oghale23:
I am in My mid twenties, and lately I have been struggling with terrible lust. I just want to have sex. I have been resisting it because I am a Christian and have been warned since childhood that sex is not meant for the unmarried, so I have been careful about it, but if you check my last topic, I almost slept with our househelp b4 we parted ways.

I have prayed and fasted about it but it keeps getting stronger. I discovered masturbation by mistake, my parents didn't lecture me on it. I was watching pornography and as I was imitating the actors, I released and it felt good and since then I have not been able to stop. I have confessed and done all, but the more I try to stop the more I desire to have sex.

The internet, media, television is not helping at all, it has been overtaken by sexual immorality and perversion and nudity. It fuels people more to have sex. Likewise most women, I have seen too much tight fitted clothes that exposes all the contour and shapes on the street etc..

What can be done to escape this? Must I have sex to be satisfied? I have read that it is addictive, and know it wastes time, energy and money. I know and believe all the consequences of engaging in pre-marital sex, but I feel pain and burn resisting sex.

For those who are not married and are still virgins and those who were virgins till they got married, how do you and did you do it?

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IF GOD WAS SERIOUSLY AGAINST PREMARITAL SEX HE WOULD HAVE MADE IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR TESTOSTERONE AND OESTROGEN TO START DEVELOPING AT AN EARLY STAGE.
MAYBE FROM AROUND 20-30, OR MAYBE MAGICALLY WHEN PEOPLE ARE FINALLY MARRIED.

BUT OLD DUDE IS A SPECIALIST AT RUINING EVERYTHING AND BLAMING IT ON IMPERFECT MORTALS.

self control is key

oghale23:
I am in My mid twenties, and lately I have been struggling with terrible lust. I just want to have sex. I have been resisting it because I am a Christian and have been warned since childhood that sex is not meant for the unmarried, so I have been careful about it, but if you check my last topic, I almost slept with our househelp b4 we parted ways.

I have prayed and fasted about it but it keeps getting stronger. I discovered masturbation by mistake, my parents didn't lecture me on it. I was watching pornography and as I was imitating the actors, I released and it felt good and since then I have not been able to stop. I have confessed and done all, but the more I try to stop the more I desire to have sex.

The internet, media, television is not helping at all, it has been overtaken by sexual immorality and perversion and nudity. It fuels people more to have sex. Likewise most women, I have seen too much tight fitted clothes that exposes all the contour and shapes on the street etc..

What can be done to escape this? Must I have sex to be satisfied? I have read that it is addictive, and know it wastes time, energy and money. I know and believe all the consequences of engaging in pre-marital sex, but I feel pain and burn resisting sex.

For those who are not married and are still virgins and those who were virgins till they got married, how do you and did you do it?

I

op

you are the one doing yourself

if you as a virgin can't control yourself what will you say about those who were sexually active but have decided to become celibate till marriage?

If you rub shit on your body , you'll attract flies

You must know that through all those things you are doing , you are making it east for Satan to control your mind.

Choose today if you want to be in charge of your thoughts or you want a despicable fallen angel to be in charge.

You are a child of God and an heir of the world you can't give demons who have been condemned power over you.
This was what Jesus knew about himself and he was able to overcome Satan when he was tempted on the mountain .

You must know who you are in Christ. you are a king with a purpose on earth. You have God's divine purpose. You can't keep acting like the heathen. Formication, adultery and every other perversion are things that the heathen do and get away with. You might end up burnt badly if you try it .


The command to flee from sin isn't an end I'm itself but a means to an end.

If you want to be world best Athelstan you must wake up early in the morning to train. Will you say just waking up early will make you a star? No, but it is a requirement that you must meet unless you fail completely because without those early morning jogging and training you won't be adequately prepared on the day of competition

Many Christians have a hard time fighting temptation because they think Gods commandments to flee sin is for his own good. They don't know that by indulging in sin they are destroying their future and purpose in Christ completely.

Tell me , if you can't subdue your flesh how can you subdue the devil?
He will just be laughing at you

I'll give you an example:
if a man like oyedepo spent his youth womanizing etc you think at 64 he would be a spiritual father to millions.

You think Jesus would have fulfilled his purpose if he had turned that stone into bread and eaten it?

