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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by spartoo: 11:54am On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

Same thing here. It's so easy for me. In a matter of minutes, it's like they never existed. Like we never ever met. I don't think it's something I should worry about tho because I feel there are lots of people on earth and I can easily get a replacement

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Hector09: 11:57am On Jan 14
MyGeneration:
Mine is even worst, if I meet a girl and go through the stress of wooing her and she finally agrees to date me, immediately I loose interest. I stop calling or picking up her calls and start avoiding her, even though we have not had sex. It's really demonic
the op aint working alone mine is even worst, there is a time i delete my parents number, its demonic as u said

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by byinks(f): 11:58am On Jan 14
OP ppl are just too selfish and quick to take one for granted too often these days...don't feel bad. You did the right thing in 50 percent of those instances...try to work on the other 50 percent.

Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by crunchyg(m): 12:02pm On Jan 14
Karmatyra:
I wish I was like the op....
Don't wish that cause I like you the way you are already
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Lovedayy: 12:02pm On Jan 14
Wow.. This completely defines me.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by crunchyg(m): 12:02pm On Jan 14
Karmatyra:
I wish I was like the op....
Don't wish that cause I like you the way you are already alright?
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by truthsayer009(m): 12:05pm On Jan 14
Resener21:

So you’re this intelligent

Check my signature to migrate

You people sha like to LIE too much, I would like to ask what you're doing in Nigeria then? Your number isn't even going through.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by D1zion: 12:06pm On Jan 14
I think so many things are wrong with you.which are
1.maybe you don't really know what you want at this point in time of your life
2.maybe,maybe &maybe you're handsome or rich to feel big to tell any girl you're sorry.
3.you fail to seat any girl out to hear their likes &
dislikes.& you fail to let the know yours too!
4.there's no mutual understanding between you two.
5.you need to see a psychologist or some matured mind to nuture you more about your issue.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by GeoSilYe(f): 12:06pm On Jan 14
Lol..

It's an "I dont care" attitude

Sometimes, it helps but too much of everything is bad

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by myself13: 12:06pm On Jan 14
MrRichmond:
Most human beings aren't worth the stress.

I feel the same way as u do op, but I'm trying hard to quit the bad habit of quitting on people.
What scares me is the fact that I am perfectly comfortable existing on my own without feeling lonely.

I don't think it is a problem, I think it is a power that only few people possess.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by truthsayer009(m): 12:07pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

This is even more funny, I used to be the total opposite of this, as I matured I learnt to DELETE people quicker & faster from my Life and It has paid a great huge deal. (Which is what you are doing RN).

I am less worried now & anyone who wants to be with me, I will recognise them.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Mac2016(m): 12:07pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
I am seeing someone like me after many years. Nothing in the world look so real to me even people and relationships. When you are near I feel strong connection when far away I fill strong disconnection, not hatred, but to me i just assume you are fine and good and shd not be bothered.
To relationship, once it ends with us, I may miss you dearly at first but later i get very used to your absence from my life and to me the person becomes more of a myth than reality.
It is well!

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by truthsayer009(m): 12:07pm On Jan 14
GeoSilYe:
Lol..

It's an "I dont care" attitude

Sometimes, it helps but too much of everything is bad


Says who?
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by GeoSilYe(f): 12:09pm On Jan 14
truthsayer009:


Says who?


It is not something that can be explained with words but with experience.

The OP might get there soon.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by krissconnect(m): 12:13pm On Jan 14
Daeylar:


I'm confused.

How can you say you quit people easily when you kept a relationship for 5 years.
I'm sure through out the 5 years you were with her you've had multiple disagreements but you didn't give up on her easily or clear her memory from your head.





grin grin
I can do this
I stay in Abuja and she stays in aba. Though I met her wen I was in aba

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by EYIBLESSN(m): 12:17pm On Jan 14
Just as I am. Very firm, brutal and decisive.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by ChiefSweetus: 12:17pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
Why are you dating a 5yr old angry angry angry undecided

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:18pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

Don't let your lack of worry worry you.

This attitude, some will argue, is the pinnacle of spiritual attainment: Non attachment.

The glass is already broken...

“You see this goblet?” asks Achaan Chaa, the Thai meditation master.

“For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns.

If I should tap it, it has a lovely ring to it. But when I put this glass on the shelf and the wind knocks it over or my elbow brushes it off the table and it falls to the ground and shatters, I say, ‘Of course.’

When I understand that the glass is already broken, every moment with it is precious.”

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by krissconnect(m): 12:21pm On Jan 14
ChiefSweetus:

Why are you dating a 5yr old angry angry angry undecided
lol my bad. I meant to say a relationship of 5yrs
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Mankosi: 12:22pm On Jan 14
For you to post this here shows u are still thinking about the person so what's ur point? U said u have deleted the person from ur memory but posting this shows u have not.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by KardinalZik(m): 12:22pm On Jan 14
The ability to live your life without giving_a_fuck is actually a gift.

