Beaf:

There is nothing wrong with the super bolded one o! I prefer my woman on the table to food anyday!
Un huh!

Ileke-IdI:

@chiogo

Leave Emeka. . . . chick loffs tribal comparisons.
Oh was that you?

Kobojunkie:

See wetin this one dey talk . . . do you know how many woman are breadwinners in today's world? Yes, even in Nigeria, women are needing to take on a lot of the bill paying/feeding, and some still handling raising and taking care of the kids as well.

Ileke-IdI:

Oya no vex  

It's becoming an epidemic with Nigerian men abroad. . . . I said based on the news being posted on Nairaland and on the internet, it centers mostly around Igbo men.

But if you guys think I'm wrong, okay.

Anywaz, this is going to happen again in 2 months time. . . . so the focus should be on "Why".
And funny thing you call me a tribalist. . .  . if I start digging my own thread up

Kobojunkie:

See wetin this one dey talk . . . do you know how many woman are breadwinners in today's world? Yes, even in Nigeria, women are needing to take on a lot of the bill paying/feeding, and some still handling raising and taking care of the kids as well.

Eziachi:

So despite all your intelligent, you cannot decipher the fact that eight out of every ten said Nigerians in the United State are likes Igbo’s?  Hence that will reflect in all life spheres over there?
Just like here in the United Kingdom, probably every ten claimed Nigerians here, eight are likely to be Yoruba, therefore it will reflect on every sphere of life of claimed Nigerians in the U.K?
Therefore, those that had turn Thamesmead into credit card fraud capital of U.K are mostly Yoruba’s because there is a big concentration of Yoruba’s in the U.K, especially S.E London.   That is the way it works. The same can be said for the Caribbean’s, who are mostly Jamaicans, hence hiding the fact that others too.
If this guy was given a Nobel Prize for his work, I am sure, you will be running around trying to hang Nigerian toga around his neck and will bark at anyone that suggest, that he is an Igbo man. You tend to choose the Igbo label when it suits your fancy.

Eziachi:

So despite all your intelligent, you cannot decipher the fact that eight out of every ten said Nigerians in the United State are likes Igbo’s?  Hence that will reflect in all life spheres over there?
Just like here in the United Kingdom, probably every ten claimed Nigerians here, eight are likely to be Yoruba, therefore it will reflect on every sphere of life of claimed Nigerians in the U.K?
Therefore, those that had turn Thamesmead into credit card fraud capital of U.K are mostly Yoruba’s because there is a big concentration of Yoruba’s in the U.K, especially S.E London.   That is the way it works. The same can be said for the Caribbean’s, who are mostly Jamaicans, hence hiding the fact that others too.
If this guy was given a Nobel Prize for his work, I am sure, you will be running around trying to hang Nigerian toga around his neck and will bark at anyone that suggest, that he is an Igbo man. You tend to choose the Igbo label when it suits your fancy.

dayokanu:

I thought the problem was mainly with men who imported their wives I didnt know it also happens the other way

In that case when the women becomes the breadwinner, then the man should take up the supposedly feminine roles like cooking, caring for kids and make sure the bread winner meets food on the table when he/she gets home.

I personally have a problem with men who cant get their behind up and go to work and provide for their family

sha be careful.

You're just 2_ , acres of land in A, L, A. .  . . ?

Anambra and Lagos is inherited

Abj i bought. . .

remember i told u about me. . 2 sisters. . .and just me. . .

Naija is my home now. . .no shaking

paddy_lo,

Over my dead body will you get in politics before me!  

men i leave for naija this yr. . . .ill be in Abuja for christmas God willing. . .re-connecting with old contacts

and making new ones. . . .

minimum age for house of reps is 30yrs. . .

so in a couple of yrs i'll be ready. . .

dayokanu:

Pls I am interested in where you got this your facts from

paddy_lo:

Anambra and Lagos is inherited


[color=#000099][b]men i leave for naija this yr. . . .ill be in Abuja for christmas God willing. . .re-connecting with old contacts

and making new ones. . . .

minimum age for house of reps is 30yrs. . .

so in a couple of yrs i'll be ready. . .

paddy_lo:

Anambra and Lagos is inherited

Abj i bought. . .

remember i told u about me. . 2 sisters. . .and just me. . .

