abarat:
I'm not throwing blames bro..what I'm saying is everything has expiring date even love...

Iamvally:
i told him its not easy to see a girl to even be with you..its talking about fresh cookie that shes a leftover mehn someone that was dere for you..no matter wat she has done she deserves respect..i wont be suprise if shez a fine beautiful gal ..i have told him to give me the girls number..girls like that deserves to be treated like queens..

AryEmber:
I stopped reading at her 'woman characters' began to show, where's the woman in an 18 years old girl? You people have confuse me with your confusion, any slight attraction is always considered love.

kongolo:
@OP Your experiences with Nigerian women has less to do with money and more to do with the average Nigerian male in our society today being unable to be a man unlike the Nigerian men of the past.
I have seen men with loads of money in Nigeria being treated like crap and disrespected by Nigerian women (even the lowly ones) because they acted like little boys rather than men and i have seen "broke" Nigerian men with tons of self confidence and masculinity have thesame Nigerian women chase after them in droves.
It's a Nigerian male defeatist issue with our Nigerian women not a financial one

abarat:
I could remember when I just graduated from Uni. and no money inflow, I was always scared of falling in love to avoid heartbreak,.
A lot of girls came my way, eventhough they knew I was broke, they would still agree to date me and only leave when they realised I wasn't serious with them whereas I was trying to avoid heartbreak... lol

Then, there was this particular young lady I met, she was just 18yrs, so beautiful and intelligent. I don't know how she did it but I fell in love instantly. She also loved me so much that I was already planning to wait for her and marry her.

Also, I did tell her my plans to become rich and just because she knew I'm a man of vision, she did love me the more

Then, after a year down the relationship and still no job, still no money; her true character (woman character) start to show. she didn't really care about me like before, she would just lost interest immediately I start talking about our future, she hardly call etc. Anytime i tried to talk about it, she would say she still love me and does not know whats wrong with her, she wasnt love freak again, she was just playing my heart like table tennis till I eventually got tired and we broke up.

So from that experience, then I realise there is nothing like true love. we are all selfish. everybody wants the best for them self and when they realize you may not be able to give them their heart desires at the long run, they will leave you. That girl telling you as a broke guy that she can die for you will leave you as long as better offer start showing up.

In conclusion, my advise for young broke guys is that chase that money first before any lady. Don't be deceive by those I love you tales because they will eventually break your heart..lol Never fall in love when you are still broke to avoid heartbreak.
peace out!!

abarat:
I'm not throwing blames bro..what I'm saying is everything has expiring date even love...

Ray97:
lol. I experienced somtin similar.. I concluded not fal in love or even get married until i have money after my first failed relationship she had money and stuff but we couldnt blend had to break up after finaly after breaking and making up several times. I thought ive moved on and focusd on my goals to make bills, then a lady friend of mine (sec skul crush) appeard 4rm no wer. I didnt take her serious at first. Then she started confessing love to me writing love poems 4 me and so but i still didnt budge.. One day i gave in, taught ive met "the one" because unlike my first girlfriend she listened and picked interest in my future hussling plans.

one day she just said look lets just be friends.. She kept telling me that she loves me with all her heart and at the same time asking us to be just friends.. I actually saw it coming. She might have done the calculations in her head. If she waits or gives me hope that she'l stick around, she might be experiencing menopause then. lol.

she friendzoned me in such a way that she might come back to me if things go gold for me and at the same time go out to look 4 big fishes. In that we it'll be win win 4 her..

some experience makes us wiser.

Glycolysis:

But when a woman have no money, she have business being in a relationship

But when it comes to the guy, the rule is not applicable,right?

Truly, the vagina, boobs and ass is men undoing!

Sirheny007:


I believe that men are superior to women. So you can see why the pressure lies heavily on the side of men.
Women are naturally wired to be attracted to money. This is primary.
Looks, intelligence and others are secondary. believe it or not. A woman is the most selfish creature on earth. She's solely after her own happiness; so no matter how ugly a man is, inasmuch as he's got a fat pocket, women will always fall for him.

When you have money, you need not woo women.

mogbojaiye:


Because no matter how rich a lady is, bro u have no business with her money, hustle ur own to avoid stories dat touches the heart

DanDeeBoss:
True bro...

