lefulefu:
wich one be maturity for inside. The girl wanted to kill d guy with financial responsiblity. Upon the girlfriend monthly allowance plus weekly stipends d guy dey give her she's still not appreciative. Calling the guy stingy upon all his efforts.iyam very very sure d guy lost a lot of weight during the relationship. Probably one malaysian big boy has shown himself on the horizon for d lady to be exhibiting such attitude. Anyway its time for him to regain all those weight he lost while in the relationship.

Show me a woman that have been satisfied with her demands ?

Masturb8 in peace and 'befriend' pornhub, you boys refused. You let these gold diggers, stop acting confused...

Abuja91:


brother u have just made my day. I won't forgive myself if I die of laughter

d guy dull for dere. He for upload d babe pix so we can collect d pix and share among friends so can easily avoid such a babe if we happen to come across her path.God save us from endtime girlfriends and wives.

lefulefu:
wich one be maturity for inside. The girl wanted to kill d guy with financial responsiblity. Upon the girlfriend monthly allowance plus weekly stipends d guy dey give her she's still not appreciative. Calling the guy stingy upon all his efforts.iyam very very sure d guy lost a lot of weight during the relationship. Probably one malaysian big boy has shown himself on the horizon for d lady to be exhibiting such attitude. Anyway its time for him to regain all those weight he lost while in the relationship.

What I see here is that you no fit ever please babe wey don tear eyes reach back.. No matter how hard you try, she will always see it as a normal thing. Give heaven and earth to her, it's a normal thing and there's always a reason to cheat.

Seriously it's not easy to make money the way these ladies think.. In my entire life, I can count the number of times a woman has dashed me ordinary N200 compared to guys ( excluding my mom sha)

This shows how hard it is to make money.. How you ever wondered why MOST ladies switch into feminism shell the moment they start making money?

Seriously, if guys dey rant, I sometimes reason with them because e no easy Lefulefu

SantiRAMBO:


Lol... Same behavior with mine.. I've tried ending the relationship in the past but she'll always start acting all caring... She'll say lets fix the relationship... I'll still mumu and agree... I think I'll remove her from viewing my status and mute hers

muting is a waste of time. change her number to a Ghanaian one. Or any country of your choice by changing the extension. +2338123456789

humilitypays:
My sister with all due respect I say shatap there

Nigerian women living in Western countries where feminism is practiced, I mean Nigerian women living in UK, USA, Canada, etc still have this same attitude of leeching on men they are dating or married to. Even the ones u think have great jobs still practice coded runs or corporate prostitution targeting men with fat wallet!

I have a biz associate, a man who lives in US. He won Visa lottery back then and moved to US as a single man. Later brought his fiancé from Nigeria to join him after they got married.

His fiancé was a student when he married her so as she arrived US, they sat down and agreed that his fiancé (his wife now) will go back to school to study nursing which seemed to be the best course to get job easily in US.

He trained this Lady from year one till she became an RN.

Once she started working, she started acting up, the man asked her for them to join effort and buy a house, she refused that her family back home are suffering that she needs to assist them. The hubby didn't complain. 3 years later, the hubby said let's contribute and go to Nigeria and build a house for us, she refused that her priority now is her kids, the man just forgot about her and now doing everything on his own for peace to reign.

This is the plight of many Nigerian men home and abroad with their wives and girlfriends, they are never useful financially to their man, never! Very wicked people called Nigerian women


Where do u live

If u doubt me, if u have a brother living abroad, ask him about Nigerian ladies over there and hear his honest opinion as a brother.

That's why most Nigerian guys living abroad still find it difficult to marry Nigerian ladies abroad.

Nigerian ladies are not here or there.

They want feminism just to get equal opportunisties with men but hate feminism when it demands them to share equal responsibilities with their men.

They seem so selfish, stingy and wicked to their men, always wanting things that benefit them alone.

The only reason Nigerian ladies claim to like feminism is just to give them opportunity to make free money, get best paid jobs without merit or stress but will never want to spend equally with men after they earn all the money.