Naija is my home now. . .no shaking

men i leave for naija this yr. . . .ill be in Abuja for christmas God willing. . .re-connecting with old contacts

and making new ones. . . .

minimum age for house of reps is 30yrs. . .

so in a couple of yrs i'll be ready. . .

Ileke-IdI:

A family is not based on who brings the bread home or who doesnt. It centers around bringing up the family with care, upholding responsibility, discipline etc.
The roles need not be switched in any case. No role is too feminine or masculine to any of them to play. It does not make him less of a man to take his kids out to have fun. .  . to change the diaper of the baby. . . . to help his kids out with their homework. . . . to cook for the family while the wife is out home. . . . or for her to fix what needs to be fixed around the house. There shouldnt be a role. . . . let respect, love, tolerance, and that "c" world  etc be maintained.

dayokanu:

Pls I am interested in where you got this your facts from

EzeUche22:

Are you doubting the number of Igbo people in the U.S?

Everyone knows that. Igbos have been coming to the U.S. since Zik picked an American university over a British university. While Yorubas were more inclined to go to the UK.

You even have 3rd Generation Igbos living in America.

dayokanu:



No wonder Igbo babes are snatching all the Yoruba men from you all.

When Yoruba women want to tie wrapper for their men and put the baby on his back.

Go and read Wale weds Ngozi Thread and see how another Yoruba dude didnt mind the journey across the Niger

dayokanu:

I am simply asking you to back your stats up with Facts I have lived in 3 US states(Illinois, Texas and New Jersey) and 4 major cities and I have never had the impression that Igbos were 8 out of 10 Nigerians.

Eziachi:

Me too, I will be interested to know why you are not aware that 8 out of every 10 Nigerians found in the United Kingdom are Yorubas and the same for Igbos in the United Kingdom?  The same for Ghanaians in Germany when it comes to the black population.

dayokanu:

I personally have a problem with men who can't get their behind up and go to work and provide for their family

dayokanu:

I cant say much about the UK cos I have never lived there but in the US where I currently live, It never for any moment seemed like Igbos were 8 out of 10

Maybe some stats would help your argument

Aloy+Emeka:

Of course that is a bogus stat. Igbos are obviously higher in no in the US but not by 8/10 . May be 5/10 or something around it.

Kobojunkie:

Not all men can do that and many are beginning to be more sympathetic and helping out in cases where they are no longer the breadwinners. It is really nothing to be ashamed of anymore in the US but I can see how it classes, again, with the Nigerian CULTURE and mentality!

And why would someone allow you to enter their circle?  

If you not part of a circle, then you will not get a piece of that cake.

True. . thats why u re-connect with old contacts. .

I went to University of Abuja for 4yrs. . .

Lets just say. . 60% of the kids in that school,are going to be the leaders of Naija 2morrow

either in politics,Economics,business,SSS,customs,or civil service

and am still in touch with most of them today. . .(some are in naija,some in UK)

Just dont end up corrupt  


I dont want to read about you beating up this Gov because of that she-governor lol

oyinda.:

always seemed to me that there are more yorubas than igbos in US.

oyinda.:

always seemed to me that there are more yorubas than igbos in US.

dayokanu:

Kobo,

The fact is that its a cultural thing for a man to provice 70-80% for the home and when a Nigerian man cant do that its a problem, I personally would feel so uncomfortable for my wife to be working and I sit at home, I would rather go to Alaskan minefields to look for a job

oyinda.:

always seemed to me that there are more yorubas than igbos in US.