head at the nerve of YOU thinking you can dictate HER life. Lol she is not in a dilemma sweet heart. The only dilemma she is in, is that her boyfriend wants to keep the baby, unlike you, even he realises the ball is really in HER court that is why he is trying so hard to convince HER. Abortion ain't like how Nollywood of those days showcase it. Lots of women especially married women get abortions daily. You'll be surprised, go ask your public health practitioner. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by Leesah(f): 12:48am On Jul 29, 2018 |
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Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by makoota: 12:51am On Jul 29, 2018 |
I AM MAKUOCHUKWU BY NAME, NEVER ALLOW HER TO ABORT THE UNBORN CHILD. PLEASE CONVINCE HER WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH. THERE ARE WOMEN PRAYING AND WISHING TO CINCIEVE AND THEN MISCARRIAGE, NO PROBLEM. ALL THEY WANT IS TO CONCIEVE. THERE ARE THOSE ASKING FOR EVEN slowpoke, THERE ARE GOMES IF 25 YEARS AND + STILL BELIEVING GOD FOR A CHILD. PLEASE I UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE IS PASSING THROUGH RIGHT NOW BUT FOR THE SAKE OF JESUS, SHE SHOULD BEAR THE STIGMA AND DO GODS WILL. |
Re: My Pregnant Girlfriend Wants Abortion. How Do I Convince Her To Keep It? by yeyeboy23(m): 12:58am On Jul 29, 2018 |
Keep it o 1 Like |
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