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| The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 9:51am On Nov 26, 2018 |
So there's this guy I met on Facebook who's been disturbing me to meet with him for the past two years, and during those two years its either he texted me when I'm about to go back to school or when I'm not just in the mood to see anyone. Then came last week or so he chatted me up again asking for a meet up, and yours truly is now through with school and very less busy so I decided to go see the person who has been disturbing me for almost two years(if not more). Last Friday was the day we met for the first time and he looked okay, and very outspoken(although it was kinda uncomfortable because he was a bit lousy) but I was okay with it, on my way home I forgot my small phone in his car and I found out while I was in the market doing weekend shopping, I thought I had even misplaced it, I called him and told him what had happened and I asked him to continue help me in calling the number until someone picks so I can know where it was, he later called to say the phone was found in the car and I should come get it the next day(been Saturday), I told him I couldn't but would come after service on Sunday( my church wasn't really Far from his place). So immediately after service I took cab to his place to go get my phone, when I got there I asked for the phone and he gave me and went on about how we needed to talk and all, and that he wants a serious relationship( I have no p with that because I'm single) and I told him I'll think about it, before you know what, he started talking about how he wants me to kiss him and cuddle him, and I'm like"hollup guy, I haven't decided if I want to date you or not, and since I came in you didn't even offer me even if its a glass of water and you're talking about cuddle and kissing, please o park well", he kept pestering and pestering to the extent that it almost looked like he was going to rape me, I got pissed and decided to leave, just couldn't stand the nonsense no more, and the next thing he did was give me cold shoulder, didnt talk to me till I left, and even while I was leaving he just ignored me like I didnt exist.. All that got me thinking, is there any guy out there who would let a relationship grow first before demanding for anything?, and why is it so difficult for most guys to respect a lady, because she's in your house doesn't give you any right to want to abuse her na...I'm still in shock at the way he acted yesterday, still baffling. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Richpounds: 9:55am On Nov 26, 2018 |
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| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by samysmoothfresh: 9:57am On Nov 26, 2018 |
First of all, i am happy and applaude you for saying "the guy was a scum" and not "all men are scum". Second, oga no try at all, but i still understand him small sha. He tracked, stalked, disturbed, messaged etc you for 2yrs or more and seeing you for the first time may have overwhelmed him and forced out all the pent up desires oga have been harboring for the past two years. All the same sha oga no do well and perhaps might be rightly called a "scum" third, are you sure the reason you finally answered oga after 2yrs is becos you're less busy now or becos you saw the pictures of the new car and house oga posted on facebook?. Fourth, about the question you asked @ "is there any guy out there who would let a relationship grow first before demanding anything?" ANSWER: they dont demand "anything", they only demand "sex" which is the only thing majority of y'all have to offer. I dont know if there's any guy that would let the relationship grow first before demanding "anything", but i do know that most men dont demand "anything" until they see that the lady has demanded "everything" or they have spent way too much on the lady. In this case, the guy may have thought he spent way to much on the first date with a girl he has been chasing for the past 2yrs or like i said earlier, he must have been overwhelmed and forced to push out all the desire he had for you for the past 2yrs or more. #Saff 31 Likes
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| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Apina(m): 9:58am On Nov 26, 2018 |
He didn't rape you which is a good thing, but from your narrative, it's obvious you spent a considerable amount of time there even when you didn't feel safe which speaks volumes about your level of awareness and a sort of readiness to continue or have something with him. You didn't want to look cheap and that's the only reason you didn't give in and you are here complaining because he refused to to acknowledge your sorry ass afterwards and did not give you transport fare since according to you, your church was far from his house. Shitt happens, stop whinning like a bitch  4 Likes |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 26, 2018 |
