oyinda.:

same reason some people reject the idea of God, smoke cocaine etc
all has to do with your belief which is determined mostly by how you were raised and your environment.

these people are in the minority though. since most ppl are raised to conform.

meaning the reason reaches the fundamental basis of our lives, it always calls for brutal sincerity even if one stands to "loose" one's life; its amazing how many demand fidelity, men and women, but cant give it, fidelity is the way to fulfillment of the abyss of our human hearts. thanks oyinda. i love your spirit

49cents:

meaning the reason reaches the fundamental basis of our lives, it always calls for brutal sincerity even if one stands to "loose" one's life; its amazing how many demand fidelity, men and women, but cant give it, fidelity is the way to fulfillment of the abyss of our human hearts. thanks oyinda. i love your spirit

wow nice. I like the part in bold. that's a very strong character (esp. if it's a standpoint that is against societal norms. ie open marriage).
the opposite of that is weakness. ie lying and cheating to save urself or, even worse, to get some temporary self-gratification.
but then again we won't be human if we all didn't have weaknesses. but it's easier not to fall if you think about how u'll hurt someone else by ur actions.

are u a philosopher or something

oyinda.:

wow nice. I like the part in bold. that's a very strong character (esp. if it's a standpoint that is against societal norms. ie open marriage).
the opposite of that is weakness. ie lying and cheating to save urself or, even worse, to get some temporary self-gratification.
but then again we won't be human if we all didn't have weaknesses. but it's easier not to fall if you think about how u'll hurt someone else by your actions.

are u a philosopher or something

Hmmm See yarns!!

mind ur business lol. 49cent understands my yarns.

Hmmm. How far na? i waited for you under the tree in front of Iya Basira house yesterday and day before, you didnt come

oyinda.:

wow nice. I like the part in bold. that's a very strong character (esp. if it's a standpoint that is against societal norms. ie open marriage).
the opposite of that is weakness. ie lying and cheating to save urself or, even worse, to get some temporary self-gratification.
but then again we won't be human if we all didn't have weaknesses. but it's easier not to fall if you think about how u'll hurt someone else by your actions.

are u a philosopher or something

:surely we are weakened from conception yet are pulled to perfection at the same time, sure it is easier not to fall when we think of the person we may hurt- this is a motive for fidelity another would be the love for one's destiny as a living being

philosopher? now my head's gonna burst just someone asking questions to get by this life that i find in myself

dayokanu:

Hmmm. How far na? i waited for you under the tree in front of Iya Basira house yesterday and day before, you didnt come

check under d tree again.

I still dey work, After work maybe I would check under that tree

ok o. u dey work but your on NL?

@49cent,

true dat.
but u just sound like a philosopher

Multi tasking is the name of the game

Abeg come food section and help me explain what efo riro is in English to MissyB and yme, I wan cook for you this weekend

but u can't check under d tree while at work hehn?

Nope. I cant

why not?

Its banned . No one knows about NL that why I can come here.

Abeg come and explain what Efo riro is to Missy B and yme They dont understand Yoruba

hahahhaha they will soon found out abt NL. and when they do, i will laugh at you.

They cant. one person out of over 500 cant trigger their suspicion

over 500 in one building?

Several buildings. 4 different buildings

u still working mr? face ur work

Yes o

so when do u leave work?

So much for the movie with all the action, romance and comedy in between. I think tis about d romance now. 

Kudos to Oyinda, Eldee (Nice one mahn cos u took d fall before anything was let out), Davidlyan, Dayokanu, 49cents and a host of others for sticking to their onions as well as others who derailed the topic although I still enjoyed it all d way but wat we need ask ourselves (esp d LADIES) is can we remain pure and true to one guy and not be lured easy by another yet to fall and have prolly A NAILING SESSION wit him.

Incase u wondering why I asked, tis obvious from certain posts dat MOST WOMEN are easy to tongue-twist and FONcuse all for the short time tis gonna last. Loads of answers have been in effect to the Q above and WE as humans can stick to wateva we want as tis a matter of choice and excuse but as one person stated in a previous post, ALWAYS maintain the 11th commandment, "NEVER EVER GET CAUGHT" 

_{Na who dem catch na im be thief} 

oyinda.:

so when do u leave work?

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^ what's confusing. d guy is telling u not to get caught while cheating.

you are confusing me

oyinda.:

if you don't buy the concept of sanctity of marriage, why would you object to your partner doing it?
if i believe that coning people is ethical, why should i be mad if someone else cons me?
unless u believe you are d exception to the rule of d universe or something (ie above all ). sounds like something from crime and punishment.

you say "unfair advantage" key word is "unfair" so therefore, you KNOW it's wrong. and it's unethical.

Your naivete is exemplary . . . you won't last a day in law . . . the fact that I don't buy the concept of sanctity of contract/marriage doesn't mean I shouldn't go into it.
It just means I will benefit by blindsiding the other party.

And yeah, losing is painful, ethical or otherwise . . . even if I believe that cheating is just being smart, I still don't like people being smarter than I am.

Nah, the key word is 'advantage' . . . to you it might be unethical, to the man who's dad was a polygamist, it's normal.
There's a reason why the cheated cries while the cheat just moves in with a new wife.
Advantage is not weakness, it's superiority.

.

eldee:

Nah, the key word is 'advantage' . . . to you it might be unethical, to the man who's dad was a polygamist, it's normal.
There's a reason why the cheated cries while the cheat just moves in with a new wife.
Advantage is not weakness, it's superiority.

I would not call that being smart but simply being greedy.

tensor777:

I would not call that being smart but simply being greedy.

Thank you, that restores our respect in men.

^^^^^^
why are some people hard to get hold off

^^^ .