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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by dannywest01: 6:29am On May 16
Because the wife is the husband na
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by miketayo(m): 6:29am On May 16
IamD18:

Just shurrup!

You lots are always quick to support shiiiit when you think it suits you.

So you'll be happy if your son you carried for 9 months tells you that he'll need to discuss with his wife before giving you money?

Una go just calm down dey disgrace una self with confidence.

Partnership indeed!!

It's always fine when they r the wife but when they become the mother in-law they won't agree

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mynd44: 6:30am On May 16
Redhot111:


Bros, una well at all? So the man should put in 60% while the woman put in only 50% of their respective earnings into some Mumu joint account. Why didn't you suggest the woman putting 80% and the man 20%? I no dey like ojoro ooooo.
Both instances are different.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by deltateam: 6:33am On May 16
Barryseal:
A man can tell his wife for information sake, not as an obligation.

If you do for your mum, be sure to do for her mum too.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mynd44: 6:33am On May 16
deltateam:


The joint account has advantages and disadvantages. Its easier for the other partner to have access to it on the other's demise but what if one partner can't wait to have it alone by putting otapiapia in the other's meal?

Besides it puts restraint on how you spend cos consultation is necessary before spending and it can also cause problem where both parties don't agree together on what to spend on.

Someone that will poison you for money used for the day-to-day running of the house will first poison you for the car and house first.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by spiritedtete: 6:35am On May 16
Not necessarily to consult.... But it's good she knows... Vice versa...
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Excuzeme: 6:35am On May 16
NaijaTushboy:
Your Opinion please


Consult?

Yes ofcourse, that would be a pussy-whipped, stupid man. undecided undecided undecided

What if l ask: Should a man CONSULT HIS MOTHER....before giving Money to his wife? grin grin



Mother: See ehn, he lived inside me for nine months, came out from between my legs and sucked my Bwreast for two years. Who do you think you are?

Wife: He wakes and sleep between this my legs and he has been sucking my own Bwreast for the last nine years, go and siddon somewhere joor?

Wife and Mother, both are Women, always competing for a man's attention and brain.
grin grin grin
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by ogawisdom(m): 6:36am On May 16
NaijaTushboy:
Your Opinion please


Only if such man is an idiot or the woman owns d money while d lazy man sits at home
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by geesizs(m): 6:38am On May 16
What a hilarious question! A big no for me
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Redhot111(m): 6:38am On May 16
Mynd44:

Both instances are different.


Where lies the difference? The sharing formula you spelt out is wat I put in percentage. So both instances are the same
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by frugal(m): 6:39am On May 16
I don't know about "consult" but you should certainly tell her.
Her opinion doesn't matter anyway unless of course she wants us to increase the amount by adding a little bit of hers grin

As long as the money is not for frivolities, I'll inform the wife, then send. No sane wife will stop you from sending money to your mother. So doing it behind her back without letting her know is just very stupid, and doesn't speak well of the marriage.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by deltateam: 6:39am On May 16
lamideee:
@Olufela30 "The wife's work is only in the kitchen n other wifely duties..."
what kind of yeye statement is this? It is men like you that would make their wives full house wife. It's not a must he inform her before giving his mum money, same thing applies to the woman.

What's wrong in that? Is it a crime for a woman to be a full time house wife abi feminism don enter your head.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by MizMyColi(f): 6:40am On May 16
Some of you here and your idiotic comments.

Not all women are mother in law haters.

If you are in a marriage where you do everything together....where you cooperate sincerely and share.
If you are in a marriage where you as both man and woman ACTUALLY care for the wellbeing of inlaws from both sides of the family. There won't be need for consultations.

Both of you will do your best to ensure your inlaws are happy.

Have you people not seen a marriage where it is the woman that advocates that more money be sent to her mother in law?

Have you people not seen a scenario where the wife's mother calls her daughter to request for one thousand naira (for instance) and because the husband is always carried along, the man says "no. one thousand is not enough, give her five thousand?"

You people just use your hands, mouths and minds to create problems for yourselves.

Most of you talking here are not married.

Instead of you to be praying, and speaking like someone who wants to be in a marriage where openness, sincerity and trust is the order of the day, you are here displaying and projecting your trust issues.

Well done.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by jebbi: 6:43am On May 16
Capital No
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Excuzeme: 6:45am On May 16
MizMyColi:
Some of you here and your idiotic comments.

Not all women are mother in law haters.

