BigSarah:
What a stupid reaction from the man, it's not like she got pregnant for him or anything.

derecho:
My sister, i seldom comment about love on this forum because many wont understand.First,love is a decision and not some overwhelming feeling.It doesn't go for the best but hopes for the best.I understand that perfectly.If they have been married and he finds out,i'll be the first to ask him to forgive but a wise man see a problem afar and he hides himself but a f.ool rages on.Proverbs 22:3
People have different things they call love but love is not devoid of godly knowledge.
Trust is another level...You should love everyone but you can't trust everyone.

Kakayaraznits:
Reminds me of an American movie where the guy was a smooth playa, but fell in love with a lady and found out few days to his wedding that the lady had sex with his best man sometime ago. He was very emotional, but he still forgived and married her.

But this case is quite different cos the girl was still keeping in touch with the fling guy till she was busted, which means it can still happen after marriage. Ere ki laja n bekun se?

Elder001:


I've told you earlier to stop commenting your emotions.

Correct words and stop chatting That isn't hard,you know?

She dodged a bullet because the man is an inconsiderate individual.
I guess if he was the one caught he would've wanted the lady to forgive him. Mtcheew

OneCorner:
Selfish man. Because of ordinary fvck wey ur fiancé fvck u come cancel wedding.
Can’t you forgive her

Donald95:
Some women are just evil

Just look what those MOFOs ladies above me are saying. SMH.With these Feminist mentality, Am sorry to our coming Generation, There will be massive divorce, there will so many "Ọtọ na aka nne". Just look at the way they are defending this woman that would have cut short this man's life.

Thank God she was caught

Deadlywoman:


It's forgave no such thing as forgived.

Elder001:


You're so inconsiderate. Do you think it's easy to resist an ex?

If you find yourself in the same house with an ex even though you're married, it'll be very hard to resist him/her.

You guys should stop talking like kids abeg.

itsmeurLady:
I am not supporting the act but what if it was the man that cheated, I am 100 percent sure the lady will forgive, Guys!! Some ladies will even abuse the lady that why did she cancel marriage because of cheating, chai... So if none of the men here cheats, who are the men cheating on their girlfriends If you have cheated on your girlfriend once and she forgave you, don't quote me please. The only person that is allowed to quote me is a man that has never cheated in any relationship before. Anywayz at the end it balls down to individual preferences sha, I was only wondering what would have happened if it was the other way around?

itsmeurLady:


Have you ever been in love Have you ever done something for your lady that people thought you were insane? Get my point, the act is not good, in fact I hate cheating, I used to talk like this before but when I encountered it, it was a different ball game. If you truly love the person, you will end up trying to punish the person oo but after a while you will overlook it but if you can't endure you leave but what is the guarantee the next person won't make this same mistake. You make up your mind to trust, let's use Nigeria as an example, the politicians keep disappointing us with promises that they end up not fulfilling but we are still hopeful that someone will come and change everything. That's Trust, Love Does Not Give Up Easily! The next girl will give him heartaches too but it all depends on how he handle her heartaches, nobody is perfect, just so u know.

Brightgem:
Oh Lord! What did this guy just say. How loose are you to be thinking like this. Why is the person an ex in the first place. Sex has become so cheap and abused... the abnormal is now normal. abeg let people sound like kids, its better. If u can't resist, u already have a problem in ur life. Infidelity now a norm, no descipline in anything again. I just cnt believe someone typed this poo.

Saff:
Most women do this. A friend slept with his ex days before she got married. Nothing new.

Austin234:
Most women do this including you. You have a warped morality

OneCorner:
Selfish man. Because of ordinary fvck wey ur fiancé fvck u come cancel wedding.
Can’t you forgive her

Elder001:
She dodged a bullet.. The man never loved her.
He only loved her virginity.

Elder001:


I've told you earlier to stop commenting your emotions.

Correct words and stop chatting That isn't hard,you know?

She dodged a bullet because the man is an inconsiderate individual.
I guess if he was the one caught he would've wanted the lady to forgive him. Mtcheew

Saff:
how can I do this when I’m not married? Stupid people everywhere

Babiod:
Na God save the fiance, u meet a random guy when U were in a stable relationship,had a fling just like that,So many people don't know what it means to be committed in a relationship.what if the guy didn't know?she couldn't confess,she had to hide as if nothing happened,God knows what else she's lying about.wife no be just fuckmate,bedmate,gistmate but LIFE and HELPmate.

Elder001:
She dodged a bullet.. The man never loved her.
He only loved her virginity.

pelegiga92:
na so e go b 4 u in jesus name amen

Brightgem:
Oh Lord! What did this guy just say. How loose are you to be thinking like this. Why is the person an ex in the first place. Sex has become so cheap and abused... the abnormal is now normal. abeg let people sound like kids, its better. If u can't resist, u already have a problem in ur life. Infidelity now a norm, no descipline in anything again. I just cnt believe someone typed this poo.

OneCorner:
Selfish man. Because of ordinary fvck wey ur fiancé fvck u come cancel wedding.
Can’t you forgive her

OneCorner:
Selfish man. Because of ordinary fvck wey ur fiancé fvck u come cancel wedding.
Can’t you forgive her

Elder001:
She dodged a bullet.. The man never loved her.
He only loved her virginity.

lefulefu:
of course if a lady is about to marry a guy and she catches the guy humping other ladies...if she's a lady who respects herself she had call off the engagement. But then many ladies cant do this in nigeria cos its the man who has the financial power. Why do u think ladies in the west can easily break off with a cheating partner.

djon78:



Love is for kids. Life is reality. Marriage should be strictly a duty. The man will play his role, likewise the woman. And life goes on.