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Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by 2shure: 6:35am On Apr 06, 2019 |
At age 40 u still waiting for our opinion Wtf Fuc |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by oshaosha2014(m): 6:38am On Apr 06, 2019 |
It will put the man at disadvantage if he doesn’t have a girl of his own and hoping one day this his friend will agree to be his. On another note, ladies like to settle for the decent guys after they are used up both physically and emotionally. I would how a lady who has spent her life dating the ‘lively’ bad guys will be able to pair bond with someone who eventually becomes their husband. It can never be like your first love. meobizy: 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by bigpicture001: 6:40am On Apr 06, 2019 |
derrydinny: Idiot must u insult her age...? Mr young 4ever....lets see Hw old u will b to get married 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by 2kurupt(m): 6:40am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Coldplay007:Yup. Either that or the life-long friendzoning got the better of him and made him lose his mojo completely with regards to running things with her. Most people here just don't want to state the obvious or just want to play the ostrich game. If that guy agrees to settle down now with her he should have his head examined for real 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by bigpicture001: 6:42am On Apr 06, 2019 |
bluefilm: Grow up idiot!.....becuz sh said her age dts why ur displaying ur persistent family stupidity....i saw ur sus last week...sh is also carrying d trait of family stupidity...... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Kay512: 6:42am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Rubbiish: A man. Read the post before commenting na, Huncle. With #3,500, you too can own a blog. Ask me how. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by meobizy(f): 6:43am On Apr 06, 2019 |
oshaosha2014:Funny enough women know males and females can never stay friends but use the assumption of the possibility to trick unexperienced men. A man with a girlfriend already will find it difficult to make female friends, his girl will never allow it. The friendzone technique is used by single naive men because they don't know any better at the time. It is after repeated heartbreaks and similar frustrations they finally give themselves sense. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by nairamaniac: 6:46am On Apr 06, 2019 |
When next u guys hang out, take excess alcohol. Get high and drunk. Feign staggering footsteps. He takes u to one of his house or urs. Look into his eyes and say he's looking so fine tonight. Kiss him den sex follows. Bang him drunken style. In d morning tell him u enjoyed it if he's okay with it. If he's not, then blame it all on the alcohol. Either that or u could just kiss him and end it there. The kiss would open doors to more possibilities. Addendum: meanwhile u are at a point of disadvantage. He's 40plus. Most men dat age wdnt want to get married to their agemates. He wd be looking towards a girl at least 10years younger Dan he is. Good luck though!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by 2kurupt(m): 6:47am On Apr 06, 2019 |
oshaosha2014:Are you for real? Why must they wait ages to realize this? Why should he settle for a lady he made a move on almost 2 decades ago when he currently has younger, more energetic and obviously prettier women at his disposal aged far lesser than the OP? For all we know the dude may even be referring to another lady that's getting more friendly with him in his new current location. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by bigpicture001: 6:50am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Smalliegirl: Your fault....me, I just made up my mind NEVER to date my best female friend. sh kept me on friends zone for five years..nd had 3 guyz in dt period cuz I was broke.... Yet sh kips in touch the most 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by oshaosha2014(m): 6:51am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Lol... I am reminded of one lady I was asking out. She told me to be friends with her first before she can agree after some time. Bro, that is the period she’ll use to milk you of your hard earned because she knows you are anticipating for her positive answer. I outrightly told her I don’t want friendship (friendship my ass). If she can’t see the possibility of us dating then we rather not be friends. Friendship that will favour only her but I will be suffering inside forming one useless friend. meobizy: 9 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Kay512: 6:51am On Apr 06, 2019 |
greatbuc:If na me, I go help her increase her body count. When the man still had the hots for her, she no gree. Now that the man has moved to “the other side of the world” and all of the “bad guys” penising her aren't talking marriage. She now wants it to magically work between them. With just #3,500, you too can start a blog. Ask me how. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Nobody: 6:52am On Apr 06, 2019 |
After punishing him for 20years... lemme not talk... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by oshaosha2014(m): 6:56am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Ladies always want to have their cake and it eat at the same time. Like the whole world revolves around their something. They forget they only have a short time to do shakara. 2kurupt: 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by SmellingAnus(m): 6:57am On Apr 06, 2019 |
If I were the guy, I will reject you and tell you that it's best we remain as friends... Since he has asked you out in the past when you are younger you refused and followed guys that only tore your pussy and abandoned you... You are obviously at his Mercy since age is not on your side ... He can still date and marry a 20years old girl... If he is my brother , I will ask him to reject u... Note even if he accepts you and fvcks and abandons you, it's not his fault... No curses you lay on him will work because he is not the one that made you single for over 20 years... You took his love for granted... Now let me advice you as a friend.... Don't waste time... Ask him out now, and make sure you have good attitude or at least pretend to have one and keep to it for life... Whatever he does to you take it in good fate... Even if he fvcks and abandons you, take it in good fate cos he wasn't the reason you have been single till 40 years of age... 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Moukandjo: 7:02am On Apr 06, 2019 |
