₦airaland Forum

Redoil:
how old are you and your wife or how matured are you and your wife before venturing into marriage?

note that you are old enough does not mean you are matured

INDOMIE9090:
only SS/SE vote will bring him in?

INDOMIE9090:
The day obi ported to Labour Party was the day tinubu win

Sasi54:
Then why don't you tell us who to choose.

Antoeni:
Tinubu & Atiku Are Playing Their Last Card, Anyone That Loses Will Never Contest Against Because of Old Age, Both Are Nigerians , Both Are Elders , We Must Not Favour One And Leave One, The Best We Can Do is to Retire The Both of Them, No Winner No Vanquish.

trutharena:
E no go better for anyone that is packaging the failure Peter Obi for Nigeria.

I really feel sorry for the people in the market. Some are trapped inside? The fire is burning, and yet there is no functioning fire service to quench it.

Dannyset:
The statement credited to Samuel Ortom on a live video, profiling the Fulanis is uncalled for and should be condemned.

A whole tribe should not be made to suffer the sins of just one thief.

lhordspy:
Excuse upon excuses.
So many of them since that failed almajiri birthday party called presidential rally in Nasarawa with just 50 party members, 20 pvc-less miscreants disguising as youths and 200 almajiri looking for daily bread.

A small school football field now ended up looking like a big Old Trafford stadium because of low turn out.

Have you been told you are a born Fool, with no hope of redemption ？



A wise adage says : There is no other name for failure, except failure.

Emperormartin:
I doubt if you give these ones education they will drop guns

godofuck231:
oh really

Calvary247:
My husband doens't drink or womanize.

kbower:
People should consider the fact that Nigeria is on the brink of total collapse, he go remain small if civil war nor go happen. Now talk of insecurity, helthcare, education, all is gone, shey as i get funds to move my children comot for here nor be better thing? I will rather be in that country where more power is given to women than sey i come dey nija wey everything don scatter, how much sef be 27 million with this whack economy? The money cannot yield any meaningful value hence part of my reason japaing.

tolue42:
I wish I know you in person, you are a very knowledgeable person...

I figure out something about my family.... She's based in PH when I meet her, I was, and still based in Lagos... I went to PH for the first time because of her, but one thing I figured out was, she's always the boss in PH,I don't always have a say..because I don't know anywhere there.. she always control what I need to do....

But whenever she comes to Lagos , she's always calm and gentle, she always follow my instructions because she don't know anywhere here...So, after weighing both sides, I had to relocate her to Lagos permanently..

Back to this man's story, I think he just gave his wife the family's power which is supposed to be with him just for greener pastures....

BiafraAburi:
Cow brains everywhere. Listening to an islamic terrorist. What exactly would you learn from him? Any wonder why their z00 is a complete shithole.

kbower:
According to the emboldened part of your post, how did I hand over the captain badge to her? By taking her abroad?

Ebubu:
they no dey even get up to 20k for account yet be looking down on someone whose home electronics worth at least 2million naira.

Just because they’ve gone to a club where a yahoo boy with 3million benz fûcked them on the stage.

ppogba:
Who told you a doctor in Nigeria is trained with less than $1000 as fee thru their stay in the Uni?
Please get in touch with medical students in public universities first then those of private before you regurgitate what NGIGE and Ehanire seem to have vomited into you.

Entrance level fee into ordinary school of nursing in UCH as at today is about N350k.
I will not mention the fees for medicine at Babcock, Redeemers and others

Argue with fact.

Chnbanc:
One of the first sign of HIV is tuberculosis...
And mouth ulcer.
If you don't have any of the above
There you are free from the virus.
U just dey panic unnecessarily

Moh247:
On infrastructure APC is still unbeatable

More projects to be commissioned

More needs to be done on Security

lhordspy:
Road users please be advised, the roads are totally blocked.

Video here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeMSWGDRfdo

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
Am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that,both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.
For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties,I got married aged 22,( always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby,parked to our house and things were rosy.i have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.
After some weeks,I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense.i was heartbroken,for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday,I find it so difficult to forgive him,I insult him,he insult me ,he broke my phone,I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says "I'm his wife,no be today man dey collect him wife money,he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight,I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call,he didn't reach out,3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him...I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.

My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.
How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please,I have cried enough.