Angelina996:


...fall at your feet ... That means you got a liability. Not all women will submit to you for your money. What if she's got hers?

Zither:


Sure, but even a guy with good intentions and finacial prospects will still be relegated to the background by any girl if he is struggling. Now you see why guys are very choosy when it comes to picking a girl from the crowd to settle down with. His point is valid.

Angelina996:
@abarat, FYI, there's still true love o. I mean..girls loving broke guys still exist. Its just that some guys are crazy and when u've given them your all, after they make it, out/off they go
There are still women that will accept you at your worst, I tell you.

abarat:
I could remember when I just graduated from Uni. and no money inflow, I was always scared of falling in love to avoid heartbreak,.
A lot of girls came my way, eventhough they knew I was broke, they would still agree to date me and only leave when they realised I wasn't serious with them whereas I was trying to avoid heartbreak... lol

Then, there was this particular young lady I met, she was just 18yrs, so beautiful and intelligent. I don't know how she did it but I fell in love instantly. She also loved me so much that I was already planning to wait for her and marry her.

Also, I did tell her my plans to become rich and just because she knew I'm a man of vision, she did love me the more

Then, after a year down the relationship and still no job, still no money; her true character (woman character) start to show. she didn't really care about me like before, she would just lost interest immediately I start talking about our future, she hardly call etc. Anytime i tried to talk about it, she would say she still love me and does not know whats wrong with her, she wasnt love freak again, she was just playing my heart like table tennis till I eventually got tired and we broke up.

So from that experience, then I realise there is nothing like true love. we are all selfish. everybody wants the best for them self and when they realize you may not be able to give them their heart desires at the long run, they will leave you. That girl telling you as a broke guy that she can die for you will leave you as long as better offer start showing up.

In conclusion, my advise for young broke guys is that chase that money first before any lady. Don't be deceive by those I love you tales because they will eventually break your heart..lol Never fall in love when you are still broke to avoid heartbreak.
peace out!!

Angelina996:


...fall at your feet ... That means you got a liability. Not all women will submit to you for your money. What if she's got hers?

Saffi:
No women with standards or substance is going to accept you at your worst. Be the best so you can attract the best Biko.

emmaodet:


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How will a large percent of men be chasing and looking around for this minor endangered species, it is useless and hopeless.
It's just funny the type of relationship and family we are running nowadays.
What a time and period to live in

abarat:
I could remember when I just graduated from Uni. and no money inflow, I was always scared of falling in love to avoid heartbreak,.
A lot of girls came my way, eventhough they knew I was broke, they would still agree to date me and only leave when they realised I wasn't serious with them whereas I was trying to avoid heartbreak... lol

Then, there was this particular young lady I met, she was just 18yrs, so beautiful and intelligent. I don't know how she did it but I fell in love instantly. She also loved me so much that I was already planning to wait for her and marry her.

Also, I did tell her my plans to become rich and just because she knew I'm a man of vision, she did love me the more

Then, after a year down the relationship and still no job, still no money; her true character (woman character) start to show. she didn't really care about me like before, she would just lost interest immediately I start talking about our future, she hardly call etc. Anytime i tried to talk about it, she would say she still love me and does not know whats wrong with her, she wasnt love freak again, she was just playing my heart like table tennis till I eventually got tired and we broke up.

So from that experience, then I realise there is nothing like true love. we are all selfish. everybody wants the best for them self and when they realize you may not be able to give them their heart desires at the long run, they will leave you. That girl telling you as a broke guy that she can die for you will leave you as long as better offer start showing up.

In conclusion, my advise for young broke guys is that chase that money first before any lady. Don't be deceive by those I love you tales because they will eventually break your heart..lol Never fall in love when you are still broke to avoid heartbreak.
peace out!!

Raalsalghul:
This one just dey wake up from sleep.

bobokeshington:


well I'm not saying a man shouldn't work hard
to be the best he can...
but I think the best time for a guy to get married is when he is broke..

Glycolysis:

If broke guy is deemed not worthy to be in a relationship, the same rule should be applicable to a broke girl!

We need equality, so the rule should be applicable to both!

NathanAnomaly:


best time to marry is when he is broke ? guy you are on your own oh

NathanAnomaly:

best time to marry is when he is broke ? guy you are on your own oh

Angelina996:


...fall at your feet ... That means you got a liability. Not all women will submit to you for your money. What if she's got hers?

Saffi:
His point is not valid. Most guys dump the girl that they’ve been struggling with once they become rich, that’s because he knows that he can do better. Only a very small percentage stay, but even if he does he’ll maltreat her and probably cheat ridiculously. No girl should stay with a broke guy, she’s only lowering her standard and value. Don’t be the tool that guys will use to step on. Be the trophy girl that he chooses once’s he makes it. That’s my own.

elipheleh:


Not every girl can be blessed with such beauty to be a trophy wife even if they wish. Trophy wives must worth it in looks and intelligence. In fact all trophy wives are or were once professional models. We know majority of girls don't fit modelling looks. Just average.