Sirheny007:


I believe that men are superior to women. So you can see why the pressure lies heavily on the side of men.
Women are naturally wired to be attracted to money. This is primary.
Looks, intelligence and others are secondary. believe it or not. A woman is the most selfish creature on earth. She's solely after her own happiness; so no matter how ugly a man is, inasmuch as he's got a fat pocket, women will always fall for him.

When you have money, you need not woo women.

mogbojaiye:


Some men don sell their destiny and right as a man becus of one desperate rich lady, ,,hissss

Who do chase woman nowadays? That person is still lost

abarat:
I could remember when I just graduated from Uni. and no money inflow, I was always scared of falling in love to avoid heartbreak,.
A lot of girls came my way, eventhough they knew I was broke, they would still agree to date me and only leave when they realised I wasn't serious with them whereas I was trying to avoid heartbreak... lol

Then, there was this particular young lady I met, she was just 18yrs, so beautiful and intelligent. I don't know how she did it but I fell in love instantly. She also loved me so much that I was already planning to wait for her and marry her.

Also, I did tell her my plans to become rich and just because she knew I'm a man of vision, she did love me the more

Then, after a year down the relationship and still no job, still no money; her true character (woman character) start to show. she didn't really care about me like before, she would just lost interest immediately I start talking about our future, she hardly call etc. Anytime i tried to talk about it, she would say she still love me and does not know whats wrong with her, she wasnt love freak again, she was just playing my heart like table tennis till I eventually got tired and we broke up.

So from that experience, then I realise there is nothing like true love. we are all selfish. everybody wants the best for them self and when they realize you may not be able to give them their heart desires at the long run, they will leave you. That girl telling you as a broke guy that she can die for you will leave you as long as better offer start showing up.

In conclusion, my advise for young broke guys is that chase that money first before any lady. Don't be deceive by those I love you tales because they will eventually break your heart..lol Never fall in love when you are still broke to avoid heartbreak.
peace out!!

Sirheny007:


I believe that men are superior to women. So you can see why the pressure lies heavily on the side of men.
Women are naturally wired to be attracted to money. This is primary.
Looks, intelligence and others are secondary. believe it or not. A woman is the most selfish creature on earth. She's solely after her own happiness; so no matter how ugly a man is, inasmuch as he's got a fat pocket, women will always fall for him.

When you have money, you need not woo women.

alterswerve:


He said she told him that she loves him
No slight attraction anywhere

germanized:
It should be a natural thing for a guy to set his priorities right. Whether or not ladies like money, a guy should make money before chasing ladies, especially in this environment where money matters so much.

If you care about ur future, never put relationships (especially boyfriend/girlfriend stuff), above ur career.

Nigeria go teach u say HungerBad...

bobokeshington:
if a girl can't stand by me when I'm broke, she doesn't deserve me when I'm rich

Saffi:
No women with standards or substance is going to accept you at your worst. Be the best so you can attract the best Biko.

Angelina996:
@abarat, FYI, there's still true love o. I mean..girls loving broke guys still exist. Its just that some guys are crazy and when u've given them your all, after they make it, out/off they go
There are still women that will accept you at your worst, I tell you.

Angelina996:
@abarat, FYI, there's still true love o. I mean..girls loving broke guys still exist. Its just that some guys are crazy and when u've given them your all, after they make it, out/off they go
There are still women that will accept you at your worst, I tell you.

Lol.. Yes we know, but I can't risk it..

bobokeshington:
if a girl can't stand by me when I'm broke, she doesn't deserve me when I'm rich

AryEmber:
So much for the love then, her confusion made her mistake attraction for love.

Zither:


Story.... The game is make money then women will fall at your feet. A game that has been since time immemorial.

Abi ooo

Angelina996:
@abarat, FYI, there's still true love o. I mean..girls loving broke guys still exist. Its just that some guys are crazy and when u've given them your all, after they make it, out/off they go
There are still women that will accept you at your worst, I tell you.

abarat:
Yea, there is but most times they tend to get tired and start losing faith in you when better offers start showing up...

DanDeeBoss:
Lol.. Yes we know, but I can't risk it..

Zither:


Story.... The game is make money then women will fall at your feet. A game that has been since time immemorial.