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Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
shege45: Bros, u need help, what you have in ur mind can either make you or mere u. Inferiority complex is a disease. Don't allow low self esteem kill you because you had 2.2 . I made 2.2 and proud of it, have a job and people that had 2.2 gets a job even 3rd class. Don't allow negativity kill u, be optimistic, continue to apply for jobs, pray too, grace will sure find u. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Benekruku(m): 7:26pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Adebaba1: They have come again 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Josh44s(m): 7:26pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
shege45: Gather yourself together and get outta this shithole of a country. Even those with first class or 2.1 are all feeling the heat right now. Believe me bro, ordinary waiters or waitresses Job in Europe or US pays more than someone working in Chevron. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
You're young. Don't forget that. You can follow up and get another degree if you can afford it 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Benekruku(m): 7:27pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
angelusbrut: Rightly said, People had pass and doing fine today |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by waveman2: 7:28pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
My friend just go and learn a skill and forget about that degree. You could learn skill in ICT and get a small startup job to gain experience before you know it you would become a hotcake and even earn more than your friend. You,re still young so make use of your youthfulness. shege45: |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by bluefilm: 7:29pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
shege45: You are the cause of your own misery. And if care is not taken, you will surely die in that misery. Keep on comparing your life to others and you will see how misery and depression becomes your constant companion. And you sound so effing egoistic too. Whoever told you, you are actually better than any other person? Better in what ways, if I may ask? Because you are better than me in mathematics and physics, does it mean you are also better than me in bed? My friend, you better wake up from your slumber. You think your life is defined by 2.1 and 2.2s? Sadly, life is much more than that. In case you haven't heard, the owner of this nairaland does not even have a 2.2 or a third class or even an ordinary Pass. And yet, he is the founder of one of africa's biggest forum. Think about that as you sink further down into your melancholic depression. Nonsense. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by yusful4all: 7:29pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
My brother,don't consider grade that will lead u to become job seeker instead, think of what u can do with third class to become boss and employ first class. Certificate is just a receipt u receive that u passed thru higher institution. Your achievement, what u do with ur hand, brain, time matter most in nigeria 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by loosecanon50(m): 7:29pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Hisduchess: I love you for this write up. It's an eye opener 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by 0955eb027(m): 7:31pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
aforosco:How affordable is it to enrol for these programme? |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Agugbadin: 7:32pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
cjeriia:Not a good option, because while in school you will pay school fees among other expenses 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Respect55(m): 7:34pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Cry me a river. Even first class dey cry. Man up and get busy. Come to think of it, how many graduates feed from their certs in dis country? 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by soke02(m): 7:34pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Y don't u think of something to do instead of searching for job, and u never can tell u might be employer of labour in future |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Femtop001: 7:34pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
[quote author=BMedia post=71768729]Do not despair, but continually improve yourself as you put your faith and trust in God. Let me share my story - So I and a relative finished from the same faculty some years ago, and due to several factors including a ridiculous uni policy and juvenile deliquency, we only managed to finish with a pass degree. Of course I was disheartened but we went ahead to serve the nation (NYSC). Soon after, my cousin's dad who was in government was able to secure a job for him with an international NGO operating in our state, despite the class of degree, while I went to the U.K to attempt a fresh degree. Few years later I graduated with a 2.1 (Honours) and immediately proceeded for my MSc which I completed with a Merit. All these cost me at least N30 million in tuition and living expenses as this was when the Naira fell as low as N600 to 1 pound. Well I returned to Nigeria with my 3 degrees expecting to be the toast of employers, but I kept passing aptitude tests and attending interviews but was unable to get a job due to the Nigerian factor (though i must admit I was initially rather choosy considering the magnitude of my investment) until a month ago when I landed an FG job (through connection not merit) which pays next to nothing, but I accepted as a stepping stone to greater heights (if you know how the FG works). Interestingly while I was bettering myself for the labour market, my cousin had already married, gained significant NGO experience, and only a few weeks ago got a mouth watering (actually an understatement) offer to join their mission in the U.S based on his satisfactory performance on the job over the years. With a pass degree. Now is this fair? Of course not. Do i regret my choices? Not at all because the exposure, knowledge and experience I gained (worked in insurance for a year during my masters in the UK) has equipped me for greatness and my faith and trust in God assures me that i was only being prepared for the greater exploits, according to his divine purpose, especially as I am working towards establishing a private practice, amidst other entrepreneurial aspirations. I hesitatingly decided to share this story but I hope it encourages you, with the knowledge that your class of degree does not ultimately determine your altitude in life, but your divine purpose, God's timing and your hunger for success and self improvement. Stop using your friend as a ruler to measure yourself, instead pray & trust in God, think outside the "teaching box" (get relevant professional certifications, attend seminars for networking opportunities, explore entrepreneurship) and you should be fine. Good luck. I love this.. so encouraging 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by babtoundey(m): 7:34pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
perhaps you should look elsewhere to pin the cause of your inability to gain your dream job. There a lot of people 2.1 and even First Class graduated who cannot even settle for the teaching job you got. As long as you don't have the right connection, regardless of what you graduate with, how smart and intelligent you are, Nigeria treats you as a waste. |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by MrHighSea: 7:35pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
