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Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Olami099(m): 10:57pm On Sep 04, 2010
Yeah,i got u.But nextime dear becareful,achieve ur goals 1st b4 courting with a guy.UNDERSTOOD
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by kcblast(m): 11:06pm On Sep 04, 2010
Believe me,d guy is looking 4 a way to quit d relationship.& dat is b/cos both of u hav achieved what u'll want.
So i suggest u quit on time!!
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 11:29pm On Sep 04, 2010
the thing is,i think your boyfriend i kinda bored with d relationship.he doesn't really value your worth anymore wants to seek fun elsewhere and to do that comfortably,he wants to have u double date so as to justify his future actions.just maybe
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by prettytee1: 11:40pm On Sep 04, 2010
ok,thanks 2 u all.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by prettytee1: 11:41pm On Sep 04, 2010
embarassed embarassed embarassed cryso unfortunate but i just av 2 quit so i wont regret it later.certain God has a better plan 4 me.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by prettytee1: 11:51pm On Sep 04, 2010
most appreciated@kc-blast.thanks 4 d advice
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Kelvinj(m): 12:00am On Sep 05, 2010
pretty, there nothing wrong with what happened between u and ur bf isn't the cause of ur problems Ok. Having sex is not the cause just that he wants 2 break up with u But wants 2 justify it by telling u 2 double date. Anyways just free the guy like terry G u deserve better Ok
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Handsomeemmy(m): 12:36am On Sep 05, 2010
The young man doesn't deserve you, but if i may know , how old is the young man? Most at time life don't open pages the way we want it to be open. Get yourself busy and if possible take a break from relationship though with a time frame since you are a lady. Best of luck in your study and the journey ahead. Take away inferiority complex from you reasoning, no matter what might have happen, life is not alway a bed of roses but roses with thorn. Take care.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by sweetguy10(m): 4:29am On Sep 05, 2010
See all of them playing Good guy , Good sister . Mother teressas they wont castigate the girl for spreading her legs in the first place .Anyway i feel you girl don mind the guy ja re Spread your wings and fly .Broken hearts takes time to heal though some broken hearts never mend .Get ur mind off him and let time heal ur wounds .I'm sure you learnt your lesson - Don't spread your legs cheaply for guys anymore . I no go lie you " BOYS ARE NOT SMILING "
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Maryjanemmj(f): 4:49am On Sep 05, 2010
i see u are the only one given the love here,love is reciprocal,to me he does not love u.so i'll advise u to run while u can and dont look back!!!there is smone outside waiting for u 2 free urself.pls dont give urself cheeply to guys again,i'll advise u 2 choose abstainance.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Tinksh(f): 7:29am On Sep 05, 2010
Prettytee, I wont lie to you, it will be very difficult to forget him and at times you may give in and call or see him. Please save yourself. You will have to be very strong but you deserve so much better. Just take one day at a time. I am in the process of trying to forget a guy and somedays i am cool as and so strong then other days i am a total mess, just depends. If you can hold tight on those weak days you will come through.
Your too young to be treated this way. If he really loved you he would never be happy with you being with someone else. Also money only complicates things. If he offered, then he has nothing to complain about but when you ask it definately complicates things. As far as sleeping with him i dont beleive that was a problem but im am from a very different place. Anyway, that was your own choice. The way he is behaving isnt. I hope you can move on and forward. You have every good thing ahead of you! smiley
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Kelvinj(m): 8:51am On Sep 05, 2010
Tink_sh:

Prettytee, I wont lie to you, it will be very difficult to forget him and at times you may give in and call or see him. Please save yourself. You will have to be very strong but you deserve so much better. Just take one day at a time. I am in the process of trying to forget a guy and somedays i am cool as and so strong then other days i am a total mess, just depends. If you can hold tight on those weak days you will come through.
Your too young to be treated this way. If he really loved you he would never be happy with you being with someone else. Also money only complicates things. If he offered, then he has nothing to complain about but when you ask it definately complicates things. As far as sleeping with him i dont beleive that was a problem but im am from a very different place. Anyway, that was your own choice. The way he is behaving isnt. I hope you can move on and forward. You have every good thing ahead of you! smiley
Exactly tink-sh i dont think that was the probs at all. Anyways sorry abt urs 2,
@sweetguy10
Ur so funny, so the boys aint smiling cos she would stop giving em sex? Even if she doesn't who lose? Smh
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by prettytee1: 5:13pm On Sep 05, 2010
thank u all 4 d advice, its difficult 2 get into any relationship now or soon.i think i shld just b myself and when the tym cums,d ryt person will approach.God bless u all 4 ur advice.u av all been wonderful and God will also meet u all at d point of need.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Moralistli(m): 6:30pm On Sep 05, 2010
thank u all 4 d advice, its difficult 2 get into any relationship now or soon.i think i shld just b myself and when the tym cums,d ryt person will approach.God bless u all 4 your advice.u av all been wonderful and God will also meet u all at d point of need.

