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Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Suchy22(f): 1:06pm On Feb 07, 2019
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Undertaker001: 1:08pm On Feb 07, 2019
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 07, 2019
can you keep it for your husband, having sex when you are not married doesn't worry it. there are many consequences to that, I know it might not be easy but you are capable.

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by CreepyBlackpool: 1:09pm On Feb 07, 2019
pm me your location details, I can help wink
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by JasonScoolari: 1:15pm On Feb 07, 2019
Some people come online and say whatever they want to say just to feel good about themselves.


Thanks to Nairaland. smiley

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Suchy22(f): 1:16pm On Feb 07, 2019
Oma307:
can you keep it for your husband, having sex when you are not married doesn't worry it. there are many consequences to that, I know it might not be easy but you are capable.


What if it continues when I get married? What if I still get scared on my wedding night?

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by IFEOLUWAKRIZ: 1:19pm On Feb 07, 2019
Virginity has obviously lost its meaning. A guy has seen your unclothedness countless times just that he has not penetrated you deeply and you still brand yourself a virginangry. Just like a lady who has never had it with any man but has masturbated on numerous occasions tagging herself a virgin undecided

Anyways,it's not a rocket science. Next time he comes,close your eyes and savour the inexplicable 'sweetness'that accompanies that long rode you have been evading since.You gonna love it.

Or could you be a fake attention seeking mofo? You should have known that pot inbetween your legs is just like a balloon (it can expand to accommodate rod..es of any size)

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Nobody: 1:20pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:



What if it continues when I get married? What if I still get scared on my wedding night?
that is why we have counselors and doctors who have the ability to handle this situation very well
but from the way you are talking, you are ready to lose it

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by zexy2030(m): 1:22pm On Feb 07, 2019
pls don't loose it for your boo who takes pride in disvirgining girls... I'm proud of you..I can marry you without being tested...if only u can remain till u r ready...u might find it difficult to be trusted and getting married if u loose it.. tell ur boo to be responsible since he has seen that u r a virgin and advice him to wait...don't loose it, I say again don't loose..u will cry..when the right person comes and what will crown you a queen could be ur virginity..forget the myths guys tell u...I'm a guy. its purely selfish myths...be proud virgin..finish ur degree.. then prepare to be married..

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Stevengerd(m): 1:24pm On Feb 07, 2019
Just take ur time to listen FALZ Child of the world.
listen attentively to the lyrics...
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by 1StopRudeness: 1:26pm On Feb 07, 2019
IFEOLUWAKRIZ:
Virginity has obviously lost its meaning. A guy has seen your unclothedness countless times just that he has not penetrated you deeply and you still brand yourself a virginangry. Just like a lady who has never had it with any man but has masturbated on numerous occasions tagging herself a virgin undecided

Anyways,it's not a rocket science. Next time he comes,close your eyes and savour the inexplicable 'sweetness'that accompanies that long rode you have been evading since.You gonna love it.

Or could you be a fake attention seeking mofo? You should have known that pot inbetween your legs is just like a balloon (it can expand to accommodate rod..es of any size)

Sense will not kill u jare!!!!!

I've even heard of girls giving anal sex but have never been penetrated in the vaginaa. Yet they say they are virgins......I'm not always getting that part...like u said the word virgin has lost its meaning..
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by fasho09: 1:28pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?
if he loves you, he is not going to pester u for sex... relationship sometimes isn't all about sex
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by solz007(m): 1:29pm On Feb 07, 2019
U Make Me Laugh'
U Call It Love??
I Bet U If He Hits U His Leaving ASAP!


Girl There's More To Relationship Than Just Having S#x Do Other Things That'll Make Y'all Grow In Love!
The Question Isn't if He Loves U, The question Is Do U Love Yourself??
#LoveGod
#FleeFromFornication
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by IFEOLUWAKRIZ: 1:45pm On Feb 07, 2019
1StopRudeness:


Sense will not kill u jare!!!!!

I've even heard of girls giving anal sex but have never been penetrated in the vaginaa. Yet they say they are virgins......I'm not always getting that part...like u said the word virgin has lost its meaning..

NO MIND THEM.LET THEM KEEP BASKING IN THEIR MASSIVE DELUSION. angry
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by MissRaine69(f): 1:51pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?
So if a guy tells you how he did it, how will that help you? He has a p3nis and you have a vagina two very different entities, they don’t work the same way.
1) Suck it up
2) Get inebriated
3) Use a muscle relaxant like diazepam
4) accept it won’t happen and live your life
Do you guys even do 4play?

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by ceeroh(m): 1:52pm On Feb 07, 2019
You're not a virgin. Attention seeker

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Lightangel65: 2:03pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

Don't ever say that again. Virginity is a virtue to be kept until marriage or for life(if you won't marry) for both males and females.

Plus I don't think he loves you, he just lusts.
Loving someone is loving that person without any sexual intention. If he loves you he will wait until marriage.
If I loved someone (hardly possible) sex is ruled out of the matter.
Love is not sex.
You don't necessarily have to marry someone you love.