shege45:Funds? Is 500k enough to start sth? If given that, wat will u do to up it? We can collabo. No jokes I asked a couple graduate job seekers that question, no real answer. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by frozen70(f): 7:37pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Your intelligency will take you to where you will be recommended Just be calm and be prayerful Dangote was not a graduate but he employed the best hand in every field The only connection you need is God connection 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Abaasit4real(m): 7:38pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Lol! I understand you bro, I’m just getting out of school, from 100l to my final year I’ve alaways been on a 2.1 only to see my cgpa at the every thing and see 3.47 where 2.1 starts from 3.50. Bro, it’s gonn’ be fine I believe, go professional courses and MSc. Learn skills too if possible, everything is gonn’ be fine bro! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by otokx(m): 7:38pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
What we call connection is a type of what is called networking in the western world. I know guys with 3rd class working in oil companies who are actually hard working. Network, join small groups and you will get job offers provided you can actually perform the tasks. Stop comparing yourself with others. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Olomubj: 7:39pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Many people attach success to certificate but they are wrong .the grade u come out with doesn't mean you get a good job.little story of my friends he use only his birth certificate to secure a job and he was give all the benefits that a graduate will get to the extent that he doesn't want to further more bcs he was wel pay but the problem of job in Nigeria is man know man time wil come that graduate wil not cry for job anymore.I pray that the best of job will locate the seekers 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Emmanuel950(m): 7:39pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
shege45: My story is similar to yours but with a different twist. I was serious about leaving with 2.1 and worked hard for it. However, I flopped and ended with 2.2. What if I told you that the first person to reject me was my father. He said no Master's for me - as if I cared anyway! There was this particular guy that always copied from me during exams. The oga got 2.1 and me wey be supplier na 2.2. I was pained, but grateful for graduating with my mates. I quickly found something doing, all thanks to God and I found God at that time. Fast-forward to two years, I'm raking in 6 figures monthly working as a freelance writer - something I never envisaged. I'm yet to finish my youth service, by the way. None of my course mates in school can see my back financially now, except for the ones from rich homes. Not even the ones with first class nor 2.1 can near it. I'm not boasting, it's the truth. God did it. You see this saying "no be who hustle pass" is true, it's just been the grace of God. I believed in myself and in my abilities and trusted God to make a way. and He did. In essence, never doubt yourself nor your abilities. Even as a teacher, God can make another way for you. Just put in your best, and he'll take care of the rest. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by oladele00(m): 7:39pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
It is not only you bro...life has been more unfair-er to me |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by vaxx: 7:44pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
bluefilm:I like this. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by gidjah(m): 7:44pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
vingeophysicist:hmm! Well said bro, if I had also invested all !y good school studying years into entrepreneurial ability,I should have been another Dangote by now.I was I to first class thingy too.But Alas, no one cares (particularly this evil system of leadership we run here )I am into full time entre now and seem good.your degree will never put food on your table .Only your skills and gift would . |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by daben1(m): 7:45pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
jonath0012:what? 20k? well, before this year runs out... if you believe |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by rolams(m): 7:46pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
mmm life sha! A friend of mine graduated with 2:1 nine years ago and got no job while another got 3rd class the same year, same department (course) and same school. Infact, we are all friends @ LASU and we share the same room at ojo. Now, the 3rd class graduant has been working in bank for some years, he has a car. What do you call this? |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by hardbody: 7:47pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
jonath0012: With first class degree and a masters degree? I am struggling to believe you 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by enoconcernme: 7:48pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
I hope you get to read this. My advice is that you should start over. Trust me you are just 25 years old if you do start over in 5 years time you will definitely get your life back in track. I must point out that starting over in Nigeria is very difficult so here is my advice. Save a little money take GRE/GMAT depending on your area of study. Please study real hard for this exam and consult as many reading materials as possible. Join forums, engage with people that have done it and share their views and experience. With very good grade, good motivation letter and references your chance of getting a scholarship for a master degrees in the states is very high. Many schools in the states will overlook your short comings if your GRE/GMAT is very good couple with a great SOP. When you get there work really hard and with good grades at the end of your masters you would have reset your life and put yourself back in track. It may sound scary but I know a lot of people that have done it. NB: Should you succeed in getting admission with full funding please do not fall into the temptation of being distracted by the family drama back home. Please blank everyone and focus on graduating with a very good grade and with a good job thereafter you can pander to their needs. But if you chose to listen to their complaints and whining and get distracted you will wind up with a low grade and that will place you in a very difficult spot. You don't want to experience that again! Should you have any questions you can always ask me. Good luck in whatever decision you take. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by israelmao(m): 7:49pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
Why do you bother this much?All you need to do is to look inward your class of degree is not what matters but your delivery. |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by Leokhennie: 7:50pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
My kindid advise to you is to continue with the one you have and constantly improve your competence at any available opportunity. The sky will be your starting point |
Re: Why Is Life So Unfair? by segzyndpep(m): 7:50pm On Oct 07, 2018 |
BMedia: 2 Likes |
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