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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by franchasng: 1:53pm On Oct 30, 2018
Teemelanin:
��� Well done, gender scientist, relationship analyst, joro’s younger brother... am sure it hasn’t been easy carrying out those survey ooo.. I commend you.
wooh! shocked shocked
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Nobody: 2:22pm On Oct 30, 2018
franchasng:
No, that's absolutely cool and any reasonable guy will respect your decision and back off, but unfortunately, from what we read and stories we hear, some ladies form deaf and dumb to even reply to an innocent harmless guy's hello, thereby killing the guy's ego and making it difficult for him to approach the next lady who maybe waiting for him, hence ladies collectively make it difficult for themselves to find true friends, lovers and eventual spouse out of their harshness, only to turn to prayer warriors later, who is fooling who

Many guys on hearing and reading how rude and harsh and unfriendly ladies treated guys who tried to woo them politely have made the decision never to woo any lady no matter what, and I am one of them because I can't bring myself low to woo any lady when I know my worth, never!

You may ask if u won't woo ladies how then will u get married like most ask and I reply: once I make up my mind to settle down, I can go the family matchmaking way or I use a fleece and any lady that my fleece picks becomes the one, no time cheesy
funny but its a general thing. a girl loves a guy, will do anything to please him but then, she is dumped by him. next she meets a sincere guy but vows never to be stupid as she was with her ex. d circle continues. well, i'm sure time will settle all scores, but don't do d match making stuff, u might regret it.
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Harry00(m): 2:37pm On Oct 30, 2018
embarassed i don't dis
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Ghokes(m): 3:05pm On Oct 30, 2018
Who campaigns after winning a well contested election?
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by franchasng: 3:35pm On Oct 30, 2018
gloria34:
funny but its a general thing. a girl loves a guy, will do anything to please him but then, she is dumped by him. next she meets a sincere guy but vows never to be stupid as she was with her ex. d circle continues. well, i'm sure time will settle all scores, but don't do d match making stuff, u might regret it.
I don't see any reason to regret...if it ends up not working which I don't pray for...we divorce peacefully and everyone is free and happy to move on.

Life is simple if you understand it well.

I don't take nonsense from anybody, especially ladies when it comes to relationship or dating because I don't need a dime from any lady (unfortunately I see all ladies as broke including the so-called working class/rich ones cos to me, their money is a peanut which can never change any man's life positively), I don't need your sex or let me say I am not desperate to get sex from u either cos if I feel the urge too much, nature gave us ways to quench it without exposing ourselves to ridicule before ladies that may not even be up to your level in life lipsrsealed

The truth is, in the coming years, more men will lose interest in marriage and long-term relationships with ladies, that's the sad reality to expect in decades to come wink

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Gangster1ms: 4:03pm On Oct 30, 2018
franchasng:
No, that's absolutely cool and any reasonable guy will respect your decision and back off, but unfortunately, from what we read and stories we hear, some ladies form deaf and dumb to even reply to an innocent harmless guy's hello, thereby killing the guy's ego and making it difficult for him to approach the next lady who maybe waiting for him, hence ladies collectively make it difficult for themselves to find true friends, lovers and eventual spouse out of their harshness, only to turn to prayer warriors later, who is fooling who

Many guys on hearing and reading how rude and harsh and unfriendly ladies treated guys who tried to woo them politely have made the decision never to woo any lady no matter what, and I am one of them because I can't bring myself low to woo any lady when I know my worth, never!

You may ask if u won't woo ladies how then will u get married like most ask and I reply: once I make up my mind to settle down, I can go the family matchmaking way or I use a fleece and any lady that my fleece picks becomes the one, no time cheesy
If u are not ready to woo women, then u are not ready to be a strong man. Strong men woo women despite rejections, it's what makes them strong. I advise u now to start wooing as much as you can, it doesn't matter if they all reject you, it makes u emotionally strong and ready for some sorts of disappointments in life.
Play the game.

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by franchasng: 4:11pm On Oct 30, 2018
Gangster1ms:

If u are not ready to woo women, then u are not ready to be a strong man. Strong men woo women despite rejections, it's what makes them a man. I advise u now to start wooing as much as you can, it doesn't matter if they all reject you, it makes u emotionally strong and ready for some sorts of disappointments in life.
Play the game.
lol, bra this advice would have been more useful during my school days, not at this time of my life that I am focused on other greater things that are attracting classier ladies without stress cool

I don't care if a Lady likes me or pretends to love me cos of money, I am cool with it cos I am never going broke, never, not in the next 100yrs at least, and no lady can scam me a dime or make me spend more than I wish or have planned to spend on her, it can't happen.

