Ileke-IdI:

So what was the point of making that thread when you did? Now if someone would have come out and called you a tribalist back then, you'd have cried "No".

So the point was basically to show that "Yoruba" men kills their wife more than other tribes?

Plz, cease from calling me a tribalist, because you're worse than I.

Which Tribe Bleaches Their Skin Most?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-491990.0.html

Which Nigerian Tribe Is Blessed With Biggest Boooobs?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-491981.0.html

Which Tribe Has The Best Juju?
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-488882.0.html

etc etc

EzeUche22:

Ileke-Idi,

I haven't been posting tribalistic post. Actually, I have been supporting Yorubas and Africans in general against people who say we are inferior.

And I have been defending Nigerians concerning South Africans. Kind of makes it hard when I have a Yoruba trying to mock Igbo men. Don't you think?

chiogo:

There were a couple cases of murder by non-Igbo men. But fact remains that Igbo men are the majority perpetrators of this barbaric act.
Y'all can choose to call it a Nigerian problem but some people always have a bigger share of the so-called problem. With that said, the Nigerian name has been over-soiled around the world, it's getting more than sickening. Which one una dey sef? 419, terrorism, na wa oo.

EzeUche22:

But to be honest, I think it is the stresses of American life on immigrant families. My family had its trouble in which my father had to get used to American life. Drinking and such. . .

paddy_lo:

Yea thats a problem. . .goes back to the issue of growing old in this country. . .

my uncle a very well established medical doctor(he makes over $200,000/yr). . just moved back to naija with his wife

he is probably in his mid 50s. . .

Most Naija men i know,go home to retire. .

i wonder what this dude was still doing in america @64

I can bet u that if they were settled down in lagos,Abuja or Enugu

they will both be alive today. . .

lol. . . I think i want u to lock u up for a week. . .(in my home of course). . and make u shake that. .ileke on your waist. . for days. . .

Aloy+Emeka:

I don't know how Yoruba men entered this story now. From all I know, only 2 of them have killed their spouses in the US against 5 igbo men but Yoruba women have killed both in Nigeria and abroad and remember you are reporting murders over the spate of 8 years but the case of Yoruba women was just in 10 months. Why don't you explain it.


This issue is beyond Igbo men or even men in general, because from the report it seems that women kill more of their spouses than  men do. The only woman reported to have used hot water to try murdering her husband was sometime last year in NY and she is a Yoruba woman. ohhheerr, there must be a trend here, prove me wrong.


Lesson learned: It is easy to point fingers when the remaining 4 will be pointing at you.

chiogo:

There were a couple cases of murder by non-Igbo men. But fact remains that Igbo men are the majority perpetrators of this barbaric act.
Y'all can choose to call it a Nigerian problem but some people always have a bigger share of the so-called problem. With that said, the Nigerian name has been over-soiled around the world, it's getting more than sickening. Which one una dey sef? 419, terrorism, na wa oo.

Aloy+Emeka:

You've always have the thought process of an idi.ot . I just laid out that more Yoruba women have killed their spouses than Igbo men or any other men from Nigeria, so how do you explain that or is it good to discuss men related violence while we sit on the ones associated with women?.


I see pure sexism here o. See as they keep ignoring it even though those cases happened one month apart .

Aloy+Emeka:

The truth hurts abi, you are short of words abi?. Over 15 Yoruba women so fave have murdered their spouses within 2 years and you ignore it and face about 5 Igbo men who did the same [b]within 10 years[ an average of 1 incident per 2 years against the Yoruba women which is an average of 1 incident per 30 days]. No wonder Nigeria is a cesspool.[/b]

Beaf:

Every topic these days ends up as Yoruba vs Igbo.
It is really sad.

Aloy+Emeka:

You've always have the thought process of an idi.ot . I just laid out that more Yoruba women have killed their spouses than Igbo men or any other men from Nigeria, so how do you explain that or is it good to discuss men related violence while we sit on the ones associated with women?.


I see pure sexism here o. See as they keep ignoring it even though those cases happened one month apart .

Aloy+Emeka:

So, there is wayo in reporting. Okay but it doesn't mean that the ones reported are lies?. If an average of 1 husband killer is recorded per 30 days among Yoruba women, so that is not enough to raise red flags in your head and advise your siblings or sons to avoid marrying Yoruba women?. Must you wait for reports from other regions before your own becomes a problem?.


How about the only Nigerian woman reported in the US who did the same last year is a Yoruba woman. Does that not tell you something?.

You see I hate partiality, do unto others as you want it done unto you. This idea of Igbos killing their wives were coined by Yoruba tribalist trollers like you and luckily I received this email and goons like you still wanna turn a blind eye on it and insist that the 5 incidences surrounding Igbo men are more sinister. Sorry.

EzeUche22:

Instead of focusing on the tribe, I  have heard this problem ocurring with other immigrant families. Especially African families.

From my discussions with my brothers, it seems like once they bring their wife from the village to America, these women go crazy.

EzeUche22:

And they stress the men out.

EzeUche22:

I remember my cousin had a heart attack at 35 years old because his wife kept on saying that she made more money than him as a nurse. Just emasculating the man in front of their children and family.  

