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|I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 12:22am On Dec 25, 2018|
Having the knowledge about the act and sin called masturbation is the worst thing that has ever happened to me and I regret having the knowledge. I regret even meeting the person that introduced me to the act. twas in my secondary School days, I had a friend. he introduced me to the act and since then I have not been living a normal life. Am down as I want to serve God but it's drawing me back. I wish I had the power to stop this. I also wish I could see that my friend again- I would give him a beating of his life.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 5:42pm On Dec 26, 2018|
My prayers to God is my freedom from this sin. The mighty has fallen because of this sin.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 8:43pm On Dec 26, 2018|
Mikefrik:If you want to be free from any satanic hold, then don't hate, Love.
Ask Jesus by His spirit to help you. Don't be daunted if you don't overcome immediately. Even if you keep doing it, hate it. loath it, despise it, don't keep praying foe grace to win.
Note, you'd stop, but will find yourself falling sometimes, you hate yourself or the Master, hate the act.
Get busy, don't keep wrong companies of people who talk sex all the time, that's the sin of Obscenity. Don't watch porn. Don't watch films with strong sexual scenes.
Read the Word of God always. Pray always. When the urge comes, quickly ask the Holy Ghost for help.
It gets bad, before it gets better.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Nobody: 9:13pm On Dec 26, 2018|
You don't seem ready to even be free from such an act.
For how could you reconcile the desire for such freedom, with yet blaming someone else for your own mistake.
That's certainly the wrong way to go about seeking freedom from God for if you have not yet taken full responsibility for your such actions, then you have not even started.
So that's the first step you take, take full responsibility of your wrong first before God, and then you can now ask Him to help you.
And also study the teachings of Jesus, and build your spirit up with prayer and fastings so that it would give it more power over your flesh and enable you to obey His Words and not fall into temptations and sin.
But as I said first drop that idea of beating up whomever, and assume full responsibility for your mistakes, because unless you do that you have not proven that you really want God's deliverance.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by TheOdd1sOut: 10:24pm On Dec 26, 2018|
Mikefrik:You don't know how to control it. I have been doing it for 4 years and my life is going fine
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 11:57pm On Dec 26, 2018|
@jesusjnr. firstly I want to reply your comment before Ana's, you don't know how I feel, so why do you care. listen what you just did now is judgemental
And how you take know say I no wan free from the act? hm? he dey sweet? Even u urself that is talking, are you free from it before coming here and start saying what you don't know? I think it would be wise if you start keeping your comments to urself, as they are useless. Yes I just said useless. And before I forget, I sense pride in your comments.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 12:06am On Dec 27, 2018|
jesusjnr:And who are you to tell me I have not started because I said I want to beat the person that lure me to the act. Why are people being so hypocritical and judgemental. if you were me I bet you would wish more. Secondly let me let me lecture you a bit on this fasting and praying of a thing, because you certainly lack knowledge and probably also lacking experience in that area. The main reason people fast is to crush or diminish the desires of the flesh so that our spirit can become more powerful and sensitive to the things of the spirit. Many people fast for marital, financial, divine intervention..... just to name a few
Fasting does not make you overcome sin. the only power fasting does is to subdue sin for a timed period, as you would always go back to sin. If fasting and praying was the way to be free, then does it mean everyone has to be starving and probably have ulcer? Even Christ Jesus said "watch and pray that you enter not into temptation" did he say after praying we would not enter into temptation? No amount of prayers can stop you from committing sin. The only remedy to sin is THE WORD OF GOD coupled with THE SPIRIT OF GOD.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 12:31am On Dec 27, 2018|
@jesusjnr. so before you speak do your research. Dis ur name sounds weird. how can you call your self Jesus junior? well I rest my case. Thank you.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 12:33am On Dec 27, 2018|
@Anas09. i recognize you from the thread - (seeing demons, angels, fallen angels,,,,,,,, ). I want to appreciate your write ups. thank you so much. I would try them out. You are a true woman of God.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Nobody: 12:42am On Dec 27, 2018|
Mikefrik:See the truth may not sound so friendly and may seem judgmental, but it is only the truth that can set you free.
