[img][/img]Some men are highly introverted, others are just schizoid by nature, how can we read their signs to keep us knowing what they feel when they don’t talk about it.

For many, romantic relationships comprise the most meaningful aspect of life, providing a source of deep fulfillment. A man may love his partner or his wife and not say it, Many men retain their thoughts finding it uneasy to express it, preferring to focus on ways to move the union forward, some of them are not expressive unlike women who readily say what they think and feel. instead they express their love through actions.

We list 12 reassuring signs that your man loves you.

1. HE REMEMBERS WHAT WAS SAID FROM YOUR PREVIOUS CONVERSATIONS.
When a man is in love with a woman he will have listening ears in remembrance of what was shared, special days like birthday count mainly because you become a priority for him and regardless of the importance of the conversation he is likely to recall talking points. This is a good indicator signalling your involvement in his subconscious, while this may not be the strongest indicator yet known, it is a very good way to know he loves you, So when next you feel in doubt consider this as a way to tell how he feels.

2. HE SET ASIDE HIS CHAUVINISTIC BEHAVIOR WHENEVER HE IS WITH YOU.
Emotional dependence and the likes are well known signs of love among lovers regardless of gender or sex, this is noticeable when a man treats his loved one having their interests at all times with care and affection and puts aside gender roles or displays of gender specific attributes and the reverse is also true of lack of true connection and love.

3. HE PAYS CLOSE ATTENTION TO YOUR NEEDS
Maybe emotional or physical needs, when a man loves you he takes care about your needs, the amount of selflessness displayed increases as the relationship progresses and does not matter big or small little things, helping you do the dishes when you are otherwise busy, turning on the heat on cold days or finding ways to get you something you really have indicated you want. In general it could be chores, listening when you want someone to talk or making himself available when he can. Considering boundaries, it may be an extra extension of his already formed boundaries.

4. YOU ARE PART OF HIS LONG TERM PLANS

Consider asking him in a very light mood at different times what his future plans are, do you see yourself in his future or he is just all about himself and has no place for you, does he considers you a temporary option bu is not voicing it. Often times when a man speaks about his life and his aspirations, you would always have a place in all his future plans maybe having kids together, commitment some sort that involves you and his general wiliness for you to be part of his life. Same is true for women.

5. YOUR OPINIONS AND VIEWS MATTERS TO HIM

You can easily tell this, it is simple. When he does not take important decisions without having your opinions or at least a discussion with you. When your views counts, then he considers your part in it. This is not to be confused with solitary acts out of good will to bring pleasant surprises. In addition to sampling your opinion he also offers updates on things going on in his life while this not an obligation he may choose to offer information when he considers them necessary this is another sign you mean more to him.

6. WHEN A MAN IS VERY PROTECTIVE OF YOU

As part of the connecting ties that bind lovers, empathy and goodwill are very essential acts to look out for. While women may express this as preoccupation with whereabouts of their partner – which may come off to men as jealousy when done excessively. On the other hand, men usually display this feature through physical protection and looking for ways to ensure they have the woman’s attention.

7. HE SHOWS GENUINE INTERESTS IN THINGS THAT MATTERS TO YOU

When a man loves you he will always be eager to know everything about your day. he wants to know what activities you are passionate about, including the very little things you are involved in, he may go beyond himself (out of his comfort) to engage in things you are interested in. consider this story, at an earlier stage in my life when I had just met my husband, I started a petroleum business and know he was not into the idea, but as we continued in our relationship, after noticing my interest and dedication to growing this business, I watch him slowly develop interest in the inner workings of the business to the point of offering financial support. A business he could care less about became a thing we could both talk about because I was interested. This would not happen if I was not important, it is a pattern of love you notice in lovers. Other expression of this is in the form of simple sacrifices, going out of his way to make you happy.

8. HE FIND WAYS TO MAKE UP WITH YOU AFTER A FIGHT

And no I do not mean make up sex. While fighting or disagreements is a typical feature found in working as well as dysfunctional relationships, what separates the two is how both partners work towards coming back to alignment. And let be honest, it is not always easy to make up after a heated argument and a major disagreement when both parties have their firm opinion. Many men would expect weakness from a woman to reach out to them. But a loving partner quickly recognize an uncommon pattern in their connection and then find ways to close the gap. He may reduce the pride of the moment to apologize or do something to take away the tension. The deal here is watching him try to make his way back as opposed to waiting and letting his ego rule the moment. If you notice subtle form of adjustments, it signifies a class act affection then he truly loves you, meet him halfway.

9. YOU FEEL YOU HAVE BECOME THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN HIS LIFE

He may not say it to you and you may not exactly know it. But if you feel like the most important person in his life, then most likely you are. You still don’t know how to find out? Here, if you find yourself away from him you will be the first person he speak to or texts, he might not share with friends or relatives but he calls you at night sharing what happened that mattered to him, then you are on his mind and mean a lot to him.

10. RESPECT

What is the point of a relationship without respect, without respect many of the things on this list will be missing. Many people can’t tell manipulation from actual respect — for example, anyone can put you on a pedestal making you feel respected and significant when they couldn’t care less what you are or stand for. Here is respect defined, if he sees outside himself and addresses you as a person with unique ideas, emotions, identity and values which may or not match his and yet acknowledges it. Emotionally he does not go ahead with acts when he clearly knows you get hurt feelings without explanation for it, in your Identity, he would not enforce drastic changes to your lifestyle, your ideas are worth considering in decision making, while his perspectives about what is important for you continues to expand not static. If you feel important not just in words then trust that he has a place for you.

11. QUALITY TIME

Studies have shown that quality time is a good indicator of connection, generally people who spend time with family or loved ones are less likely to be stressed and preferably sees the world has a better place than those who do not. what is important here is to observe how he shares his time across the weeks and months, does he sacrifice his time for you and the well being of the relationship, and if you live apart how often do you meet up before returning to electronic communication, at this point you may even notice he talks a lot more than he normally would for bonding. And when dates are canceled what plans has he to make it up? It is no surprise one of the cardinal signs of diminishing relationships is time spent together.

12. SUBTLE FORMS OF ATTACHMENT AND PERSONALITY CHANGES.

If you have ever been told to be careful of the people you associate with this is probably the reason why. Often times we see personality changes as negative in relationships but when you consider the long term effects of imprinting, mimicry and shared openness (Vulnerability) you observe over time how accepted love can increase attachment and our personality. It is not unusual to see a man or woman behave like their partner as a result of love and acceptance. So one important way to know a person loves you are noticing changes similar to those of their own personality – this also explains very well aspects of codependent and abusive relationships or as you may think of it, Toxic love. However in a more positive light this serves to reduce conflict and ensure compatibility in the long term.

This list can go on and on, men or certain women may not fully verbalize their love for you but can use these 12 non verbal gesture to understand how much your partner loves you.
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