You know what I am saying sis, u can't claim not to

As for your last paragraph, I don't know where these women that contribute 60% of their household expenditure are oh. I have never seen any, even my own blood sister who earns fat and can be considered close to rich still don't contribute even 30% in her home, her hubby even pays for repair of her personally owned company vehicles which the hubby once told me jokingly and we laughed over it cos he was using the scenario to advice me on how to handle marriage.

So I wonder where these super Nigerian women contributing 60% of their household expenditures are oh, me want one oh

With all due respect i think you should shut up!!... You cant tell me about Nigerian women doing runs and what have cos i know that locally and internationally,the average Nigerian male is neck-deep in crime of all sorts so what are you talking about??..

I am telling you about whay obtains in Nigerian homes now while you resorted to giving me stories about how Nigerian ladies are 'cheating',doing runs and all....Dont get me started on the evil exploits of Nigerian males..marriage scams,internet fraud,Drug cartel,armed robbery,kidnap,ritual murders and so on and so forth!

Concerning your Nigerian-Ameriacan blabls...see thats the thing,if any Nigerian male is looking for a cash-cow via training anyone as Nurse in America,please whatever you see take it!....Nurses earn so much in America we know,so why dont 'y'all American -Nurse- hunters study the nursing yourself and earn the mega-bucks if it is easy..who be mumu?

You are in America and think you will cross your legs watching TV while your wife will work her hearts off paying the mortgage and pretty much every bill while you sit around ordering her to cook Ofe Onugbu with pounded yam at 10pm like you do in Nigeria?..sorry na una name.

Ofcourse you wont know where the 60% are when most of you gather at beer-parlours every evening watching UEFA League matches,eating nkwobi and isi-ewu with the small money you manage to make and ofcourse with a babe rubbing your pot-bellies while you lie to your wives that there is no money since Buhari has finished everyone.

I move the motion this dude should be elected our Vaseline crew president.

Xaos:
Nice.

Today we welcome a brethren into the world of the singles where you sleep with no worries, wake up with an almighty èrection and no one dares question you!

A place where your only responsibility is to take care of yourself, have a good time and laugh at ugly people.

No emotional blackmail and no stúpid dramas.

No commitment to any one or fear of infidelity.

Once you know how to take care of yourself, company becomes an option and loneliness becomes an enemy.

Welcome brother.

Ziggylady:




With all due respect i think you should shut up!!... You cant tell me about Nigerian women doing runs and what have cos i know that locally and internationally,the average Nigerian male is neck-deep in crime of all sorts so what are you talking about??..

I am telling you about whay obtains in Nigerian homes now while you resorted to giving stories about how Nigerian ladies are 'cheating',doing runs and all....Dont get me started on the evil exploits of Nigerian males..marriage scams,internet fraud,Drug cartel,armed robbery,kidnap,ritual murders and so on and forth!

Concerning your Nigerian-Ameriacan blabls...see thats the thing,if any Nigerian male is looking for a cash-cow via training anyone as Nurse in America,please whatever you see take it!....Nurses earn so much in America we know,so why dont 'y'all American -Nurse- hunters study the nursing yourself and earn the mega-bucks...who be mumu?

You are in America and tjink you will cross your legs watching TV while your wife will work her hearts of paying the mortgage and pretty much every bill while you sit around ordering her to cook Ofe Onugbu with pounded yam at 10pm like you do in Nigeria?..sorry na una name..

ah, you have joined bad gang, ewo, wahala dey oh. This one weak me

tosyne2much:
What I see here is that you no fit ever please babe wey don tear eyes reach back.. No matter how hard you try, she will always see it as a normal thing. Give heaven and earth to her, it's a normal thing and there's always a reason to cheat.

Seriously it's not easy to make money the way these ladies think.. In my entire life, I can count the number of times a woman has dashed me ordinary N200 compared to guys ( excluding my mom sha)

This shows how hard it is to make money.. How you ever wondered why MOST ladies switch into feminism shell the moment they start making money?

