greatagain17:
Don't feel bad. Your life isn't ruined at all. Masturbati0n is normal. I do it often as well but in moderation just like when it comes to taking alcohol and weed. Going to the brothel will only waste ur money. Try to get a gf or if possible marry. Your sexual libido is kinda high. It is better to self service than to RAPE or get infected with STDs.

please how do too much masturbation makes a guy unable too pregnant a woman..? Someone should answer this question, it is important

I May Be Able To Help... 07033356616. Marriage Does Not Stop It. There Are Many Married Masturbators.

op needs a girlfriend or wife

WebSurfer:

Speak for yourself only ode. I’ve never maturbatee since i was born and i can never be comfortable doung such


Like i said earlier, always speak for yo damn self

Pple like u has done more masturbation than the op...ur a born liar...shame on u and do something about ur spellings ode

Who introduced you into it

[quote author=buhariski post=77011470]I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide...you have mental issues not maturation
you think less of your self that's why you keep holding to your past rejection break away from your past and set yourself free from within and see if you will keep master bating constantly.

AlphaMajestic:


Pple like u has done more masturbation than the op...ur a born liar...shame on u

Lol

everybody masturbates buh we Nigerians see it as something that's abominable

I was surprised when I caught my colleague during my school days wanking
he was the one that always preach against masturbation and fornication

since that day,he always shy anytime he sees me and his self confidence dropped drastically

First of all, stop watching porn. Then discipline yourself.

The porn is the origin of the problem, it beclouds your mind with constant sexual thoughts

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

You are at your pick of performance in any thing you want to do

Your constant urge is as a result of your active age time and period

But you might end up injuring those nerves in your dick region before they are ready to do thier work of pregnanting a woman

Get a girlfriend since you are working and calmly explain to her how high your sex urge is and being a friend you need her help to tame your dick

You said girls are turning you down, it's because you have not meet your grade, those you are approaching are above your grade and status

Look for your level or a girl of your grade and you will fit in properly.

If you don't take control or take charge, chances are that you will rape a minor and you will face it

Dami12345:
Bro use ashawo joor.
Look dont let anyone lie to you. Everybody self-services. Even girls. I wan. Yes bro I have a girl. And so many offers from other girls but I still self-service from time to time. Its healthy. Just not so often. Like everything in life. Do in moderation.

Bro everyone goes through this stage. Most will lie but go back and do them shit. Just take care cause its better to be a wakner than for someone to lie rape on your head.

do not mislead the young man bro.. The truth is always bitter and better. What he is passing through is not normal but satanic. Masturbation is bad. It gives ill luck and you won't peace of mind I know what am saying because I was there. If you care to stop it, go for deliverance because it's beyond the natural

Martinez39:
a BONERfide nairalander.

QUIT playing with words.
PORN intended.

hope someone who has been masturbating for close to 8 years now can still impregnate woman?

chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

Best advice here. Take it or continue wanking.

messi042:
hope someone who has been masturbating for close to 8 years now can still impregnate woman?

U people will not answer questions Abi...

Masturbation Is A Demonic Spirit Controling Ur Sexual Vogur. Is Very Tidous 2 Quit Especially Wen The Said Person Is Badly Adicted. Is Only By God's Intervention.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

Masturbation is healthy, it destroys
The side effect on your spiritual, physical, psychological and mental state is diverse
But you can overcome it,
You need
1. God's help : for without is help we can do nothing, to get God' s help you must become born again, giving ur life to Christ
2. Self control, try your best to stop watching porn
3. Distract your mind, get something doing
4. Surround yourself with friends and people you can talk to.
5. Feed your spirit with the word of God and prayers daily.

Yes you can overcome it, with the help of the most high God

lathrowinger:
Bros, that something do happens to many. I pray God should intervain

*Intervene.

IamD18:
The best way to stop it is to agree the fact that it is unstoppable.

Stop feeling guilty, that's the only problem chronic masturbators are facing. The inner guilt that follows is the major problem here. Most people masturbate, most are addicts. It's not gender specific. It's normal.

You should be more bothered and concerned about two things right now.

>How to deal with your low productivity at work.
>How to stop getting sexually aroused at the sight of kids.

First; By all means, stop masturbating at night. Re-schedule it. You just have to, you need to, you can't stop it entirely, but you should at some point, know how to control yourself. If you have being able to go a week without masturbating, then you can stop masturbating at night if you want, because if you keep masturbating at night, you'll one day get sacked.

