Elxandre:
I'm not understanding bro. It's not like you can date everyone you meet on the way.

Don't mind these guys.

Noted

Electricboy:
am tired ...I was actually in d friendzone b4...but now I have been brother zoned..I don't know wat to do...any suggestions??

Damn!!! ery soon she'l come to ask you hu to date amongst her two boyfriends.

SweetBuns:
ONCE YOU'RE IN THE FRIEND ZONE, YOU CAN NEVER GET OUT. THATS THE BITTER TRUTH

hmm friendzoner.

Show her love that will make her legs quiver. That can be a nice meal, hangout, shopping etc.

Then leave her alone. Make sure you don't contact her. If she tries to contact you, take long to reply. Don't show any interest. Make your replies brief and cliffhanging.

During that period, her brain will reformat and she'll be all over you and yearning for your kok

These ladies are bunch of confused beings who don't know what they want.

Daeylar:
Can't guys be friends with ladies without complaining about being in a friendzone?

No food, No friend.

all for one smelling pisssyyy

Lol can't people of the opposite sex be friends.. N what's with the fuss about friendzoning? If you are to date somebody, is friendship not part of the process? How do you date someone you don't know or understand?
But NO!!
Girls will use being friends as an opportunity to manipulate here and guys will use being friends to try to make a desperate move always here in Nigeria...
Apparently dating here in Nigeria is just fornication and one night stands in disguise.. smh

SweetBuns:
ONCE YOU'RE IN THE FRIEND ZONE, YOU CAN NEVER GET OUT. THATS THE BITTER TRUTH

Which bitter truth?
You can walk away and get an amazing individual who values you. Our world doesn't revolve around one person. That is why we have people in excess especially women.

NICE ONE

MariaLavina:
Nigerian guys and pussy!

So a guy can not be friends with a lady again?


Nawa o

Can you be my "friend" without request or demands relating to money?
F**k the hell out of here!!

SweetBuns:
ONCE YOU'RE IN THE FRIEND ZONE, YOU CAN NEVER GET OUT. THATS THE BITTER TRUTH

lies!!!!


how to leave the friend zone is by asking her best friend out and showering that friend with love


the Friend zone is for losers who decide to stay in a sinking ship when there are cruise boats around him

Hungry girl. It is always about the money and comfort for them. And they feel they are doing you a favour because they have a smelly hole between their legs. Ask this one what she’s bringing to the table. Nothing. Not different from the ‘poor’ guys she despise.

pocohantas:
I don't get this fuss about FZ. Why are guys always the one crying? Must you date every lady? Considering say na una judge pass.

I am looking for who will FZ me sef. A comfortable guy, not all these broke ones that will be telling me their problems and blaming Buhari for every. Correct guy wey get sense, come get money, na there friendship dey sweet.

MariaLavina:
Nigerian guys and pussy!

So a guy can not be friends with a lady again?


Nawa o

you these ladies are getting it wrong.
I can be friends with a lady without any feelings. That's not friendzoning.

But if I love this girl, but she fails to see it and sees me as just a friend, that's friendzoning.

Don't get it twisted.

When baba said "delete all the pictures you downloaded from her Facebook" that one got me, but I'm that type of guy that requests beautiful pictures of my female friends just for memory sake. I sure can click outta friend zone anytime but most of y'all don't get the advantage of being friend zoned, you don't spend much and you can actually get your way just like the main guy (it's all about techniques) don't get it twisted.

Lovely read anyways, Merry Christmas y'all!

SweetBuns:
ONCE YOU'RE IN THE FRIEND ZONE, YOU CAN NEVER GET OUT. THATS THE BITTER TRUTH

Just wanna believed isn't from ur heart. Try me nd see wonders

Rilwayne001:
Nice thread. Time to gather as much babe as I can. No more wasting time with one idiot.

I tell you bro. One idiot who is feeling like a god. I was once in that state. Some girls can be very heartless.

noob03saibot:
I tell you bro. One idiot who is feeling like a god. I was once in that state. Some girls can be very heartless.

Very very. To minimize your risk, gather as much as you can.

MariaLavina:
Nigerian guys and pussy!

So a guy can not be friends with a lady again?


Nawa o

When you actually don't want to be just a friend with her, it's wrong sticking around under the umbrella of "just friends" with her...

You will come across as being manipulative.

State ur intention(s) from the outset, if she don't feel the same, it will be foolish of u trying to convince her to feel what she will never feel for you..
Cut ur losses and move on..

why wasting all these English when u can do it in just a sentence like.
Hey, I know u sees me as a friend but what I am feeling for u is now love, I love u and I realized you are the girl of my dream.

niggi4life:
There are different types of guys!
Some guys really enjoy and endure the chase.

Some guys don't have much time to be ignored

I once dated a girl way back in d uni.. She actually kept me in that friend zone.. We were in d same Dept in uni, so once it's exam period she draws closer to me( i was driving a honda EOD back then and for OSU way back during exam period bus dey scarce..

