Speechless! really who are these attention seekers ?
Write your own dictionary ma
Then refer us to it, to see the meaning of rape!

Biglittlelois:
Agreeing to a particular kind of sex is consentual, doing something else during the process without the other partner knowing is rape, she is right.

I am willing to abide by your terms. Pls tell me how you want it

mhd5757:
What if the condom tears without you knowing it? It happened to me before twice.

It's accident. Besides, try to use condoms properly and ensure your partner is well lubricated to reduce or eliminate the incidence of breakages.

Benekruku:
Wish I can sight the lady and beat that condom spirit out of her.

What about ladies that intentionally use finger nails to burst condom during sex, are they raping men too.

Rubbish!

How's dat possible ?

EsotericMonk:




Basics of who or what?
Brother, this is the 21st century, you cant and shouldn't superimpose your moral or religious beliefs on everyone, moreso in a broad , diverse and global
blog as this.
That a certain religion or way of life calls it adultery or fornication doesn't mean you indulge everyone with your belief. Besides, marriage isn't all inclusive, we have civil partnerships, domestic partnerships etc
Tolerance broh, that's the message.

Like fhorlar said, we should learn to call a spade a spade. There's no single religion I know of that permits premarital or extra marital sex. If you know of any, send me links. Even the atheists who apparently have no religious affiliation still have moral codes guiding their behaviors: they don't just go about sleeping with whoever they see on the streets.

thesicilian:

Like fhorlar said, we should learn to call a spade a spade. There's no single religion I know of that permits premarital or extra marital sex. If you know of any, send me links. Even the atheists who apparently have no religious affiliation still have moral codes guiding their behaviors: they don't just go about sleeping with whoever they see on the streets.

Broh, why don't you start up by acquainting yourself with what domestic partnership is all about? That's just a handy example among a few instances where sex outside marriage isn't considered wrong.

Drawing a blanket conclusion because it doesn't appeal to your breadth of knowledge isn't the way to go. It wouldn't make for a healthy conversation.

If you aren't yet married would you per chance confirm to us that you're not sexually active and ever since you came to the realization that premarital sex is wrong, you haven't willfully and knowingly had sex (in every form of the word, including non-penetrative )

And perhaps yes, I hope you understand that it doesn't make you pious, for "if you break one of these commandments, you have broken all"

EsotericMonk:

Broh, why don't you start up by acquainting yourself with what domestic partnership is all about? That's just a handy example among a few instances where sex outside marriage isn't considered wrong.

Drawing a blanket conclusion because it doesn't appeal to your breadth of knowledge isn't the way to go. It wouldn't make for a healthy conversation.

If you aren't yet married would you per chance confirm to us that you're not sexually active and ever since you came to the realization that premarital sex is wrong, you haven't willfully and knowingly had sex (in every form of the word, including non-penetrative )

And perhaps yes, I hope you understand that it doesn't make you pious, for "if you break one of these commandments, you have broken all"

Moral codes bro, moral codes. That is the crux of the matter. Strict moral integrity and character. That is what I'm talking about and there is no need resorting to fallacious statements (personal appeals).
Even the domestic partnership you keep hammering about still doesn't permit sex outside the union. I took the time to check it out based on your recommendation and saw so many similarities with marriage (they are both recognized and guided by law, both come with certificates in most cases, health insurance, legal documents etc.) Its just that marriage comes with a license and domestic partnership does not, and is not recognized in many other places.

But you are still expected to have lived with the person for a minimum duration of time before being considered to be in a DP, not the sexual escapades that our youths of nowadays engage in with reckless abandon in the name of boyfriend and girlfriends.

It’s not nice doing that!!! But that’s not rape!! But really violating truely

Frenchfriez:

Well, in truth these things happen but I am wary of adding a tribal colour to it, cos these things happen all over the country and is not just limited to a particular tribe or zone.
SON needs to do more checks on imported products, it would also be advisable to go for tested brands.

Na my people from SE they do import biz. Go to Alaba, Idumata , Onistha, Aba etc, them dey there. I am not against the their biz importation, but telling manufacturers to compromise standards is evil.

tabisegroup:


How's dat possible ?

Bro, Pray make you know jam dem o, Dem one tie you down ni.

Once they hold that dick during sex, you go just see say you dive in and condom don turn ring for your dick. he don burst.

When dem see say he don burst, to divert your attention, dem go con dey give different position.


those girls no dey commot belle once dey take in o. And na decent and cooperate girls get that skill pass.

Olosho no send person mama na.

