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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by greatagain17(m): 2:14am On Mar 29, 2019
Don't feel bad. Your life isn't ruined at all. Masturbati0n is normal. I do it often as well but in moderation just like when it comes to taking alcohol and weed. Going to the brothel will only waste ur money. Try to get a gf or if possible marry. Your sexual libido is kinda high. It is better to self service than to RAPE or get infected with STDs.




buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by nurusystem(m): 2:17am On Mar 29, 2019
TourismMan:
You need Jesus
No he needs wife,,,
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Chonu79(m): 2:21am On Mar 29, 2019
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buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Chonu79(m): 2:23am On Mar 29, 2019
Just ask for God's Mercy and he'll deliver you brother...Don't feel bad okay.

The Lord's your strength!



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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Came4apost(m): 2:58am On Mar 29, 2019
sherylbakky:
Av u checked ursef?
Y do u think u cud b aving much rejection from girls?
He his probably not following up on those girls .. And maybe he his broke .. If you are broke stay Clear of dating and relationship it is wahala

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by deebrain(m): 3:14am On Mar 29, 2019
You need a healthy sexual relationship.

Nothing is wrong with you-- you apparently have a high sexual drive which is good if disciplined.

How old are you by the way? You are financially OK? Marriage seems to beckon on your body

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by stanliwise(m): 3:21am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.
Masturbation is not a problem. watching erotic stuff is

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by OyinO: 3:29am On Mar 29, 2019
That's your own life because you lack self control and moderation or balance. It has saved several countless lives.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by dapillar: 3:30am On Mar 29, 2019
I blame konji for this.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Gentlefineboy(m): 3:40am On Mar 29, 2019
chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.
Your head dey there my G...Dat wat i do o

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 3:54am On Mar 29, 2019
dollyjoy:
Stop watching porn op and keep yourself busy with meaningful activities, the Shame and guilt that follows after the act is not worth it... you guys think of sex too Much... Haaa
dollyjoy... How about two of us? Let me lay with you, how about that?
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by saintneo(m): 4:16am On Mar 29, 2019
Deliverance!
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness. ...............
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Omudia11: 4:17am On Mar 29, 2019
Just look at the stupid advice you're taking. You have a serious problem but you don't know it yet. All these people giving you useless advice will not face your issues with you. You are responsible for your life and actions and let me tell you it is not normal at all for you the erect at the sight of minors. Masturbation has already done a significant damage to your life and you're planning to go further.
You won't understand now, but you will later, maybe when a much more significant damage is already done.
buhariski:
Salutes bro u dey game too. I don't have any favorite porn star but I luv crystal clear from d bbw world I don't know if she has retired now.I know Cherokee d ass,and messaratti. I luv home made ebony videos it real to me and fat ass bbw videos. don't forget black creamy pu**y get f **ked. mehn just watching those videos can make me cum six times a day.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by fredie107(m): 4:18am On Mar 29, 2019
Jesus is the answer

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by ThatHistoryGuy(m): 4:20am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.


Bro I totally understand your plight
And there is only 1way out .
That way may sound stupid (depending on my ur view of life and religion) but I put it to you as personally tested and trusted that only the grace of God can make the urge to masturbate die in you.
Disturb God for that grace that is if you really want to overcome it.
GOODLUCK BRO

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Omudia11: 4:25am On Mar 29, 2019
So you've completely stopped it now or you do it once in a while?
PotatoSalad:
Lol.
OP you're always less busy I guess. Get busy, engage your mind.
Go to the electronics store and buy a ps4. Buy long and engaging games too. Immerse yourself in the virtual worlds.
Start working out. Go for morning runs, go to the gym in the evening so that when you get home you're exhausted and fall asleep.
Reduce your masturbation count. If you do it 7 times a week, reduce it to 4 times, then 2 times then once in awhile. After some time you wouldn't see any need for it.
Go out more often, hang out, meet new people. You can't avoid pornographic content on the internet, so try not to spend your time looking for or at them.
Combine all of these and you'll be fine in no time.
I did that shii at 18 and it felt so good that i got hooked for years till i took it up as a challenge. I went 3 months straight without it, then 6 months, then years lmao
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 4:35am On Mar 29, 2019
PotatoSalad:
Lol.
OP you're always less busy I guess. Get busy, engage your mind.
Go to the electronics store and buy a ps4. Buy long and engaging games too. Immerse yourself in the virtual worlds.
Start working out. Go for morning runs, go to the gym in the evening so that when you get home you're exhausted and fall asleep.
Reduce your masturbation count. If you do it 7 times a week, reduce it to 4 times, then 2 times then once in awhile. After some time you wouldn't see any need for it.
Go out more often, hang out, meet new people. You can't avoid pornographic content on the internet, so try not to spend your time looking for or at them.
Combine all of these and you'll be fine in no time.
I did that shii at 18 and it felt so good that i got hooked for years till i took it up as a challenge. I went 3 months straight without it, then 6 months, then years lmao
pls do you have idea of the price(ps4)
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 4:50am On Mar 29, 2019
SIRTee15:
Guy don't let anyone deceive u....
What u need is sex....
Regular sex for a very long time.....
This will deal with the urge, masturbation and helps with self control on the long run.....
I don't know much about ashawo but u can visit the ashawo thread for advise....
But the cost and risk involved doesn't make it a better alternative....

