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Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:05am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Cause of Nigerian spousal murders: 1. Money issue 2. Stress 3. Sparkz gone 4. Affair 5. Immigration problem 6. Adjusting to new environment 7. Jealousy 8. Equality etc. . . I guess some men have no self control. . . . cant deal with stress easily |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:06am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: And I'm the tribalistic one. . . . mtchewww |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by AndreUweh(m): 12:14am On Aug 19, 2010 |
@Jarus and Aisha2: Please move this thread to the appropriate section. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by paddylo1(m): 12:14am On Aug 19, 2010 |
@ileke-idi i am dis appointed . . how can u claim its an epidemic with igbos . . .nah thats just balderdash. . . First things first, most Nigerians igbo or not do not kill their wives back home so it goes to show that this stuff has to do with a change in environment The ease with which u can get guns here in America,and the general lack of family ties here(thats why am running back home A.S.A.P) Also no-one(Nigerian) wants to grow old in this country. . u become useless,depressed,ppl dont respect u Meanwhile back home, old ppl are put on a pedestal and respected Americans kill their wives at a very high rate. . its actually worse amongst White Americans And Africans are probably the least kind of ppl to do this. . . . |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:20am On Aug 19, 2010 |
paddy_lo:Oya no vex It's becoming an epidemic with Nigerian men abroad. . . . I said based on the news being posted on Nairaland and on the internet, it centers mostly around Igbo men. But if you guys think I'm wrong, okay. Anywaz, this is going to happen again in 2 months time. . . . so the focus should be on "Why". Aloy+Emeka:And funny thing you call me a tribalist. . . . if I start digging my own thread up |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Kobojunkie: 12:20am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: Dude, insulting me for calling you to be more objective is not going to make the points that many tried to make and get to see DISAPPEAR into thin air. Mutallab's action? I don't know if it is the case that you fear being labeled a racist/tribalist or what for stepping out to take a 360 look at the issue, so I am going to move on now. I am next to certain you have no clue what ethnicity and I never ever go after any ethnic group. I just wish more people were this free with these things. All I did was ask you a question and now I choose to move on as I have no need for a repeat of the same . |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by oyinda3(f): 12:20am On Aug 19, 2010 |
@ileke-idi, many of them need anger management classes their hot tempers are out of dis world |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:23am On Aug 19, 2010 |
@Aloy. All I needed to do is google "Nigerian man kills wife". . . . and all these names dey show up. I know how you love tribalistic threads. So now, back to the topic. . . . oyinda.:Abi. . . .and worse off is Nigerians dont believe in marital counseling. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Kobojunkie: 12:24am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: ROFLMAO!!! |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by chyz(m): 12:29am On Aug 19, 2010 |
So i guess i guess now the two deaths of human beings is a laughing matter and worthy of mockery? Grow up! |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Beaf: 12:30am On Aug 19, 2010 |
oyinda.: It has nothing to do with ethnicity. Rather, it is a Nigerian self esteem problem; the average Nigerian whether male or female, would rather forcibly impress it on everyone around that they are the big shot. It is done in a number of ways, here are a few; [list] [li]Needlessly speaking at the top of their voices[/li] [li]The famous, "do you know who I am? I can lock up your family"[/li] [li]Outright violence, carried out by getting mobile police, soldiers, thugs etc to do the job or when abroad, a gun[/li] [/list] |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:30am On Aug 19, 2010 |
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Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by oyinda3(f): 12:31am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: so true any marital counselor willing to take on a naija marriage sef will need a pay raise. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Kobojunkie: 12:31am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Underlying the self esteem issue is the cultural issue . . . Those who have been able to rise above the cultural walls are usually able to overcome the self esteem problems. We just had a 1.5 month series on marriage at my church and it always came back to the place of the man and woman are defined by culture. The pastor attempted to make people know that God's rule ought to come first before culture but the questions that where asked made one realize that culture played a bigger part in decision making in most marriages still. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by paddylo1(m): 12:32am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Abi. . . .and worse off is Nigerians dont believe in marital counseling. I believe in the Nigerian culture such counseling is usually done by the in-laws in case of a fight in the home. . . Oya no vex ok. . am cool. . . . .although i'll have to punish u 4 talking reckless. . .naughty girl. . . |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by AloyEmeka5: 12:32am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI:Fine you win but don't try to sideline the one I posted. I interpret it as Yoruba women being wicked and violent since from about 40M adult women in Nigeria,over 95% of domestic violent related crimes committed by women are Yoruba women. Let me as a tribalist close my eye on media coverage and other factors like population density and claim that Yoruba women are very violent just like Ileke idi claims that Igbo men are very violent. May be they should marry each other and see who will kill each other first. If you doubt my claim, explain the high violent rate among Yoruba women. Don't close your eye on your issue and face another person's issue. Will Beaf or Bluetooth or Ezeuche be correct to claim that you need mental counselling since you are a Yoruba woman and my question stems from those reports? |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:35am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: Now, when you're trying to thread unto a personal field, that's where I leave you and your cohorts to your rambling. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:37am On Aug 19, 2010 |
