buhariski:
bro I've checked myself very well and I used to ask myself some question like why am I getting rejections and what is it I,'m nt doing right. though I have some flaws I can lie u. I no b ugly guy oo even when I was still in my state then I've had many advances from d girls. some girls confessed they're tripin and some fall in loved with me. that year for school during one of the semester exam a girl once kissed and romance me in the presence of over 400 students and a lecturer. she did it on the platform when all eyes was on us dat day I was not conversant with the girl. I only knew her to be a course mate. A friend to my guy girlfriend kiss and romance me in presence of my girlfriend ask her why she was acting DAT way ,she said she can't resist my look .I had to make her apologize to my girlfriend dat day. today is not another story . na me come d hussle for woman I don't know if was because I change environment could it tribal differences, language barrier and some other factor I can't understand.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

francesco01:

hmmmmm meself dey hard everytime o,but,I dey control myself making sure I don't masturbate,4cking ashawo self better pass wanking o

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

noisy45:
U no get work that is why if you are really busy with work you not remember when last you had erection but to solve your solution get a Calabar girl as sex mate. You can holla at me if you want

WebSurfer:

Speak for yourself only ode. I’ve never maturbatee since i was born and i can never be comfortable doung such


Like i said earlier, always speak for yo damn self

Jagaban880:
baba go and marry....if u no fit toast womam go village yr mama go epp u find wife

Dami12345:
Bro use ashawo joor.
Look dont let anyone lie to you. Everybody self-services. Even girls. I wan. Yes bro I have a girl. And so many offers from other girls but I still self-service from time to time. Its healthy. Just not so often. Like everything in life. Do in moderation.

Bro everyone goes through this stage. Most will lie but go back and do them shit. Just take care cause its better to be a wakner than for someone to lie rape on your head.

udy001:
Let's be realistic here. What this gentleman just shared is touching. It calls for those with deep concern for him. Really, it's not a laughing matter. He needs help, and i strongly believe he's been perusing through this threads to see who will offer him the advice he needs to get out from the mess he has found himself. Unfortunately, there are many people like him out there on the street struggling in similar situation. Just last week, a young man called me pouring his heart out on how masturbation is dealing with him. I asked him how he got my number? He said from my outreach poster he saw on the street. Well, today he is FREE. I will soon tell you how he got his FREEDOM. My friend, let me begin by applauding your courage for pouring out your heart here in this forum. Really, it can only take someone who has been in similar situation like yours to understand what you are passing through.Well, I have been there. As a young boy after my secondary school, waiting to gain admission into the university, i was always at home doing nothing, watching movie, etc. One day i decided to borrow a movie from my neighbor who just returned from the US. I picked up a movie from a basket full of VHS movie tapes. This was January 1994 to be precised. The movie i picked was titled, "Double Impact". It looks good, and i quickly went home to watch it. Unfortunately, when i played the movie, what came out from the screen was a "Blue Film". In fact, it wasn't what i expected to see. I was expecting an action movie, but here am i, sitting in front of the TV watching a pornographic movie. To stop it was a challenge because the more i watched, the more the movie became interesting. Before you know it, i sat for over 2-hours until the movie was finished. Really, i became another man when i stood up from that place. From that moment i started acting strange, having unusual desire for sex, touching my penis, and always chasing after the house help, Elizabeth, in our house. In fact, the "little girl hear am". I tore her pant one day trying to penetrate into her, but she refused. She fought with all her strength to defend herself. Wherever she is today, I salute her for her courage. I began to masturbate from that period. It became terrible...that i even masturbate while driving, after church service, and almost anywhere. My trouser was always swelling because my penis was always "on". It became so embarrassing situation for me. I was so ashamed to share it with anybody. Within that period, I became sick unto death. I was loosing weight so fast. Then my family took me to different hospitals around Lagos, and several tests were conducted on me. It was found that my backbone was growing, i was having kidney problem, heartbeat disorder, drying up like crayfish, and having an unusual headache that defiled all medication. I remember one day crying out loud to God for mercy. Then i said, Lord Jesus save me. Heal me and i will do two things for you: (1) I will not go near a lady until I get married; (2) I will preach your gospel round the world. Immediately i finished this prayer, i heard a loud voice saying, "you are healed". This was June 18th 1996, a day before my birthday (19th June). I was driving to a place in Allen Avenue called "Pintos" then, to go buy ice cream and cake with a friend. This great encounter happened at the 7UP, by Motorways Ikeja, at the traffic junction leading to Daystar Church. In that instant, all the sickness in my body left me including the MASTURBATION.The urge to masturbate died INSTANTLY from that day. Before, i can't stay a day without masturbation. But from that day, I got my freedom by the Power in the Name of Jesus. Friend, go no further. It's only Jesus that can save you in this thing. I tried using my willpower, by setting goals and trying to be more disciplined, but the force of masturbation was stronger.You know why? It's DEMONIC. It's ONLY the POWER IN THE NAME OF JESUS THAT CAN CHECKMATE IT. Do you know i stayed 10-years not going near a lady until I got married in 2006. The Lord kept me. Then I realized through this, that it is possible to live clean in an unclean world. Today, i am married with children, and have traveled round the world preaching the gospel. Now, coming to the young man that came to me last week. what i did was to shared the word of God to him. Immediately, he gave his life to Christ, and I prayed for him. He was in my office yesterday and he said. Sir, I have not been able to masturbate since that day you prayed with me". What has happened to him? He opened up his heart, and Jesus took over. I bet you, that's what you need NOW to be FREE. Wherever you are right now, just humble yourself before God, cry out to him, genuinely repent, and give your life to Jesus. He will exchange His strength with yours...and you will become empowered to overcome. Hope this helps. All the best.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner.
Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

pcguru1:
How old are you sef

buhariski:
haha bro I didn't mean to commit suicide oo I was just playing with words. but i really need d sex oo i just need something physical like romance kissing and some good Bleep some wonderful sex styles. not visual or visiting d brrothel. I just need some one. to ur question yes I have had sex before with a prostitute and a girl now my ex girlfriend.