Get urself a girlfriend, even if it's below your class or a girl from a lower socioeconomic background....
I don't really your own status, but just enter any of those post secondary school ancillary institution and get urself a girl with decent taste.....
They will be happy to date u....
Apart from the sex of a thing, she will help improve your social skills, mannerisms, and possibly change your wardrobe if it's awkward....
All the above will boost your confidence which is wjat u actually need to get a girl of your desire.....
U can't really eradicate masturbation completely, but u can control it, which I think u struggling with presently....

Finally, if u an eligible bachelor...
Maybe it's time u seriously consider getting married....
Start attending a church and be regular....
There always a surplus of readily available single women in nigerian churches....
At all at all, na him bad pass....
U sha must get hooked up with one, even if u don't really like her....
U can always keep an open mind and take it up from there....

another advice I'll give u is regular exercise.....
register with a gym and get active daily....
exercise helps relax your body and balance those raging hormones running wild in your blood...
If u can engage in swimming, that will be a huge plus.....
swimming stabilize your mood and makes u less tense, thereby improving your ability to self control and keeping your mind focused....

The above are the practical solutions and the earlier u consider them the better....
Chronic masturbation is a cause of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation....
So that it won't be like when u now really need to start shooting....
Gobe go start....

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by kelvinovie25(m): 4:51am On Mar 29, 2019
I understand how you feel bro, I was once like you, your mind need so much construction, cus it has been corrupted, just like mine when I was in the world, even if you don't have a girlfriend or you are being rejected, you can still live fine without masturbating, you need work on your mind, quitting porn, you can start from there, and make a decision and stick to it, above all go close to God, learn about God and I assure you, you will find true happiness. Pls do read Roman's 12:1-2

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by LikesAndShares: 5:20am On Mar 29, 2019
Alright, let's do this.

Those who think masturbation is cool, click like.

Those who think masturbation is evil, click share.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by mercyland93(m): 5:21am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.


My guy, just cool urself down and try to limit ur self-help to once in a week. So as for u not to 'loose weight, loose ur job and not to secret all nutrients/fertility that might be needed to father a child/children.

A lot of gys do masturbate a lot, even findings shows that about 85% ladies do give themselves self-help. So dealing in something like that isn't abnormal but needed to apply moderation.

For the fact that u presently live in Ibadan, getting a lady for relationship shouldn't be difficult cus they are so much available, either beautiful or ugly - they full ground. You could even get a lady from ur state who is as well looking for a serious brother in Ibadan (I'm saying this, cus that's where I live).

I detext going to a prostitute cus it's somehow ridiculous. So engage ur self-help with common sense, till u get urself a girlfriend.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by femi4: 5:49am On Mar 29, 2019
dollyjoy:
Stop watching porn op and keep yourself busy with meaningful activities, the Shame and guilt that follows after the act is not worth it... you guys think of sex too Much... Haaa
just be a guy for 24hrz and you ll understand
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Nobody: 5:54am On Mar 29, 2019
buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

maybe you should start visiting brothel so you can contact HIV
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by solomedoh: 5:57am On Mar 29, 2019
You are under powerful spiritual control and it can lead to poverty guy.

You better take very serious and go for cleansing with fasting and prayer if you love your life and you really want to end well l mean leaving a poverty less life.

Please meet your pastor for deliverance and get yourself set free from this bondage guy please.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by riczy(m): 5:58am On Mar 29, 2019
TourismMan:
You need Jesus
as if u av him!
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by kayceephotizo(m): 6:01am On Mar 29, 2019
This answer is jesus. Receive him today and be free
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by folashele(m): 6:03am On Mar 29, 2019
Your mind can be smarter than a smart phone so getting rid of the smart phone won't solve it
As some people will like to argue mastyrbation is not OK for a person who desires focus
What you can do is easy
Try not to always be alone
Try to spend most of your time playing games get a hard game tasking and try to challenge yourself
Draw out a calendar and get rid of the addiction gradually
If you are spiritually inclined listen to sermons they will change how you see yourself

Addictions don't start in a day and they don't go in a day
Reposition your mentality
No one can help you but you
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by Kingsley1000(m): 6:04am On Mar 29, 2019
Limit the porn you are watching
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by TotoNaRubber: 6:16am On Mar 29, 2019
The way you are going, one day u are likely to rape a child.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined My Life by BennyDon: 6:17am On Mar 29, 2019
I like your courage, you're an inch to solution. Take your mind off those thoughts, avoid or reduce the porn addiction and get yourself a girlfriend. I bet it, you'll feel much better. Ndo, Nwam!

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