Acidosis:

Now I'm beginning to understand Ladies. Ladies are confused creatures without the knowledge of what they want and what they do not want.
Anyway, I'll advice you go with your darling husband's opinion.
If you really wanna make your choice, then why don't you just get it yourself in a shopping mall.

tolutara:


, don't understand your take o

Acidosis:

Let your husband surprise you with a present, and stop making choices yourself.

tolutara:

Did you read the original post and comprehend it at all

ThoniaSlim:

I love surprises! I really don't ask my man for gifts or what to get me during special occassions. He just loves surprising me n funny enough he always knows what I'll like cus I end up loving the surprise gifts.

tolutara:

Did you read the original post and comprehend it at all

iice:

It's not a strong suit of people around here. Especially males.

tolutara:


. He did not even answer the main question, it is just weird.

tolutara:

For ladies or men that loves surprises. If he got it wrong will you break up with him, cos that is what my friend said.

I love surprises too, but our relationship is open enough for me tell him what I want as long as we can afford it. He can surprise me with other things o, his choice .

Ranoscky:

Talking about surpise gift. whosoever ask her boyfriend what she wanted as a BDG i don't think u can call that a surprise gift b'cos she already knows what her gif is all about. what if u tell your boyfriend the kind of gift u wanted and he couldn't afford it, will u blame him for that? unlike me, i don't like buying gift for gurls, i prefer giving her money to buy whatever she likes, but in terms of BDG, i don't it's proper for a gurl to tell her BF what she wanted, i think anything that her BF bought for her as a BDG should be well APRECIATABLE. Dough, it's neccessary for a guy to his GF likse but i find it in no case leading to break-up. No-ing what his GF likes is not the purpose of the friendship but love for each other.    thaz ma opinion, thanx!

Ok, My birthday is around the corner.  Smiley

Told my husband in advance what I wanted for my special Day : An Amazon Kindle as I am an avid reader.  I was discussing with a friend last night and she was like" you told him what you wanted?, couldn't he have surprised you with a nice gift?". I said I would rather have what I really wanted instead of the surprise element of a gift I might not really have a good use for.

She was like she would never tell her significant other what  she wants for her birthday because he is supposed to know, and if he doesn't know, then maybe they are not meant to be together and she will break up with him as it meant that he has not taken the time out to know her and be thoughtful of her.

That really confused me, so House, I table it before you, What do you guys really think?

Would you prefer to tell and get what you want or risk not telling and get whatever he gives you but you get have the surprise factor? Also would you break up with him or her

tolutara:

Did you read the original post and comprehend it at all

She was like she would never tell her significant other what she wants for her birthday because he is supposed to know, and if he doesn't know, then maybe they are not meant to be together and she will break up with him as it meant that he has not taken the time out to know her and be thoughtful of her.

newmusic:

I dont think you should tell him what you want cuz that is no more a surprise.Let him give whatever he wishes to give.

And if luckily for both of you he surprises you with what you actually want,then fine.
But if he surprises you with something else,that doesn't mean you should break up with him.
I will advise you to know the kind of advice you get from your friends,they can be dangerous,how can someone be thinking of breaking up with his partner cuz he surprises u with what he thinks will be good for you but unfortunately you want something else.

Just tell him on a neutral level that you want a particular gift from him but not the birthday gift.


cheerz.

newmusic:

Just tell him on a neutral level that you want a particular gift from him after your birthday

like another gift again?

newmusic:

[b]I dont think you should tell him what you want cuz that is no more a surprise.[/b]Let him give whatever he wishes to give.

And if luckily for both of you he surprises you with what you actually want,then fine.
But if he surprises you with something else,that doesn't mean you should break up with him.
I will advise you to know the kind of advice you get from your friends,they can be dangerous,how can someone be thinking of breaking up with his partner cuz he surprises u with what he thinks will be good for you but unfortunately you want something else.

Just tell him on a neutral level that you want a particular gift from him after your birthday


cheerz.

newmusic:

ok tolutara read the conclusion of my reply, dont break up with him and let him buy what he wishes to buy for your birthday, but if you insist,tell him what you want.

thanks