I will drive to her crib, pick her and her friends up and drive down to mini campus.

After exams i will go and drop her back in her crib and head up to PS(permanent site at Ago to go and pick my babe. I was like her slave then but not even a hug from this babe.
When we finished school and i enter Canada, this babe begin dey show love ooo...when i got back from Canada to spend some days with my siblings i ran into her... Lodged at one hotel and invited her....... I straff dis babe like there's no tomorrow... Bottom line of d gist... Never try and tame a guy(keeping a FZ) cos every guy u see has an animal instincts within

I hope you didn't give any extra favors to the she-goat besifes straffing her?

john650:

Any woman who friends zones you or brother zones you was never meant for you. Oftentimes, they are women with character and personality flaws. They are only attracted to men who are mysterious or make life a bit challenging for them and they struggle to understand the man. A man is often mysterious because he is trying to hide something, like he is married but claims to be single or doesn't have the money he flaunts. That is why playboys tend to be more succesful attracting women. A playboy gives out just enough information to keep a woman on the hook, but not all information because he would loose her if she knew everything about him.

You cannot be somebody else to attract a woman who likes you. Eventually your true character will come out and she will friend zone you anyway.

It is best to be yourself right at the very beginning. It is true you do not have to stalk her to show your feelings towards her. That will turn most women off. You need to show maturity and that comes with age or experience. A twenty year old is more likely to be friend zoned because of anxiety to please a girl because they have not had enough exposure.

The best piece of the year. Extra ssmooth comment.


Nice one bro

PotatoSalad:
Show her love that will make her legs quiver. That can be a nice meal, hangout, shopping etc.

Then leave her alone. Make sure you don't contact her. If she tries to contact you, take long to reply. Don't show any interest. Make your replies brief and cliffhanging.

During that period, her brain will reformat and she'll be all over you and yearning for your kok

These ladies are bunch of confused beings who don't know what they want.

Sharp brov

RTSC:
Have you ever noticed that ladies don't friend zone rich guys,.

.


Some ladies do...

MGab25:
Being in the friend zone means you've screwed up, probably right from the beginning or just along the line. It really hurts and might go the extra mile to give you sleepless nights that you wonder why exactly you've gone wrong — while still going wrong.

In the friend zone, she’s feeling absolutely no attraction for you and she’s thinking of you only as a friend and NOTHING MORE.
It's widely believed that once you get yourself in that hell hole called friend zone, you're forever in the friend zone and that nothing you do can get you away from there.

This sucks but I know where you’re at and how you’re feeling about it; I'm here not just to prove you wrong but to also help you get yourself out of there.

Trying to talk your way out of the friend zone, attempting to convince her of what a great guy you are, why you’re better than that “jerk” she likes, and what a big mistake she’s making by not seeing how “good” of a guy you are is something that won’t work and won’t get you anywhere closer to dating her.

The phrase “actions speak louder than words” comes into play big time when you’re trapped in the friend zone because your ACTIONS are what put you in the friend zone in the first place.

This part one of the ways to get the hell out of that shit hole called "friend zone", seem to have in common (behaviorally speaking) how you can change your behaviour towards that girl so as to leave that dark and lonely room.

1. Accept That You’re In the Friend Zone – Don’t Lie To Yourself

– Accept the reality of the situation.
– Accept that YOUR ACTIONS put you there.
– Accept that you won’t EVER escape the friend zone unless you change your thinking, actions, and habits.
– Accept that, for one reason or another, she doesn’t want the type of guy you’re being and something about it doesn’t make her “feel” attraction for you.
– Accept that the only way you’ll ever escape the friend zone is to change your thoughts, behavior, and habits around her and all other women.
– The problem isn’t women and that they don’t appreciate a “great” guy like you.
– The problem isn’t the other guys who are “jerks” and “bad boys"
– The problem isn’t that the world doesn’t work the way it’s “supposed to”.

In any situation, acceptance is the first step to overcoming that situation.

2. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
She doesn’t want a guy who has a “poor me” attitude and she’s definitely not going to let you out of the friend zone because she feels sorry for you.

– Don’t feel sorry for yourself.
– Don’t be mad at yourself.
– Don’t feel like you’re a loser.
– Don’t feel like women will never like you as more than a friend.

You’ll only make your mental state worse and getting out of the friend zone will become that much harder.
So when you accept where you’re at, just tell yourself, “Ok it’s cool. I’m not upset and I’m not going to beat myself up. I got myself into this and I’ll get myself out of it.”


3. Stop obsessing over her
If she’s on your mind the second you wake up, every minute of every hour of every day, and you’re constantly staring at her pictures on Facebook, it’s too much.
It’s kind of creepy and, over time, not healthy.