I have read some of ur replies, and have got to understand that u 've got all it takes to overcome d situation wit ease. Luv sucks 4 ur kind info.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by cyntlating(f): 6:37pm On Sep 05, 2010
babe am ashamed 4 u.
U mean N1500 4 2yrs??as in N350 pa yr?n ur useless BF sucks u like orange, chei ndai sorry u ear??
go n work get busy n ur taste n choice of a guy wil change,am hopng dat u'v left dat stupid,useles,gud 4 nothng sucker bulshit BF alone.
He wil waste ur life,ur age n block ur future husband,get a beta life
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by cyntlating(f): 6:56pm On Sep 05, 2010
babe am ashamed 4 u.
U mean N1500 4 2yrs??as in N750 pa yr?n ur useless BF sucks u like orange, chei ndai sorry u ear??
go n work get busy n ur taste n choice of a guy wil change,am hopng dat u'v left dat stupid,useles,gud 4 nothng sucker bulshit BF alone.
He wil waste ur life,ur age n block ur future husband,get a beta life
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Moralistli(m): 7:43pm On Sep 05, 2010
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babe am ashamed 4 u.
U mean N1500 4 2yrs??as in N750 pa yr?n your useless BF sucks u like orange, chei ndai sorry u ear??
go n work get busy n your taste n choice of a guy wil change,am hopng dat u'v left dat silly,useles,gud 4 nothng sucker bulshit BF alone.
He wil waste your life,your age n block your future husband,get a beta life.

Is it money making venture? Guess she meant hard currency tho grin
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Gbemyte(f): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2010
@pornodude. Dat shows hw poor u ar. U insulted d poster just because she was honest 2 giv dtails. Is even beta nt 2 reply dan 2 reply wit such a disgustin reponse. Ar u a saint, am sure u must av bleep al d teens in ur area. Silly ass@op. Move on dear. Is part of life experience. Just b wiser 2 whom 2 giv ur heart 2. Cheers.!
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Moralistli(m): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2010
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babe am ashamed 4 u.
U mean N1500 4 2yrs??as in N750 pa yr?n your useless BF sucks u like orange, chei ndai sorry u ear??
go n work get busy n your taste n choice of a guy wil change,am hopng dat u'v left dat silly,useles,gud 4 nothng sucker bulshit BF alone.
He wil waste your life,your age n block your future husband,get a beta life.

Is it money making venture? Guess she meant hard currency tho
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Olami099(m): 7:56pm On Sep 05, 2010
Moralistli:

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babe am ashamed 4 u.
U mean N1500 4 2yrs??as in N750 pa yr?n your useless BF sucks u like orange, chei ndai sorry u ear??
go n work get busy n your taste n choice of a guy wil change,am hopng dat u'v left dat silly,useles,gud 4 nothng sucker bulshit BF alone.
He wil waste your life,your age n block your future husband,get a beta life.

Is it money making venture? Guess she meant hard currency tho grin
why raining all dis insult to d poster?4 God sake she made mistake,nobody is perfect.Instead of u to console her,advice her,u are adding to her wound.Who knws weather its ur turn nextime.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Rocktation(f): 8:14pm On Sep 05, 2010
^^Really trying to figure out the insult in that post.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Rocktation(f): 8:16pm On Sep 05, 2010
^^To the poster, that is.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Omolola1(f): 8:18pm On Sep 05, 2010
same here
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by prettytee1: 8:26pm On Sep 05, 2010
wow, thank u all ooooooooo.i av learnt alot 4rm u all .
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 8:52pm On Sep 05, 2010
@PRETTY TEE- SO YOU HAVE LEARNED A LOT EH? THATS GOOD. SO CAN U KINDLY DO A REVIEW OF ALL THAT YOU HAVE LEARNED?\ COS SOME OF US WOULD LIKE TO KNOW.

U SAID YOU ARE 19 AND YOU ARE PRESENTLY IN UNIV OF IBADAN (MY ALMA MATA) RIGHT? WELL, ONE THING I KNOW U.I FOR IS INSTILLING A HIGH MORAL STANDARD INTO ITS WARDS AND I DONT SEE THE RESULTS OF SUCH EFFORTS IN YOU. SO AT19YRS, YOU HAVE BEEN FORKING THIS SAID GUY FOR 2 YRS AND STILL FORKING HIM TILL DATE RIGHT? THATS PRETTY GOOD OF YOU. AS A TRUE UITE, WHAT EXACTLY IS UR CGPA (OVER 7 I MEAN COS U.I USES 7)? CONTINUE AT THIS RATE AND I CAN ASSURE YOU THAT U.I HAS ITS WAYS OF DEALING WITH ILK LIKE YOU.

YOU SHOULD BE FACING YOUR STUDIES AND ATTENDING FELLOWSHIP AS WE UITES ARE APT TO DO INSTEAD OF SPREADING YOU TOTO FOR THAT GOOD-FOR-NOTHING BOYFRIEND OF YOURS

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE, 2 FOR THE DUMB AND NUMEROUS FOR THE BLOCKHEAD. CHOOSE YOUR CATEGORY.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 9:08pm On Sep 05, 2010
@pornodudu,dt's a bit harsh,she cud be ur younger sis why not advice her gently. Av read ur topic "adamawa girls",and some things you wrote are bad. @poster,pls just try to focus on ur studies,and u'l be fine.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 9:20pm On Sep 05, 2010
Grace 222:

@pornodudu,dt's a bit harsh,she cud be your younger sis why not advice her gently. Av read your topic "adamawa girls",and Some things you wrote are bad. @poster,pls just try to focus on your studies,and u'l be fine.