I hardly say such things without being sure of what I'm talking about.
What you said about beating up the guy is similar to what Adam said to God about Eve when God asked him if he had eaten of the tree that he had commanded him not to eat of.
But imagine that instead of Adam putting the blame on the woman that gave him the fruit, said to God "I have sinned" as David had done, don't you think that God may have at least reduced the consequence of his sin as He did that of David?
Whoever it is that led you to that way of life has his own case to answer before God, just as Eve did, why not face your own and leave him with God, or better still forgive him and ask God to forgive him and do not lay the sin to his charge?
Remember what Jesus said about forgiveness, so if you do not forgive someone that has done something wrong to you, how do you expect God to even give you His ears?
I never judged you because of your mistake, but because you were judging someone else for your mistake.
If it sounds arrogant of me, then forgive me for genuinely trying to help you out.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Nobody: 5:24am On Dec 27, 2018|
Mikefrik:Well you know what you mean by "research" but if you like to know my reason for the username is because Jesus is my master and I would usually sound like Him in my speech because I'm a product of His Words.
I don't think that if Jesus were here you would like Him either because what I told you is the same thing He would tell you, like "forgive" instead of trying to beat up someone for his trespasses against you.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 8:47am On Dec 27, 2018|
Mikefrik:My brother. Thank you so much for your kind words.
And, if life has rumbled you the way it has me, you'd know to run and take cover under Jesus.
Listen, you just did something here that is a mystery. I'm not sure you even know the power behind what you just did here. To come out and say 'I am sinning'. Wow. Satan wants us to be shy abt sins. he makes it seem like, people will ridicule you if you say it. Hide it, just keep it secret, you are not the only one doing it.
See,Satan hates to be exposed, and your greatest victory over him begins from your boldness to confess your sins. When you sin, say it. It paralizes satan and makes you strong enough to resist it next time.
Satan knows that if i fall into formication today, i will confess it, not only to Jesus, but to someone i have picked out to hold me accountable for how i live.
I told this person to stand for me and rebuke me hotly if i falter. Don't spare me. And, when i fall, i go over and say 'Hey, i have fallen o, see what i did', and She will analyze the situation from the Word, rebuke me, and then counsel and pray with me.
Let me tell you what happened recently. There's this big shot Lawyer. A Lawyer to politicians. He is loaded.
We met through a friend, and he wanted a piece of me. I respectfully put Christ in front of me. Christ has got me wholely. I told him that i am a living sacrifice to Christ so, i can't crawl off the alter. He tried, but when i kept preaching anytime he brought it up, he stopped. We became just friends.
No long ago, i just called to greet, but OHhhh, he wanted to see me. So, i went to his office. I know that if i asked for anything, he'd gladly give, so i asked for money. As i expected, he said, 'How soon do you need this?' i said 'Now'. He asked 'Why the urgency? Is everything alright?' and i lied. I didn't even think it tru. I just said, 'my Mum is in the Hospital and i needed to go see her'. And, he was all apologetic why he couldn't give me the money immediately. He gave me money tho, but asked if i could wait for 2 days before i could travel, i said ok. He said he'd come over to my house on the said that day. I said ok.
The Holy Spirit was just waiting for me to leave his office, and as i did, i heard Him clearly. 'You have gone to lie, is your Mum sick?'. Immediately, my peace left me. I became very restless and uncomfortable. All the way back home, i was shattered. Was that money worth putting sickness on my mum? If satan puts sickness on my mum, wld that amount really pay her hospital bills?
He is a man, he has desired you for how long now? He is coming to your house. You know what that means right? You'd collect his money and tell him what when he demands a kiss? You'll begin a spiral of lies to keep him from touching you, or you'd give in? You are Sister Ana. Do you remember how hard it is to recover from the sin of fornication? And, for how much? Ahhhhh.
What do i really need this money for to make me lie and deceive this man and put myself in this position?