– Get a life and become so busy that the last thing you have time for is to think about her.
– Get rid of her photos from the “downloads” section of your phone that you stole off of Facebook.
– Stop stalking her on Facebook to see what she’s doing, where she’s at, what she’s posted, or who she’s talking to.
– Stop talking about her and asking about her when you’re around mutual friends.


4. Reduce the frequency at which you call her
If you want the level of attraction she feels for you to change drastically, you have to stop calling and texting so much.

You have to give her a break.
You have to chill out.
She’s not going anywhere.
You’re not going to die if you don’t talk to her for a while.
She’s not going to be worried sick that something happened to you.
You need to create what I’ve heard Frank Kern call a “pattern interrupt”.
If the pattern is that you call and text every damn day, you need to interrupt the pattern by not calling and texting her every day.
You need to interrupt the pattern of her only seeing you as a friend by disappearing and making her go, “Whoa. Where did he go? I haven’t heard a peep from him for a week.”

Not calling and texting so much will GET HER ATTENTION and interrupt that pattern she has of you in her mind.
When you catch her attention, she’s now paying attention to you more than she normally does.


5. Become More of A Challenge – Make Her Work For It
She’s automatically going to throw you in the friend zone when you’re WAY too easy.
She doesn’t want way too easy.
She doesn’t want you to lay down and say, “I’m all yours! Come and get it!”
It’s not worth her time if it’s not a challenge for her.


Have you ever noticed that she seems to be way more interested in the guys who talk to other women, have a girlfriend, or even a WIFE way more than a guy who’s throwing himself at her?
You ever notice she’s way more interested in the guy who has more female options and won’t settle for just any woman?

Well, that's because women are VERY competitive by nature.
They want the guy that all the other women want.
They want the guy who won’t just let her have him so easily.
You think women put on all that make-up and dress real sexy when they go out only for the guys?

They’re also doing it so no other “bitches” look better than them. Don’t believe me? Ask a very attractive woman who gets a lot of male attention. Women want to win and they don’t want other “bitches” getting what they can’t have.

So when you stop calling and texting so much, that’s your first step to becoming harder to get.
That’s showing her you’re no longer “in her back pocket” and you’re not so easy anymore.


6. Become more unpredictable
Telling her your life story IS NOT what makes her feel attraction for you.

– It’s not what makes her think you’re an amazing man.
– It’s not what makes her want to hop in bed with you.
– It’s not what makes her want you as “more than a friend”.

Telling her your life story takes all of the mystery, excitement, and wonder out of the equation and just leaves her with you – a guy who told her everything there is to know and now she’s bored.
Think about what makes someone so fun, exciting, and cool when you meet them and makes you want to hang out with them all of the time – it’s because you’re getting to know them!

If they told you everything there is to know within the first day of meeting them, you wouldn’t be as excited anymore to hang out with them and you probably wouldn’t have as much fun with them.

When you’re not mysterious, she’ll find you boring, dull, unexciting, she’ll have nothing left to “wonder” about, and she’ll automatically stick you in the friend zone.
SHE WANTS the fun and excitement of not knowing everything about you.
So stop opening your mouth about the details of your life.

Logical thinking convinces you that the less she knows about you, the less she’ll want to hang around you but the opposite is actually true.
The less she knows, the more “fun” she’ll have getting to know you.


7. Give a room to miss you
So when you disappear for a while and you quit calling and texting so much, you are giving her the opportunity to miss you, think about you, and wonder about you.
You’re interrupting the pattern in her mind and she’s feeling a void in her life because your behavior is changing.
Her mind switches from what she was doing to “What happened to...?”
And before you know it, she’s missing you and wants to talk to you to know how you’re doing, what you’re doing, and who you’re doing it with.
Women are very curious by nature and you must use her curiosity to your advantage in order to start pulling yourself out of that friend zone. You must stand out by being absent.


To be continued...


READ MORE HERE:https://www.yugo.com.ng/2018/10/calculated-ways-to-leave-friend-zone.html

Ladies could also be friend-zoned too

oga op let not this female matter follow u enter 2019 o. Am counting my money I can't hear u

pocohantas:
I don't get this fuss about FZ. Why are guys always the one crying? Must you date every lady? Considering say na una judge pass.

I am looking for who will FZ me sef. A comfortable guy, not all these broke ones that will be telling me their problems and blaming Buhari for every. Correct guy wey get sense, come get money, na there friendship dey sweet.

una women no dey get money? Na only man go dey give una? Lazy naija girls wey no dey spend on themselves unless man give dem. Abeg park one side

jonath0012:
I learnt the secret of avoiding friendzoneship about 7 years ago... Oh God, thank you for the insight.

There is no way a girl can friendzone me again. I solely determine if a girl is worth to be with me or not. It is a secret that took me many years to learn..

If you wanna learnt, contact me. Of course it is not free.

go and eat it.

There are not steps to getting out of the Friend Zone. Just walk away. Simple. !!
Alot of fvcktards here think they can achieve this by taking steps. U dont take steps fool, u walk AWAY from d Zone..!!!!