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Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
twerkjack:God fearing doesn't mean you must be a church goer. Most church goers are not God fearing. Most of those pastors are even Devil in Disguise. God fearing means someone that cannot hurt another, that obey and all for the love of God. Someone whose ready to keep all commandments of God. And why would a church fix programmes that would take about 80% of the time of their members? Do the church want her members become a beggar? They know they have families, businesses they need to take care of, so they should abandon them all. People should stop serving God the wrong way, they don't just understand Jesus Christ at all. Mtcheew. That's why Paul encouraged celibacy, how do you think it would have bn possible for him to travel around the world preaching about our Lord Jesus Christ if he has Families and businesses to take care of? If the siad wife want to serve/worship God, she should abandon her family and life once and for all and go ahead, buh it's obvious she's serving her pastor (God forgive me for this allegation, Amen) instead of God. Cuz if not, how on earth can she respect her pastor so much that she has to bring him to interfere in her family business? In a while now, they'd start preaching and convincing her in the church circle that her husband is evil and he doesn't want her to serve God where as all the man wanted wad/is doing so moderately. I smh for some women ehn. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by BigBashiru: 2:50pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Name the church. I complained about something similar; please name the church..... |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Jetland(m): 2:50pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
kennygee:What a smart comment! This is one of the intelligent comments I have ever seen on nairaland. But wait oo, when I checked your profile cos I was tempted to, I discovered you registered since 2006. Shey nah you and Seun create nairaland? |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by oyoofong(m): 2:51pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Join her and stop complaining,oga! |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by AngelicBeing: 2:54pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
uboma: 2 Likes
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Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Irorokhose: 2:57pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Well,as a marriage counsellor I would advice that you hold a meeting with your wife,her friend who invited her to the church, her pastor and any body you know she respects from tour own side( could be family member or friend d) and then talk things over. You will have a positive report. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by sorepco(m): 3:08pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Stop confusing us...u r not divorced but seperated... daveson07: 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Ishilove: 3:09pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:You're arguing with kids who don't know what marriage is about. 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Malawian(m): 3:10pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Join her in that new church to know whats up. if she becomes defensive or something, then look toward the pastor for where your problems is coming from. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by allanphash7(m): 3:10pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Lol Walahi o gbadun ooo kmcutez: |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by kliffo(m): 3:10pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
The pastor is obviously in control of your wife beyond normal church duties. It will not be a surprise if they are having an amoral relationship. Other people have mentioned this angle and you ignored it. That means you are probably already aware of that. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by ladygudhead(f): 3:15pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
The church starts from the home, if you fail in the Homefront it will be dificult for you to make heaven. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by InvertedHammer: 3:18pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
/ A lady that belongs to many little committees, associations, organizations in a church must be avoided at all costs. You may think she is a good Christian. Nope. That's the first sign of someone who could easily be manipulated. Your money ain't going to be safe. Your marriage ain't going to be safe. Pastors prey on weaklings like her. // 3 Likes |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by fkj950ax(m): 3:22pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
LewsTherin: You have sure read your Bible, and studied God's word with the help of the Holy Spirit. God bless you and make all your aspirations come through. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by missjane: 3:24pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Well if u ask me, if this church ish is the only short coming she has, don't worry, bring her back home, I will give u reasons..one is that u need to pray about this n apply wisdom..give her space in d house, try ur best to make ur meals urself even if it's bread for u n ur daughter.. totally neglect ur wife's existence, answer her greetings o, talk normally to her..n try ur best not to touch her at night no matter how much she begs u.. U can even pretend that u r cheating like always being on ur phone n laughing like u r flirt chatting.. By the time she goes to church again n sees how her pastor n his wife are playing love, she will advise herself not to throw away the one God has given her.. Self advise na em be the best.. Bring her back.. The guilt u feel on moving her out is a way God is saying u took a wrong step. she will only go to church n call it persecution this n that wen she is not doing d right thing o.. Second reason is this , how sure are u that the next woman u marry won't cheat maltreat ur daughter incase u r not around to defend her.. Ur daughter is watching ur actions and it can shape her belief on how women should be treated.. Peace.. 1 Like |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by package7(m): 3:25pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Relief her position has legal wife... Period |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Exposedforall: 3:25pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
kennygee: |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:Doesn't he have a phone?? |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by beeijeoma: 3:33pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Your wife is not serious at all. It is good to serve God but you need to still live up to the rest of your resposibilities. Church is not an excuse for neglecting your job or home. I feel for you because i have seen this story play out before. I encourage you to hang in there, take care of your kid just let her be . Until her eyes clear she will not listen. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Green222: 3:34pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
You still love your wife. LOVE IS WHEN YOU TAKE THE FEELINGS AND THE ROMANCE IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND YOU STILL CARE. Never say goodbye if you can't let go. Shake your wife small and bring her back Dear. They are worst women out there and their husbands are tolerating them. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by ptreasure(f): 3:36pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