EzeUche22:

Instead of focusing on the tribe, I  have heard this problem ocurring with other immigrant families. Especially African families.

From my discussions with my brothers, it seems like once they bring their wife from the village to America, these women go crazy. And they stress the men out.

I remember my cousin had a heart attack at 35 years old because his wife kept on saying that she made more money than him as a nurse. Just emasculating the man in front of their children and family.  

Kobojunkie:

I have heard similar stories but care to describe what you mean when you say "these women go crazy"

Aloy+Emeka:

[size=14pt]So it is also fine for me to claim that spousal murdering centers is becoming a problem with Nigerian women at home  and centers mostly on Yoruba women?[/size].


More Yoruba women murderers abroad:

http://www.aolnews.com/story/woman-pours-boiling-water-on-husbands/592985

paddy_lo,

You are not lying. My father cannot wait to become emiritus.

He already built his house in the village like all Igbo men do. But I think he is going to retire to Calabar where we have another home.

You know where to find me    

ha ha. . .    

Ileke-IdI:

Very fine. . . . go ahead

EzeUche22:

They go crazy. Bring a Nigerian woman to America and she starts acting like an akata woman. Igbo women are the worse. They start stressing us Igbo men like no other. Do not make an Igbo woman get more money than you. She will not let you get a good night sleep!  

EzeUche22:

Wives can stress their husbands, but in moderation! Igbo women are known to go to the extreme.

paddy_lo:

Yes oh. . .thats the best. . .Our spirit is back home. . the land is always calling us. .

u cant really have peace of mind until u go back. . esp the older ones

calabar is a cool town. . .

ha ha. . .    

Beaf:

To my mind, those who go looking for village men or women to fly into marriage in a strange land are people who aren't confident in their abiliies with the opposite gender. They would have run into trouble anyway; it all goes back to the Nigerian self esteem issues I pointed out earlier.

Aloy+Emeka:

This daft pororo is not woth my time obviously. Concentrate on the area boys who bang you without remorse but make sure you slam one with pregnancy sha if you hope to marry.

They go crazy. Bring a Nigerian woman to America and she starts acting like an akata woman. Igbo women are the worse. They start stressing us Igbo men like no other. Do not make an Igbo woman get more money than you. She will not let you get a good night sleep!  

Wives can stress their husbands, but in moderation! Igbo women are known to go to the extreme.

Ileke-IdI:

You're so sexist it's not funny.

How are you sure that women are the ones causing the problem?

True, if women make more money than the man, it becomes a problem. But men have it harder adjusting to a new enviroment, esp the huge difference in culture.

Like OnlyTruth said before. . . . Nigerian men in Nigerian, marry NIgerian women in Nigeria. Nigeria men abroad, marry a Nigerian women abroad. Dont bring any man or woman here to marry, esp if you have self-control and betrayal issue.

Kobojunkie:

WHAT? @Onlytruth said what? Check your records ooo . . . ROFLMAO!!!

But you, you're too young, to be retiring back to Naija.

Holla when you come back. . . . Miami is there for us to enjoy

Are you saying there is peace of mind in Nigeria? There is security? Trust?

etc. . . . NIgerian men believe that their only job is to pay the bills and bring money to the table.

Ileke-IdI:

@chiogo

Leave Emeka. . . . chick loffs tribal comparisons.

dayokanu:

Isnt that enough work already?

Ileke-IdI:

You're so sexist it's not funny.

How are you sure that women are the ones causing the problem?

True, if women make more money than the man, it becomes a problem. But men have it harder adjusting to a new enviroment, esp the huge difference in culture.

Like OnlyTruth said before. . . . Nigerian men in Nigerian, marry  NIgerian women in Nigeria. Nigeria men abroad, marry a Nigerian women abroad. Dont bring any man or woman here to marry, esp if you have self-control and betrayal issue.
And men cant stress their wife.

[size=14pt]"My wife must be on my table when I get back from work"[/size]
"My food must be on my table when I wake up"
"Drop the kids at work"
"The baby is all your work"
"Take the baby to the doctor"

etc. . . . NIgerian men believe that their only job is to pay the bills and bring money to the table.

chiogo:

I heard the fool is not even Igbo. Wonder why he or she(hermaphrodite or whatever the funk it is) likes taking tylenol for other people's headache.

dayokanu:

Isnt that enough work already?

paddy_lo:

hon. . .the kind of fun i'll show u in naija. . u cant catch it in Miami or any American city. . .

Yea am not really retiring just going back to build a dynasty. . .in business and maybe politics. . .

All the friends i went to college with in Abuja,are beginning to rise up in Nigerias power circles

Their dads are now ministers and so on. . .

one of thems dad is in Jonathans inner circle(dont wanna say the name on here)

Bottom line its time to go contribute in building my country. .

In 30yrs i'll be. . fulfilled and watching what i helped build. . .with satisfaction

No where is safe. . .ppl get popped on the daily here in America

there might be nuclear terrorism. . .in the next 10yrs. . .

plus i got acres of land in Anambra,Lagos and Abuja. . .