please, I want to break up with my guy(though i haven't gotten a replacement,just fed up), do i tell him that or just pretend and let the relationship die naturally which is best?,

If you have to break up, then you have to let him know about it.
More so, you must not wait until there's a replacement.
It's not even advisable to jump into another relationship almost immediately after a break-up.

I second Douzy's thoughts on this, it's not a break-up unless u let the guy know (some peepz just don't take hints).
If you're bored of the relationship u should simply let him know and allow him to move on, the same way u want to move on.

i second that.

i third it,

he's done u anything bad?

Just let the poor soul know and set him free.

Just let him. It hurts but that way he'll get over it faster than you playing games with his mind

wow , some dudes life is about to change for better or worse

Gurl tell the bobo O ,no make am dey think say im still get babe wey love am. . .The earlier you tell him , the earlier he starts looking for a back up software.

pretty difficult, but u ave 2 let him know. i hope your guy finds a good potter that would pick up the broken pieces of his heart and mend them perfectly well. . all d best dearie.

Baby gal, it's best to let him about the decision you have in mind so that he can accept his fate, ok. it is not a new thing, you just got to opening to him, though it's painful, but, you just got to go your separate ways, ok.

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A breakup isn't like leaving a job you don't want or like. With jobs you have to make sure money 4 hand, back na ground so you SHOULD make sure you have a replacement job b4 you quit the one u don't like. With a relationship, you're playing with someone's heart and the more you hang in there, the more you will begin to resent the person and be hurtful when you eventually leave them. Just let the guy know -- free him and free yourself. You will both have opened the door for the person that loves you truly to find their way to u. Afterall, if your dream guy is scoping you now, he won't make move because you are still attached. So---end d mata.