baba wan bleep oooo,body no be firewood na :Pbaba wan bleep oooo,body no be firewood na |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by samysmoothfresh: 10:00am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Saff and the other members of the awon men are scum crew can start coming in now. The thread have been officially opened for comments! 1 Like
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| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by clive2u(m): 10:02am On Nov 26, 2018 |
the guy is a fool though but a lot of guys that don't rush into handsy still exist, just that the girls like the bad ones and treat the good ones like shit. most girls deserve them bad asses |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by carter009(m): 10:11am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Lolz you and staff all they same, is like you love that babe. samysmoothfresh: |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by falcon01: 10:14am On Nov 26, 2018 |
quantum quality |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by daviesblaze(m): 10:14am On Nov 26, 2018 |
To some dudes "I'll think about it" actually means you've accepted. It's normal sha, I've had girls drooling for the kiss on our first meeting  |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 10:18am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one. |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Oreofepeters: 10:19am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Truly the guy is a douchebag he shouldn't have acted that way, where is your respect at?.. |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Allaboutkatiee(f): 10:20am On Nov 26, 2018 |
daviesblaze:Hmm |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Oreofepeters: 10:21am On Nov 26, 2018 |
makydebbie:I hope your brothers and nephews are not excluded..... 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by PapaZeus(m): 10:26am On Nov 26, 2018 |
WHAT? i go soon comment, i dey come |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by haywire07(m): 10:28am On Nov 26, 2018 |
If he hadn't tried to be romantic with you, you probably will still beat a grudge against him for not being man enough to to ask for what he wants 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by derrydinny: 10:29am On Nov 26, 2018 |
give me 3 good reasons why I will read this long epistle |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by samysmoothfresh: 10:39am On Nov 26, 2018 |
carter009: bro i more than love saff o the love i have for her is like the hairs on my dick.......no matter the number of times i cut them, they'll always grow back. she is like the weed in my beans, making me agile and giving me joy. the condom on my dick, protecting me from all physical and spiritual STDs the 31gig porn on my 32gig memory card, always giving me intense and immense pleasure thats way out of this world. Saff is like my precious balls producing fertile sperm. Saff is like a pirhana in the midst of whales, always standing out fron the rest. She's a lover of cash, a freedom fighter and a woman activitist. Saff is...... 3 Likes
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| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by daviesblaze(m): 10:42am On Nov 26, 2018 |
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| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by daviesblaze(m): 10:45am On Nov 26, 2018 |
makydebbie: It takes a scum to assume every Nigga is a scum. What is your scum qualifications again  I mean, you know, Bsc, PhD etc 2 Likes |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Rubbiish(m): 10:47am On Nov 26, 2018 |
makydebbie:I am glad you now know your father is a scum/trash...I told u before 2 Likes |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by CAPSLOCKED: 10:49am On Nov 26, 2018 |
