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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by dayleke(m): 11:34am On Jan 14
You don't have a 5yr's old girlfriend na. You've got a girlfriend of 5yrs....lol
Ain't they d same?

Dude, nothing do you. Just try and work on yourself.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by originalKsp(m): 11:35am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

Get this book: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie.

You can find it on oceanofpdf.org
It contains insights into human relationships, don't joke with it, get the book and you would be grateful you did

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by JoanApril(f): 11:35am On Jan 14
This also happen to me, but the more i become matured I change. I think you should be patient and always ask why your partner or friends behave that way to you.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nduxx(m): 11:36am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
I want to be like you ooo

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Triangles1(m): 11:37am On Jan 14
Ogbeni relationship is not by force, everyday we read news on how couples kill them self's and some hang themselves, why white men value contract wedding just to avoid pains and jealousy, why baby mama is every where. If you know you're not the type that take shit just go on contract relationship bcs people like you can do and undo when love go sour. Relationship is not for everybody but overrated in Africa.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Pastev1(m): 11:38am On Jan 14
My brother, it's d spiritual dat controls physical! It's not normal as u rightly said, U might have prayed lots of prayers u know, but u need someone wit higher grace to conduct a deliverance on u. It's forces dat fight against ur relationship in life, n dis can make 2remain single in life time! seek for a good deliverance ministry for deliverance.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Niyi9002(m): 11:38am On Jan 14
You are just like me. It's because you've built a wall around your heart over time. It's good in some ways cos heartbreaks may not really affect you and you will find it easy to move on.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Sixaxis: 11:38am On Jan 14
Hoping for the best and still prepare for the worst..
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by deleo16(m): 11:38am On Jan 14
Learning nice topic
OP READ this book it help me too


https://www.amazon.com/Friendship-Crisis-Finding-Keeping-Friends/dp/1594861579

Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by sparog(m): 11:39am On Jan 14
MyGeneration:
Mine is even worst, if I meet a girl and go through the stress of wooing her and she finally agrees to date me, immediately I loose interest. I stop calling or picking up her calls and start avoiding her, even though we have not had sex. It's really demonic


I guess you are still very young cos I experienced the same thing when I was much younger
grin

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by MyGeneration(m): 11:39am On Jan 14
JoanApril:
This also happen to me, but the more i become matured I change. I think you should be patient and always ask why your partner or friends behave that way to you.
asking them is a sign of weakness they will think you can't do without them

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Daeylar(f): 11:40am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.




I'm confused.

How can you say you quit people easily when you kept a relationship for 5 years.
I'm sure through out the 5 years you were with her you've had multiple disagreements but you didn't give up on her easily or clear her memory from your head.




I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

grin grin
I can do this

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by nwanyionitsha: 11:40am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
You seem to have blocked your heart and emotions to protect yourself from getting hurt.
You need to pray and also work on your psychology.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Pancs(m): 11:41am On Jan 14
As a Christian ,just imagine if God gives up on you so easily. Who could survive. No human is perfect and unbearable.

Solution lies in you seeing yourself as the imperfect being and needs to be tolerated.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by peacebe1815: 11:41am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

Read books on relationship. I recommend you read 'How to win friends and influence people' by Dale Carnegie.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by aboyaji(m): 11:41am On Jan 14
So, there are people like me in this world? shocked

I thought I was a freak and abnormal earlier

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by MyGeneration(m): 11:41am On Jan 14
sparog:



I guess you are still very young cos I experienced the same thing when I was much younger
grin
i have passed 25 if that's young. I prefer the hit and move on with the only strings between us being u coming over only when I need u

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by MissRaine69(f): 11:41am On Jan 14
Resener21:

So you’re this intelligent

Check my signature to migrate
Not sure if that is an insult or a compliment or both!
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by truthsayer009(m): 11:41am On Jan 14
Florblu:
Well! Maybe I'm like you but not as bad as you're because I don't delete their numbers just that they may never hear from me again.