The only thing that bothers me is good health and long life, if its money, its settled and I am okay if ladies show me love cos of money, because women must like/love u because of something.....it could be money, fame, intelligence, good looks, talent (singing, dancing, writing, etc), career, profession (as they tend to love doctors, music artistes, actors, TV personalities, etc).

So bra I am never ready to woo any lady in my life, never never....I am okay attracting them with whatever I have, no time to stress my brain for something that I will still get tired of someday undecided

As for the part u said wooing ladies makes a man a strong man, me I don't want to be that kind of strong man, I want to be a strong man in politics and international financial scene, I am so okay with those, and those are the goal cool

Buhari must go!

Hope you are Atikulated bra

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Gangster1ms: 4:30pm On Oct 30, 2018
franchasng:
lol, bra this advice would have been more useful during my school days, not at this time of my life that I am focused on other greater things that are attracting classier ladies without stress cool

I don't care if a Lady likes me or pretends to love me cos of money, I am cool with it cos I am never going broke, never, not in the next 100yrs at least, and no lady can scam me a dime or make me spend more than I wish or have planned to spend on her, it can't happen.

The only thing that bothers me is good health and long life, if its money, its settled and I am okay if ladies show me love cos of money, because women must like/love u because of something.....it could be money, fame, intelligence, good looks, talent (singing, dancing, writing, etc), career, profession (as they tend to love doctors, music artistes, actors, TV personalities, etc).

So bra I am never ready to woo any lady in my life, never never....I am okay attracting them with whatever I have, no time to stress my brain for something that I will still get tired of someday undecided

As for the part u said wooing ladies makes a man a strong man, me I don't want to be that kind of strong man, I want to be a strong man in politics and international financial scene, I am so okay with those, and those are the goal cool

Buhari must go!

Hope you are Atikulated bra
That's why i called it a game, u can choose to play or not, no matter ur caliber. For me, i choose to play cos i love behaving like that man on that chat after going through sweet but unnecessary stress cheesy

Buhari must go!
I don't care who wins, although atiku ain't pure but i still prefer him or any other candidate to buhari.
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by franchasng: 4:34pm On Oct 30, 2018
Gangster1ms:

That's why i called it a game, u can choose to play or not, no matter ur caliber. For me, i choose to play cos i love behaving like that man on that chat after going through sweet but unnecessary stress cheesy

Buhari must go!
I don't care who wins, although atiku ain't pure but i still prefer him or any other candidate to buhari.
Yes oh, Atiku is not a saint but let's try him instead of continuing with a known failure.

We will keep trying new people every 4 years if they keep messing up until we get it right like other developed nations.

If u enjoy the game, play it then its cool..whatever makes one happy, stick to it.

As for me, I can never woo any lady no matter how much I admire her, I will bury that mumu feelings in my heart.

Guys need to learn from ladies to be selfish and consider yourself and your happiness first before any lady's own.

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by princfred(m): 5:53pm On Oct 30, 2018
uuzba:

Just pray for wisdom. A girl falling short of your expectation is the most fraustrating experience a guy can have. You will ask yourself, "Why didn't I see all the signs before now? Is that how I will rush to board an aeroplane that will crash?". Questions without answers.
Una funny ehh.

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Nobody: 6:33pm On Oct 30, 2018
The thing wey dey bother my mind now na how to convince one Igbo girl say Yoruba man no dey cheat
The girl dey tell me say she no go lailai marry Yoruba guys,say na we cheat pass
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by uuzba(m): 8:03pm On Oct 30, 2018
princfred:
Una funny ehh.
We don marry. Na wetin dey for house Na im we dey talk.

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by sexysage(m): 9:29pm On Oct 30, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:
AFTER ALL THE STRESS YOU PUT MEN THROUGH FOR NO REASON AT ALL, IT IS ONLY REASONABLE THAT YOU BE DISCARDED LIKE THE PIECE OF TRASH THAT YOU ARE. undecided

IMAGINE THIS GIRL PLAYING VOICENOTES FOR HER FRIENDS AFTER TALKING TO HER "TOASTER" ON PHONE SO THEY COULD COLLECTIVELY MOCK HIS TOASTING LINES, JUDGE HIS GRAMMAR, AND SHAME HIM FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO SPEND MORE THAN 10K THE LAST TIME THEY WENT OUT.

