ImaIma1:



But you are a cultural man. Are you not aware that there is a set of people in Nigeria that have stuck to their old ways and culture and even refused to accept the new ways including technology.

So please you can't claim to be cultural because you want a slave as a wife alone. Do everything that a cultural man does

Samshumy:

So asking a wife to do all chores means she’s a slave?

UyaiIncomparabl:
ImaIma1. You have time to yarn words with that overgrown adult baby.

ImaIma1:


As i said before, you can marry a slave or a maid if you so desire. There are still women that will not mind your arrangement.

UyaiIncomparabl:
ImaIma1. You have time to yarn words with that overgrown adult baby.

Samshumy:

Lol there are still so many women that will do such: I’m actually doing anyone I’m gonna marry a Favour and so she should be happy that I’m marrying her

ikechizoba:
Madam op,go and watch the movie " war room" and learn how to fight your husband on your knees,shouting back at him or any physical tantrum you throw at him,to make him change,will never solve your problem,rather it will keep escalating.
Thank God,you are a believer of God,step down for him to do his job,trust him and learn to respect and love your Husband and his wahala,avoid fighting him or correcting him,it is not your duty to fix him,rather its your job to love,respect him ad pray for him,remember men don't like it when their women try to fix them ,allow God to do his job(fix him).
Remember who the real enemy is,Devil,he hides and creates problem,and we end up fighting the wrong people (husbands,marriages and family) instead of him.

ikechizoba:
[s]Madam op,go and watch the movie " war room" and learn how to fight your husband on your knees,shouting back at him or any physical tantrum you throw at him,to make him change,will never solve your problem,rather it will keep escalating.
Thank God,you are a believer of God,step down for him to do his job,trust him and learn to respect and love your Husband and his wahala,avoid fighting him or correcting him,it is not your duty to fix him,rather its your job to love,respect him ad pray for him,remember men don't like it when their women try to fix them ,allow God to do his job(fix him).
Remember who the real enemy is,Devil,he hides and creates problem,and we end up fighting the wrong people (husbands,marriages and family) instead of him [/s]

Jen92:
Everything you said makes sense, but not realistic. How will he know he has a problem if she never tells him? She should do both abeg. Let's not leave it only 4 God. Even the bible says Faith without work is dead.

Acidosis:


Your statement is very disturbing. I have made the necessary corrections though.

davenaija:



[s]Men learn from their fathers, one way or the other, an absentee father or an abusive father. Men desiring to enter marriages must unlearn all they took from their dads, process it and choose and decide their own paths and not repeat their father's lifestyle in their marriages.

Samshumy:

No we need more men like me. I’m not happy seeing weak husbands and weak men everywhere. Nowadays wife don turn husband, husband turn wife, which makes me sad a lot

TonyeBarcanista:
Your wisdom will never be shaken

Kendumazy:
You are the problem here pertaining to the issue of task in the home. Your husband said he cannot assist you, he has made mentioned of allowing the help go by 10pm which means you look for another help that can do a full day work. See, there are lots of people who uses their money to buy convenience for themselves. I can't spend most of my time working and got the money and won't be able to spend the money on my convenience, there are men like that. For the housechores, just look for another help. For the abusive parts, look at where you also go wrong and try to work out a balance from there. You guys can discuss this together.
Don't compare your husband with that of someone else, if you were opportuned to see what goes down in someone else marriage that you are envying, you will thank your star.

Samshumy:

Thanks my brother. Don’t mind these women wey 1 turn op’s husband to a sissi

TonyeBarcanista:
Your wisdom will never be shaken

TonyeBarcanista:
Many men are wives in their own house, they are women on male skin.

Ishilove:
Na wa o. If you no marry wahala, you marry, wahala.

Abeg this one don taya person.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Don't be scared. You go dey alright.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hope you'll foot the bills 100%?

Jen92:
You better pay for All expenses , trips inclusive.

Samshumy:

Yes of course I will. I’m presently doing something great for my girl friend.

Samshumy:

My name is Emmanuel. A real man who has everything. Sexy, built, rich, handsome, intelligent mechanical engineer. That’s who i am

Samshumy:
Then I’ll never assist in paying any kids school fess

TonyeBarcanista:



By my philosophy as a man, I am primarily responsible for bills and that's my responsibility as a man... I won't even ask my woman for any contribution sef! Reason I work hard!


However, her submissiveness must be 100%...

TonyeBarcanista:



By my philosophy as a man, I am primarily responsible for bills and that's my responsibility as a man... I won't even ask my woman for any contribution sef! Reason I work hard!


However, her submissiveness must be 100%...