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Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by falcon01: 11:02pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
No body actually gives a Bleep know that, believe that and you shall be free |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by TeflonBlixx: 11:28pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Op, you are self-absorbed and feeling entitiled. . Read Subtle ways of not giving a f*ck by Mark Manson.. Thank me later. |
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Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by undefeateds: 11:55pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
SKhanmipost=74928815:Through out my 100level,i maintain my distance with everybody,but they do say it behind me and even to my face that i always form,and am proud,and during my 200,i try to associate myself with everybody on and off-k,but right now,both left and right,everything is humiliation for me,i can't even retrace my step,am in locked zone,but thanks to everyone that have been commenting |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Bamz(m): 12:07am On Jan 20, 2019 |
undefeateds Please message me in case you need to talk about this. Be careful about the kind of advice you heed to on here. This is just a phase of life you're going through and this one is not going to last. You don't need material things or validation from other people to feel confident about yourself. Start by getting feedback about your behavior and everything else from people that know you dearly and won't judge you. Think of it like a SWOT analysis. Afterwards, write out the things you would like to change based on the former paragraph. By the way, getting girls is one of the easiest things ever, LOL, but getting the ones with commonsense however. Don't sweat on it. I just feel you need to talk to someone (uncle, cousin etc) who has more experience than you constantly. The Internet would confuse you trust me. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by zolajpower: 3:35am On Jan 20, 2019 |
undefeateds:Do u talk too much when you are among your peer? And do you contribute to issues when you are not to do so? If you do both of the aforementioned points then work on them ,look for a Bible believing chruch miss up with men who are older than u in age and not the ones that will current ur good manners . I asssure u this will work .follow the guidelines |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Deicide: 4:22am On Jan 20, 2019 |
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Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by linearity: 4:41am On Jan 20, 2019 |
The root of your problem is self confident. You lack confidence in self and as a result, you look for external validation. You try to go the extra mile for others, in other to get that external validation. People around you knows this and they take advantage of it. Rule No. 1. Fvck everyone. Rule No. 2. Fvck everyone. Rule No. 3. Fvck everyone. Thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 4:52am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Don't be needy Don't ask a girl out directly Don't give a bleep Reduce the frequency of jokes you make Keep a straight face always, avoid smiling too much Get angry and react immediately when you are offended Don't be too available: Absence creates value Talk less and only when necessary Ignore anyone who ignores you Realise that people who get to talk to you are privileged Be assertive, learn to reject and say NO(without explanation*) to unreasonable demand and request made by guys and girls Finally, think big, start seeing yourself as someone who is too important. and stop texting that girl. Infact, Block her on WhatsApp ,when you see her next time, bone your face and ignore her and watch her feel the way you are feeling now. Reply this post, I want to ask a question. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by femi4: 6:12am On Jan 20, 2019 |
undefeateds:The ultimate rule is what you are lacking. Love yourself, show yourself love and it ll build your self esteem. Improve your knowledge Improve your skills Improve your dress sense Eat well and sleep well Believe in yourself Do all these and be independent and watch people rushing you like pure water 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by skywalker240(m): 6:57am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Toto no be poor man food. Cc Hungryboy OP, Be confident and increase your self esteem. nobody puts food on your table, so dont give a hoot what anybody say or feel about you. Be proud of your personality. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by skywalker240(m): 7:04am On Jan 20, 2019 |
undefeateds:the averrage Nigerian is an hypocrite. Dont try to please anybody and displease yourself. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Artistree: 7:07am On Jan 20, 2019 |
vladhillz:What's it with the pathetic song you are singing? |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 7:42am On Jan 20, 2019 |
JESUSBOIY: You hit the nail on the head boy! 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 7:46am On Jan 20, 2019 |
vladhillz: Be singing "pathetic pathetic" like a canary. |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by omojesu202(m): 7:55am On Jan 20, 2019 |
undefeateds: a girl once told me I'm not in her class when I asked her for relationship. it was brutal then but it's nothing... I reminded her many years later and she said she didn't remember saying that. And she begged me for recharge card. Life is crazy, don't take anything too serious 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 7:57am On Jan 20, 2019 |
op we are on the same shoes o I still pass through this; But what keeps me going is I don't give a fvck about other people's opinion about me it doesn't matter in as much as you don't add any value to my life 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Tombrown3(m): 8:00am On Jan 20, 2019 |
EasternDamsel4:LOL... I've seen guys with that qualities and yet no one gives a jack! DUDE should get money as fast as possible |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by kullozone(m): 8:08am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Suicide... Only solution, because people are not even taking you seriously here as well |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Tombrown3(m): 8:11am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Mariangeles:The best solution so far 4 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Vicyace: 8:18am On Jan 20, 2019 |
undefeateds: Well, delete her number and her from you life. Act like you don't give a fvck about her. Live your life and most importantly live it happily. Let happiness ooze from your personality. Stay fresh. Eat well Dress well Don't force any borrowed personality on yourself. Search inwards for what gives you happiness most and do it. Do Not rely on people's comment for approval 4 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by AONE555(m): 8:36am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Work on you confidence.... read self help book ... Mingle with confident people .. |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 8:44am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Tombrown3:"....money as fast as possible? ?" Lol Some of us don't have money but we exude charm, confidence and great influence. I don master d art...no b today. Lol 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by vladhillz(m): 8:45am On Jan 20, 2019 |
EasternDamsel4:I understand you would rather have him acting weak..I understand.. |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by vladhillz(m): 8:47am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Artistree:wow..I must be really good for you to think that's a song..damn.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by IjebuWarrior: 9:12am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Curvinus: Thunder fire your life! |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Came4apost(m): 9:16am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Redoil: Shut up he need money .. Just face money for the next 5 years .. And you will control your social life easily |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Came4apost(m): 9:18am On Jan 20, 2019 |
EasternDamsel4: You go dey miserable when yahoo boy collect your GF no go hustle tight |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 20, 2019 |
vladhillz:LMAO |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by Nobody: 9:24am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Four40:He is living his life to please others, he is not happy with who he is. If he Cant love and accept himself who will? 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Always Rejected,how Do I Get Out From This by LINTUNE(m): 9:27am On Jan 20, 2019 |
Mizk:spot on.. Especially giving unsolicited attention to people 2 Likes 1 Share |
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