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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by micflo28(m): 3:25pm On Aug 22, 2018
I have been stabbed in the hand trying to save a girl about to be raped by two boys way back 2009 in owerri. Broke ones head with a stick and the other stabbed me. The scar still lingers. Girls need to be careful of their disposition towards men. Carelessness begets prowling by opportunitists. The screaming was very distressing that I moved into action, damning the consequences.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by nanauju(f): 3:25pm On Aug 22, 2018
etrange:

You couldn't scream cause people were around? Did you even read the mess you just typed? When do you want to scream? When no one is around to help?

One would think that people being around is enough weapon for you.

Next time you want to cook up stories for your blog, be a little smart with it and stop making women look stupid.

Don't mind the blogger. I stopped reading when I saw that

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by bukatyne(f): 3:27pm On Aug 22, 2018
franchasng:
all guys are into relationship first because of sex then other reasons come later, stop deceiving ladies.

I will warn my future daughter: if u do not want to have sex with anybody, don't keep boyfriend or male friend.

The day u are ready to have sex then u can start keeping boyfriend or male friend.


Yam and goat cannot stay in one room without the goat eating the yam.

What did fowl go to a native doctor's shrine to do when it doesn't want to be used as sacrifice

The first thing that makes a man approach a lady who is not his blood relative is sex appeal. Yes along the line, he may now discover other good qualities in the lady.

A man does not leave a lady because he had sex with her but because after having sex with her, he found no other valuable quality in her to make him stay with her.

If as a lady, u have awesome valuable things to offer to people including men, believe me, no man will want to leave u just because he had sex with u.

Unless the man is married or seriously engaged, and even some may want to disengage or remarry just because of u if u have amazing qualities to offer.


@Bold: Very salient expect the male friend part.

If you are not ready to marry in a year's time and do not want sex, don't go into a relationship.

@OP: If you couldn't use the only tool you had for salvation i.e. screaming to attract people, I do not know what to say.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by tiredoflife(m): 3:28pm On Aug 22, 2018
pocohantas:



We should be asking you guys that.
Which girl don't you people rape?

With the number of rape threads on front-page, even toddlers are not spared. Tomorrow she'll grow and say she was raped. Then your sons, will also be on NL, asking this same question. After their fathers have raped all their future wives.

It is a vicious cycle.

Or so sorry
Were u raped
Who raped u
Did u report the rape
Have u gone for counseling
Just want to know as all Nigerian ladies all seems to have being raped by Nigerian men

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Divay22(f): 3:31pm On Aug 22, 2018
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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by bukatyne(f): 3:31pm On Aug 22, 2018
thorpido:
If you are a virgin and wish to remain so,don't go visiting men in their houses.

Thank you brother mi.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by hotwax: 3:32pm On Aug 22, 2018
If you dont want sex. Stay off relationship girls.

U want date without sex as if the guy is a robot with no feeling or flesh.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by JasonScoolari: 3:34pm On Aug 22, 2018
Divay22:

Taah
You bad ass. You killed her angry
Omo na to dey run from you o
Hahahaha, My Jewel, how did I kill her? I was only consoling her nah. grin
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Duru009(m): 3:35pm On Aug 22, 2018
So, how will you now marry !
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Emperormartin(m): 3:36pm On Aug 22, 2018
bizza45:
am going to pretend as if I didn't read this poo, u did not shout cos people where around there.. then madam I can authoritative tell u that u enjoyed it.. he used his male strength, where did your own female strength go.. lol can't believe that one man can rape a woman.... lailai
Girls nowadays don't shout on their first sex with guys.... They allow the guy to finish job and then conclude it was rape... It's a generational problem
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by divinelove(m): 3:37pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/

all these small girls with big God self
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by ibkkk(f): 3:37pm On Aug 22, 2018
Oh,no cry cry
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by pocohantas(f): 3:37pm On Aug 22, 2018
tiredoflife:


Ah so u are one out of the one thousands that hasn't being raped
So u did urs freely
Maybe over two indomie and two eggs
Or shawama
Or blackberry that year or maybe true love
I love ur honesty

So the others u agreed were raped by us all
So u mean known of them gave us Toto with a willing heart
Even those we promised marriage and later left said its rape
What really is rape
Cos what I know is that niaja ladies like soft rape
Where dey will be dragging pants with the guy for almost 30mins
before dey say don cum inside oh grin