mystiquerebirth:It's not about immaturity; it's about everyone on social media now trying to form one daft savage at the slightest opportunity because na savagery dey reign now. |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by 2kurupt(m): 7:02am On Apr 06, 2019 |
oshaosha2014:Exactly bro. Most guys with their heads screwed on tight will decline such offers while some who choose to stick around might have zeroed their mind & friend zoned the lady themselves just so she stays close enough & know they are doing great without her. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Charly68: 7:03am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Who do you marry ,if you don't marry your best friend? Think fast and give him the green light since you have known each other for long |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by 2kurupt(m): 7:09am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Moukandjo:So any response that doesn't toe your train of thought is either "savagery" or "immaturity" right? Tell yourself the truth, if that guy were to be your brother would you advise he marries her now with all the better options at his disposal? People are just being real 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Raalsalghul: 7:18am On Apr 06, 2019 |
lilbabe79:We all know the op is only interested in the guy because she's run out of options. I don't even think she likes the guy. Time is running out and the available becomes desirable. Why didn't you make the move in your younger years. Rolling with the bad ones innit? What will even make a guy marry a 40 year old? There are fresher ladies in thier 30s and late 20s. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Raalsalghul: 7:20am On Apr 06, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:You sabi. 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Deremy045: 7:22am On Apr 06, 2019 |
u miss hundred percent of the shots u don't take |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by prixm: 7:22am On Apr 06, 2019 |
If he is 40 and you are 40, then your age will be a factor for consideration. Settling down in marriage with a 20 - 25 year old lady is different from settling down with a 40 year old. You need to tactfully find out if he still finds you as attractive as when he made his move 20 years ago. His being able to sleep on the same bed with you several times without a move is suspect. Are you still as hot as before? Will you be able to bear and raise as many children as he may want. These are issues for consideration. If you can find a way to probe and find answers to these in the affirmative, then don't hesitate to make the move. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Moukandjo: 7:23am On Apr 06, 2019 |
2kurupt:See, bro if na me be the guy, I no fit even marry this lady, especially when I know her sexual history that well. I no fit even marry non-virgin as I dey so. But the point is there's no point insulting her. You could ask her what in a the world she was doing since all these years when the guy still dey without necessarily being too insultive! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Budline(m): 7:24am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Coldplay007: He is not Gay, far from being Gay. He is just not into her. I have female friends I will never touch too. Does that make me Gay? NO!. WE GUYS HAVE TASTES TOO!!!. Don't expect every guy to touch you because you are a woman. It doesn't work like that. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by ikemesit4477: 7:27am On Apr 06, 2019 |
extremelygolden:that's cool! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by Lonelyloner: 7:29am On Apr 06, 2019 |
lilbabe79: You don't have sense. Seriously! I'm angry because this guy is just an older me. See, the guy will never ever chyke even with a gun to his head. You've messed up his ego already by rejecting him once. Your excuse was you were not available. My sister, he has already chyked. There is a pending question. You said no before, change your answer to yes. If he dare insinuates that you're toasting him, remind him that you're just replying the question he asked years ago. Women sef. The guy has already chyked you before. But even if e say no, you bear am. After all, you kind of deserve it. Don't you think? Disclaimer: My moniker is 'lonely loner', take advice from me at your own peril. If it ruins your life my hand no dey oh. Lol 2 Likes
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Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by 2kurupt(m): 7:31am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Moukandjo:True. Insults & name calling to the OP are unnecessary. Cheers |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by adisabarber(m): 7:43am On Apr 06, 2019 |
lilbabe79: No need to say anything. Any time you want to sleep in same bed, give him some red wine and tie only wrapper. Na belle una go take do wedding |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by hadjipapiey(m): 7:52am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Friendship is different from marriage. Although it could mean both, but your matter strong. He knows you in and out, flaws and strength. Talk it out and mend your ways to wifable .. Faqat |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by sammirano: 7:53am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Testing waters at 40 |
Re: Should I Make A Move On My Best Friend ? by awa(m): 7:59am On Apr 06, 2019 |
Nairaland is just a comic relief..... A 40 year old woman is coming here to ask people of 15-30 years how to handle her relationship? Chai Naija I hail una 3 Likes |
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