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Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by Magnoliaa(f): 7:11pm On Aug 28, 2019
Robynwelo1:
mtchew pained bitches. All the years of oppression, you are only now having a taste of your own medicine. angry



Like seriously. grin Patriarchy vs Feminism.

For how long has both existed and which of the genders have held the most power for the longest?

The system of things today, especially about the genders relation to the other, how did it come about? Who put it in place?

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Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by Martinez39(m): 7:14pm On Aug 28, 2019
^^^^
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Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by pansophist(m): 10:02am On Sep 16, 2019
Any woman who comes here will tag you all misogynists for telling the truth. That is the nature of women. Any statement uttered that exposes or doesn't conform to her treacherous and deceptive nature automatically becomes a political statement.

One word. Solipsism.

Solipsism, that is, the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist is the default lense women generally used to view the world. And when you mix in her emotional predisposition, with the leniency of society on them (e.g not expecting honor, responsibility, virtue etc), and the lack of a societal mechanism to call women to order just as it does to men, you are left with a human that sanctions anything that makes her uncomfortable, and do not approve of as hate, sexism, toxic masculinity, and other fancy words.

When you have been privileged all your life, equality surely, do feel like oppression.

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Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by Martinez39(m): 10:06am On Sep 16, 2019
pansophist:


One word. Solipsism.

Solipsism, that is, the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist is the default lense women generally used to view the world. And when you mix in her emotional predisposition, with the leniency of society on them (e.g not expecting honor, responsibility, virtue etc), and the lack of a societal mechanism to call women to order just as it does to men, you are left with a human that sanctions anything that makes her uncomfortable, and do not approve of as hate, sexism, toxic masculinity, and other fancy words.

When you have been privileged all your life, equality surely, do feel like oppression.
"When one is used to special treatments, equal treatment seems like discrimination."

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Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:15am On Sep 16, 2019
Martinez39:
"When one is used to special treatments, equal treatment seems like discrimination."
..So true.
Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by pansophist(m): 1:58pm On Sep 16, 2019
Martinez39:
"When one is used to special treatments, equal treatment seems like discrimination."

A telling example of female solipsism is in how they express love. For men, love is expressed by caring, being sacrificial, providing, and being the bedrock for others. The focus is about the other person. We get a heroic feeling and a sense of value when our loved ones can depend on us.

Now let's reverse it. For a woman, feeling loved is when she is being taken care of, provided for and having a man being there for her. She craves the feeling of being proposed to within a grandiose setting, rescued like a strayed princess, impressed and red-carpeted into the flamboyant lifestyle a man has built for himself, which she would be the prime beneficiary thereof. The focus is on her, not the other. Hence, social media is like heaven to women, it about the ''me'', while thirsty males orbit around her giving her attention, for men, it's about the ''her''.

Mind you, her solipsism is exacerbated due to how society shields her from all the challenges it exposes men to, which means if they face same harsh realities as men, it would fine-tune them to be as objective in viewing the world, not subjective. It is why it is difficult to make women understand feminism from how men see it, it's almost like an impossibility to many. Solipsism and power do not go together, as to be a leader within the corridor of power, you must be able to extend care outside the self, which points to the direction religion understood so far, that men should lead and women should follow. Not surprised that since the inception of feminism, all the male oppression follows.

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Re: Hypocrisy Of Society When It Comes To Gender Equality. by Mtola8: 6:21am On Jun 28, 2020
shocked

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