paddy_lo: Problem is. . . . this man is an old man, he should be the one counseling, not getting the counselled. And you have to take it in mind that some men abroad dont have in-laws to report to. Punishment allowed Depends on how you want |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:41am On Aug 19, 2010 |
oyinda.: Kobojunkie: Imagine your wife prostrating to you and addressig you by "sir" or "mazi". . . . then you go abroad and she's demanding equality rights. We just had a 1.5 month series on marriage at my church and it always came back to the place of the man and woman are defined by culture. The pastor attempted to make people know that God's rule ought to come first before culture but the questions that where asked made one realize that culture played a bigger part in decision making in most marriages still.I thought NIgerians were deep Christians, esp with all the Bible-Quoting warriors on NL. . . . do they need to be told that God's rule comes first? |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by EzeUche22(m): 12:41am On Aug 19, 2010 |
You see that Ileke-Idi started the tribalism in this thread. I always told people she is a closet tribalist. Just that she doesn't mind if an Igbo man such as myself getting into her cookie basket. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:43am On Aug 19, 2010 |
EzeUche22: LOL, now that is funny. You're a tribalist, but you dont mind getting into a Yoruba cookie basket [whatever that is] |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by AloyEmeka5: 12:44am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Good observation and you feel that few cases from over all population of both tribes in the US is enough to stereotype them. For the last time, how do you feel about the report below being a Yoruba woman. Should we be afraid of Yoruba women resident in Nigeria or is something wrong with them?. I beg you answer me please or you don't have an expalanation why Yoruba women in Nigeria behave that way? : Re: Why are Nigerian women slowly becoming monsters? |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by abadaba(m): 12:45am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI:Boring. One good thig about this thread is that it has exposed Hileke-Hidi as a tribal scumbag. So just buzz the shitt. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by oyinda3(f): 12:46am On Aug 19, 2010 |
abadaba abi whatever u call urself, she is obviously and intelligently ignoring you. i think you should learn from her. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Kobojunkie: 12:48am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-IdI: Come on now . . . old or young. people need counseling from others. But it makes no sense to have people who themselves seem to have no clue on marriage counseling those who are having issues. I remember the example used in church just last week . . . the woman complained that her husband did not give her enough money for food and when she tried to get the in-laws to intervene, she was told she as the wife needed to learn to use the little she got to essentially make it all happen -i.e do magic and make it enough !!! I laughed !! |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by paddylo1(m): 12:48am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Problem is. . . . this man is an old man, he should be the one counseling, not getting the counselled. And you have to take it in mind that some men abroad dont have in-laws to report to. Yea thats a problem. . .goes back to the issue of growing old in this country. . . my uncle a very well established medical doctor(he makes over $200,000/yr). . just moved back to naija with his wife he is probably in his mid 50s. . . Most Naija men i know,go home to retire. . i wonder what this dude was still doing in america @64 I can bet u that if they were settled down in lagos,Abuja or Enugu they will both be alive today. . . Punishment allowed Depends on how you want lol. . . I think i want to lock u up for a week. . .(in my home of course). . and make u shake that. .ileke on your waist. . for days. . . |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by chiogo(f): 12:49am On Aug 19, 2010 |
There were a couple cases of murder by non-Igbo men. But fact remains that Igbo men are the majority perpetrators of this barbaric act. Y'all can choose to call it a Nigerian problem but some people always have a bigger share of the so-called problem. With that said, the Nigerian name has been over-soiled around the world, it's getting more than sickening. Which one una dey sef? 419, terrorism, na wa oo. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:50am On Aug 19, 2010 |
chiogo: Thank You. But you have to be a tribalist to make that observation. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by EzeUche22(m): 12:50am On Aug 19, 2010 |
Ileke-Idi, I haven't been posting tribalistic post. Actually, I have been supporting Yorubas and Africans in general against people who say we are inferior. And I have been defending Nigerians concerning South Africans. Kind of makes it hard when I have a Yoruba trying to mock Igbo men. Don't you think? |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by EzeUche22(m): 12:52am On Aug 19, 2010 |
But to be honest, I think it is the stresses of American life on immigrant families. My family had its trouble in which my father had to get used to American life. Drinking and such. . . |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by Nobody: 12:53am On Aug 19, 2010 |
EzeUche22: What mocking. I am making an observation which is not far-fetched from the truth. You can try to prove me wrong, I have no problem with that. But hell, you are going to keep personal insults out of this. we're not children anymore, Uchenna. |
Re: Professor Dubem Okafor Kills Wife,self In U.s by abadaba(m): 12:53am On Aug 19, 2010 |
oyinda.:@Oyinda or whatever you call yourself: She must not ignore me. Am deliberately calling her out for destruction. How can a woman be so tribalist to that extent. A man murdered her fellow woman, and the only thing she could make out of it was to introduce Igbo this and that. Shame to her. |
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