God bless you

Easybela:
all these ladies above and below me,you are entitled to your opinions, but surely, one day you all will become mother in-laws then you will understand better.

How dare she sit and watch the elderly woman sweep ,what she did is bad,she lacks respect.one day, she will be a MIL,she will be treated the same way.

The lady in question has great self esteem. What test is that? so, she should impress the guys mother that she can sweep or will do anything to be accepted by them? I’ve seen and heard of ladies that sweep, clean, wash and cook and the guy did not marry them. I’ve seen those that hate housework of any kind and got married. Real men generally know what they want in a woman. The ones that don’t know what they want end up marrying eye service ladies sometimes. After the wedding, the service ends and the guy starts to lament that the lady has changed.

tohyorsih2:


Ehn!

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This one that you're looking at me like this…hope there is no problem

Lumig:
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Pls complete your statement

tohyorsih2:



This one that you're looking at me like this…hope there is no problem

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Preshy561:
Haa!! You are a very funny man.
She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too.

I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking.

isaiah 4vs1 for you. Read n be blessed

The lady had just failed moral test. It shows that she was not well brought up. Every mother wants their sons to marry well mannered ladies, that will give their sons and the family the respect they deserved

Lumig:
... You must be an...

Let the sleeping dog lie.. I won't say more than that

So basically what are the basics for marriage if this is not basic enough. Point is it is bad to raise your fucking leg for elderly woman to sweep past. Secondly, who says you sweep the house only in the morning? Now a teaser, if you work in an office and you find your Boss sweeping his own mess right in front of you, would you raise your leg for him/her to sweep by even though the office has a cleaner? Now answer me. Marriage is not meant for all folks young lady. Dont get in if you can't conform.

joyberry:
Test ko test ni,so if the girl collects the broom,she is a wife material? Based on what her ability to sweep,is that the basics for marriage, All these so called tests sef,i never heard of multi-millionaires doing such, its always the struggling ones.Who even sweeps when guests are around sef?its rude and shows the guests he or she aint wanted, if the girl is a regular at the house ,fine thats different but a first-time visitor haba sef?
All these guys on this thread, if u go to your gf house and the father starts to wash his car in ur presence will u join him to wash the car?I don't get the act of degrading or putting some tru certain tests cos he or she wants to marry your child. That why many people pretend tru out courtship to put up with their potential in-laws unnecessary tests, and unleash their true colours in marriage .

people supporting this lady , I know you are not married .. you people should go and marry and come back here .. if you are married and you are supporting the girl , because your mother inlaw is not nice to you .. don’t be bitter .. she’ll go old and die someday . Sorry .

All the men supporting the girl .. I know you are an hypocrite.. you won’t do that to your moms , would you ? Haha haha .. be forming on the internet o . Na una dey beat una wife last last ��.. lol

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why sweep when u have a visitor?

That's a sign of test she failed anyways.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why sweep when u have a visitor?

In other words the woman should not sweep her house when she wants to.
Did she shout at the visitor for not helping her?

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why sweep when u have a visitor?

Nwa, na test of morals but it's a stupid one

bamidelee:

e.g amatarasha
adaibeku et al

fvck u

Preshy561:
Haa!! You are a very funny man.
She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too.

I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking.

Walahi wa kpe loko giri akparo

LordKO:
That's goading at its peak. Well, only a feeble-minded or pretentious lady will submit to her (the man's mother) action and shenanigans. . . no sane person treats a short-term visitor (guest) like a long-term one. She should avoid having anything serious to do with such family of small-minded people.

The lady acted conscientiously.

You’re finally getting wise .

The only problem I have with you is that your perceptions about things change everyday , if this same topic is brought up two months time you’ll have something stupid to say.

That is not the point. The point why would you sweep when you have got a guest in your house? What message is the mother trying to pass? Why would she treat a possible in-law that way? The mum's action is very rude. The girl should have probably collected the broom from her then break up with the guy. She will be wise not to marry into that family.

