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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by 2buffagain(m): 7:40pm On Feb 04
Elder0001:


Linda was never a feminist ... her opinions weren’t feministic neither did she claim at one point that she supports the movement .

The fact that she was or claimed to be independent doesn’t make her independent.


It is now clear that most Nigerian men still don’t understand the meaning of feminism and its a shame .



Cc trustyshoess capslocked

As in all things subsets exist, there is feminism and radical feminism.
So also there is anti-feminism and anti-radical-feminism.
I'm anti-radical-feminism.

As I've said before, I would have no issues dating a Linda Ikeji because I believe a woman can and should be productive and if the manifestation of that productivity leads to her making more money than I make... Hurray! More money for us.

But I also know that ALL women are subject to hypergamy, so that relationship won't be the same as the usual.
I will know I would have to maintain my own space i.e my own house etc in case she allows her hypergamy to start breeding disrespect, which can only be fixed by your absense for her to remember what she misses, etc.
There is a way you date those type of women with that type of status....but you do not do so ignorantly thinking "Oh it will be the same as a rich man dating a girl who makes less"....No. This is how men come back home to see that their clothes have been flung into the street.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 9:22pm On Feb 04
2buffagain:


As in all things subsets exist, there is feminism and radical feminism.
So also there is anti-feminism and anti-radical-feminism.
I'm anti-radical-feminism.

As I've said before, I would have no issues dating a Linda Ikeji because I believe a woman can and should be productive and if the manifestation of that productivity leads to her making more money than I make... Hurray! More money for us.

But I also know that ALL women are subject to hypergamy, so that relationship won't be the same as the usual.
I will know I would have to maintain my own space i.e my own house etc in case she allows her hypergamy to start breeding disrespect, which can only be fixed by your absense for her to remember what she misses, etc.
There is a way you date those type of women with that type of status....but you do not do so ignorantly thinking "Oh it will be the same as a rich man dating a girl who makes less"....No. This is how men come back home to see that their clothes have been flung into the street.



Your opinion.
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 9:40pm On Feb 04
I created this thread because of women but they all ran away. Smh
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by OneSentence(m): 9:44pm On Feb 04
Elder0001:


Linda was never a feminist ... her opinions weren’t feministic neither did she claim at one point that she supports the movement .

The fact that she was or claimed to be independent doesn’t make her a feminist.


It is now clear that most Nigerian men still don’t understand the meaning of feminism and its a shame .



Cc trustyshoess capslocked
the empty head speaks volume...kudos

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 9:46pm On Feb 04
OneSentence:

the empty head speaks volume...kudos


You not only lack wisdom but also lack the ability to read and understand.

Many low IQ individuals roaming nairaland these days !

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by CAPSLOCKED: 10:14pm On Feb 04
Elder0001:
I created this thread because of women but they all ran away. Smh

IF YOU WANT THEIR ATTENTION MAKE A THREAD FOR BLEACHING CREAM AND HAND BAGS NEXT TIME grin

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by OneSentence(m): 10:49pm On Feb 04
Elder0001:



You not only lack wisdom but also lack the ability to read and understand.

Many low IQ individuals roaming nairaland these days !
lol...and you are short tempered too...you can't take what you dish out to people...

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by 2buffagain(m): 12:02am On Feb 05
OP should watch one show about bear gryllis and how he put a group of female survivors on one island and a group of male survivors and another...same knowledge provided....And left them to survive for like a month or 2 or something.

The results were utterly typical. grin

The men had a fully functional civilization up and running within the first week while the women were still just.... Being women. cheesy

There was no man to blame so the women had to keep blaming themselves instead of actually getting shiit done. In that scenario, if he put a single man in with the girls... He would be a Target of blame i.e "I mean he is a man, he should be able to XYZ..." Whether directly or indirectly. If he doesn't take charge, they will hate him for not taking charge.

This is just the way life is. All feminism is, is a social construct. A cute thing that can only exist within the confines of what men have already created...but it makes women happy so in some doses it’s okay.

Both would go far with each other if you just understand each other's innate ways and go accordingly. The only way to understand women's way is by their actions and behaviors... Not mouth. Everybody in the West these days is a feminist by mouth.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by pansophist(m): 1:08am On Feb 05
2buffagain:
OP should watch one show about bear gryllis and how he put a group of female survivors on one island and a group of male survivors and another...same knowledge provided....And left them to survive for like a month or 2 or something.

The results were utterly typical. grin

The men had a fully functional civilization up and running within the first week while the women were still just.... Being women. cheesy

There was no man to blame so the women had to keep blaming themselves instead of actually getting shiit done. In that scenario, if he put a single man in with the girls... He would be a Target of blame i.e "I mean he is a man, he should be able to XYZ..." Whether directly or indirectly. If he doesn't take charge, they will hate him for not taking charge.

This is just the way life is.
Both would go far with each other if you just understand each other's ways and go accordingly. The only way to understand women's way is by their actions and behaviors... Not mouth. Everybody in the West these days is a feminist by mouth.

I watched it too, not surprised one bit. Like I said earlier, the strong and independent feminist can only survive in a civilisation that has been built by men, with abundant social welfare she can claim while screaming how ''independent'' she is. Look globally, there is no single matriarchial civilisation that can match up to a patriarchal one, it just can never happen. Find one, you won't see. Feminist are by large, deluded, like a spoilt child who cant see that her father is preventing her from harming herself.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 12:52pm On Feb 05
Lol
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 4:58pm On Feb 06
Why?
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 12:31am On Feb 08
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