This got sent to a relationship Community on Instagram Called Relationship and Life (RAL)

She wrote:

"RAL for 4 years of dating my boyfriend, I have been the one taking care of him, I cook, clean , Bleep and still provide money for him because his business folded up .
At some point I got tired but he kept asking me to be patient with him .

I noticed he changed in his attitude, he started talking less and became too calm , so I went searching his phone and found shocker .
I boyfriend has over 19 million naira in his account and I saw different debit alert to different people. I was so shocked to the bones but kept quite and was waiting for him to wake up.

I started searching the house I found an engagement ring, out of curiosity I wore the ring and it was bigger than my finger , more like times 3 my finger so it was definitely not mine .

So when he woke up I asked him and he went on his knees to tell me that he is sorry that he can’t marry me, he has to let me go, I asked why and he said I love him too much .

RAL I still did not understand until he packed him things to leave this evening and I refused, fought him and broke his head before he ran out.

RAL I am dying I need advise. How can this guy leave me now, he has 19 million in his account and made me suffer alone to take care of him, not even house rent or food did he contribute one kobo.

What could I have done ? If he actually has another woman I will kill him and kill myself.2"

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We send you?? Lol, Ndo eh

It's a pity....he Don read u taytay say u no fit add value to him like be that ... No be only fvck, cook guy dey expect from their babes oo... If the babe is not intellectually sound na oyo she dey...... I just dey pity does babe wey load for yansh wey no get something for head...na chop and clean mouth guys go dey use dem do for life.... . Until I hear from the guy I can't blame him cos am not sure if the lady is only trying to paint him bad....if this happen to be true, that means there must be a reason for all this, which we can't hear from the guy. Only God knows sha..

habsydiamond:
It's a pity....he Don read u taytay say u no fit add value to him like be that ... No be only fvck, cook guy dey expect from their babes oo... If the babe is not intellectually sound na oyo she dey...... I just dey pity does babe wey load for yansh wey no get something for head...na chop and clean mouth guys go dey use dem do for life....

why are guys so confused like this? Do you guys want a girl who is down for you or not? This is why girls are now becoming woke and not doing anything for their man.

It is obvious this girl is a pick me chick. This pick me culture is doing a lot of damage to women,men and the community. Boyfriends do not deserve husband privileges such as cooking, cleaning, loyalty and sex.

Things like this is why girls now go to the highest bidder and leave you for your friend.@sammysmoothfresh

As for the guy,let your conscience be the judge of his character. I won't say what is already obvious.

If you know this girl please bring her to a mental hospital straight away this is how psychosis starts. There is a high chance she will make good on her threat.

habsydiamond:
It's a pity....he Don read u taytay say u no fit add value to him like be that ... No be only fvck, cook guy dey expect from their babes oo... If the babe is not intellectually sound na oyo she dey...... I just dey pity does babe wey load for yansh wey no get something for head...na chop and clean mouth guys go dey use dem do for life....

What are you talking about? The girl provided for him, that already makes him less of a man. Whatelse should she have done? Bought a _dildo and fvcked his ass?

Some guys are the architects of their problems. Tomorrow when he starts getting the rewards of what he did he'll start blaming the devil that was sleeping when he did what he did.

Story For the gods

So when he woke up I asked him and he went on his knees......... to tell me that he is sorry that he can’t marry me,
Lwkm! boy why?

Kidaholic:
So when he woke up I asked him and he went on his knees.........
to tell me that he is sorry that he can’t marry me,

Lwkm! boy why?

Lmaoo

Admin401:


What are you talking about? The girl provided for him, that already makes him less of a man. Whatelse should she have done? Bought a _dildo and fvcked his ass?

that's why it's good to hear both sides b4 judging this kind of thing....I shouldn't have defended him......only God knows who is to blame here

am just angry

Wickedness in the highest order.

habsydiamond:
It's a pity....he Don read u taytay say u no fit add value to him like be that ... No be only fvck, cook guy dey expect from their babes oo... If the babe is not intellectually sound na oyo she dey...... I just dey pity does babe wey load for yansh wey no get something for head...na chop and clean mouth guys go dey use dem do for life....

Let's stop making it seem as if all men are beasts. We are destroying the institution of marriage with that. How dare you take sides with the guy based on what we have been told?
This lady took care of him financially. Now, how dare you insinuate she has little to contribute. Why did the guy keep her all these years?

Welcum:


Let's stop making it seem as if all men are beasts. We are destroying the institution of marriage with that. How dare you take sides with the guy based on what we have been told?
This lady took care of him financially. Now, how dare you insinuate she has little to contribute. Why did the guy keep her all these years?

my bad for taking sides but am saying now that it's not even fair to take the ladies side simply because we did not here from the guy...do u know if the lady is trying to paint the guy as the bad one here... Only God knows what went wrong...