haywire07: MANY OF SUCH INCIDENTS ARE AS A RESULT OF THE USUAL CONFUSED STATE OF THE NORMAL NIGERIAN LADY. YOU CAN NEVER TRULY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT OR WHEN THEY WANT IT. THEY NEVER DO OR SAY ANYTHING.. ONLY MOPE LIKE SHEEP. IT'S EASIER TO BED THEM THAN CONVINCE THEM TO DATE YOU. WHEN THEY'RE BEING ENTERTAINED THEY GET LOST AND CARRIED AWAY... THEN KISSES FOLLOW, FOLLOWED BY THE REST. BY THE TIME THEY REALIZE WHAT HAS GONE DOWN THEY START CRYING AND ASKING THE USUAL "WHAT ARE WE NOW?", "WHAT AM I TO YOU?" SO WHEN MOST MEN DO THIS IN SOME CASES IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT THE LUST. MOST MEN KNOW THAT ONCE IT HAPPENS ALL THE SHAKARA AND FORMING BY THE GIRL WILL BE OVER. MOST MEN UNDERSTAND, AND WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT "SHARP-GUY SEX" IS THE EASIEST WAY TO GET A GIRL TO DATE YOU IN THIS COUNTRY. IS IT NOT IN THIS COUNTRY THAT A GIRL INDICATES SHE WANTS IT, YOU MAKE MOVE AND YOU BOTH UNCLOTHE EACH OTHER... WHEN YOU'RE ABOUT TO SLIDE THEY START CRYING AND ACCUSING YOU OF DIFFERENT THINGS? ABEG. THIS THREAD IS A MUMU'S THREAD. 9 Likes |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 10:58am On Nov 26, 2018 |
daviesblaze: Erhm, take care of your comprehension issues before quoting me. Thank you. Rubbiish: Oreofepeters: |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 10:58am On Nov 26, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: To your third point I say you're wrong, I hardly go on fb to check on people, I got a mail from fb saying you have a message from so so and so with other so so and so, one of the so so and so message made me open my messenger and I came upon his own message which prompt me to just reply him and even see him....and also to just see the person that had been on my case for years |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 10:58am On Nov 26, 2018 |
makydebbie: This is not you The makydebbie I know is bigger than this  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Allaboutkatiee(f): 10:59am On Nov 26, 2018 |
daviesblaze:Who's this one again |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 11:00am On Nov 26, 2018 |
haywire07: Nah, I wouldn't have, but instead I would have appreciated him being gentlemanly ..... |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 11:06am On Nov 26, 2018 |
[quote author=CAPSLOCKED post=73314082] MANY OF SUCH INCIDENTS ARE AS A RESULT OF THE USUAL CONFUSED STATE OF THE NORMAL NIGERIAN LADY. YOU CAN NEVER TRULY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT OR WHEN THEY WANT IT. THEY NEVER DO OR SAY ANYTHING.. ONLY MOPE LIKE SHEEP. IT'S EASIER TO BED THEM THAN CONVINCE THEM TO DATE YOU. WHEN THEY'RE BEING ENTERTAINED THEY GET LOST AND CARRIED AWAY... THEN KISSES FOLLOW, FOLLOWED BY THE REST. BY THE TIME THEY REALIZE WHAT HAS GONE DOWN THEY START CRYING AND ASKING THE USUAL "WHAT ARE WE NOW?", "WHAT AM I TO YOU?" MOST MEN KNOW THAT ONCE IT HAPPENS ALL THE SHAKARA AND FORMING BY THE GIRL WILL BE OVER. MOST MEN UNDERSTAND, AND WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT "SHARP-GUY SEX" IS THE EASIEST WAY TO GET A GIRL TO DATE YOU IN THIS COUNTRY. IS IT NOT IN THIS COUNTRY THAT A GIRL INDICATES SHE WANTS IT, YOU MAKE MOVE AND YOU BOTH UnCloth EACH OTHER... WHEN YOU'RE ABOUT TO PENETRATE THEY START CRYING AND ACCUSING YOU OF DIFFERENT THINGS? ABEG. THIS THREAD IS A MUMU'S THREAD. Lol  , I quiet agree with you that most girls are like that I.e unable to express their wants(I'm part of that "most" but in this case, you cant deny it was too early and I expected him to at least allow the relationship get in full gear before he starts demanding for sex, kisses or even cuddling....1 Like |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by CAPSLOCKED: 11:19am On Nov 26, 2018 |
Sexytemi: NAH, YOU CHICKS HARDLY KNOW WHAT YOU WANT OR DON'T WANT. IMAGINE WHAT YOU SAID UP THERE? HE'S BEEN INVITING YOU FOR 2 YEARS, AND IN THAT WHOLE TIME YOU WERE EITHER GOING TO SCHOOL OR "NOT IN THE MOOD" TO SEE ANYONE. FOR 2 GOOD YEARS YOU WERE NOT IN THE MOOD TO MEET UP WITH HIM.... BUT AS USUAL, YOU KEPT LEADING HIM ON. DO YOU CARE ABOUT PEOPLE'S FEELINGS AT ALL? I GUESS HIS ACTIONS WERE AS A RESULT OF WHATEVER YOU PUT HIM THROUGH. YOU JOKERS DON'T EVEN KNOW THE AMOUNT OF LABOUR WE PUT IN TO GET YOU, AND MARRY YOU. IN FACT, EACH TIME A GUY COMES TO YOU HE DESERVES "WELCOME". AND WHEN HE'S LEAVING YOU SAY "THANK YOU FOR THIS PRIVILEGE, SIR". 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by carter009(m): 11:20am On Nov 26, 2018 |
You have started. makydebbie: |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 11:25am On Nov 26, 2018 |
CAPSLOCKED: Guy calm down, I wasn't leading him on to anywhere, he chats me during summer when I'm home for holidays, and immediately I'm back to school, he doesn't chat me up and I dont till when I'm around again, which might be the next summer. |
| Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 11:53am On Nov 26, 2018 |
ikhileomotayo:I said 'most', if you all decide to ignore that, I cannot be bothered. Goodmorning. |
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