TFLAME:
people supporting this lady , I know you are not married .. you people should go and marry and come back here .. if you are married and you are supporting the girl , because your mother inlaw is not nice to you .. don’t be bitter .. she’ll go old and die someday . Sorry .

All the men supporting the girl .. I know you are an hypocrite.. you won’t do that to your moms , would you ? Haha haha .. be forming on the internet o . Na una dey beat una wife last last ��.. lol

Preshy561:
Haa!! You are a very funny man.
She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too.

I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking.

hmmmm,I have to be careful in this country.

Adinije:
The lady shouldn't get married to a family with this kind of mentality. Test ko exam ni. All for what?

When you sweep in the presence of a visitor, you are only telling them that they are not welcome. Which if I am the lady in question, I will take the clue and be gone.

hmmmm

Sweeping when there's a visitor is wrong


But the girl had to let the MIL to-be, raise her legs...
now that's very wrong


They were both wrong, anyway...but, when it gets to the level where one's legs have to be raised while sweeping, then it becomes a matter of questionable good morals and courtesy... these values must not be compromised for any feeling of entitlement whatsoever

I will only collect that broom and sweep because i can't watch an elderly person sweep while I'm sitted(not for approval sake), but it is very rude for her to sweep when she has a guest. I will point it out to her son how irritated i am by her actions. And if it happens another time, I'll assume its deliberate. They are not the only ones to give the test. I am there to test them as well.

Bizibi:
hmmmm

Yes, that's my opinion. My MIL never did any useless test on me neither did my mom do it to her daughters-in-law.

It's high time Nigerians stop treating would be wives as American visa applicants.

pkang:


In other words the woman should not sweep her house when she wants to.
Did she shout at the visitor for not helping her?

I hear u. We don't sweep when there's visitor though

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SageMK:


Well before you start smashing your keyboard about her lacking morals or courtesy, when was the last time you gave up your seat for an elderly person or help that blind man cross the street or carry a pregnant woman's load?

To begin with, it only shows lack of courtesy and respect to start sweeping when you've got a guest in your house.

So she did the right thing. After all, she was there as a guest, and not for a domestic help interview or anything.

Sir, your comments gives life to the lifeless and hope to the hopeless, educates the uneducated.,RIDE ON SIR.

idonhammer:
Las Las na one dirty rasta and tattooed body Yahoo ritualist go tear your small ass and abandon you.

That's not a nice way to describe your father

Fadedvoices2:



You’re finally getting wise .

The only problem I have with you is that your perceptions about things change everyday , if this same topic is brought up two months time you’ll have something stupid to say.

Stop trying so hard to quantify something beyond the capacity of your little brain. My life philosophy has been the same all through my existence, both online and offline. . . it's all about altruism and conscientiousness for me.

You're like the people in support of the man's mother's shenanigans, because to you it's always about self and self-interest. A typical validation seeker.

In fact, whenever a psychological projection and hypocritically disingenuous entity like you try to pick on me, I laugh so hard. You can only succeed in perpetrating your shenanigans towards people who aren't discerning, not on someone like me.

By the way, when you quote me, like you did now and have always done, it's not hate. But if I quote you, like I did the other time (the first time I ever quoted you first), it'll be about me hating you. Lol. Kindly stop being petty.

Have a lovely day.

joyberry:
Test ko test ni,so if the girl collects the broom,she is a wife material? Based on what her ability to sweep,is that the basics for marriage, All these so called tests sef,i never heard of multi-millionaires doing such, its always the struggling ones.Who even sweeps when guests are around sef?its rude and shows the guests he or she aint wanted, if the girl is a regular at the house ,fine thats different but a first-time visitor haba sef?
All these guys on this thread, if u go to your gf house and the father starts to wash his car in ur presence will u join him to wash the car?I don't get the act of degrading or putting some tru certain tests cos he or she wants to marry your child. That why many people pretend tru out courtship to put up with their potential in-laws unnecessary tests, and unleash their true colours in marriage .

las las Na ur papa house u go old put,spoil brat

Amatarasha:
fvck u

bleep u