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Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Nobody: 11:54pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
raphretle:you wanna be a man? Resign from the job her step Dad got you and walk away into a new life of your very own where you make your own decisions for your very own self. Chikena 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by luvyaself95(m): 11:55pm On Mar 25, 2019 |
raphretle:That Karma for You, You Reap what you sow.. if a girl love me the way your girl love you what else i want in this life.. even God Love Us and Want Us To Love Him Return... If the girl family behave somehow to you in future it must be you behave anyhow to their daughter in the first place... I hope you get my points.. Oya Go Propose To her tomorrow morning ... 3 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by raphretle: 12:03am On Mar 26, 2019 |
luvyaself95: Like... I get you loud and clear... But propose tomorrow morning. THANKS MAN |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by raphretle: 12:09am On Mar 26, 2019 |
IntrovertedK:Thanks so much... |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by JustBeing: 12:38am On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphretle: See the length you want to go to end it with this lady; setting her up. Your mind is deep. You clearly dated the lady for the convenience and benefits that came with the relationship. Now you feel you can do better and should try your luck somewhere. I won't go telling you shit about karma cos i don't believe in it but you'll definitely regret it if you leave this girl cos i can't imagine how you dated someone for 5 years and only just found out that the love isn't there. Be man (can you be called that sef?) enough and end it with the poor girl as gently as you can cos she'll be better off without an ungrateful, heartless soul like you. Don't even try for a marriage cos you'll end up hating her knowing you forced your useless self into a marriage with her. Just break it off asap and hopefully she'll heal quickly and spend the rest of her life thanking God for saving her from a life of doom with someone as cold and calculated like you. 10 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Dway4ward1: 12:41am On Mar 26, 2019 |
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Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Eagba(m): 1:13am On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphretle:cold and calculated is one way to describe you. but guy stop feeling fly. mctewww. just call the the lady talk to her let her know what you're going through n if she agree to quit it good, if you guys can talk it through on how to move forward and make adjustment on loving n living together, good. you've no legal and moral right to leave her. you sold yourself into the arrangement when accepted goodies for five years without having the moral justification or gut to say no then. op the major part of the problem now is that you're having a mental block and almost nothing we say can get you to love her easily. work on that. 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by antidisestablis: 1:27am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Try and dump her and what will happen. Ingrate! 4 Likes
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Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by tunize(m): 2:56am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You see ur self nah ppl like una dey turn good girl to strong mind come begin tag all men are scum or wicked. Is only unfortunate that she loved an ingrate like u whilst better men wud have been at her call all along but she decide to stay with you. So, why didn't u quit all along? Cos u have a selfish plan all along. Bros my advise to you is very simple guy change cos be bad person* no needset her up!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Nobody: 3:46am On Mar 26, 2019 |
OP take am. Its fresh and uncooked 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by aanuoluwami14(f): 4:10am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Actuarydeji: Some men are just wicked, haba! for how many years. That is why some ladies do not want to help some lazy ass again. I'm happy for the lady that the mumu is saying this now, broken relationship is better than broken marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by ghettochild4u(m): 4:34am On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphretle:Mr Oga, u see why some families no dey help church rat like u? Cos u r double crossers n ingrates... Leave her n see how shakushaku ur life will b within two years. After u don see d babe in n out finish.. Why you no tell d uncle say u no love her when he dey run around for u to get a job?? If d girl family no swear for u.... Ur village people will surely come for u 6 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by optm(m): 5:03am On Mar 26, 2019 |
u re selfish. why did u go into a relationship with her when u never loved her? I guess it's been ur nature to use relationships with pple for selfish interest. probably u saw she was from an OK family and u tagged along so u could benefit from her and family. u had it all figured out from the onset. there re so many guys like that. please break up with her so u do not treat a badly in marriage;she deserves better . 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Nobody: 6:10am On Mar 26, 2019 |
optm:it's because of things like this that turn women to slayqueen and the golddiggers you all hate. If i am the babe,i will cause him to be impotent and his life to be worse than shakushaku. Arrant nonsense. Betraying your benefactor is the highest sin 5 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by optm(m): 7:08am On Mar 26, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:lolz impotent kwa? don't mind d OP. these days good girls re hard to come by ; he's fortunate to hv one and he doesn't realize he's one lucky dude. I hope if he break's up with d girl, she realises it was best she never got to marry some1 like d OP and may she find someone that would appreciate her kind nature. 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Opto1: 8:10am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Fake DNA genotype test if you haven't done one before. Propose to her and then followed by the test. Set yourself up, get raped in her presence when she next she visit......... Boom, you are HIV positive ( fake test too). Or better still some stupid family tradition concerning marriage, just make something up. Breaking up in Nigeria is so easy. You are now too beautiful, I'm not doing again 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by anthonyuncle(m): 8:33am On Mar 26, 2019 |
since u don't love her, I won't advice u marry her out of pity. plz tell her da truth, break up with her & wait for God's punishment (cos God must certainly punish u) 3 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by waka2: 8:34am On Mar 26, 2019 |