Do away with "all I need is God " and "I don't need anybody to survive" theology

In 2018, I made sure I came down from. my high horse because I believe PRIDE is a contributing factor to this disorder. I became consciously humble to people I meet(not to the extent of tolerating silly opinions though)


grin grin grin grin This is funny Lmao. Most women get matured in their late 20s. Then they realised they must have let some people go due to their immaturity. Maturity is diff from puberty, getting huge body figure, boobs & ass.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by rakumi(m): 11:42am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

Yours is better, me I don't even try...
The only consolation I have is, "No be me create Myself "..

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by sacramento1212: 11:43am On Jan 14
Pastev1:
My brother, it's d spiritual dat controls physical! It's not normal as u rightly said, U might have prayed lots of prayers u know, but u need someone wit higher grace to conduct a deliverance on u. It's forces dat fight against ur relationship in life, n dis can make 2remain single in life time! seek for a good deliverance ministry for deliverance.

Must everything be attributed to being spiritual? Prayer this and prayer that. Some issues that can just be addressed normally or by people that were in similar situations but later found ways of managing it will be considered spiritual.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by sparog(m): 11:43am On Jan 14
MyGeneration:
i have passed 25 if that's young. I prefer the hit and move on with the only strings between us being u coming over only when I need u


Haaaa grin

Bad guy

You wan chop clean mouth

Booty calls when u're in d mood
grin

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Okeycima: 11:44am On Jan 14
I have this character, it became more potent when I finished reading ROBERT GREEN's books.
I will say this comes with the making peace with the reality which states that all can fail apart from God and what you are determined to do, that's if you rely on somebody and secondly it makes you to be calm calculated and in check of you emotions.
Mine got so bad that my girl friend back in school was calling me a cold hearted beast because of some certain events and how I reacted to them.
The disadvantage is that sometimes you might be hasty in taking a decision and sometime you will need companionship you will see you really got no one to confide in.
But this attitude comes from have to understand that you possess a worth that you feel that the only people worth the hassle is people who put effort in making you a PRIOTY instead of an option

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by MrRichmond: 11:45am On Jan 14
Most human beings aren't worth the stress.

I feel the same way as u do op, but I'm trying hard to quit the bad habit of quitting on people.
What scares me is the fact that I am perfectly comfortable existing on my own without feeling lonely.

I don't think it is a problem, I think it is a power that only few people possess.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Newboss(m): 11:45am On Jan 14
JoanApril:
This also happen to me, but the more i become matured I change. I think you should be patient and always ask why your partner or friends behave that way to you.

You're one of the easiest persons to manipulate if you really do what you advised him to do grin.

I think I like your type too because I can manipulate you without feeling guilty, since you literarily ask people to manipulate you grin

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by peacebe1815: 11:45am On Jan 14
Read books on how to build relationship. I recommend you read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. Am sure you will improve after you are through with the book.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by etsuidris(m): 11:46am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

Something I want to learn....
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by abisco991(m): 11:47am On Jan 14
Pls you need to see this as challenge that you need to cater for in time before it may affect you seriously in the future.
You have to learn how to build relationship and learn how to cope with different kinds of people because no human being is perfect as a result of many factors like background, up bringing,level of exposure, education etc.
May I tell you the fact that ,this can even affect your marital life because you can never see any perfect woman in as much she is a human being.
You can follow this link to learn more on how to build relationship and always be positive in any situation.

http://abiodunodeyemi.com/healyourself/.
I wish you the best!
Abiodun Odeyemi.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by MissRaine69(f): 11:48am On Jan 14
Resener21:

So you’re this intelligent

Check my signature to migrate
Not sure if that is an insult or a compliment or both!
I don’t need to migrate, I am not particularly fond of Canadian winters.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by daben1(m): 11:48am On Jan 14
shege45:
lol almost same thing happens to me. If i chat a girl i just met and he reply isn’t cool. Instantly i del her number
nothing is wrong with this one Na, you want to feel you're disturbing her?
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Trustme2(m): 11:54am On Jan 14
Biglittlelois:
I am like you but B4 I forget people, I try to think of the value, benefits the person has impacted in my life, if there is none, I delete, relationships na another matter, once you're my ex, that's the end.
So how many Ex and counting now grin grin grin

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