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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Michelle55: 6:33pm On Apr 22, 2019
Lemme relax here smiley, if I say what's on my mind you won't like it atall.. But I'm happy people are dishing it out for you as e dey hot.. Shebi toto dey scratch you bah, just wait until the smooth talker is done with you then you go know howfar cheesy We dey here dey wait for another thread with different moniker

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Centrallock: 6:34pm On Apr 22, 2019
millionboi2:
drop party t hsre
what?
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nicklaus619(m): 6:35pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird , he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation

U fvcking your fiancee colleague because he is funny undecided, did I just read this steaming pill of bullshit lipsrsealed
Some girls are just fvcking material only, believe me when he discovers and breaks up the relationship many people will judge the guy of dating her for so long without knowing the Genesis of the story
Sh!t this is fvckingly disgusting embarassed

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 6:41pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
i am not confused. I love the one I met two months back because he is a good sexer and he gives cheerfully

Listen to your heart. What does it tell you?
Don’t live a life of misery because you’ve known someone for ten years. If you are not comfortable with him, LEAVE the man and seek your heart. It’s better to break it up now than live miserably in bondage.

It won’t be the end of the world for him. He would one day thank you for leaving.

Your new guy is a true definition of a bad friend. He isn’t loyal and your man need to cut him off from his life. He is worse than a venomous snake. I’m sure you’d still cheat on your man with this new guy if you were married.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 6:41pm On Apr 22, 2019
Centrallock:
what?
drop d price here
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by UniQue84: 6:41pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u
oh you wanted them to be clapping for your senselessness right, op I put it to you that this is not the first time you have fucccked outside this 10 years you've been dating him. Just that this particular one caught your emotions reason you open a thread quickly to seek for justification to your foolishness, cos you can't tell me for a lady whose been in a rls for 10 years can just open her leg wide for a total stranger within a space of 8 weeks and I still feel you had sex with him earlier than that, for you to come up with the defense that he gives me hard just the way I want, shows he has visited and scattered you borehole of a pussy countless times, chaiiii u r indeed dull and a hoe.

My advice leave that innocent boy alone and click to your comedian/porn star of guy, las las you go dey alright ..U nu try babe.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 6:43pm On Apr 22, 2019
Centrallock:
what?
drop d price here.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 6:44pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
i try but he's just not funny anymore

You need Alibaba, Basketmouth or Bovi..


Listen to your heart. What does it tell you?
Don’t live a life of misery because you’ve known someone for ten years. If you are not comfortable with him, LEAVE the man and seek your heart. It’s better to break it up now than live miserably in bondage.

It won’t be the end of the world for him. He would one day thank you for leaving.

Your new guy is a true definition of a bad friend. He isn’t loyal and your man need to cut him off from his life. He is worse than a venomous snake. I’m sure you’d still cheat on your man with this new guy if you were married.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by blaze2cool(m): 6:48pm On Apr 22, 2019
My dear na Dickson dey control you so.


But on a second thought if you can cheat on a relationship of 10 years just because it's boring don't you think you'll still cheat even when you marry him?

Again like most people have said manage your relationship and spice it up and not waiting for someone that will make you laugh or fvuk you well.

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know

Be wise.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 7:01pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u

What did you expect here on Nairaland? How did your relationship with mr Boring last up to 10 years?.
Don’t you discuss your issues with him?

Here’s what you want to hear...Leave Mr Boring and embrace Mr Funny and Generpus giver.

Problem solved. Hope you guys live happily ever after.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by raphemmanuel(m): 7:08pm On Apr 22, 2019
united442:


you talk like a Messiah..

what happened to me.

broke up with me,our 5years relationship,
went to date a sweet mouthed guy,
a month latter,only to discover the dude has 3 extra babe,one of which was pregnant for him,
babe was trying to come back,
i notice, then push her away,
babe texted me she just wasted 5years of her lifegrin
Hello bro, I still remember ur thread about ur ex-girlfriend which I gave my opinion.
U mean that girl that left you for a rich dude that was planning to marry her is begging to come back to u?

I remember u said she canceled her flight with the guy because she was heartbroken after you told her to move on with her new relationship.
I also remembered you said that she told you to take whatever you want each time from her room which you turned down the offer.

Bro honestly, I am happy that what she saw glittering was not gold and she is regretting it.

Bro I swear you are now the King, atleast she will respect you anywhere she sees you and always wish for second Chance which will not come.

This is the kind of thing I love to see happening to all this cheaters.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 7:08pm On Apr 22, 2019
SaucyBenks:
So generally now, laughing is your problem.... Aunty you're confused.


Na so dem go dey dey nice nice till your pant shift like 2-3 times, then hanty eye go clear grin grin grin grin


chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo grin

Someone that has shined her congo. Didn't you read her post?

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Centrallock: 7:08pm On Apr 22, 2019
millionboi2:
drop d price here.
i no get fixed price any reasonable thing bergained is cool not a biz for me just wan sell off
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Apr 22, 2019
OP, abeg go on with the new dude. Leave that loyal, serious and dedicated man and send him my way. Single girls like me want to meet a man like him. You're a very confused somebody and don't deserve him if you're thinking of dumping him.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 7:29pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u

Guys that make ladies laugh are a big cassanova. I just dey laugh you. Na high blood pressure you wan get.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by ICAMETOWIN(m): 7:29pm On Apr 22, 2019
The old guy had it coming! how can you date a hoe for ten good years without introducing kids into her womb?