Secondly; Get a good and close friend, a lady preferably. She can help you savage this situation psychologically. What you lack is interaction and friendly mutual feelings from the opposite sex. That's all. I can confidently tell that you don't have close female friends, hence the reason you aren't used to interacting with ladies without getting hard boner.

Please Bruv. It is very important to deal with the issue of getting aroused unnecessarily so that you don't end up raping or abusing someone.

If worse is the case. Start patronizing brothels. It's even safer, albeit addictive too.

Goodluck!

Someone is trying to break from an addiction, you are advising him to embrace another addiction??

Masturbation is stoppable, am a living witness

But you cannot do it without God's help

Bro u need Jesus, he loves you, ask him to come into your life and you will see a new thing

buhariski:

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

This is the most funny shit I've read on the internet since this year

Stop watching porn thats the solution
And stop feeling guilty after masturbating that's what weighs you down

If the above options didn't work
Just go and marry or cut off your dick to avoid making fp with headline like
Nairalander caught in bed with 15 years old girl

Meet your pastor and confess to him. Once u expose d evil act to him it will flee from you.

messi042:
hope someone who has been masturbating for close to 8 years now can still impregnate woman?

yes of course

What kills Africans especially religious Nigerians is the after guilt of it

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

This has everything to do with what you have feed your mind with over a long period of time. To flush it out you need to feed your mind with something else, it's not going to be a month fix, it could be for years but as time goes your condition becomes better.
Secondly you need to learn how to substitute thoughts, replace any thought of masturbating with another thought of your choice, it may be soccer, or a skill or what ever, immediately you notice that you are thinking of sex purposely change the thought with a positive one.
I wish u all the best

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

Op, u are not alone bro.
I can relate and u can c d traffic on this thread to know that alot of guys out there can also relate.

Firstly, quit porn. Thats what i did but then i havent been able to stop masturbation. Infact, i av accepted the feeling.

Secondly the issue with girls, young girls can be a serious threat oooo, u should not undermine that feeling. If not, u will disgrace yourself totally. Find female friends to communicate with. Just for communication so that u can feel relaxed around them. Appreciate communication over appearance. It would help.

Being single is not easy ooo with all these 'witches' hanging around every now and then. It is not always your fault that you are rejected. Women are very complicated. Even when the signs are glaring that they like you, next thing na to curve you when you make the move. Na money i dey hustle for, i cant waste precious time racking my head over what i did wrong, i just let them go and wait on God for the right time and person. Thats y i used the word 'witches' for them because they can turn ur head upside down.

chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

buhariski:
Thanks bro. but for d issue of using small phone I've sold many smart phone just because I wanted to stop masturbation yet it seems i'm just wasting my money on phones. The porn movies has really gotten into my brain sometimes I don't really need phone to play it. all I need do is to visualize it in my mind that's all. so using small phone can't really change anything.

As long as you realize that excessive masturbation will make you impotent. Getting married isn't the cure for masturbation either. Self discipline is. Get busy with your mind and train your eyes.

[quote author=buhariski post=77011470]I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't
resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.[/quote
op,its all in your head,u have psychological issues which originated from excessive porn,u see porn was designed to mke the girl and guy actor all look perfect but also cunningly designed to reorientate peoples mind abt their opposite sex e.g most chronic women watchers now want big dick,rough sex and a guy that last one hour plus,while most male chronic watchers,now obsess abt secondary school girls,blow jobs ,sex with sister or cousin and believe all women wnt dick and re sluts.. thats why u re getting hard at 15year olds when b4 ur chronic watching u had normal relationships. the solution is strengthening ur mind psychologically and practising sexual transmutaion..u can know more abt that on google.. peace..

Guy, since you said, you live in Ibadan, there are many girls in Ibadan that i can personally introduce to you. if you dont mind you can send me message via my email address: wkh1207@gmail.com

You don't need all these things they are mentioning here. All you need is JESUS CHRIST and your case is settled. Why must you engage in premarital sex relationship?? Why must you masturbate?? Masturbation is demonic, while sex without marriage will quench the flame of your life. Flee from them. Accept JESUS today and be saved.

I really don't get how your dick go erect oniown and you no go know..... I'm not understanding that part.