BluntBoy:


She is hard on the eye. And from her little story, it is not hard to tell that she has got horrible attitudes.

For instance, she thinks it is lowering of class to drive from Victoria Island down to Isolo.

And she might be a control freak too

Tamarapetty:
And she might be a control freak too

Yes, very possible.

Some men have that issue. They cannot handle a lady that is richer.

If she has a car and they don't, they will refuse to enter her car to be driven by her especially.

Abeg you will find a man that has a liberal mind that doesn't see it as anything. There are some genuine ones

Guys be nice... Una know if she dey nairaland?

There are hypocrites here that have the same complex the pretty exotic lady is referring to.

She must be comfortable in her own skin and wait for a confident man. Stop moving in the circle of losers.

Daze12345:



she looks like a squirrel to me, abi any
other suggestion.

LMFAO.... wickedest is ur name iswear

It is because women are not meant to dominate men,nor men areas,any woman succeding,must still be ruled by a man.i myself do not love women calling the shots for me.
i dislike such action.God cursed adam for listening to her.God said her desire shall be to her husband and he shall rule over her.
Any woman controlling man or dominating man is a jezebel.jezebels can never find love,because if the man is not been controlled by her then she would kill the man into submission.

Opinionated:
But the richest woman in Africa is married. Aunty check yourself and change.

Follow these tips and finding a husband should not be hard.

Oga, the richest woman in Africa got married when she was still an ordinary secretary - long before she even smelt any riches! Educate yourself, abeg... She got married over 40 years ago, in 1976!

FrancisDiote:
The only moral reason men wont date you is ARROGANCE/PRIDE. If you are arrogant just forget it.

Sometimes, you display these qualities unconciously.

Try been HUMBLE and see men beg you for date

Stop those lies, abeg! Do you know the girl personally, or have you met her before? how can you then jump to the conclusion that she is arrogant? An arrogant woman will not leave her car, for a boyfriend to drive. She will not bother driving all the way to Isolo, just to visit a man - do you know the kind of traffic that exists on Lagos roads, especially in Isolo? There are too many men who are opportunists out there....let us tell ourselves, the truth!

ojmaroni247:
Lol ... Dis one wey em head be like tortoise . Who wan rush u

datopaper:
Money can't buy beauty

chloride6:
Omo, this girl ugly die. WTF!!!!

EzendiEgo1:
Ugly bitch

oluwatodimu1:
u just spoke my mind... she looks weird! am sure d men preferred their safety to what she has 2 offer

enemyofprogress:
She is fokn ugly

Giovanotto:
Oboy, see as she like alien �

Looks are not the sole determinant, for getting married. There are many ugly women who are married. Some are even uglier than she is. What about Mama Peace a.k.a Mrs GEJ? Beauty (and ugliness) is in the eye of the beholder....

BluntBoy:
She is hard on the eye. And from her little story, it is not hard to tell that she has got horrible attitudes.

For instance, she thinks it is lowering of class to drive from Victoria Island down to Isolo.

She was merely stating a fact. How well do you know Isolo? Have you been to Kogberegbe, Oke-afa, Jakande etc? Do you know the slums of Isolo? Have you been caught up in the Isolo-Ejigbo traffic before, sandwiched between multiple fuel tankers belching smoke, into your nostrils in the heat? The noise, the bad roads etc?

She called it "lowering her standards," going all the way from Victoria Island to Isolo. Was she referring to the guy's neighbourhood, or to the fact that she was the one doing the 'cross-country' intra-city trip, ever so often? If the guy reciprocated her efforts, she certainly wouldn't be here saying all these things. Let us be frank - a number of Nigerian men, are quite insecure around successful women. Many of us are aware of what our fellow men think and feel, about such things. A growing number of young men these days, are also nothing but opportunists. Let's call a spade, a spade!

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kunletexs:
Oya dial my number 07032306377. Only u alone

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LaudableXX:

She was merely stating a fact. How well do you know Isolo? Have you been to Kogberegbe, Oke-afa, Jakande etc? Do you know the slums of Isolo? Have you been caught up in the Isolo-Ejigbo traffic before, sandwiched between multiple fuel tankers belching smoke, into your nostrils in the heat? The noise, the bad roads etc?

She called it "lowering her standards," going all the way from Victoria Island to Isolo. Was she referring to the guy's neighbourhood, or to the fact that she was the one doing the 'cross-country' intra-city trip, ever so often? If the guy reciprocated her efforts, she certainly wouldn't be here saying all these things. Let us be frank - a number of Nigerian men, are quite insecure around successful women. Many of us are aware of what our fellow men think and feel, about such things. A growing number of young men these days, are also nothing but opportunists. Let's call a spade, a spade!

The "cross-country trip" is a sacrifice, not a lowering of standards. That is the point. There are people who make more severe sacrifices to be with the person they love. When you see this sacrifice as a lowering of standards, then it has become something else entirely.

The problem many people make is assumption. They assume something is what it is because of how they see it. It is one reason why people often project their feelings onto others. Some try to blame others for everything. A marriage does not work out, they blame someone. A relationship does not work out, they blame someone. They stumble, they blame someone. They fail an exam that they didn't prepare for, they blame the lecturer.

As for Isolo, you must understand that there are big men living there. I am talking about men and women who are far richer than this lady. Pasuma has a house in Mushin and he is ten times richer than this lady. As for slums, there are slums even in rich states in the United States.