Rich men are like gods to women

kongolo:
@OP Your experiences with Nigerian women has less to do with money and more to do with the average Nigerian male in our society today being unable to be a man unlike the Nigerian men of the past.
I have seen men with loads of money in Nigeria being treated like crap and disrespected by Nigerian women (even the lowly ones) because they acted like little boys rather than men and i have seen "broke" Nigerian men with tons of self confidence and masculinity have thesame Nigerian women chase after them in droves.
It's a Nigerian male defeatist issue with our Nigerian women not a financial one

elipheleh:


Everybody chases the rich guy. All rich and poor girls, celebrities and local girls, all want the same rich guys.
It's even worse if the girl in question is rich, her desperation for chasing him is higher. Local girls simply feel intimidated and back out to avoid too much embarrassment.

franchasng:
every woman desire a financially buoyant man whether she has her own money or not, whether her parents are rich or not, a financially buoyant guy is their heart desire.

Have u ever wondered why Linda Ikeji fell cheapily for Sholaye Jeremy Because she was excited she finally caught a billionaire guy to love, u think she didn't have broke and average guys asking her out for years Think again sis

She maybe rich herself or from rich family but no woman desires to date or marry a broke man. She may not be demanding money from the guy, but women just love the power and comfort money gives to their man, so all women love money and its not bad, so stop denying the obvious

A girl may turn down a financial buoyant guy out of fear of being used and dumped by the guy and then accept a broke guy with good prospect with the hope that the guy will become financially buoyant in future and by then he won't take her for granted or say she came for his money since she started with him while he was struggling but in all, her hope is that the guy will still make it big financially in the future and if she waits for some years and no improvement, majority of ladies in such scenario will start to lower their love for the guy and will most likely follow another guy with better financial prospect.

It is only fear of being used and dumped that make some ladies to pretend like they don't desire a financially buoyant guy, but deep down their heart, their secret prayer is to meet a financially capable guy that will cherish them

I hate it when ladies pretend not to love what they love. Guys love physically attractive ladies with big bombom and standing breast and they don't pretend or lie about it, so ladies must learn to stand their ground and damn the consequences, no need trying to act different cos even if u do, every man all over the world know that women love power and money gives a man power.

If you doubt me, go and watch "Scarface" by Al Pacino. You can google it, download and watch and learn

Angelina996:

Thank you, but those up there are known facts. Yes! Women love power, but falling at his feet for his money is what I'm not supporting.
I like ur submission

Ray97:
lol. I experienced somtin similar.. I concluded not fal in love or even get married until i have money after my first failed relationship she had money and stuff but we couldnt blend had to break up after finaly after breaking and making up several times. I thought ive moved on and focusd on my goals to make bills, then a lady friend of mine (sec skul crush) appeard 4rm no wer. I didnt take her serious at first. Then she started confessing love to me writing love poems 4 me and so but i still didnt budge.. One day i gave in, taught ive met "the one" because unlike my first girlfriend she listened and picked interest in my future hussling plans.

one day she just said look lets just be friends.. She kept telling me that she loves me with all her heart and at the same time asking us to be just friends.. I actually saw it coming. She might have done the calculations in her head. If she waits or gives me hope that she'l stick around, she might be experiencing menopause then. lol.

she friendzoned me in such a way that she might come back to me if things go gold for me and at the same time go out to look 4 big fishes. In that we it'll be win win 4 her..

some experience makes us wiser.

kense88:
From my experience, most of our ladies are very selfish. Most of the ones that hang around, have not gotten a better offer. Ones a better offer shows up, then she zooms. But there are still very few exceptions

franchasng:
every woman desire a financially buoyant man whether she has her own money or not, whether her parents are rich or not, a financially buoyant guy is their heart desire.

Have u ever wondered why Linda Ikeji fell cheapily for Sholaye Jeremy Because she was excited she finally caught a billionaire guy to love, u think she didn't have broke and average guys asking her out for years Think again sis

She maybe rich herself or from rich family but no woman desires to date or marry a broke man. She may not be demanding money from the guy, but women just love the power and comfort money gives to their man, so all women love money and its not bad, so stop denying the obvious

A girl may turn down a financial buoyant guy out of fear of being used and dumped by the guy and then accept a broke guy with good prospect with the hope that the guy will become financially buoyant in future and by then he won't take her for granted or say she came for his money since she started with him while he was struggling but in all, her hope is that the guy will still make it big financially in the future and if she waits for some years and no improvement, majority of ladies in such scenario will start to lower their love for the guy and will most likely follow another guy with better financial prospect.

It is only fear of being used and dumped that make some ladies to pretend like they don't desire a financially buoyant guy, but deep down their heart, their secret prayer is to meet a financially capable guy that will cherish them

I hate it when ladies pretend not to love what they love. Guys love physically attractive ladies with big bombom and standing breast and they don't pretend or lie about it, so ladies must learn to stand their ground and damn the consequences, no need trying to act different cos even if u do, every man all over the world know that women love power and money gives a man power.

If you doubt me, go and watch "Scarface" by Al Pacino. You can google it, download and watch and learn

mhiztaexpensive:
Lol! I can relate. I always advice young guys that they should hustle before going into a relationship. To me, relationship for a hustling young man is a total distraction.

mhiztaexpensive:
Lol! I can relate. I always advice young guys that they should hustle before going into a relationship. To me, relationship for a hustling young man is a total distraction.

Mofetoluwa6:
you look good by the way, do you have a girlfriend? can I send you a pm ?

mhiztaexpensive:
Lol!