THE SORROW AND AGONY THAT SOME MEN EXPERIENCE JUST TO CATCH A GIRL'S ATTENTION, OR GET HER NUMBER, OR TO EVEN GET HER TO REPLY CHATS OR TEXTS... IS ONE OF THE REASONS MOST MEN START THE AVOIDANCE GAME AFTER THEY GET BEYOND THOSE CLOTHES AND MADEUP FACES...... AND DISCOVER THAT SHE'S EMPTY, AND DOESN'T WORTH ANYTHING.





This one got me laughing
Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Chukapage(m): 5:47am On Oct 31, 2018
franchasng:
lol, bra this advice would have been more useful during my school days, not at this time of my life that I am focused on other greater things that are attracting classier ladies without stress cool

I don't care if a Lady likes me or pretends to love me cos of money, I am cool with it cos I am never going broke, never, not in the next 100yrs at least, and no lady can scam me a dime or make me spend more than I wish or have planned to spend on her, it can't happen.

The only thing that bothers me is good health and long life, if its money, its settled and I am okay if ladies show me love cos of money, because women must like/love u because of something.....it could be money, fame, intelligence, good looks, talent (singing, dancing, writing, etc), career, profession (as they tend to love doctors, music artistes, actors, TV personalities, etc).

So bra I am never ready to woo any lady in my life, never never....I am okay attracting them with whatever I have, no time to stress my brain for something that I will still get tired of someday undecided

As for the part u said wooing ladies makes a man a strong man, me I don't want to be that kind of strong man, I want to be a strong man in politics and international financial scene, I am so okay with those, and those are the goal cool

Buhari must go!

Hope you are Atikulated bra
brother which beer do you love?? I wan buy one crate for you,your a wise man, imagine that dude , your not strong man if you don't chase women ,can you imagine the brothers line of thought?? whereas the real strong men are those who hustle hard and smart make millions and billions and the girlfriends of the guy you just quoted will be chasing them....if being a strong man needs pursuing woman up and down I'd rather be that weak ass man with billions and ladies pursuing me up and down..Once again your a wise man a very wise man, I like that line "a woman will always love you or stick around you for something be it money intelligence,fame ,even bright future or sex self ,she must love you for something MUST ITS REALITY

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by Yoighaman(m): 2:57pm On Oct 31, 2018
franchasng:
lol, bra this advice would have been more useful during my school days, not at this time of my life that I am focused on other greater things that are attracting classier ladies without stress cool

I don't care if a Lady likes me or pretends to love me cos of money, I am cool with it cos I am never going broke, never, not in the next 100yrs at least, and no lady can scam me a dime or make me spend more than I wish or have planned to spend on her, it can't happen.

The only thing that bothers me is good health and long life, if its money, its settled and I am okay if ladies show me love cos of money, because women must like/love u because of something.....it could be money, fame, intelligence, good looks, talent (singing, dancing, writing, etc), career, profession (as they tend to love doctors, music artistes, actors, TV personalities, etc).

So bra I am never ready to woo any lady in my life, never never....I am okay attracting them with whatever I have, no time to stress my brain for something that I will still get tired of someday undecided

As for the part u said wooing ladies makes a man a strong man, me I don't want to be that kind of strong man, I want to be a strong man in politics and international financial scene, I am so okay with those, and those are the goal cool

Buhari must go!

Hope you are Atikulated bra

Fantastic thought process...love it bro.

Leave the 'stong' men to be chasing women upandan, while the 'weak' ones are attracting them with 'goodies' which could be anything like you rightly said....beats my imagination why a man would be continuously chasing a woman; my friend, go and get successful, it is the women that would chase you....even a highly successful woman want a very successful man, how much more.....

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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by HubPub: 3:21pm On Oct 31, 2018
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Re: Guys When They Are Toasting you Vs Guys When You Agree To Date Them by meobizy(f): 12:12pm On Jul 08, 2020
The funniest part is when she plays hard to get so much that his mind automatically resets to fvck that bitch-mode. No gbenshing needed, but the same rejection happens anyway.

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