@GRACE666- SO SOME THINGS THERE ARE BAD EH? CLAP FOR YOURSELF FOR MAKING ME FEEL LIKE A SUPERSTAR AND ADVERTISING MY THREAD. FOR YOUR INFO, I WASNT FORKING ANYONE AT 19 YRS 17YRS OF AGE. STOP DEFENDING HER IMMORAL ACTIONS. IM SURE SHE CAN RELATE MORE WITH ME AND WHAT I SAID IN MY LAST POST. AGBEJORUN(ADVOCATE).

@PRETTY TEE- PLS AM I BEING TOO HARSH ON YOU? IF I AM, THEN THATS THE WAY I WOULD TALK TO MY JUNIOR WAYWARD SISTER TO PUT HER IN LINE.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by prettytee1: 9:23pm On Sep 05, 2010
PORNODUDE@U R A MAN I GUESS?BUT U ACT LYK A KID INSULTING SUM1 YOUNGER THAN U INSTEAD OFINSULTING PEOPLE WHY CANT U JUST LEAVE D POST EMPTY INSTEAD OF BLABBING SHIT.IF U WERE EDUCATED,SORRY REASONABLE U WILL READ D TOPIC AND C IT IS 4 MATURED MIND AND PEOPLE  DATGAT SENSE OF REASONING.4RM  CELINE-PRETTY TEE'S  FRIEND.
As 4 d UI STUFF,u cum 2 skul and prove dat u graduated 4rm d skul.Then,i will knw u r not an IDIOT.Y DONT U MIND UR FUCKING BUSINESS OR CONTINUE INSULTING PEOPLE U DONT KNW ON NAIRALAND COS DAT WAT U CAME 2 DIS LYF 2 DO, SO GO AHEAD.LITTLE MR PORNODUDE, EHWW, ITS SOUNDS IRRITATING AS U R.OH God u r disgusting just lyk a vomit, i dont suffer fools, nd neva gonna reply u no matter wat, bye asshole.if u want 2 c me in person,my name is celine onwueme and also in 300l .i stay in lagos,maryland 2 b precise, tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue Bleep u.NUMSKULL.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 9:34pm On Sep 05, 2010
@PRETTY TEE- WOW!!!!! A LITTLE SPITFIRE YOU ARE. EM. . . . . . . . YES I GRADUATED FROM U.I AND YOU DONT HAVE TO PASTE YOUR DETAILS HERE COS IM NOT INTERESTED IN WHOEVER THR FORK U ARE. PROTECT YOUR IDENTITY (IF U ARE WISE).

WHY DONT YOU TURN SUCH ANGER AND PASSION AGAINST YOUR SAID BOYFRIEND WHO HAS UTILIZED HIS 1500NAIRA GIFT TO THE FULLEST (BY FORKING YOUR Womanliness OUT), AT LEAST IT WOULD BE QUITE EFFECTIVE AGAINT HIM. ER. . . . . . . YOUR FOAMING AND SPITTING ALL OVER THIS THREAD DOES NOT AMOUNT TO EVEN A CHINK IN MY ARMOUR SO SAVE IT.

IT SEEMS THE ONLY THING YOU ARE GOOD AT IS OPENING YOUR LEGS. CLOSE THEM AND BE A DECENT GOOD GIRL.

AS FOR YOUR FRIEND, I GUESS SHE HAD ALWAYS ADVICED YOU TILL DATE AND SEE WHERE IT HAS ENDED YOU IN? YOU AVE BEEN FORKED OUT. A FRIEND INDEED SHE IS.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 9:49pm On Sep 05, 2010
@pornodudu,u r d gbeborun,did u not cheat on ur gf at least na u write am. I dont know d poster,am not supportin her just advisin.
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 9:49pm On Sep 05, 2010
Y do u always look for twobu@porndude? Pls change that username,its irritating and disgusting. You talk i mean write as if u're a saint yet,your username talks alot about you! PORN DUDE= intimacy b.o.y B-)
Re: Pls I Need Advice Seriously.4 Matured Mind Pls by Nobody: 9:55pm On Sep 05, 2010
@GRACE666- i said AGBEJORUN not GBEBORUN. grin grin grin . EM. . . . . . . THE BIBLE SAYS, "IF ANY MAN BE IN CHRIST, HE IS A NEW CREATURE. OLD THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY AND ALL THINGS HAVE BECOME NEW." I AM NOW A NEW CREATURE. NO MORE CHEATING O. I AM A CHRISTIAN NOW AND I WILL FLOG ANYBODY THAT DOES EVIL, LIKE THIS LITTLE SISTER OF MINE WHO HAS GONE THE WRONG PATH.


@STEVETBOY- WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY NAME NA? I LIKE IT NA!!! AND YES, I AM NOW A SAINT OBI. grin cheesy grin grin

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