A thousand questions invaded my mind. I got home and called my friend and said, 'I have sinned'. She laughed and asked what i did. I told her i lied to get money from a man. She asked if i have the money, i said not yet, but i know he'd give it. And he'd come to my house too.
She told me the danger of deception, and that i had exposed my mum to a satanic attack. I shd ask for forgiveness and never collect the money.
I said i was going to call him to confess that i lied. She told me the adverse effect that could cause to him. He is an unbeliever and does not understand restitution. What we shd do is pray for his soul, bring him in and not expose him to things which will cast doubt in his mind thereby make him distrust believers more. Leave him alone.
'Just don't collect the money and dont call him again', she said. So, i prayed, confessed again to Jesus. I asked Him to please make that man not to send the money and not even mention it again as i will not.
It happened as i asked, till today, he didn't send, he didn't come, and never mentioned it. I have deleted his number.
Don't play with sin, it burns. Jesus says 'flee from it's appearance'. Anything that resembles sin, run from it. No do area boy for where sin dey o. It's so subtle, you'll fall before you know it.
May Christ give you victory over your flesh. Amen.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 10:51am On Dec 27, 2018|
Anas09:Wetin person never read for this forum?
So you dey lie to collect money.
I don catch you sister Mary.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 6:50pm On Dec 27, 2018|
Ranchhoddas:Hahahahahahahaha. You no well oo.
For where me and you meet wey i tell you say i be sister Mary?
I am just like anyone else, a sinner saved by grace. One thing i don't do is justify my sins. I throw them right out.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 8:52am On Dec 28, 2018|
@Anas09. it's very true what you said about exposing sin. one thing I have come to understand while trying to overcome sin is the power in exposing it. That time that you keep quiet after committing the sin, it's as if you are telling sin to come back the next day. Few people knows the power in exposing sin.it actually means you mean war against it.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Mikefrik(m): 9:02am On Dec 28, 2018|
Anas09:please I don't understand what you mean. could you please explain how hard it is to recover from fornication?
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by jimiobanta(m): 9:23am On Dec 28, 2018|
Good day to you and the grace of God be multiplied unto you. it is a good thing you hate masturbation and want deliverance from it. That in itself is the foundation for deliverance to occur.
I wrote a topic on "comprehensive deliverance for the homosexual " The prayers there with a little substitution on your part, you will find quite effective for your case. Pls believe it'll work and you will testify. Every where you see homosexual in the prayers substitute with masturbation. God bless you.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by MuttleyLaff: 9:44am On Dec 28, 2018|
jimiobanta:Masturbation, in itself or just on its own, is not a sin, please do not be deceived
I will shed light a bit to highlight why, how, when and what makes masturbation turn into a sin originally known as missing God's mark or standard
1/ To masturbate is not unnatural.
At least animals of varied sizes, shapes and species masturbate just as human beings do
2/ If masturbation is anyone's thing to do, then if not done in moderation, it's liable to turn into a sin
3/ Masturbating over pictures, images, physiques of opposite sexes that arent your spouse is wrong & obviously missing God's mark or standard
4/ Having no control over the desire or attraction to masturbation is weakness, and this shows another sign of missing God's mark or standard
5/ Masturbation can be done for good purposes or objectives, so it'll be naive to state the opposite cant be done too
6/ The bible doesnt have any verse expressing disapproval of masturbation.
7/ Sometimes to masturbate, is a necessity of life, especially when caught up in a confusing and difficult problem, like for example fertility.
8/ Married people, talking of spouses here obviously, sometimes masturbate themselves or each other, to kick-start themselves for the groove
9/ There is a time and place for everything, masturbation is not an exception to this axiom
10/ It is not masturbation you need to pour your energy to hate. It is you.
It is yourself you should hate for missing God's mark & standard through abusing and misusing the gift of masturbation
Education, education, education. Informed knowledge breaks the chains of mental slavery
This is just a bit and not an exhaustive list so please don't hesitate reach out for discussions if you need more to get off what might be an unnecessary guilty trip
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 9:58am On Dec 28, 2018|
Mikefrik:First off, do you understand what the Bible means by "Christ is the Bridegroom therefore the Husband of the Church, and the Church is the Bride there the wife of Christ?"