LaudableXX:

Stop those lies, abeg! Do you know the girl personally, or have you met her before? how can you then jump to the conclusion that she is arrogant? An arrogant woman will not leave her car, for a boyfriend to drive. She will not bother driving all the way to Isolo, just to visit a man - do you know the kind of traffic that exists on Lagos roads, especially in Isolo? There are too many men who are opportunists out there....let us tell ourselves, the truth!

You made a point out there but the truth be told ladies become proud and arrogant with little power and money.

Have you wondered why most female celebrities are not married or divorced?
The truth is not far fetched. All I did was make a logical statement

we are here.come and get us and enjoy a blissfully marriage.

BluntBoy:
The "cross-country trip" is a sacrifice, not a lowering of standards. That is the point. There are people who make more severe sacrifices to be with the person they love. When you see this sacrifice as a lowering of standards, then it has become something else entirely.

The problem many people make is assumption. They assume something is what it is because of how they see it. It is one reason why people often project their feelings onto others. Some try to blame others for everything. A marriage does not work out, they blame someone. A relationship does not work out, they blame someone. They stumble, they blame someone. They fail an exam that they didn't prepare for, they blame the lecturer.

As for Isolo, you must understand that there are big men living there. I am talking about men and women who are far richer than this lady. Pasuma has a house in Mushin and he is ten times richer than this lady. As for slums, there are slums even in rich states in the United States.

Guy, if you read the girl's story well, you would see that the cross-city or cross-country trips, was borne out of her desire to make sacrifices, in order to make the relationship work. She could have refused to make those trips on account of the long distance, or could have opted to avoid the relationship totally, because the guy's place was on the other side of town. But she did not do so.

She made the sacrifice, which was NOT reciprocated by the way, and even went as far as dropping her car for the guy's use, while she was left without a means of personal transport. What is that, if not a sacrifice? What else must a girl do, in order to make a relationship work?

Some people take others for granted through their actions or words, and that is exactly what that guy did to her. If her feelings had been reciprocated and the relationship had ended in marriage, would she have come online to say what she said? No.

There is nothing in her write-up to show that she projected her feelings on to the guy. They were in a relationship. Yet, the guy did not value her efforts or her desire, to make things work. It appears he took advantage of her good nature, and misbehaved. Whenever a relationship ends, people are quick to blame a woman, but hardly ever think that a man could be just as responsible for its demise.

It takes two to tango, and two people to make a relationship work. A woman cannot be putting in all the effort, while a man is nonchalant about playing his part, to make things work.

As for slums, the fact that one or two rich men live in a slum, does not automatically make that slum a high-brow area. Do you know Isolo rather well? Apart from Ire-Akari estate which is the only planned portion in that district, every other place is a slum. I know the place like the back of my hand - from Jakande estate, to Oke-afa to Ejigbo. The place is congested, noisy and poorly planned.

LaudableXX:

Guy, if you read the girl's story well, you would see that the cross-city or cross-country trips, was borne out of her desire to make sacrifices, in order to make the relationship work. She could have refused to make those trips on account of the long distance, or could have opted to avoid the relationship totally, because the guy's place was on the other side of town. But she did not do so.

She made the sacrifice, which was NOT reciprocated by the way, and even went as far as dropping her car for the guy's use, while she was left without a means of personal transport. What is that, if not a sacrifice? What else must a girl do, in order to make a relationship work?

Some people take others for granted through their actions or words, and that is exactly what that guy did to her. If her feelings had been reciprocated and the relationship had ended in marriage, would she have come online to say what she said? No.

There is nothing in her write-up to show that she projected her feelings on to the guy. They were in a relationship. Yet, the guy did not value her efforts or her desire, to make things work. It appears he took advantage of her good nature, and misbehaved. Whenever a relationship ends, people are quick to blame a woman, but hardly ever think that a man could be just as responsible for its demise.

It takes two to tango, and two people to make a relationship work. A woman cannot be putting in all the effort, while a man is nonchalant about playing his part, to make things work.

As for slums, the fact that one or two rich men live in a slum, does not automatically make that slum a high-brow area. Do you know Isolo rather well? Apart from Ire-Akari estate which is the only planned portion in that district, every other place is a slum. I know the place like the back of my hand - from Jakande estate, to Oke-afa to Ejigbo. The place is congested, noisy and poorly planned.

I never expected you to respond again.

Perhaps, you didn't read the girl's account. She herself wrote that she lowered her standards. Or do you want me to point out the part in her write up where she wrote that she lowered her standards

BluntBoy:
I never expected you to respond again.

Perhaps, you didn't read the girl's account. She herself wrote that she lowered her standards. Or do you want me to point out the part in her write up where she wrote that she lowered her standards

Oga, read it again. She 'lowered her standards' by making that long journey repeatedly, and several other compromises, that were not appreciated.

LaudableXX:

Oga, read it again. She 'lowered her standards' by making that long journey repeatedly, and several other compromises, that were not appreciated.

SMH...

So, when did it become "lowering of standards" and not sacrifice? Was it because the sacrifices did not work (or were not reciprocated) that it became lowering of standard?

So, if I love a woman and I am ready to go any length to get her, I should see it as lowering of standards? Is there lowering of standards in love?

thank you o! send am to me. lol

luminouz:

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