Most people are like Esau . WE PREFER TO SACRIFICE OUR FUTURE ON THE ALTAR OF SIN FOR PRESENT TEMPORARY SELFISH GRATIFICATION


Many people here have already given you advice on how to fight immorality , so I won't go into that.

Do you know that God showed Daniel things that will happen 2000 years after his death.

Be like Daniel, purpose in your heart not to defile yourself with the 'kings meat' and God will trust you enough to reveal hidden , and mysterious secrets to you. He will also bless you immensely.

You can help him out.

GrabHisBalls:
If you can't control the urge anymore...before you rape one child in your care; get a gf and don't forget to use condom.

chilisauce:
Bros if you want to fvck and you do have a girl in mind, pls goan fvck ooo, before your sperm wee burst out of the sac

What wouldn't we see on NL? So you want us to advice you if you should have sex or not. And then you brought the topic to romance room. Triple lol Hianity! You sef know wetin you dey find.

Ngwa, NL babes who have been looking for virgin guys, coman see a virgin bros o.

Very funny.

MissRaine69:

All your efforts will be rewarded by meeting a woman who will pretend that she is true that is how unfair life is these days. I wish I could be more opptimistic.

life's unfair

Yeligray:
self control is key

Easier said than done

lmao I DISCOVERED MASTURBATION BY MISTAKE op abeg more light on that lol

HaileSelassie:
life's unfair

It’s best to be pragmatic rather than unrealistic that is the best advice I can give.

Jagaban880:


Easier said than done

that's why we need God

Yeligray:
Take it to God in prayer...
Tell him to channel your hormones(urge for sex) into the urge for doing something good and reproductive in life.... The Bible guides against premarital sex.. There are consequences..

Which God? Is he the same God those gays prayed to but couldn't help them? Op go and have sex.

Roadto2019:

Which God? Is he the same God those gays prayed to but couldn't help them? Op go and have sex.

which gay?.... Never blame God for your personal decisions in life

Yeligray:
which gay?.... Never blame God for your personal decisions in life

Shut up,am talking about the Nigeria gay that just came out of the closet. He said he prayed to God many times to save him but your God didn't because
(1) Homosexualism is not a sin
(2) He doesn't exist

Roadto2019:

Shut up,am talking about the Nigeria gay that just came out of the closet. He said he prayed to God many times to save him but your God didn't because
(1) Homosexualism is not a sin
(2) He doesn't exist

what do you think about homosexuality?.... Leviticus 18:22 "you shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination... Of course you have heard of Sodom and Gomorrah?...
2. God does exist, even if you deny His existence He does... Isaiah 46:9-10, God said "I am God, and there is none like me, declaring the end from the beginning, and from ancient times things that are not yet done".

You can deny God all you want but He exists and He loves you and wants you to come to Him...

That man prayed but He let His desire block his judgement, God answered Him, the Answer was in the Bible... He never wanted it.. His desire blocked His judgement

Forcefully trying to stop it is da beginning of da solid temptation.


What then? Just pray and do nothing.when da urge comes,just do nothing.

Adasun:
Forcefully trying to stop it is da beginning of da solid temptation.



What then? Just pray and do nothing.when da urge comes,just do nothing.

easier said than done!

tetralogyfallot:
easier said than done!

okay he should go ahead and fu*k right




Dat would ease his urge huh

wally2:
https://www.xvideos.com/video34886801/lekki_babe_fucked_inside_club_full_hd

Watch this video and learn how to control ejjaculazion

What nonsense is this.
Sharing a rape video

Thank you wonderful and splendid people, I have read your comments so far and I am glad I shared my problem because I have been enlightened and empowered by them.

generationz:




op

you are the one doing yourself

if you as a virgin can't control yourself what will you say about those who were sexually active but have decided to become celibate till marriage?

If you rub shit on your body , you'll attract flies

You must know that through all those things you are doing , you are making it east for Satan to control your mind.

Choose today if you want to be in charge of your thoughts or you want a despicable fallen angel to be in charge.

You are a child of God and an heir of the world you can't give demons who have been condemned power over you.
This was what Jesus knew about himself and he was able to overcome Satan when he was tempted on the mountain .