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Suchy22(f): 2:14pm On Feb 07, 2019
MissRaine69:

So if he guy tells you how he did it, how will that help you? He has a p3nis and you have a vagina two very different entities, they don’t work the same way.
1) Suck it up
2) Get inebriated
3) Use a muscle relaxant like diazepam
4) accept it won’t happen and live your life
Do you guys even do 4play?


We do 4play but I always think about the end result of the action so I end up not enjoying it like that...
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Lightangel65: 2:28pm On Feb 07, 2019
MissRaine69:

So if he guy tells you how he did it, how will that help you? He has a p3nis and you have a vagina two very different entities, they don’t work the same way.
1) Suck it up
2) Get inebriated
3) Use a muscle relaxant like diazepam
4) accept it won’t happen and live your life
Do you guys even do 4play?


Bad advice

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Stevengerd(m): 2:29pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:


We do 4play but I always think about the end result of the action so I end up not enjoying it like that...
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it
Pls at 21, its better u face ur studies serious seriously and forget Relationship.
After having the real taste of u, is gonna leave. Don't be Lured

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Tonyprisca: 2:49pm On Feb 07, 2019
Oma307:
can you keep it for your husband, having sex when you are not married doesn't worry it. there are many consequences to that, I know it might not be easy but you are capable.
please if she's really a virgin I swear she will not have time for the write up OK just keep your advice because that p**y wan repent inugo grin
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Ranchhoddas: 2:50pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?
This world don baje finish.

What is annoying about it biko?

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Delaw00(m): 3:09pm On Feb 07, 2019
Okay
what if they later marry and she's not what she claimed to be....wetin u go do??:/just thinking
zexy2030:
pls don't loose it for your boo who takes pride in disvirgining girls... I'm proud of you..I can marry you without being tested...if only u can remain till u r ready...u might find it difficult to be trusted and getting married if u loose it.. tell ur boo to be responsible since he has seen that u r a virgin and advice him to wait...don't loose it, I say again don't loose..u will cry..when the right person comes and what will crown you a queen could be ur virginity..forget the myths guys tell u...I'm a guy. its purely selfish myths...be proud virgin..finish ur degree.. then prepare to be married..
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by omogidi234(m): 4:17pm On Feb 07, 2019
Suchy22:



What if it continues when I get married? What if I still get scared on my wedding night?

I don't agree with you. Most husbands know what to do when they have virgin wives, so don't worry yourself. I assure you.

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by zexy2030(m): 4:24pm On Feb 07, 2019
Delaw00:
Okay
what if they later marry and she's not what she claimed to be....wetin u go do??:/just thinking
what men want from there women these days is no more sex but trust..if u able to trust her then u will enjoy ur marriage... life is not about testing different kinds of dicks up and down...its about meeting a goal and accomplishing the goal..if ur goal is about reaching for more things below ur abdomen, your brain can never go beyond downward movement. your decisions will be downward, ur lifestyle, spendings, friends will be downwards..u might realise it too late sha..
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by highqueen(f): 4:28pm On Feb 07, 2019
Lol. Funny comments though.
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by OKOATA(m): 4:30pm On Feb 07, 2019
Get High, Take a lot of weed and Take your mind off the pain. I have disflowered about 8girls with that simple trick.
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Delaw00(m): 4:48pm On Feb 07, 2019
Lol,this didn't answer my quest.
zexy2030:

what men want from there women these days is no more sex but trust..if u able to trust her then u will enjoy ur marriage... life is not about testing different kinds of dicks up and down...its about meeting a goal and accomplishing the goal..if ur goal is about reaching for more things below ur abdomen, your brain can never go beyond downward movement. your decisions will be downward, ur lifestyle, spendings, friends will be downwards..u might realise it too late sha..
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by faithfull18(f): 5:29pm On Feb 07, 2019
OKOATA:
Get High, Take a lot of weed and Take your mind off the pain. I have disflowered about 8girls with that simple trick.
What an achievement.

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Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Dollypizzle13(f): 5:33pm On Feb 07, 2019
OKOATA:
Get High, Take a lot of weed and Take your mind off the pain. I have disflowered about 8girls with that simple trick.
shocked
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by MannieA(f): 5:38pm On Feb 07, 2019
JasonScoolari:
Some people come online and say whatever they want to say just to feel good about themselves.


Thanks to Nairaland. smiley


Boss hwfar??Where have you been??
Re: Please Help Me! I'm Tired Of Being A Virgin!! by Pusyiter(m): 5:40pm On Feb 07, 2019
This is a sign that things will get complicated when he finally gets his way
Think of diseases and pregnancy
If he loves you, he would wait for you
Suchy22:
Please y'all have got to help me. I'm 21 and still a virgin and it's crazy annoying. I've tried to lose it countless times but whenever I feel my boo's stuff close to it I get really scared; like how on Earth is something that big going to enter something so tiny. He always feels frustrated whenever I withdraw and I know he's tired already but he's just trying to endure because of the love he has for me.
We even got lube but I'm still scared - it's THAT bad!
I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him but I think I'm pushing him to the wall already.
Please, ladies, how did you lose yours? And guys ,how did you do it?

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