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| Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Lazyreporta(m): 11:19am On Aug 20, 2018 |
allroundgist Compliment is another thing that can have a negative effect on a woman’s attraction level, especially if she is beautiful. If she is beautiful, then she has been told just that since she was five years old. She doesn’t need you telling her. She knows it. She sees herself every day in the mirror. There are probably 15 people she meets every day that tell her how beautiful she is. Even if it doesn’t have a negative impact, complimenting a woman you just met for the first time is not going to raise her attraction level in you, unless you do it properly. Many guys who are just learning to use what I teach will often get nervous and say, “You have really nice nails.” Then they will say, “You have really nice hair.” Then they might compliment her on what she is wearing or some other BS compliment. What happens is their nervousness overwhelms their ability to act natural and say what’s really on their mind. What happens is that, instead of communicating their interest in a masculine way, they come off as robotic, uncomfortable, inauthentic, ass-kissy, phony and basically trying to use compliment as a bribe for sex. The woman feels a weird, unnatural vibe, and it feels like she is being clinically diagnosed, instead of authentically being celebrated and desired by a man who is used to getting what he wants. If you’re going to compliment a woman, say what you’re really thinking and feeling. These are some of the things I say to women based upon how they make me feel inside: “You take my breath away. You’re intoxicating to look at. I want you. You’re sexy as hell. You have a fucking unbelievable body!” etc. Obviously, for the average guy, it will take him some time to build up to being able to say these types of things fearlessly. Go at your own pace and comfort level. Here’s another way to look at it. You don’t have to lay out the compliment to a woman when you first meet her. The instinctive radar she has is already telling her you are interested. If you walk up and start talking to her, that already shows her you are interested. A guy doesn’t have to tell a woman how pretty she is, how smart she is, or lay it on thick. When a woman gets compliment from a guy she just met, she starts thinking: He’s just saying whatever he needs to say. You dont have to be a nice guy, Just remain alpha That makes her feel as though she can’t trust you. You come off as a pleaser, which is weak in her eyes. Her guard will instantly go up. Thanks for reading Support us by visiting allroundgist
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| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by emmyid(m): 8:33pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
OP. . so the summary of this long epistle is "the best compliment is not to compliment"? The truth is, just have money. Even if your first approach was shitty, your flashy car and rich aura will make it up for you. Even if your first utterance is "Hey" her response will be "U can call me Amaka, you can reach me on 0804873..... " 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by enitey(f): 8:34pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Nice 1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by WEEDSDOM: 8:36pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Complimenting a woman can be wussy..but telling her she got a banging body at first sight is not it. if cute girls receive compliments all the time then you should do the opposite to strike attention. complimenting her banging body is same as telling her she's cute Mr. use reverse engineering instead works better. talking from experience. emancipate yourselves from mental slavery 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by id4sho(m): 8:36pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
After all the rehearsals, i will be like. you smell like cow dung.  After all the rehearsals, i will be like. you smell like cow dung. 2 Likes |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by bluefilm: 8:37pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Na for people wey get time for women na.  2 Likes |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by phemmyfour: 8:37pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Who cares |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Meekdon: 8:37pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Who woman epp  1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Nobody: 8:38pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Lol... This is crap. Sensible crap, i mean. 1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by apesinola001: 8:40pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Meaning |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by queensera(f): 8:41pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
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| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by addikt(m): 8:41pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
OP ....just add "FROM MY OWN POINT OF VIEW"..... I DIDN'T SAY YOU ARE WRONG BUT THE BEST THING IS STUDY ANY GIRL BEFORE YOU SPIT OUT WORDS..... WHY WOULD YOU SAY WE SHOULD REMAIN ALPHA??... NOTE: IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE KINDA GIRL YOU'RE DEALING WITH, GIVE HER AS YOU THINK SHE WANTS AND LIKE IT ....PLAY YOUR GAMES TIGHT BRODAZ! 3 Likes |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by id4sho(m): 8:41pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
enitey:Damsel, I just can't stop thinking about you. you are intoxicating and breath taking. c pic, jesu. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Bossontop(m): 8:41pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Who be dis lazy reporter who jus dey confuse everybody sef [img]https://media1./images/06f71f7c09e6de54fa5fdf76bfb6bf5c/tenor.gif[/img] 8 Likes |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by StarUp: 8:42pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
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| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by faithfull18(f): 8:42pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
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| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Oluwasaeon(m): 8:50pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
emmyid:Lol bad guy |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Glink2018(m): 8:53pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
zinnyzee: You see your life. Female folks, said you wrote sensible crap. This speaks volume . But , lemme guess the right answer... Money ! Money!! Money!!! |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Yewandequeen(f): 8:54pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
All these rigid men out there. Iffahear 1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Nobody: 8:57pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Glink2018:Money is very essential... Emphasis on very. Money makes a beautiful compliment but not the best |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Hidentity(m): 8:57pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
And I am still trying to wrap my head round why the OP makes compliments look like exclusive preserves from men to women. A woman can't compliment a man? A man can't be given compliments? 4 Likes |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by spdamibiz: 9:00pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
emmyid:that means if most girls are financially okay, people like you won't have a wife, since money is the only thing you rely on  1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by spdamibiz: 9:01pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
emmyid:that means if most girls are financially okay, people like you won't have a wife, since money is the only thing you rely on 1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Hidentity(m): 9:01pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Richdad50:Without people like you, individuals who are of proper upbringing and sane minds won't appreciate what they've got. One may not exhaustively treasure happiness when he is yet to encounter a man who wallows in sorrow. In saner climes, your type doesn't have the mental capacity, strength of character and requisite exposure to bring up children. If you have kids already, they will be taken from you for adoption. I deem it fit to respond to you because of what the Bible stated in Proverbs 26:5. 7 Likes |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Hidentity(m): 9:01pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
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| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by spdamibiz: 9:03pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Hidentity:these are the kind of people that make woman so self centered because they believe they have no self worth as man |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by emmyid(m): 9:05pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
spdamibiz: To every rule there is an exception. I only pointed out one thing you need, and don't have to worry about steps and what not to get a woman. And that is money. Love sweet, but with money it's sweeter bro. |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by spdamibiz: 9:05pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
Glink2018:Money is not everything, is because of this environment that we are all shouting money, money can never make a woman faithful to you, |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by spdamibiz: 9:10pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
emmyid:I understand but the kind of money you guys are talking about is just excessive money to brag and show yourself, how many people can make that kind of money in a legal way. Do you want to tell me that every guy that has a girlfriend has such money. No ? Money can only get you greedy, brainless woman 1 Like |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by emmyid(m): 9:16pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
spdamibiz: You are very right bro, too bad 95% of them are greedy. Note- I'm one of those guys who get laid free. |
| Re: Compliments: Why You Should Do It Properly At The Beginning by Nobody: 9:26pm On Aug 21, 2018 |
WEEDSDOM: How do u do the opposite though. |
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