Seriously, if guys dey rant, I sometimes reason with them because e no easy Lefulefu

na the slayqueens or d ladies wey tear eye as u call am no dey appreciate d things their guys dey do for dem. The normal ladies do appreciate d little things u do. But then a normal guy should not be saddling himself with a slayqueen if he loves his life. Even rich men dey avoid serious relationships with slayqueens and prefer using them as sidechics.

lefulefu:
na the slayqueens or d ladies wey tear eye as u call am no dey appreciate d things their guys dey do for dem. The normal ladies do appreciate d little things u do. But then a normal guy should not be saddling himself with a slayqueen if he loves his life. Even rich men dey avoid serious relationships with slayqueens and prefer using them as sidechics.

I laugh each time people say that rich men don't care if a lady is a slay queen or not since spending is not their problem

Even rich men are usually very careful when it comes to selecting a future partner

prince3009:




I swear...Nigerian Girls are THE WORST GIRLS TO DATE IN AFRICA!

Go to places like Ivory Coast, Togo, Cameroon etc...you will see very beautiful and voluptuous ladies who are so sweet and loving and know the meaning of what it is to be in love. That's why in those French-Speaking countries they see Nigerian men as gods because we know how to love and pet a woman unlike their men! Anybody esp a guy who has visited these countries can attest to this fact.

But over here, these lazy furgly over-bleached sun-burned fat pot-bellied bloated or skinny fake-hair wearing good-for-nothing female tramps feel because they have a p*ssy, they are entitled to be treated like queens and you are now their "Human ATM machine"!

frozen70:



Show me a woman that have been satisfied with her demands ?

biko there are ladies that are satisfied and some even contribute in their own little way when their man is hustling. Iyam sure this guy celebrating was jus unfortunate to end up with a slayqueen.

I have one feminist as a friend, she will shout strong woman strong woman and come beg money privately, one Naira I no give am and me no dey hide my mouth oh.

She later fashi me as I no bend rules, I dislike hypocrites.

Nigerian ladies just have unnecessary pride. Pride Kill you there.

[quote author=prince3009 post=72733254

But over here, these lazy furgly over-bleached sun-burned fat pot-bellied bloated or skinny fake-hair wearing good-for-nothing female tramps feel because they have a p*ssy, they are entitled to be treated like queens and you are now their "Human ATM machine"![/quote] haba easy oo this is too harsh

tosyne2much:
I laugh each time people say that rich men don't care if a lady is a slay queen or not since spending is not their problem

Even rich men are usually very careful when it comes to selecting a future partner

even wealthy guys are not dumb

Ziggylady:




Please you Nigerian males should quit complaining like grouchy wives in a polygamous martiage and get a life!

You cannot eat your cake and have it..Because of y'all inherently selfish nature and acute myopia,you have all condemned feminist ideals citing some yeye 'African culutre...

Now this feminism you so abhor would have inculcated the priniciples of independence in the minds of the average female in Nigeria but you sellfish males will have none of it..

However,inspite of all your silly noises online,Nigerian women married to average Nigerian men end up footing at least 50% of the house-hold bills in the home as well as taking care of the children and the home!!....I am talking facts here not nairaland land of fantasies....So what exactly do you do??

Every single married couple i know close-up has the woman doing at least 60% of what needs to be done to keep the home running while the really unlucky ones is saddled with 80%!

All you do is complain and fool around..making the average married Nigerian male extremely irresponsible and lacking any principles whatsoever.

You must be a clown... Where did you see MOST Nigerian ladies contributing about 60% of their income in running the family?... What part of the country are they living?

What hypothesis did you even use to carry out this false claim?

SantiRAMBO:

I ignored her for days.. She started commenting on my whatsapp stories, I just had to blast her, we argued.. She wanted to manipulate me by saying "You must really love me to feel this bad and I really did love you too. If you're angry tell me.. I just told her that I'm done with relationships dat I wanna stay alone and grow myself... We still view each others whatsapp stories but we've got nothing going on again.

