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Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by CuTTiieAngeL(f): 2:13pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
She Will Change, Don't Think Of A Divorce |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07: Go and get your wife back. There's no joy in divorce especially as there's no evidence of extra marital affair. Settle it with her. You need to report her to elders in her family. How about moving away from the vicinity of that church? There are many options for you to consider if you truly love your wife. Women ordinarily turn towards religion and spirituality more compared to the men. If she wants to be religious how about you both embark on that journey together. Sit her down and discuss and decide together which Church you both want to start attending. Etc. Communication is key in every marriage. All the best. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
OkaNaUbe: I'm not interested in answering that question on a Nigerian forum. Most Nigerians reason like little children. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by sunnysos: 2:16pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Something is wrong about the church... For the fact that u have reported to matter to her pastor. A real man of God will ensure that peace is restored in that marriage/home. Her pastor is a selfish man.. I really doubt if that church is a true church of Jesus Christ. These days we have men opening churches and working for their belly and not for Jesus. Secondly, it looks like u don't go to church. Ur wife is looking for solution to a problem which u are not aware of, but maybe in the wrong place. May God help both of u. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Iamicekid(m): 2:18pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
[color=#990000][/color] Baba first of all I really don’t think your wife is really in love with you tho 1: First you are to be blame married for 7years and you didn’t built her into a go getter kind of woman why isn’t she working and earning a living for the Family and you said she has a shop, you should have make impact on how you plan to bring the shop to it’s peak for the family benefits unless you get married to a lazy wife tho 2: secondly when you ask for the divorce what was her reply her mood cause if she feels it normal my brother that wife of yours has been fucking around be that ooo 3: what did her friend did when she told them you asked for a divorce have they come visiting and begging and the Pastor has he come pleading cause they are quick to come to your door when you said she should attend the church again Brother if them no show am happy to tell you that you have been the only one in the marriage for some time now, you just getting to know Baba 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by GGirll: 2:19pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
uboma: My thought too cos that's d symptoms I'm so sorry to say so...especially most expectant moms n well God forgive me if I'm wrong but you have to snoop closely or else you may father another man's child in d name of male child ish!!! |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
kmcutez: . I wanted to know who I am sharing ideas/educating. A man is never equal to a woman. No further comments. Bye. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Dignity12clems: 2:19pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Kindly stop the agreement u made with her not to born now, if she has children she will listen to u well, offspring keeps marriage healthy, that will engage her with domestic activities, don't ever allow ur wife to go another church from your church, don't divorce her. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Dindondin(m): 2:19pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:You v your final decision. But if true your allegation is intact, your wife is making mistakes with her New Zealand for church. Biblically, she's supposed to submit more to your authority. She should only be involved with church more only during time & days you or her kids won't need her services. If it's me, I d v reported her to her family. If it persist, I m separating. Imagine that part where you said its even affecting her biz. Investigate that church sef. Which Pastor without common sense ll hold people's wives, kids, husbands to church activities without considering their family. It fit be all these yahoo boy pastors that fornicate with women & scam them. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Ataime16(m): 2:20pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
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Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by semyman: 2:21pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:The pastor or one of the regular guy in that church is giving your wife better bed attention. Forget this church scam stuffs, just get yourself another babe before you die prematurely |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by GGirll: 2:22pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
prettysassygirl: This is harsh n judgemental I must tell you...quite right it's not easy on both of them lets just advise him positively n not in judgement n outbursts |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by BOMBEATZ(m): 2:22pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Name of church abeg, so others wont tow dat line too |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Leave your wife outta this and approach the pastor. Nothing should put asunder not even the church. Let him know he should be expecting another approach next your wife violates your rule because of his doctrines. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Oyindidi(f): 2:25pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:The Church is not the only problem in your family.. Go and bring back your wife. I know of a similar story, the lady attends a Church the husband took her to. He was controlling the wife to the extend she bought 2 cars and he seize the keys. When she get fed up and left he started blaming the the Church. Oga, you are very wrong for driving away your wife.. I put it to you that you were the reason she was sleeping in the said Church. You created this thread out of guilt. If you don't go and bring her back, the guilt will kiil you. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by twerkjack: 2:26pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Later u men will say u want a God fearing woman for marriage. So Someone cannot serve their God wholefully in peace again? Because ur married?? Marriage was always baseless sef.. That’s y Paul encouraged no marriage and celebacy. I have a feeling , this Op is not telling the clean truth?? |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by eph12(m): 2:26pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
I'm not sure I can tolerate a wife that loves the church more than her home or business 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by taurusmena1(m): 2:27pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