If you are in a marriage where you do everything together....where you cooperate sincerely and share.
If you are in a marriage where you as both man and woman ACTUALLY care for the wellbeing of inlaws from both sides of the family. There won't be need for consultations.

Both of you will do your best to ensure your inlaws are happy.

Have you people not seen a marriage where it is the woman that advocates that more money be sent to her mother in law?

Have you people not seen a scenario where the wife's mother calls her daughter to request for one thousand naira (for instance) and because the husband is always carried along, the man says "no. one thousand is not enough, give her five thousand?"

You people just use your hands, mouths and minds to create problems for yourselves.

Most of you talking here are not married.

Instead of you to be praying, and speaking like someone who wants to be in a marriage where openness, sincerity and trust is the order of the day, you are here displaying and projecting your trust issues.

Well done.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Excuzeme: 6:46am On May 16
miketayo:


It's always fine when they r the wife but when they become the mother in-law they won't agree


Sooo, so True!

Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by BrokeFucker007: 6:47am On May 16
Who is asking this ridiculously stupid question?!! You need a brain formatting slap. Ask my wife before giving my MOTHER money?!?! my Mother?!?! M O T H E R!!!!? Forgetting that marriage nonsense they say man and woman become one ooo me and my family are already one and no one can separate us. I dare not tell my future wife about giving money to any relation of mine let alone my parents. who the Bleep is she?! is it her money?! this silly question just pissed me off sef. My money! my mother?!! Why do I have to ask or tell anybody when I want to give my folks money?!?! who gives birth or trains these fools that comes with joystick nowadays?! I bet maybe no man raised them that's why they act like little bitchess and sissies. not every thing with a dickk is a man. Rubbish

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Blazebond(m): 6:48am On May 16
Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever try it.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Burgerlomo: 6:50am On May 16
To slap this motherfuker dey hungry me cool
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by gonkin(m): 6:50am On May 16
No even try am, mama na mama. Abi its ur wife that should never forget to ask if u have given mom money. We have lots of mother's day in 1 year, u know why dem put am like that?
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by BrokeFucker007: 6:54am On May 16
MizMyColi:
Some of you here and your idiotic comments.

Not all women are mother in law haters.

If you are in a marriage where you do everything together....where you cooperate sincerely and share.
If you are in a marriage where you as both man and woman ACTUALLY care for the wellbeing of inlaws from both sides of the family. There won't be need for consultations.

Both of you will do your best to ensure your inlaws are happy.

Have you people not seen a marriage where it is the woman that advocates that more money be sent to her mother in law?

Have you people not seen a scenario where the wife's mother calls her daughter to request for one thousand naira (for instance) and because the husband is always carried along, the man says "no. one thousand is not enough, give her five thousand?"

You people just use your hands, mouths and minds to create problems for yourselves.

Most of you talking here are not married.

Instead of you to be praying, and speaking like someone who wants to be in a marriage where openness, sincerity and trust is the order of the day, you are here displaying and projecting your trust issues.

Well done.
You drop some good comments but I don't think its advisable for any man to tell or ask his wife or inform her about giving money to his parents or relatives because most women are very funny and unstable beings. she might use that against the man tomorrow "so you can send this to your parents what about my parents?! and all sorts of crap. I don't like drama so I avoid it. my money my parents. Although there are some good women who wouldn't mind but who knows? tomorrow when the instability sets in?
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by davillian(m): 6:57am On May 16
It is my money and I can give anybody who deserves it including my mum , family and extended family.
Any woman who doesn't want me to give money to my mother is a witch and would be returned back to her family.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by donogaga(m): 6:58am On May 16
ifyalways:
Well, if its a marriage were all both spouses do is joint account, joint expenses, joint investment, joint this N that, then i guess yes since its an equal yoke marriage cheesy

On a normal level and for me, Hell NO and vice versa. I make and spend my money anyway i deem fit after fulfilling my financial obligations to the family.

Wise woman.
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Synthase(m): 7:00am On May 16
Yes ooo, if he will collect the money from the wife...
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by EmzyT(m): 7:01am On May 16
How can I ask Or tell someone before giving my money to my own beloved Mother..? No matter how much I love my Wife, it can never Surpass the one I have for my sweet Mother. Blood is thicker than water ooo


If you're doing so before giving your mother your own Money, then you're a Disgrace to Manhood.

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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Nobody: 7:01am On May 16
If I consult her and she gives an excuse why I shouldn't, do you really expect me to abandon my mum?
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 7:02am On May 16
CAPITAL NOOOOOO!!!

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