It is possible that your wife is now a victim of those cult(fraudsters who parade as pastors), she may have been manipulated into giving her time, sowing seed to the pastor. I am sure that she may not really understand all thats happening around her so you will need to see the so called pastor,her friend, her family and also ur church pastor should be involved so that your home will be united back. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nightmareo07: 3:38pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07: I hope she is not sleeping around. I'm just saying , things really ar happening these days o. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by jiorhemen(m): 3:39pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:The only thing I can say is that you shouldn't feel guilty. If the story isn't different from the way you narrated it, it isn't your fault. You also need to be security conscious, both physically and spiritually. Pastors of such churches are not trustworthy. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by pawesome(m): 3:41pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07:do not be surprised when they refer to you as the devil that wants to stop her from worshipping God.. They will still use the Bible to cover for that so do not be surprised if she does not feel remorseful |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Jetland: My dear, I was privileged to have internet in my home in my early teens. That was how I stumbled on NL. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by jibs4lv(m): 3:44pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
LewsTherin:Wetting we no go see on SMs @bold you mean God call you to sit down and asking that woman those question like father asking question from the junior one in presence of the older one hummm all ths religion extremists sef |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by jibs4lv(m): 3:50pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Leonbonapart:It's funny thinking that one is a Xian, read the 3rd paragraph again and tell if chritanity works that way . |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Eze2000(m): 3:50pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07: Hello bro, You have been stupid! Listen and listen well. 1. Why did God create a woman? Answer: To be a man's companion for 'it is not good for man to be alone'. 2. God said... "Worship me, believe in me, honor me' for I am God and tolerate no rival." Food For Thought; Where did he say 'be my slave?" 3. In God's structure of creation, a man must have dominion over his household. HIS WIFE MUST OBEY HIM COMPLETELY, BE BY HIS SIDE AT ALL TIMES AND MAKE HIM HAPPY for she is a blessing unto him.... 'He that findet a good wife findeth a good thing' This is the single reason why there is a critical shortage of 'prophetesses in the world' ever since biblical times. All the powerful women you see in God's work today are merely support systems for their husbands. That is how God made the world, the woman is the shoulder on which the family rests and the man's support system. Your life right now. Where is your good thing? Your support system? 4. How do you even know your wife is going to a good church? Food for thought: A church that encourages the woman to leave her husband often even at night when he needs her care and comfort after a hard day at work, what kind of church is that? Or even better what kind of pastor is leading it? The seed of dissatisfaction is being planted in you daily and your woman is frequenting a public place alone, a place where temptation can be a problem if care is not taken! Are you fanning the flames of adultery or what? 5. If I may ask what is she praying and fasting so fervently about that is so important that the problem it is causing at home does not matter? Do you save your car and lose your house? Your description of your wife reminds me of people who server God dedicatedly for years but still manage to live a shambolic life that leads to nowhere but hell. Why? They do not know what they are doing. Let me give you an example. Compare the Jehova's witness doctrine of sexual intercourse in marriage and King Solomons ideology of it...he created many songs on sex in the bible! But hey, the witnesses will tell you all about how its a sin to enjoy your own wife! Most of the churches you see don't serve God but appear to do so. Any church that servers God worships him morning and evening in services each day and a few other special services during the week. Even the people that live in the church do not attend all. God gave man life and a free will to live it. Wine and his wife are for his pleasure. the children are a blessing unto him. When your life is complete, you must thank God but it seems your life is being torn apart by a pastor while you blame God. STOP IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You do not know me but a search of my history here will tell you something. I am among the best authors on the Nairaland literature section (my name is on every such best of the best list down there) but guess what? That's only a thing i do. I am a prophet of the living God but my time is not yet come. Three years ago when i first registered here, I opened a trend on here in the relationships section asking for help in finding a wife...'Can a prophet find a good wife' that was what i titled it, but was insulted very badly. I made no reply. I mention this so you will know the person talking to you. I'm a chemical engineer by training being forced to serve God but refused, a situation which complicated my life beyond anything you can imagine. Many are called but few are chosen. But so very many just call themselves, anyway, in order to get rich. Even till this day, i have not married because I want to find my 'support system' so i won't leave loopholes for Satan to exploit when finally i stand in God's work in a major way which is what Satan is trying to stop. God has instructed that I must marry this year and my search will begin next month. Senseless pastors causing problems for people and leading them to see God and Churches as bad, that was why I ran away from God's calling many years ago as a smart child. I was called at age 15. Yes, you heard right ...15. I saw my first vision and started communicating directly with supernatural beings at that age. This is the sole reason why all the stories i have written today have supernatural angles... all except one which is modeled on Boko Haram and corruption. Tell that pastor to go to his home and leaves yours. Make your wife yours but do not deny her the food of spirit, however, don't let her eat that food blindly like she is currently doing for it will get her nowhere fast. Let her serve her God with reason and so should you. The greatest trick Satan ever played on man is to convince him he does not exist. Fix your home or lose it. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
daveson07: Allow her to go and marry the pastor n Jesus Christ. |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by blesoh(f): 3:57pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
I know it's one of those prophecy churches where you become a slave to them forever. It's hard to make her see reasons with you because the pastor has already brainwashed her. Just take things easy with her, call her back and explain things with her |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Cindy95(f): 3:57pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
if only women/wives will transfer the attention and respect they shower on the church/pastor to their homes, they will be peace... the worst of it all is that, the pastor's/prophet/priest will never tell them the truth nd some will go as far as breaking the home entirely... it's highly time we women learn to take care of our home first... I pray God help us... 2 Likes |
Re: Is Church Life Suppose To Affect Family Life? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 04, 2018 |
Eze2000: the Christianity Satan is a figment of ur imagination. |
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