Don't worry, some day you'll know what is rape. When it hits very very very close to home smiley.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by sophy17(m): 3:38pm On Aug 22, 2018
While I don't support him for forcing himself on you, I seem to doubt your professed love for him in the first place. Afterall, you said he begged for your forgiveness immediately after the act. You, and women generally must understand the inherent nature of men and its inherent weakness. Very few men can control it and then, not at all times. So women must not leave room for such things to happen. You cannot put all the blame of the event solely on him. You shouldn't have been there, worst still, alone. You should have screamed when he failed to stop. You shouldn't have laid on your back. I am not trying to condemn you, only trying to point out your own carelessness. I would have loved to go on but I think they are better discussed with you personally. Cheers.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by LoveThemChubby(m): 3:40pm On Aug 22, 2018
Come o ladies! Why must a girl visit a single guy who stays alone and not bother about repercussions? Even if nothing happens, don't you care that your reputation is already in question by those who are aware that you visit?
Note: Am not in any way supporting rape or forced sex so to say. My point is that many of these "so-called" can actually be avoided in the first place.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Randy91(m): 3:42pm On Aug 22, 2018
Oma307:
can someone help me by summarizing it



he/She said that at d end d man diedgrin grin grin
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by andycom(m): 3:43pm On Aug 22, 2018
Siki355:

too bad of him
note most guys are into relationship because of sex
some guys are sex starved
and you're number 1 on the list
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by tiredoflife(m): 3:48pm On Aug 22, 2018
pocohantas:


If I were raped, I wouldn't be seeking counselling. That would make me lose the anger I need in hunting and killing the culprit. I will do that for the culture wink


Ah so u are one out of the one thousands that hasn't being raped
So u did urs freely
Maybe over two indomie and two eggs
Or shawama
Or blackberry that year or maybe true love
I love ur honesty

So the others u agreed were raped by us all
So u mean known of them gave us Toto with a willing heart
Even those we promised marriage and later left said its rape
What really is rape
Cos what I know is that niaja ladies like soft rape
Where dey will be dragging pants with the guy for almost 30mins before dey say don cum inside oh grin
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by AmbSamuel1: 3:53pm On Aug 22, 2018
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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by adetes: 3:54pm On Aug 22, 2018
Summarize pls

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by mrkel(m): 3:55pm On Aug 22, 2018
fatymore:
It depends on you and the guy you are visiting... Not all men are scums...
Next time if you ain't sure..arrange to meet in an open place better still take a pen knife along

Did you say pen knife? Really aghast as to why you'll make such suggestive.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by pocohantas(f): 3:56pm On Aug 22, 2018
mrkel:


Did you say pen knife? Really aghast as to why you'll make such suggestive.

To kill the rapist smiley
The only problem is, knives are messy!!!
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by bossrillboss: 3:58pm On Aug 22, 2018
Oma307:
can someone help me by summarizing it
...she say d guy Bleep her chap chap nd scatter her virginity,nd she no go do luv again.period.

Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by gevans(m): 4:01pm On Aug 22, 2018
zinnyzee:
Ewww... Been long i read something this stupid

Funny u.


God Bless Nigeria
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by omogidi234(m): 4:05pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/


Gentlemen and women . Men can be trusted if only women knew men are wired for sex and that only a few can be alone with a woman and not attempt sex.

I have said it on Nairaland over and over, if you are not ready for sex as a lady don't go to a man' s house or be in a place where it would be only you and him.

So sorry OP, please keep telling ladies this so that they can learn.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by LimAnc(m): 4:08pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/
you didn't shout because people were around?.. Looking for cheap popularity....

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by rhonard(m): 4:11pm On Aug 22, 2018
hergists:


https://hergists.com/the-crazy-thing-i-did-for-love/
sorry mam, man has no power over konju

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by positivethought: 4:11pm On Aug 22, 2018
Siki355:


too bad of him

note most guys are into relationship because of sex

some guys are sex starved
you are foolish, what do you think guys date girls for, to chat n clap for you,if you are not ready to get down don't even get started with a guy, the idea of keeping platonic friends of the opposite. sex is just nonsense.

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by jirnuya: 4:13pm On Aug 22, 2018
U were not totally against it. U said u didn't want to shout because there were people around.. sorry babe but u played yourself.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by blackmantis: 4:14pm On Aug 22, 2018
No Struggle, no fight, no shout.......

As long as you are not married to him you need to be alert.

If he tries something funny let your NO be firm and loud. Fight him draw as much attention as possible.

Its better to fight and leave with your dignity intact than protest meekly and be violated.
Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Giovanni2332(m): 4:17pm On Aug 22, 2018
Either lia mohammed is your father or you are learning very vast to replace him. APC needs your type .

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Re: Why I Will Never Visit A Man In His House Again by Geesaintagape: 4:18pm On Aug 22, 2018
Nairaland stories self. U could not scream cos pple were around.... What's the essence of screaming if not for pple to come to ur rescue..

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