After five years, you just realize you don't love her,you need help,don't know what to say,go on and see,they no dey tell man the thing wet go tell am go tell am. 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by PrettyEneawan(f): 8:37am On Mar 26, 2019 |
You Are An Ingrate, Such A Wicked Fellow
Dump Her And See How Your Life Will Be 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by matrixmuzi: 8:50am On Mar 26, 2019 |
U are comfortable now and now u know u don't luv her. Trust me I will put a gun on your head and blow ur brains off. You don't deserve to breath. 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by generationz(f): 9:38am On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphretle: My dear marriage is a life time journey too long for you to marry anyone out of pity. The best thing is to breakup with her and deal with the consequences like a man personally I understand you. don't let nairalanders make you feel guilty No man wants to owe any woman anything. it emasculates him. Especially when he is a glorified houseboy like you have become. Its even easier for women to do this than men too much expectations destroys love. Love thrives on fantasy. keep the fire of fantasy blowing and the person will do anything for you. Bring them back to reality and they will be bored. but my question is when you were sexing her all through five years were you in love with her or what? why wait this long to pull out? Its not fair on the girl but I'll advice you get another job or business and let her move to a man who loves her. 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Jagaban880: 9:42am On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphemmanuel: op listen / follow dis guy advice i no go talk much.. |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by generationz(f): 11:20am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Eagba: there is obviously another woman or other women in the picture |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Barzinime(m): 11:38am On Mar 26, 2019 |
Resign from the job they got you, then you can now tell her you dont want her anymore. If not, you must marry her & if you dont, you will regret that decision & dont come back here to lament to us about "Oh Had I known". Nonsense Want to eat your cake & still have it, you are one of the reasons some people dont like to help 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by raphretle: 12:13pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
generationz:Hmmmm.... Thanks so much that u understand me... I love this term you used : Glorified houseboy, that's exactly what is happening, they don't care about my own personal activities if they need my attention they expect me to just appear... Not that I didn't love her, I loved her so much but I started feeling as if she is my sibling..cuz of how close I am to the family... It was not a planned something, I see her as a sister now |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by goodnewscliff(m): 12:26pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
phintohlar:i jst love this comment 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by optm(m): 1:02pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
raphretle:I see . they treat u as a son and in ur eyes, u re a houseboy? how come u neva saw ursef as a housboy bfr dey set u up to d level u re now? is your relationship with her sexual ? 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by SouthSouth1914: 1:05pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
badadvice: This guy would not have a future if his girlfriend’s family didn’t helped him a lot. It’s a tricky situation- the guy once lived the girl, but now he is in money with a good job, he now has other tastes!! This is the reason the rich don’t want to help the poor because they always turn out as ingrates! 2 Likes |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by Hammedolu: 1:14pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
My brother, I advice you to marry this lady. You will not regret marrying this lady. What's your definition of love? Please review and analyse your of terms. Some years ago, I was in the same situation. I was dating a lady for 6years and her family has impacted in many ways. I eventually married her and we are happy. 9years on in the marriage, no regrets. My brother, it is apparent God sent this lady to you. There are your Angels, if you miss it. You will definitely regret it 100%. One of my uncle, who has trained has as a minister and we all know he has a call of God on him. Rejected an offer to be a Pastor in one of the churches established by his In-law when he was 35years old. He is 60years now, still begging to feed his family. The church now has branches in Nigeria and over 30 countries. My brother, It is simply PRIDE. Nobody will control you. Go ahead and marry her. They are your helpers. A word is enough for the wise. Thank you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by raphretle: 1:17pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
Opto1:Thought of such things but she is a stubborn type n wontvgive a damn |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by festico: 1:19pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
[quote author=raphretle post=76982712]I have dated this lady for 5 years now, we are still dating.. we met during our undergraduate days, she has been a good person to me, very kind and supportive.. Here is the problem : All her family members know me.. Infact am like a son to them cause they do call on me for errands that need quick response, Infact her uncles(her dad is late n her mum got married) trust me wt money than her brothers ..Cuz she stays with her uncle.. After my NYSC, her uncle helped me secure a job with the highest academic Institution in Nigeria (NIPSS) ... Now they expect me to marry their daughter but to be frank I don't love the lady... I don't know how to just make her go away. I just want to avoid been controlled by her family, ... I tried to set her up so I could have something to hold on for the breakup to avoid her family's anger and any form of guilt.. but I end up pitying her and forgive her instead... I know they tried for me,i owe them alot..But how to get rid of her in an honorable way is what I don't know..... You can call it wickedness if you li ke,but just give me the advice I need.. Ladies and Gentlemen Help a brother... [ /quote] Why would you still love her Kpekus you don nakam for 5years Boobs you don suck am for 5years The family influence has elevated to where you are. All of a sudden you no longer loves her Brother there is one thing called CARMA when it comes do not blame village people. 1 Like |
Re: Help:she Made Me Who I Am by jeph19(m): 1:47pm On Mar 26, 2019 |
pcguru1: True ooo I pray I don't fall into this kind of thing someday 2 Likes |
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