Trust me bro, love is a scam just like someone once said on nairaland that its about meeting someone who ticks all your requirement.

I lost mine to tribal issue and since then bro have lived life more happier.

No more u must remember my betday, no more can you explain this message, no more why didn't you call me yesterday night. Bro I feel like a bird just let outta a cage

lefulefu:
biko there are ladies that are satisfied and some even contribute in their own little way when their man is hustling. Iyam sure this guy celebrating was jus unfortunate to end up with a slayqueen.

Odimma,
Let's assume she was a bed bug to him.

SonsOfLiverpool:
I have one feminist as a friend, she will shout strong woman strong woman and come beg money privately, one Naira I no give am and me no dey hide my mouth oh.

She later fashi me as I no bend rules, I dislike hypocrites.

Nigerian ladies just have unnecessary pride. Pride Kill you there.

u for give her small tin nau.

frozen70:


Odimma,
Let's assume she was a bed bug to him.

bedbug..sucking his lifeblood slowly.. Omo dat one na die.

frozen70:
Any man that is not matured enough can't keep a woman

Maturity here comes in somany forms

Emotional maturity
Mind maturity
Pocket maturity
Sense maturity
Observation maturity
Manners maturity
Approach maturity
Technicality maturity
Handling maturity
Mature maturity
Understanding maturity
Manipulative skills maturity

And if the man is more matured in all these areas and use that to take advantage of the woman same you women will cry blue murder and give us the usual rendition "Men are scumbags".

pryme:


And if the man is more matured in all these areas and use that to take advantage of the woman same you women will cry blue murder and give us the usual rendition "Men are scumbags".

When it comes to affairs, don't underestimate the prowees of a woman

dangoteinlaw:
If only boys could come together and stand against these useless good for nothing girls. They are the ones pushing our good youths into crime. No wonder the number of girls in olosho biz is rising by the clock

Useless girls!!!

Men should own up, man up and take responsibility. It's most guys that have lost their senses and failed to focus on discovering their individual GOD-given Purpose. Unlike Isaac Newton, Micheal Faraday, Myles Munroe, Ben Carlson, Don Moen, biblical Joseph and David did, they didn't waste their youthful age chasing girls. In fact, innumerable number of girls always chase guys that discovers and fulfill their GOD-given Purpose. Have you noticed that communities that have hard-working focused guys always have their girls descent and beautiful? Men molds women. Check the men in city/community/people where most girls are prostitute and you will notice that the men are very useless and directionless. Men, stop being belittled by satan. Take you Place on Earth.

NwaAmaikpe:




He doesn't sound like one celebrating to me.
He actually sounds bitter and used.

Relationships are overrated.
It's far profitable for a person to be single, masturbate frequently and be happy.

You can't remain like that forever bro

frozen70:


When it comes to affairs, don't underestimate the prowees of a woman

Its easy to figure out a woman, just lower your expectations from them and you will see what they really are.

lefulefu:
u for give her small tin nau.

The bible says the wicked shall never go unpunished. Make brokenness strike am down with her pride.

Not like I don't help oh, but her mouth to sharp, feminist wey broke na feminist?

Ziggylady:




With all due respect i think you should shut up!!... You cant tell me about Nigerian women doing runs and what have cos i know that locally and internationally,the average Nigerian male is neck-deep in crime of all sorts so what are you talking about??..

I am telling you about whay obtains in Nigerian homes now while you resorted to giving me stories about how Nigerian ladies are 'cheating',doing runs and all....Dont get me started on the evil exploits of Nigerian males..marriage scams,internet fraud,Drug cartel,armed robbery,kidnap,ritual murders and so on and so forth!

Concerning your Nigerian-Ameriacan blabls...see thats the thing,if any Nigerian male is looking for a cash-cow via training anyone as Nurse in America,please whatever you see take it!....Nurses earn so much in America we know,so why dont 'y'all American -Nurse- hunters study the nursing yourself and earn the mega-bucks if it is easy..who be mumu?

