Oyindidi:
Crackhaus, read his post again. Women go through a lot sometimes we need our husbands to get more closer to us.

djon78:


I am a man and true women need attention from there man.

And op said he has been working his ass off, but he may have started neglecting giving his wife attention. A very bag guy that comes around that knows what women ears want to hear can hijack the situation.

The dude need to balance his game. Improve on his connection with his woman. Woman are very different from we men. Most men don't understand that.

babyfaceafrica:
it is high time women realise that men also go through a lot,they have issues,stressed out
..why can't women get more closer to them?..must the man do everything?... even when he is down finacually,mentally and spritually,you still want him to be superman?...you are the reason most men die early and unfulfilled!!!!.. very selfish!!!...no wonder guys are scared if commitment and marriage!!

Oyindidi:
Your wife needs your attention and you brought the issue to NL. Men are the reason most women cheat

djon78:


I am a man and true women need attention from there man.

And op said he has been working his ass off, but he may have started neglecting giving his wife attention. A very bag guy that comes around that knows what women ears want to hear can hijack the situation.

The dude need to balance his game. Improve on his connection with his woman. Woman are very different from we men. Most men don't understand that.

crackhaus:

If women require men's attention before their brains can function properly, then it's fair to say that men are also the reason most women breath.

yettymuse:
As in!!!!! He's not getting it.!!!! All she needs is ATTENTION. Go give your wife some good loving and stop typing

djlinda77:
Just listen to yourself..Men are the reason why women cheat, when women don't get the attention they needed then cheating in inevitable. Right?

SMH.

Thanks anyways

crackhaus:
Wife registered on a dating site and claims it's normal for ladies to do funny things.
Wife passwords her phone and claims it's because of the kids.
Wife then puts the blame on you, which consequently means she has admitted something is definitely going on.

Chief I don't know the kind of advise you need o.
If you can't instruct your wife to de-register herself from that dating site or any other dating site IMMEDIATELY, you're OYO.
If you can't instruct her to create a password that only you and her will know, since it's the kids she's protecting the phone against, another OYO for you.

Take charge before she slips further.

djlinda77:
Just listen to yourself..Men are the reason why women cheat, when women don't get the attention they needed then cheating in inevitable. Right?

SMH.

Thanks anyways

Raalsalghul:

That is if she hasn't slipped already!

djon78:


I am a man and true women need attention from there man.

And op said he has been working his ass off, but he may have started neglecting giving his wife attention. A very bag guy that comes around that knows what women ears want to hear can hijack the situation.

The dude need to balance his game. Improve on his connection with his woman. Woman are very different from we men. Most men don't understand that.

Oyindidi:
Mr man, your wife complained about your absence and other things bothering her, all you could do is come to NL to ask if she's cheating. Shake your head for yourself

djlinda77:


Ok

Oyindidi:
I didn't type much in my first post but I have a lot of experience in marriage. I'm going through one of the worst phase in marriage for the past 5 years. I was emotionally very down yesterday and all my husband could say to me is, you want to go to your mum? I was shedding tears when I comment last night.

Oyindidi:
I didn't type much in my first post but I have a lot of experience in marriage. I'm going through one of the worst phase in marriage for the past 5 years. I was emotionally very down yesterday and all my husband could say to me is, you want to go to your mum? I was shedding tears when I comment last night.

Oyindidi:
I didn't type much in my first post but I have a lot of experience in marriage. I'm going through one of the worst phase in marriage for the past 5 years. I was emotionally very down yesterday and all my husband could say to me is, you want to go to your mum? I was shedding tears when I comment last night.

Oyindidi:
I didn't type much in my first post but I have a lot of experience in marriage. I'm going through one of the worst phase in marriage for the past 5 years. I was emotionally very down yesterday and all my husband could say to me is, you want to go to your mum? I was shedding tears when I comment last night.

djlinda77:
So sorry about what you are going through right now. I'm glad you called it a phase. It will pass, trust me.

Personally I can deal with whatsoever my woman throws at me but not cheating and she knows...

Each time I look at her now, I see a cheating wife.

Cheating is not until a woman sleep with man, but having the thought. In this case, she at one point thought of cheating that was why she registered on that dating site.

I just hope this phase will pass so I can see her the same way I used to.

I also hope the trust can be restored because right now I have zero trust

babyfaceafrica:
honest words

babyfaceafrica:
there is no justification for cheating...you cheat because you are disloyal and unfaithful...never blame anyone to your unfaithfulness... it reeks of foolishness!!!

SweetCunt97:
Did she cheat? The same way many are on this site for attention could b the same reason she created a dating account. This Op is too dumb, he'll use his hand to spoil his family. So only one's husband should be giving their wives money eh?

SweetCunt97:
Did she cheat? The same way many are on this site for attention could b the same reason she created a dating account. This Op is too dumb, he'll use his hand to spoil his family. So only one's husband should be giving their wives money eh?

Xaos:


How is registering on a dating site and on Nairaland the same thing?... You are clearly the dumb person here.

And who said only the husband should be the one giving the wife money? Checking her account is a smart move.

She should be able to account for any money received.
That shouldn't be a problem but you are just too dumb.

djlinda77:
What do you expect from someone like her...check her picture you will understand. Thank you

djlinda77:
Would you had typed same thing if the subject matter was the man not the woman"? " All he needs is ATTENTION"

djlinda77:
Your signature picture said it all.

This is not romance section, this is family section. Please go back to romance section.

Xaos:


How is registering on a dating site and on Nairaland the same thing?... You are clearly the dumb person here.

And who said only the husband should be the one giving the wife money? Checking her account is a smart move.

She should be able to account for any money received.
That shouldn't be a problem but you are just too dumb.

crackhaus:

Are you now thinking about cheating on him because of this?

Oyindidi:
Crackhaus leave me abeg

crackhaus:

I hold you for waist?

djlinda77:
· Been married for 7years
· With 2 beautiful kids.
· Password on her phone for over two years
· I didn’t really bother, the level of trust was high
· Her reason for the password was because of the kids.
· At some point I started having doubts about her 100%. loyalty
· Some months ago while having conversation she jokingly. said we rushed into getting married.
· Yesterday, I discovered she registered on a dating site as single, no children, not her picture
· Interested in men between 33 to 38
. She described herself as “ I don’t pretend and I love people who don’t”
· Although the account is yet to be activated. No chat, no message
· Account was registered in Jan, 2019
· I confronted her, she said ladies at time do some funny things and this is one of them.
· She also put the blame on me, that am not always around.
· I work my asss off for her and the children.
· She was not remorseful at first as she claimed it wasn’t a big deal
· I left the room, slept in the sitting room,
· Called her dad around 11pm, wanted to speak to me
· Told him I can’t speak in the state of mind I was at that moment.
· Came to the sitting room early this morning, begging for forgiveness.
· I am not seeing her as my wife anymore.
· I believe there are so much more to be discovered
· There could be another dating site that she’s active on.
· I am confused
· I requested for her account statement for 2018 still date.
· Want to review if another man has been sending her money.
· Please I need advice from matured minds.
 
Thanks