My brother, what u feel is not quilt. It is you missing ur wife |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by StarUp: 2:30pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Op if you are saying the "whole truth", then you should know that: 1. Someone outside your home is controlling your marriage and it doesn't have to be the devil. 2. Your wife is tired of the marriage that's why she is allowing that "someone" to interfere in the marriage. 3. There is something your wife is searching for out there in the name of going to church that you don't know about (women are deep). 4. The foundation of your marriage was faulty from the start and that's why all these are happening (the Bible says in Psalm 11:3 that "if the foundation be destroyed, what can the righteous do?"so don't put the entire blame on her. 5. What she had expected in the marriage is not what she is seeing now that's why she is using church to hide her frustrations....and the points are endless. Now what is the way out? 1. Sit down and identify who or what is trying to break your marriage (you don't have to even pray)...it may even be a habit you have that she is tired of. 2. Read books on great marriage or how to make marriage work(it is knowledge you need bro. and not prayer). 3. Ask your wife what she thinks will make a woman(not her o: you have to use scope otherwise she will detect) happy in marriage, then go to work on her answer. 4. Sneak to that church like two or three times to observe how things are done or send someone if you don't want to be detected. You can go to the evening services after they have finished calling out for first timers. The information you get there will help you make an informed decision. 5. Identify things that she likes in a man and things that naturally give her joy and start doing them...it could be helping out with house chores or banging her real good in a way that will make her scream your name for more. Above all, commit your home to God in prayers because EXCEPT THE LORD BUILDS THE HOUSE, THEY LABOUR IN VAIN THAT BUILD IT. God bless you!!! |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Oyindidi(f): 2:32pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:There's a way you'll ask and the person will obey. I didn't see that comment before my first post. You are a control freak, work on yourself if you want a happy marriage |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
SUPERPACK:If any woman try that poo with me, i no mind to divorce her during honeymoon. They worship pastors instead of God. If the said wife understand christianity, she wouldn't jeopardize her family for some hypocritical reasons. How on earth can a church make people (especially women) attend church everyday knowing fully well they are supposed to be taking care of family and business? I don't know how they go about dragging the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to that end buh it's totally insane, most of the so called pastors self don't know a thing about Christianity, all they do is force/make their followers worship them. And why a supposed matured family woman would introduce a pastor to her family affairs also baffles me. I might eventually end up not getting married sha, cuz most of the things i hear about family and how they go about taking the pains and ish, not me and you. You must never talk to anyone about us, not even your inner man (woman). We are who we are, we must set everything right on our own. 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by jamesbridget13(f): 2:34pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
First, Since u aren't finding inner peace after ur decision it then proves that its not d right decision for u at least for ur peace of mind. Secondly, your wife needs to be called to order. Do not divorce her. Give her another chance to change n pls be strict this time. The bible says there is time for everything. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Scolari020(m): 2:35pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
These seem 2 b complicate, reason is dat a wife should b sumitive 2 her husband nd child. Can i say u shuld divoce her becoz she was influence by a friend, dont be so surprise if u find out ur wife is engage to another man from the same church that her friend force on her, all the church thing is just to cast ur face of it so u wont suspect her. My advice nw is to call ur wife friend ask her if the way ur wife hv time for her church is the same way her friend do, if nt sumtin got to be fish out. Using church to covered her bad habit outside her marriage. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Leonbonapart(m): 2:37pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
LewsTherin:just look at the way you are saying 'Cult' 'cult' 'cult'.... You've judged and condemned her already without knowing the whole story. And you call yourself a Christian. Thank God say man no be God |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Pataricatering(f): 2:39pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
dingbang:submission ko , submissive ni ! Rubbish ! 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by ukandi1(m): 2:41pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
SUPERPACK: Hahahahahahahaha.. I am in Enugu too and can boldly confirm this. It's not only Enugu oh.. it's the entirety of Eastern states |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by babapressy(m): 2:42pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
That exactly what happens when you want to mix darkness and light together. Believer vs unbeliever, two christians, one with passion and the other none..... |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Eketem: 2:42pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Why did she start attending the church in the first place? If you had any spiritual headship over your family as you are supposed to then she would not leave you and be attending a new church, I hope you are not cheating or doing something that made her be jumping from church to church looking for solutions because these pastors smell vulnerable women like bloodhounds. Anyway, you need to reclaim your spiritual headship of your family, draw close to God and lead your family to a place of worship you are comfortable with |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Pataricatering(f): 2:43pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Your wife has been brainwashed by the pastor ! Yonky a very serious event will bring her back to her senses ! Maybe it’s the pastor you need to deal with ! |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07: Young man, your wife is only using the excuse of going to church to have sexual affairs with other men or probably women |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Jetland(m): 2:44pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
LewsTherin:Nice one |
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