You must know who you are in Christ. you are a king with a purpose on earth. You have God's divine purpose. You can't keep acting like the heathen. Formication, adultery and every other perversion are things that the heathen do and get away with. You might end up burnt badly if you try it .


The command to flee from sin isn't an end I'm itself but a means to an end.

If you want to be world best Athelstan you must wake up early in the morning to train. Will you say just waking up early will make you a star? No, but it is a requirement that you must meet unless you fail completely because without those early morning jogging and training you won't be adequately prepared on the day of competition

Many Christians have a hard time fighting temptation because they think Gods commandments to flee sin is for his own good. They don't know that by indulging in sin they are destroying their future and purpose in Christ completely.

Tell me , if you can't subdue your flesh how can you subdue the devil?
He will just be laughing at you

I'll give you an example:
if a man like oyedepo spent his youth womanizing etc you think at 64 he would be a spiritual father to millions.

You think Jesus would have fulfilled his purpose if he had turned that stone into bread and eaten it?

Most people are like Esau . WE PREFER TO SACRIFICE OUR FUTURE ON THE ALTAR OF SIN FOR PRESENT TEMPORARY SELFISH GRATIFICATION


Many people here have already given you advice on how to fight immorality , so I won't go into that.

Do you know that God showed Daniel things that will happen 2000 years after his death.

Be like Daniel, purpose in your heart not to defile yourself with the 'kings meat' and God will trust you enough to reveal hidden , and mysterious secrets to you. He will also bless you immensely.

Thank you!

IamD18:
Don't do it Bruv, it's against the holy scripture. Your body is the temple of The Lord and should be kept holy.

Even those who are into fornication wished they kept themselves holy for their future spouse. Just keep your cools, work hard and get married on time.

Instead, whenever the sexual urges comes, just try and remember Buhari and watch how you'll get angry which will help chase the urge away.

Thank you!

joff2:
The Bible has a solution to your problem bro. Gal 5:16 So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.

You need to walk in the Spirit. You need to read the Bible and meditate on the Word of God. The Word of God is Spirit and Life. Don't try so hard to stop, you have to feel yourself with the things of God instead. e(Music, sermons etc).
2. Meet God in prayer; Keep talking to God about it. Spend hours in Prayer. Show God you really want to overcome this (Hannah's prayer)
3. Most of these desires are from the Devil. Bind and cast off any spirit of Lust, porn, masturbation and sexual immorality.
4. Starve yourself of things that fuel your desire; avoid porn sites, social media (Twitter & IG)
5. Avoid secrecy! Stay around people. Talk to people about it. Sin strives when kept in secret.

If you really desire to overcome, you will. The grace is available. I'm a testimony
May God Strengthen you.

Thank you!

One thing is for sure God and religion are man made constructs. There's an Entity overshadowing everything, HE is neither He, Christian, Jew nor gentile. One thing is for sure, if you really want to honor him, follow your humanity. Even a kid without biblical knowledge knows when he is committing a good or bad act. As for the sex thing though, I can assure you this, it's a lost battle because you can't fight your humanity

Abeycity93:
So no ashawo quarter for your area?

Thats not a good advice for a learner or a beginner

If you know that you can't really hold yourself till you get married get a girl friend, both of you will explore

It's far better than raping a minor

Don't go to prostitutes it will worsen your case

They will know that you are a virgin and before you know it,

You might end up preferring them

That's not a good one for you

Don't get a gf. If you do, you will regret it way before you even summon up the courage to pull down her skirt. Don't go that emotional route because they will so use u till you may end up hating them. Just calm down, find a nice brothel and just relieve your stress once every month. A nice brothel, a nice clean girl and always wear a condom. 2k max

decatalyst:
So you want us to validate your desire to sin?



Alakoba

Sense no go kill you. Shebi If he wants to sin, let him sin alone

GrabHisBalls:
If you can't control the urge anymore...before you rape one child in your care; get a gf and don't forget to use condom.

He won't enjoy it with condom

PVC2019:


Sense no go kill you. Shebi If he wants to sin, let him sin alone

Yes ke

Which kind small fool b this?

GrabHisBalls:
If you can't control the urge anymore...before you rape one child in your care; get a gf and don't forget to use condom.

The writer is female and not male. Always read well.