If I get your point clearly, you (oftentimes) ignore people that ignore you. WHAT'S BAD IN THAT? Do you want to keep going close to people who want to keep a distance from you?

C'mon!!!

Keep giving Zero_Fucks. It's better for you.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by mexzony: 12:25pm On Jan 14
Hmm. Omo this guy describe me except I don't forget people who really were good to me as I keep them in my heart but if you are the opposite ha wo you can even be in front of me and still feel invisible because I won't even acknowledge that you exist. The thing with me is that I can stay indoors for months without coming out and I won't even feel a thing. My mum's friend has tried to get me out of the house so once in a while I go visit her son since we are cool but then I am so comfortable being on my own eh to the point that she uses it to tease me like which kind human being is this. The thing with me is I hate drama eh especially unnecessary drama and I feel so irritated when people start their unreasonable behaivour especially when there is an obvious solution but you just want to be difficult. I love my peace of mind so much I don't joke with it.you and I can be in the same compound and you will think i travelled on an indefinite vacation cos you no go see my face. Its not a curse just make sure you are good to people who are good to you too and respect everyone humbly but let everyone stay in his or her lane unless we strike a very good friendship where we have proven to be loyal to each other. grin grin grin

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by lalaray: 12:26pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.
u have a high sense of Independence, find ur self spiritually. U have high moral standards, can't stand people who pretend, u can also see through people and their lies. Contact me for more

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by alexola20(m): 12:26pm On Jan 14
And my own weakness is forgiveness.
I too dey quick forgive the asshats.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Quinns: 12:27pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit

them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

OMG! U just described me. I'm in a relationship now coz my gf decided not to leave despite me breaking up on more than 4 occasions. I need epp o..

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by spiralwedge(m): 12:30pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
Hy, sorry to bother you, I don't know if anyone of you here is peculiar with my situation. I tend to give up on people easily, like a minor misunderstanding with the person, I clear their memory from my head instantly and it never comes back.

My 5 yrs old gf broke up with me earlier this year and I acted like nothing happened, I didn't even reply her breakup WhatsApp message.

I have a friend today and next day, I quit them and it doesn't even bother me. Since I'm growing older, it's started to bother me and I'm deeply worried prior to my relationship life.

I met a girl last week and cos she couldn't reply me on time on WhatsApp, I deleted her number and everything. It happens to me every time.

Pls I don't think this is normal, I need help.

This is me.

I used not to be like this. But with many years of disappointment I have become so. I don't see it as bad as I think it makes me have peace that i so much deserve. I don't trade my peace for anything.
Even at work, i do my best and give my best, no eye service and i give no fvck. If you take me for granted, i consciously dismiss you completely from my affairs, so much that you would be wondering how we were once close.

Nothing is wrong with you. At least you are not keeping grudges or malice. You only need to deliberately seek out people who will not take you for granted and are not toxic. Most times, they can't be more than one or two. Keep those ones by all means.

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by akaahs(m): 12:32pm On Jan 14
u just described me, but i am slow in taking decisions. Believe me, is a sign of a strong character. Dont be heard on urself, just be slow in making decision so u can rap ur head on the issue

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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by krissconnect(m): 12:36pm On Jan 14
Mankosi:
For you to post this here shows u are still thinking about the person so what's ur point? U said u have deleted the person from ur memory but posting this shows u have not.
k
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by krissconnect(m): 12:37pm On Jan 14
lalaray:
u have a high sense of Independence, find ur self spiritually. U have high moral standards, can't stand people who pretend, u can also see through people and their lies. Contact me for more
u got me
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by samysmoothfresh: 12:42pm On Jan 14
MissRaine69:
It is a defence mechanism. You have learnt to cope with life disappointments and other unpleasant things in life by choosing not to deal with them in a confrontational way or process the emotional aspect that would be associated with such things instead you compartmentalise and behave as if it never occurred. This leaves you vulnerable and also makes people think you are callous and cold. It’s not easy to find a way around this because this is the way you cope with things unless you can afford to explore other ways via psychotherapy for example . I would not be so hard on myself if I was you.


i'm so so nonchalant about most things.........things that normal people other people would worry about or take serious............things like, when someone dies, a breakup (bad or not), when thieves attacked my lodge one time, when i lose money or valuable things, calling, texting or trying to reach people etc.



I think that @ bolded is what's wrong with me.
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by TheWalkingMind: 12:46pm On Jan 14
krissconnect:
this doesn't even occur to me, the idea of quitting them overshadows every other thinking
I think we are the same.

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