chiommy123:
how did you know all these BTW its not a bad thing to wait upon the lord

Waiting on the Lord is one thing. Knowing when the Lord finally shows up is another thing. When God visited Abraham and Sarah and told them they'll have a child, Sarah laughed (doubted).

The Lord visits many girls with their husbands but they turn them down because of "preferences and choices."

jezuzboi:

Waiting on the Lord is one thing. Knowing when the Lord finally shows up is another thing. When God visited Abraham and Sarah and told them they'll have a child, Sarah laughed (doubted).

The Lord visits many girls with their husbands but the turn them down because of "preferences and choices."

you know there are certain things you want in your man that you can't marry any one below that standard not that its too high. Hope you understand

chiommy123:
you know there are certain things you want in your man that you can't marry any one below that standard not that its too high. Hope you understand

I'm a social media person and less social media folks who want their stuffs on social media usually contract me to put their stuffs up here for them.

So there's this seminar that was conducted for SINGLE GIRLS in my area and I was the only guy let in there so I can push SOME DETAILS from the seminar online.

Married women were talking to those single girls about how their husbands met them and proposed. The common factor in what they said was that their husbands didn't look like the kinda man they wanted.

They only accepted them and counted their losses. But now, the men turned out to be exactly the kinda men they need. But they didn't seem so when they proposed. So you see?

jezuzboi:

I'm a social media person and less social media folks who want their stuffs on social media usually contract me to put their stuffs up here for them.

So there's this seminar that was conducted for SINGLE GIRLS in my area and I was the only guy let in there so I can push SOME DETAILS from the seminar online.

Married women were talking to those single girls about how their husbands met them and proposed. The common factor in what they said was that their husbands didn't look like the kinda man they wanted.

They only accepted them and counted their losses. But now, the men turned out to be exactly the kinda men they wanted. But they didn't seem so when they proposed. So you see?

I understand what you're saying but that's not what I was referring to. I mean there are people who can't marry outside their faith or church

chiommy123:
I understand what you're saying but that's not what I was referring to. I mean there are people who can't marry outside their faith or church

This is another issue entirely which I had written about sometime ago. You can read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/4205528/inter-church-marriage-best-shot-securing

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If you're talking about NOT MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR FAITH, I agree with you. But not MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR CHURCH (a particular denomination)?

Apart from JW, is are there other denominations that make it compulsory that singles MUST marry from the same denomination?

I know some churches ADVISE so, not make it COMPULSORY, apart from JW like I've heard and read. And even with that, what happens when no proposal is forthcoming from the CHURCH but are flooding in from legit men in other CHURCHES (the same faith)?

jezuzboi:

This is another issue entirely which I had written about sometime ago. You can read it here: https://www.nairaland.com/4205528/inter-church-marriage-best-shot-securing

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If you're talking about NOT MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR FAITH, I agree with you. But not MARRYING OUTSIDE YOUR CHURCH (a particular denomination)?

Apart from JW, is are there other denominations that make it compulsory that singles MUST marry from the same denomination?

I know some churches ADVISE so, not make it COMPULSORY, apart from JW like I've heard and read. And even with that, what happens when no proposal is forthcoming from the CHURCH but are flooding in from legit men in other CHURCHES (the same faith)?

not like its compulsory but maybe her decision that she doesn't want to go outside but after sometime if she gets someone she can convince then she may marry the person

jezuzboi:

I'm a social media person and less social media folks who want their stuffs on social media usually contract me to put their stuffs up here for them.

So there's this seminar that was conducted for SINGLE GIRLS in my area and I was the only guy let in there so I can push SOME DETAILS from the seminar online.

Married women were talking to those single girls about how their husbands met them and proposed. The common factor in what they said was that their husbands didn't look like the kinda man they wanted.

They only accepted them and counted their losses. But now, the men turned out to be exactly the kinda men they need. But they didn't seem so when they proposed. So you see?

..a word is enuf for the wise...say no more....