If she's telling the whole truth,she'd also tell us this new guy is richer than her boyfriend and the lure money plus good dicking has left her mind in knots.

Classic case of female hypergamy!

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by reubenobi(m): 7:41pm On Apr 22, 2019
Vellichor:
OP, abeg go on with the new dude. Leave that loyal, serious and dedicated man and send him my way. Single girls like me want to meet a man like him. You're a very confused somebody and don't deserve him if you're thinking of dumping him.
you mind becoming friends?
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Michelle55: 7:42pm On Apr 22, 2019
Vellichor:
OP, abeg go on with the new dude. Leave that loyal, serious and dedicated man and send him my way. Single girls like me want to meet a man like him. You're a very confused somebody and don't deserve him if you're thinking of dumping him.
cheesy You Gat no chill atall, you no even wait for her to drop the guy sef you don dey apply
Op please leave the innocent guy so that loyal girls will locate him

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by GumGum: 7:46pm On Apr 22, 2019
Comedians are now winning everywhere. From presidential elections to bored harlots. The OP is getting it hard from a comedian who makes her laugh uncontrollably. The Comedian will definitely make a joke out of this someday. GumGum says so.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 7:47pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
Move on with whatever makes you happy baby. Cos at the end of the day, whatever doesn’t make make you happy isn’t worth it .

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by united442(m): 8:00pm On Apr 22, 2019
raphemmanuel:
Hello bro, I still remember ur thread about ur ex-girlfriend which I gave my opinion.
U mean that girl that left you for a rich dude that was planning to marry her is begging to come back to u?

I remember u said she canceled her flight with the guy because she was heartbroken after you told her to move on with her new relationship.
I also remembered you said that she told you to take whatever you want each time from her room which you turned down the offer.

Bro honestly, I am happy that what she saw glittering was not gold and she is regretting it.

Bro I swear you are now the King, atleast she will respect you anywhere she sees you and always wish for second Chance which will not come.

This is the kind of thing I love to see happening to all this cheaters.

thumbs up mangrin you still remember..

lolxxx..she came to my lodge,pretending to visit and check on me.,i ask her abt her new life,she just hissgrin then i knew there was fire on the mountaingrin,she try hiding it,but she couldn't cause she knew she could trust me and i always give her advise that will guild her when we were together,so she had to spill everything out in essence for me to advise hergrin,telling me the said guy has another 3 extra babe, and one was even pregnant for him and that she was lucky not to have go too dip with d guy that she would have suffer..

though i was angry at her for leaving me for that kind of a dude,latter when she left, i nor knw when i take laugh troway ma evening foodgringrin..

she was still trying to come back through visiting and checking on me until i text her that i appreciate i what we've been through but i DNT WANT TO SEE HER FACE or HEAR HER VOICE AGAIN...up till today, have not heard from her..

though i still love and have feeling s for her,
but things have changegrin
i have to do the needful,
i have to man up and let things slide away no matter how hurtful it is..
am getting better now..

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by MrMacinterchi1: 8:07pm On Apr 22, 2019
dingbang:
oh you are already cheating on your boyfriend, thats good. I hope when you ladies come on here to say all men are cheats, you won't be among them

didn't u read when she said that he gave it to her hard just the way she likes it ?

what did u think that she was saying there?

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by MrMacinterchi1: 8:17pm On Apr 22, 2019
makydebbie:
The ten years or the two months?

The Ten years most probably. She has nothing with the 2month to be suspicious in the first place.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u
what is this one saying,is it not you that has been receiving the" Big Fxxck"from Mr 2months sweet talker?once again fxxck Mr 2months more.iranu.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by carter009(m): 8:25pm On Apr 22, 2019
You should be ashamed of yourself, ODE....
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 22, 2019
Evercurious:


You should have known that 'advice' in scenario such as this will come with insults just to straighten your brain.. Your response confirms that the message has been delivered.

YOU DESERVED IT BABE

it has really been delivered my dear
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by lilianofentse(f): 8:50pm On Apr 22, 2019
raphemmanuel:
Hello bro, I still remember ur thread about ur ex-girlfriend which I gave my opinion.
U mean that girl that left you for a rich dude that was planning to marry her is begging to come back to u?

I remember u said she canceled her flight with the guy because she was heartbroken after you told her to move on with her new relationship.
I also remembered you said that she told you to take whatever you want each time from her room which you turned down the offer.

Bro honestly, I am happy that what she saw glittering was not gold and she is regretting it.

Bro I swear you are now the King, atleast she will respect you anywhere she sees you and always wish for second Chance which will not come.

This is the kind of thing I love to see happening to all this cheaters.
look how this one is high. grin
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by uckennety(m): 9:40pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation


Wait did I just read he gives it to you hard!!!

OLOSHOOOOOOO

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 22, 2019
abdeiz:
The nice and loyal guys are mostly boring.

The exciting ones don't know how to stay in one place. Be warned.

He's exciting and funny for a reason, to get girls like you to fall and you did

Go for the exciting one if you want to laugh and have fun but don't come back crying to us about how all men are the same.

WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME.
pocochantas and ishilove will not see the fellow confused lad now wen the laughing guy uses and dumps her, they would start calling men all sort of names.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 10:01pm On Apr 22, 2019
Centrallock:
i no get fixed price any reasonable thing bergained is cool not a biz for me just wan sell off
lets bargain here
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Majlaw(m): 10:02pm On Apr 22, 2019
My sister.. Please change your topic from..... I am destroying my life to
I have destroyed my life

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