PrecisionFx:


This girl n torimill owners needs to go back to skol

Who needs to go back to school between you and them??

HeWrites:

Who needs to go back to school between you and them??

Ur stupidity knows no bounds...

But I prefer to allow u to continue.

PrecisionFx:



Ur stupidity knows no bounds...

But I prefer to allow u to continue.

What brings stupidity to this now Kid

Kpele, you will be OK las las

thesicilian:

Moral codes bro, moral codes. That is the crux of the matter. Strict moral integrity and character. That is what I'm talking about and there is no need resorting to fallacious statements (personal appeals).
Even the domestic partnership you keep hammering about still doesn't permit sex outside the union. I took the time to check it out based on your recommendation and saw so many similarities with marriage (they are both recognized and guided by law, both come with certificates in most cases, health insurance, legal documents etc.) Its just that marriage comes with a license and domestic partnership does not, and is not recognized in many other places.

But you are still expected to have lived with the person for a minimum duration of time before being considered to be in a DP, not the sexual escapades that our youths of nowadays engage in with reckless abandon in the name of boyfriend and girlfriends.

I'm sure you know that the couple's life youths practise here is akin to DP. They agree to live together, they stay faithful to themselves and don't engage in reckless sexcapades, they share responsibilities as married couples would do, and in some instances, a child may come from the partnership.

The point is, in trying to call a spade by its name, you should understand that though a shovel isn't a spade, it can do the work of a spade. Don't consider your religion inclination as superior to that of others, casting them down as immoral.

The so called moral code shouldn't be limited to sex.

Truth be told, some of those who live a DP could be said to be more comely and humane than the self righteous religionists.

EsotericMonk:

Broh, why don't you start up by acquainting yourself with what domestic partnership is all about? That's just a handy example among a few instances where sex outside marriage isn't considered wrong.

Drawing a blanket conclusion because it doesn't appeal to your breadth of knowledge isn't the way to go. It wouldn't make for a healthy conversation.

If you aren't yet married would you per chance confirm to us that you're not sexually active and ever since you came to the realization that premarital sex is wrong, you haven't willfully and knowingly had sex (in every form of the word, including non-penetrative )

And perhaps yes, I hope you understand that it doesn't make you pious, for "if you break one of these commandments, you have broken all"

See ehn..ur belief is your own business just as mine is my business as well. My point is the thread itself is ridiculous...y would someone be claiming that not using protection without the other party's knowledge is rape? Having premarital sex weda condom or no condom itself is known as FORNICATION! let's go to the foundamentals and forget this 21st century gibberish.

Benekruku:


Bro, Pray make you know jam dem o, Dem one tie you down ni.

Once they hold that dick during sex, you go just see say you dive in and condom don turn ring for your dick. he don burst.

When dem see say he don burst, to divert your attention, dem go con dey give different position.


those girls no dey commot belle once dey take in o. And na decent and cooperate girls get that skill pass.

Olosho no send person mama na.

Holy'shiiit!
Wat in d hell would a bitch do such a Bleep?
..goddamn'it

tabisegroup:



Holy'shiiit!
Wat in d hell would a bitch do such a Bleep?
..goddamn'it

it's when you see it, if you don't, you just believe the condom bursted and she got pregnant.

Finger nails they use, once they sent a small cut, you did know the rest will go off when thrusting.

fhorlar:



let's go to the foundamentals and forget this 21st century gibberish.

I just want you to appreciate that the fundamentals of your faith may not be the fundamentals of another faith. And there are a good number of religions which pre-date Christianity

EsotericMonk:

I just want you to appreciate that the fundamentals of your faith may not be the fundamentals of another faith. And there are a good number of religions which pre-date Christianity

Your point exactly? Quote me anywhere...Christianity is one of the most liberal religions ever that's why there is so much abuse. Do u want to compare Christianity to the likes of sango or amadioha or even Hinduism. Av not even mentioned islam..Am specifically talking as regards tolerance here. In my own opinion, sex outside marriage has so many unnecessary dramas attached to it. This life itself is hard enough jare. This is not even a religion issue for me.

fhorlar:

In my own opinion, sex outside marriage has so many unnecessary dramas attached to it. This life itself is hard enough jare. This is not even a religion issue for me.

Well, I get your point.
I think it boils down to the individual personalities that we engage with. People make the mistake of being careless with and not sufficiently studying who they chose to hang out with.
I don't know a great deal about marriage but I know that even in marriage, sex do come with lotsa dramas, especially for the choleric partners.

Nigerian girls are useless............all of them