united442:
op dnt play that game with her...i repeat DONT!!!..atleast nt just now..
observe more,let the green light be a legit one cause if you dare make a move and the green light is not a confirm one,e go make her look down on you the more and she go come they win you 2-0 if you no what i mean..

however,if its a confirm one that she wants you back,o.p runnn,,i repeat runnnn and nvr look back...he cant eat her cake and have it back..

no matter the step or action you take,that mark is already in your heart..

tayooluwole:
This is a girl that once broke my heart bitterly. I fell sick. It was terrible and the pain almost unbearable. My mother begged her of my behalf but to no avail. Some of my friends also came into the matter but all was in vein. I felt that was the end of life. She was my first serious relationship and i loved her dearly. However, with time, the feelings i got for her eroded and after months over months, my mind became free. I have forgotten everything about her except once in a while at my lonely time. Since last week, she has been calling me serially and i never returned her call. I was never harsh on her on phone, we exchanged pleasantries as if nothing ever happened. Perhaps, this is the reason why she never got tired of calling. Just yesterday, surprisingly, my mother informed me that she branched her shop to say hi. Is she showing green light of coming back ? Cos i dont want to jump into conclusion. If she is thinking of coming back, then i can boldly say she has played penalty towards the throwing direction... Though, for now, i got no serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage, but her space in my heart is seriously damaged. That time, she insulted her way out of the relationship and almost crossed line with everyone identifiable with me and that tried to pacify the relationship. But now, she is seriously calling and ask about my well-being... Guys, what do you think?

chiommy123:
I think you still love her. why not give her another chance but be more careful this time and believe me she will love you more this time

tayooluwole:
This is a girl that once broke my heart bitterly. I fell sick. It was terrible and the pain almost unbearable. My mother begged her of my behalf but to no avail. Some of my friends also came into the matter but all was in vein. I felt that was the end of life. She was my first serious relationship and i loved her dearly. However, with time, the feelings i got for her eroded and after months over months, my mind became free. I have forgotten everything about her except once in a while at my lonely time. Since last week, she has been calling me serially and i never returned her call. I was never harsh on her on phone, we exchanged pleasantries as if nothing ever happened. Perhaps, this is the reason why she never got tired of calling. Just yesterday, surprisingly, my mother informed me that she branched her shop to say hi. Is she showing green light of coming back ? Cos i dont want to jump into conclusion. If she is thinking of coming back, then i can boldly say she has played penalty towards the throwing direction... Though, for now, i got no serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage, but her space in my heart is seriously damaged. That time, she insulted her way out of the relationship and almost crossed line with everyone identifiable with me and that tried to pacify the relationship. But now, she is seriously calling and ask about my well-being... Guys, what do you think?

kay4kay:
Please forgive her. Keep fucking her, meet her parents then tell her you took a loan in the bank for your wedding but before then you will like to repair her parents house. In may when the rainy season is high remove their roof. Then japaaaa

SaucyBenks:
if you take her back..... you're a bastard!

kay4kay:
Please forgive her. Keep fucking her, meet her parents then tell her you took a loan in the bank for your wedding but before then you will like to repair her parents house. In may when the rainy season is high remove their roof. Then japaaaa

kindredspirit:
Is it that ex-gf of yours that was bleeping her hostel mate ?

The same girl who was also bleeping her ex-bf, a married man ? The one who you would send money to and she would go visit and bleep the married dude ?

The one that you caught and she told you to forget about her and take her as your younger sister ?

irumole1975:


I'm not perturbed by the laxity in your brain, what I still don't understand is why you've to display it here on Nairaland. Are you this unfortunate?

If you wanna quote me, drop ur number in the comment box. You seems like a good girl to me and I'll want you to give me chance to prove myself to you

tayooluwole:
This is a girl that once broke my heart bitterly. I fell sick. It was terrible and the pain almost unbearable. My mother begged her of my behalf but to no avail. Some of my friends also came into the matter but all was in vein. I felt that was the end of life. She was my first serious relationship and i loved her dearly. However, with time, the feelings i got for her eroded and after months over months, my mind became free. I have forgotten everything about her except once in a while at my lonely time. Since last week, she has been calling me serially and i never returned her call. I was never harsh on her on phone, we exchanged pleasantries as if nothing ever happened. Perhaps, this is the reason why she never got tired of calling. Just yesterday, surprisingly, my mother informed me that she branched her shop to say hi. Is she showing green light of coming back ? Cos i dont want to jump into conclusion. If she is thinking of coming back, then i can boldly say she has played penalty towards the throwing direction... Though, for now, i got no serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage, but her space in my heart is seriously damaged. That time, she insulted her way out of the relationship and almost crossed line with everyone identifiable with me and that tried to pacify the relationship. But now, she is seriously calling and ask about my well-being... Guys, what do you think?

LisaAnne:
ignore her brutally

decatalyst:



The "brutally" got me.

Never make the mistake of allowing anyone that cause you so much pain, to the extent of making you feel its the end to come back into your life.

The return of anything or anyone is always much bad.

tayooluwole:


thanks bro

irumole1975:


I'm not perturbed by the laxity in your brain, what I still don't understand is why you've to display it here on Nairaland. Are you this unfortunate?

If you wanna quote me, drop ur number in the comment box. You seems like a good girl to me and I'll want you to give me chance to prove myself to you

ElsonMorali:


If just out of curiosity, hear her out and what she has to say for herself.

My guess is, your mom will beg on her behalf, and because you still love her anyway (no matter how much you deny it), you'll take her back, otherwise you'd have blocked her number a long time ago or taken a restraining order against her.

You still love her bro.

chiommy123:
I think you still love her. why not give her another chance but be more careful this time and believe me she will love you more this time

Biglittlelois:


Restraining order ke, maka why? She didn't threaten to kill him nah, lol

HumbleBoy21:
forgive me on what I want to say, honestly.

Your mom begged her, your friends begged her, she didn't listen but Left and now she is showing signs and you are thinking of accepting her back.

Make I no call you ozkwooor.

The number one thing I hate is disrespect

chiommy123:
I think you still love her. why not give her another chance but be more careful this time and believe me she will love you more this time

tayooluwole:
This is a girl that once broke my heart bitterly. I fell sick. It was terrible and the pain almost unbearable. My mother begged her of my behalf but to no avail. Some of my friends also came into the matter but all was in vein. I felt that was the end of life. She was my first serious relationship and i loved her dearly. However, with time, the feelings i got for her eroded and after months over months, my mind became free. I have forgotten everything about her except once in a while at my lonely time. Since last week, she has been calling me serially and i never returned her call. I was never harsh on her on phone, we exchanged pleasantries as if nothing ever happened. Perhaps, this is the reason why she never got tired of calling. Just yesterday, surprisingly, my mother informed me that she branched her shop to say hi. Is she showing green light of coming back ? Cos i dont want to jump into conclusion. If she is thinking of coming back, then i can boldly say she has played penalty towards the throwing direction... Though, for now, i got no serious relationship that may likely lead to marriage, but her space in my heart is seriously damaged. That time, she insulted her way out of the relationship and almost crossed line with everyone identifiable with me and that tried to pacify the relationship. But now, she is seriously calling and ask about my well-being... Guys, what do you think?

Biglittlelois:
Delete her from your existence, what rubbish, I dislike people that go petty with insults when they want to break up with someone, it's stupidity

Biglittlelois:



This is always my sermon for relationships.