₦airaland Forum

lhordspy:
Excuse upon excuses.
So many of them since that failed almajiri birthday party called presidential rally in Nasarawa with just 50 party members, 20 pvc-less miscreants disguising as youths and 200 almajiri looking for daily bread.

A small school football field now ended up looking like a big Old Trafford stadium because of low turn out.

Have you been told you are a born Fool, with no hope of redemption ？



A wise adage says : There is no other name for failure, except failure.

Emperormartin:
I doubt if you give these ones education they will drop guns

godofuck231:
oh really

Calvary247:
My husband doens't drink or womanize.

kbower:
People should consider the fact that Nigeria is on the brink of total collapse, he go remain small if civil war nor go happen. Now talk of insecurity, helthcare, education, all is gone, shey as i get funds to move my children comot for here nor be better thing? I will rather be in that country where more power is given to women than sey i come dey nija wey everything don scatter, how much sef be 27 million with this whack economy? The money cannot yield any meaningful value hence part of my reason japaing.

tolue42:
I wish I know you in person, you are a very knowledgeable person...

I figure out something about my family.... She's based in PH when I meet her, I was, and still based in Lagos... I went to PH for the first time because of her, but one thing I figured out was, she's always the boss in PH,I don't always have a say..because I don't know anywhere there.. she always control what I need to do....

But whenever she comes to Lagos , she's always calm and gentle, she always follow my instructions because she don't know anywhere here...So, after weighing both sides, I had to relocate her to Lagos permanently..

Back to this man's story, I think he just gave his wife the family's power which is supposed to be with him just for greener pastures....

BiafraAburi:
Cow brains everywhere. Listening to an islamic terrorist. What exactly would you learn from him? Any wonder why their z00 is a complete shithole.

kbower:
According to the emboldened part of your post, how did I hand over the captain badge to her? By taking her abroad?

Ebubu:
they no dey even get up to 20k for account yet be looking down on someone whose home electronics worth at least 2million naira.

Just because they’ve gone to a club where a yahoo boy with 3million benz fûcked them on the stage.

ppogba:
Who told you a doctor in Nigeria is trained with less than $1000 as fee thru their stay in the Uni?
Please get in touch with medical students in public universities first then those of private before you regurgitate what NGIGE and Ehanire seem to have vomited into you.

Entrance level fee into ordinary school of nursing in UCH as at today is about N350k.
I will not mention the fees for medicine at Babcock, Redeemers and others

Argue with fact.

Chnbanc:
One of the first sign of HIV is tuberculosis...
And mouth ulcer.
If you don't have any of the above
There you are free from the virus.
U just dey panic unnecessarily

Moh247:
On infrastructure APC is still unbeatable

More projects to be commissioned

More needs to be done on Security

lhordspy:
Road users please be advised, the roads are totally blocked.

Video here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeMSWGDRfdo

wasuka14:
My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me.

Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again.
Am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding.
Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning.
Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket.
And the funny thing is that,both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something.
For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder.
I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward.
My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties,I got married aged 22,( always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby,parked to our house and things were rosy.i have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects,might not be much 100k,50k,20k when need be,I never siphoned my money to myself,as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head,(3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together,I told him no,I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it,( just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.
After some weeks,I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense.i was heartbroken,for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday,I find it so difficult to forgive him,I insult him,he insult me ,he broke my phone,I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says "I'm his wife,no be today man dey collect him wife money,he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight,I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call,he didn't reach out,3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him...I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.

My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.
How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please,I have cried enough.

GeneralBuhari:
Shut up, son.

The British and the other colonial masters never left.

Till date, they still decide almost everything for Africa through neocolonialism.

You must be so uninformed if you don't know this.

9jvirgin:
The Lord has brought Deserving Pain to Britain, the British destroyed lives by bringing Nigeria together.

God is not asleep, Britain woes has just begun for bringing animals and humans together for selfish reasons.

ahnie:
There's this distant brother of mine (not related by blood) my family has known him for some months now.

He's the fire praying churchy type of person, he does normally visit my family, but we have never met his family.

He's a foreman that does any type of job, he's hardworking tho, not the lazy type.

So some days ago,when I went for an exercise on sight seeing organised by Nigerian army, it occured to us to check on him since he stays closer to the venue.

I rang his line and told him to direct me to his home,which he reluctantly did, when we finally located his home.

To say I was disappointed with the environment was an understatement considering what he was up to lately which prompted this post.

I met 4 of his kids, at home playing, they ought to be in school at that time and his heavily pregnant wife, we exchanged pleasantly, all thru our brief staycation there, the bros was uncomfortable, after some moments we took our leave.

This same man came to my hood to paint the apartment of a young beautiful big God female UBA banker who just moved in.

To my painment and chagrin, my brother didn't even collect a dime from this lady as wages for the job done, he only collected phone number and started chyking the lady, who obviously has a rich taste for big boys and my bros was pretty pained.

Simply put, he did a free job, a job that took him 2 days to paint ,

My brother said he wants to have as many kids as possible, I'm afraid he's not making the necessary moves to care for them, which really is bad, with the present situation of the country.

My question now is.... Why would the wife and my bros agree to littering the house with kids they cannot care for and the ninth one is on the way?

Why does low income earners always have energy to knack and produce kids without the necessary bucks to care for them?

Beautiful94:
The fact that you can open your mouth and call all the women around you harlots says a whole lot about you.

Beautiful94:
With due respect sir you are not human. How do you advice somebody to throw her own sibling out? All your kind ever thinks about is submission and then you end it with he never laid his hands on her. Do you know the psychological truama she goes on as a mother with five kids in a country that is unstable and probably with a husband that does not really help out until she threatened to leave?
Poster, i am not going to make excuses for your sister but before most Nigerian women will leave their CHILDREN behind to run to their father's house then their a serious problem.
Please take it easy on her and advice her on the best way forward, she is your sister. If she leaves your house today and the next day you heard she committed suicide can you forgive yourself?
She might be depressed.

Biiznesman:
Hi I come from a family of 4 the last. I and my single brother stay with my aged father. 4 months ago my married sister left her home and came home promising to stay a few days that she has an argument with her husband. She had been having issues with her husband. But upon hearing her husbands side of the story it was different from what she told us, he claimed she threatened to walk out of him and her 5 children and she won't suffer. She claimed she works as a middleman sales person.

Fast forward to today, she doesn't do anything, just sit around and eat food we prepared. My income is barely enough to keep up with me, as a teacher so is my elder brother, we both contribute money to take care of our aged father. But taking care of an additional mouth seem to be expensive as she eats like a glutton. My Senior ones who don't stay with us has stopped sending her money, and she is planning to fight for custody of her 5 children and bring them home for us to feed them. I plan to save up and move to a new apartment, but of late, I find out that I have not been saving since she came. We have explained all to her and talked to her but she seemed not to understand. What should I do? I need advice from the house.

beerfraud:
https://mobile.twitter.com/elrufai/status/1582055426384068608

Thinkam:
Wike should first apologize to the PDP, for the incessant tantrums he has been throwing.

And moreover Atiku was not wrong, in 2015 APC said the same message to northerners, so what is wrong with Atiku repeating same message.

After all Tinubu is singing the same song in the west.

Let everyone vote their own


Atiku is coming

obembet:
I believe those who wait till there weeding night have better home. Sex before marriage or during wil always end in separation. Most men abandoned Thier relationship whenever they get what they want from lady

Nlfpmod

oikirodah:
Source iReporteronline.
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/this-crowd-at-an-apc-rally-in-benue-demonstrates-tinubus-dominance-of-the-statephotos/