Bros each an everyone of us is a church individually, therefore the Bride of Christ. Both in the Old and New testament, YHWH, who is also Jesus, keeps referring to us as his wife and Him a husband. A relationship.
We are in a marriage bro. Our first Spouse is God, before any human around you. If you commit fornication, you have cheated on Him. Jesus does not share. He loves you too much.
If the Holy Spirit lives in you, there's a world you'd live in that you won't be able to put to words to explain to anyone else. If you learn how to have Him as your friend, elder brother, protector a close confident, believe me, you'd never trade Him for all the money or any kind of pleasure on earth. The Joy that encapsulates you. But, if you allow your flesh to get the better of you and you commit fornication, you have cheated on Him and he is very Jealous.
Sex is soooooo spiritual that most of us don't know anything abt. When you lie, steal, kill, whatever, you commit one sin, but when you commit sexual sin, you commit two sins at once. Against yourself and God.
It is far easier to recover from and be restored when you commit these other sins, but try sex, you fall deep down into hell. Becos you grief the Lord who is your first love.
Do you know why satan makes man bastardize sex? Oh Lord, if only Man knows how powerful he makes satan over him when he commits sexual sins.
Let me recommend a book 'True Christianity', by Emmanuel Swedenborg, he explains fornication so well.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 10:01am On Dec 28, 2018|
Mikefrik:Exactly. You declare war against the spirits which are unseen, but subtly lure you into sin.
I say it again, if i get careless and fall into any kind of sin, i will confess it. There's freedom in confession.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 10:10am On Dec 28, 2018|
Anas09:I came across this name yesterday for the first time and now I'm seeing it again. Happens to me all the time. I'll see something new and then start seeing it everywhere I turn.
Anyway, your exegeses always sound like ramblings of someone in her own universe.
God grieves when people fornicate or engage in anything you consider sexual sin. He must be grieving every minute.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by MuttleyLaff: 10:39am On Dec 28, 2018|
Ranchhoddas:Welcome to the world of Swedenborgianism my dear friend
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by LordReed(m): 11:10am On Dec 28, 2018|
Religion just destroys things for no good reason. Why can someone not be comfortable with their own sexuality and body? OP there is nothing wrong with you.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 11:13am On Dec 28, 2018|
Ranchhoddas:Yes, God grieves every second for the consequences that'll come on man for his sins.
You'll understand some day soon, when your breath ceases.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 11:29am On Dec 28, 2018|
Anas09:How come you understand it now when your breath has not ceased?
Do you know something I don't?
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 11:30am On Dec 28, 2018|
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by tintingz(m): 11:49am On Dec 28, 2018|
Mikefrik:Even if you're not introduced to the act, there is very high chance you will still do it. Study shows over 95% men and teenage boys masturbate, in fact a psychologist will be more concern if you have never masturbated before.
There is actually no serious health risk in masturbation, there is a consensual scientific agreement that it's normal and natural, the only problem with masturbation is compulsive disorder(addiction).
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Jeromejnr(m): 11:53am On Dec 28, 2018|
This guy with his doctrine of demons again.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Anas09: 11:58am On Dec 28, 2018|
Ranchhoddas:You won't understand even if i told you, so, chill.
It won't be long again and you shall understand better by and by. A hundred years cannot be counted for a moment before Jesus.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Deckline(m): 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2018|
Sin needs a vessel to spread its venom.
That friend was the vessel the devil used to pass that sin of masturbation to you.
I was also a victim in my secondary school. This dude told me to use soap.
Nairaland introduced vaseline thank God i have been delivered before i got to know.
I had to pray and fast and I can proudly say i am no more addicted to them anymore.
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Ranchhoddas: 12:25pm On Dec 28, 2018|
|Re: I regret knowing masturbation by Fash20: 12:27pm On Dec 28, 2018|
Baba don w.a.nk tire.
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