Doofus! You suffered on this earth and wish to continue in heaven. Na you know for yourself.

chiommy123:
Some guys are the architects of their problems. Tomorrow when he starts getting the rewards of what he did he'll start blaming the devil that was sleeping when he did what he did.

Don't mind these teenage boys here who are typing trash just because they can access the internet. If what we are told is true, I already see the guy in big shit. If I were the lady, I won't even share in the coming punishment by contemplating revenge. She can find a better man who will love her instead of this beast.

Big fat instagram lie from the pits of hades. Things can never get better since we keep lying on ig

habsydiamond:
my bad for taking sides but am saying now that it's not even fair to take the ladies side simply because we did not here from the guy...do u know if the lady is trying to paint the guy as the bad one here... Only God knows what went wrong...

Let us either talk based on what we are told, be neutral or keep mute. But, to tend to ridicule the lady just because she's a lady is what I'm thoroughly against.

hyfr:
Big fat instagram lie from the pits of hades. Things can never get better since we keep lying on ig

I hope so.

Welcum:

Let us either talk based on what we are told, be neutral or keep mute. But, to tend to ridicule the lady just because she's a lady is what I'm thoroughly against.

ok....but what if she's lying...

To me i see ladies as alienlike always getting the best, i f this situation happened to a man(mostly happens) it's normal. But i am so happy to see a lady in pain, the world is better off without them in it.


P/s don't think of killing him you will go to jail, just talk with his new gf and explain to her, planting the seed of doubt.

Ladies suckkkk.

Plus avoid premarital sex and spending for someone you are not married to. Live a christain relationship

Lightangel65:
To me i see ladies as alienlike always getting the best, i f this situation happened to a man(mostly happens) it's normal. But i am so happy to see a lady in pain, the world is better off without them in it.


P/s don't think of killing him you will go to jail, just talk with his new gf and explain to her, planting the seed of doubt.

Ladies suckkkk.

Plus avoid premarital sex and spending for someone you are not married to. Live a christain relationship

hehehehehe....y d hate naa? ....these emotional tragedies goes both ways.... WOMEN ARE PROS IN DOING DIS SHITTT TOO ...if na guy,, we no go hear word again!!!!!!!

Welcum:

Don't mind these teenage boys here who are typing trash just because they can access the internet. If what we are told is true, I already see the guy in big shit. If I were the lady, I won't even share in the coming punishment by contemplating revenge. She can find a better man who will love her instead of this beast.

GTFOH

goodnewscliff:
hehehehehe....y d hate naa? ....these emotional tragedies goes both ways.... WOMEN ARE PROS IN DOING DIS SHITTT TOO ...if na guy,, we no go hear word again!!!!!!!

As in eh.
Some foolish feminists are here spewing thrash and some sissified pussy ass boys are supporting them

Lightangel65:
To me i see ladies as alienlike always getting the best, i f this situation happened to a man(mostly happens) it's normal. But i am so happy to see a lady in pain, the world is better off without them in it.


P/s don't think of killing him you will go to jail, just talk with his new gf and explain to her, planting the seed of doubt.

Ladies suckkkk.

Plus avoid premarital sex and spending for someone you are not married to. Live a christain relationship

Fact

Welcum:

Let us either talk based on what we are told, be neutral or keep mute. But, to tend to ridicule the lady just because she's a lady is what I'm thoroughly against.

4k u

habsydiamond:
ok....but what if she's lying...

She threatened to kill him and herself if she finds out he's with someone else. She wouldn't entertain an option of this sort if she hadn't done that much for him.

Jayhazard:

She threatened to kill him and herself if she finds out he's with someone else. She wouldn't entertain an option of this sort if she hadn't done that much for him.

what if she did not do all she mentioned, like cooking, helping him when he his business was down and all sort...I think she's trying to get on the right side of people, so that one can sympathize with her and condemn the guy.

chiommy123:
Some guys are the architects of their problems. Tomorrow when he starts getting the rewards of what he did he'll start blaming the devil that was sleeping when he did what he did.

PLEASE must every dating or friendship lead to marriage...?
Is there a written LAW that a man must marry the LADY he dates...??
Or a LADY must marry the man she dates...?

If no compatibility what else..??

habsydiamond:
what if she did not do all she mentioned, like cooking, helping him when he his business was down and all sort...I think she's trying to get on the right side of people, so that one can sympathize with her and condemn the guy.

Within the possibilities of these things happening anywhere, I don't think there's a good reason to doubt her narrative. As long as you don't know her personally, you don't have enough reasons to disprove her claims. Why do you think she'd want to do that to him though?

Jayhazard:

Within the possibilities of these things happening anywhere, I don't think there's a good reason to doubt her narrative. As long as you don't know her personally, you don't have enough reasons to disprove her claims. Why do you think she'd want to do that to him though?

anything is possible in this world of ours