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10 Secrets To Successfully Approach Women(top Secret) by Donshaga(m): 10:10am On Sep 20, 2018
You see an attractive woman.  You don't know her.  You have no "excuse" to talk to her.

  Can you walk up to her and start a conversation - the kind of conversation that's going to lead to attraction and more?

This is a skill any man can master. 

And one no man can afford to ignore - If you can't comfortably talk to strangers, you've excluded 99.9% of the women whose path you're going to cross in life.

So, if you're not approaching SUCCESSFULLY and CONSISTENTLY, then we want you to follow us here.  It won't cost you anything.

  Just print out this list of 10 things, keep it with you, and read it every time you're out somewhere where there are beautiful women.  Master these and your life WILL change.

1. Do "warm up sets" before you get to the bar/club/party/park. :-
Somewhere nearby, do a few approaches that "don't count" until you're in a talkative, social state of mind.  The world's best pick up artists do this.

2. Be "social" not a "shark".  :-
The guy who walks into a bar, circles around a few times, and then gets the courage to approach women one by one is going home alone.  Women KNOW this type.  Talk socially to everyone and have fun - you're not a starving hunter desperate for a meal.

3. Smile.  That one's easy.

4. Have a couple of "go-to" approach openers - things you can say to start a conversation that you KNOW will work.  You don't need 50, 500, or 5,000. 3 or 4 is just fine.  Pick a couple you like from this Routines Manual - It shows you things to say from approaching to seduction that actual top pickup artists use in their personal life.

5. Approach right away.  Once she notices you looking (She will - women have eyes in the back of their head), you're either going to be "confident" or "creepy", so be confident and approach.

6. Use relaxed, confident body language.  Get your wingman to watch you and critique.  .

7. It doesn't matter who she is with.  Attractive women rarely do things alone. 
So get used to the idea that you're going to have to meet the people she is with at the same time as you meet her. (Day Game is sometimes an exception to this). 

Whether her friends are male or female, approach anyway.  If she's off limits, they'll tell you.  We don't have space to go into this in detail here, but women who have guys in their group are more likely to have a same-night encounter anyway.


8. Eye contact.  There's another easy one.  Split it equally among everyone in her group.

9. Project your voice.  OK, we're not all successful Shakespearean actors like Daniel Vercetti but a deep sexy voice will attract her.  That's the way you want to talk.  Also be too loud rather than too quiet.

10. Have something to say - you're going to have to do 90% of the talking at first.  Don't keep talking about whatever your opener was about. 

When she starts breaking into the conversation, asking your name, where you're from, what you do for a living - that's when you know she's attracted.

There you have it, the 10 Secrets to a Successful Approach. 

If you liked it , drop your thoughts on this below.

-Chris Uzor

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Re: 10 Secrets To Successfully Approach Women(top Secret) by planetx13: 10:12am On Sep 20, 2018
All these just to approach a lady

If you put this effort into something better... Nigeria might just be a better place angry

Ciao
Re: 10 Secrets To Successfully Approach Women(top Secret) by tonyq(m): 10:49am On Sep 20, 2018
nice one smiley
Re: 10 Secrets To Successfully Approach Women(top Secret) by PreciousRahl(m): 11:09am On Sep 20, 2018
PUA grin
Re: 10 Secrets To Successfully Approach Women(top Secret) by Rockyrascal(m): 11:24am On Sep 20, 2018
Money nko! undecided

For those that wants to follow this 10 steps...naija girls no de for spri-spri English.
Re: 10 Secrets To Successfully Approach Women(top Secret) by 1stNumeroUno: 1:18pm On Sep 20, 2018
Hmmm...gone are those years. wink wink wink

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