You are in America and think you will cross your legs watching TV while your wife will work her hearts off paying the mortgage and pretty much every bill while you sit around ordering her to cook Ofe Onugbu with pounded yam at 10pm like you do in Nigeria?..sorry na una name.

Ofcourse you wont know where the 60% are when most of you gather at beer-parlours every evening watching UEFA League matches,eating nkwobi and isi-ewu with the small money you manage to make and ofcourse with a babe rubbing your pot-bellies while you lie to your wives that there is no money since Buhari has finished everyone.

My friend shut the fvck up.
Learn to observe adequate clue to wise judgement

Ziggylady:




With all due respect i think you should shut up!!... You cant tell me about Nigerian women doing runs and what have cos i know that locally and internationally,the average Nigerian male is neck-deep in crime of all sorts so what are you talking about??..

I am telling you about whay obtains in Nigerian homes now while you resorted to giving me stories about how Nigerian ladies are 'cheating',doing runs and all....Dont get me started on the evil exploits of Nigerian males..marriage scams,internet fraud,Drug cartel,armed robbery,kidnap,ritual murders and so on and so forth!

Concerning your Nigerian-Ameriacan blabls...see thats the thing,if any Nigerian male is looking for a cash-cow via training anyone as Nurse in America,please whatever you see take it!....Nurses earn so much in America we know,so why dont 'y'all American -Nurse- hunters study the nursing yourself and earn the mega-bucks if it is easy..who be mumu?

You are in America and think you will cross your legs watching TV while your wife will work her hearts off paying the mortgage and pretty much every bill while you sit around ordering her to cook Ofe Onugbu with pounded yam at 10pm like you do in Nigeria?..sorry na una name.

Ofcourse you wont know where the 60% are when most of you gather at beer-parlours every evening watching UEFA League matches,eating nkwobi and isi-ewu with the small money you manage to make and ofcourse with a babe rubbing your pot-bellies while you lie to your wives that there is no money since Buhari has finished everyone.

If truly as you say that women shoulder 60% of the financial responsibility how come we have men that work well into their 60s while the women stay at home?

How many men have you seen got a new car for marrying a woman?

How many husbands have their wives opened businesses for them?

How many husbands feed from their wives pensions?

The women I have noticed that have this kind of your mentality are women raised by a single Mum.

You don't summarize the role of the husband as 40% in the family, you are lying to yourself.

AleAirHub:
D comments here dey learn from my own experience if I share mine . So ladies will bring blesses into your life but others is HELL on earth....

It's well

I feel your pain bro... I can see lot of guys have been unleashing their frustration on this thread

What I see here is that, it's your responsibility to take care of your woman just that it doesn't make sense if she's using that to take advantage of you... You can only run from shouldering responsibilities as an unmarried man but you can't when you're married

lefulefu:
hm if na so im dey act with other girls una need to wake am up oo and let im see d light. Guys like dat ladies dey always dey use dem as ATM maga. Biko make una help dat guy see d light.

Bro. We don talk we don pray we don fast we don tire na beat we never beat am yet. I no sure say that one go werk( as my Ghanaian brothers go talk) If una get suggestion abeg make we hear

SantiRAMBO:

I ignored her for days.. She started commenting on my whatsapp stories, I just had to blast her, we argued.. She wanted to manipulate me by saying "You must really love me to feel this bad and I really did love you too. If you're angry tell me.. I just told her that I'm done with relationships dat I wanna stay alone and grow myself... We still view each others whatsapp stories but we've got nothing going on again.

Naso one yeye girlfriend i get before wey she say she love me do me most senseless thing i ever seen in my life... After some months of our breakup she started showing on my facebook stories the girl just dey vex me to the extent i post on her timeline not to show on my facebook stories and I unfriend her immediately I hate myself by the way the girl fool me...