Biglittlelois:



But you are obviously judging ladies by their figure when you say you cant marry someone older so stop contradicting yourself, hope you know there are ladies that look way younger than their age soo much that you won't believe it so quit being myopic, not all ladies would like to settle down with men who look like their father in appearances too.

Snakebytee:


God bless you for this reply. The guy is a pervert. 30yrs old wants to marry 18yrs old cos she's fresh and naive, and probably a virgin. If truly the girl had had sex with 5 people, would he truly want to marry her??

menvocate:
Get a lawyer... Sign a contract to marry her and educate her. If she breaches, she will be compelled to pay no matter the years it takes her.

If you breach your side of sending her to school, you should also pay certain amounts....

JoannaSedley:
Someone he will grow with? The guy is already old damnit.

HitSong:

30 years old chasing after 18 years old child...
You're a pervert! Just like NED
What about all those girls of your age group that you fuckéd back then, who are you leaving them for to marry now?
Now you've seen a young beautiful virgin that you want to devour abi?
Will you give out your daughter at 18?
Karma will play out on the females in your life too...
Ẹ̀gbọ́n leave that small girl alone and Goan hustle.

HitSong:

What about all those girls of your age group that you fuckéd back then, who are you leaving them for to marry now?

Holluwhakemmy:
definitely he will take good care of her the same way your stupid father is taking care of your mother with her fish brain. omo ale!

GT07115:
well she is not naive as u think and to put the record straight I am the third guy she will be dating, I can count the number of ladies I have messed up with where, when and how it happened to this very moment , I am not a sex freak I was celibate for good 3 years without a woman no joke. When u talk about older ladies I laugh, older ladies who is either a graduate or self dependent I have come across are not submissive and ready to learn or take advice that will even better their lives, those who are graduate don't want to learn a trade to be self reliant rather they want to do business or secure a job they have no knowledge of. When I approached her I thought she was in her twenties but I was surprised to get the opposite and to me is a perfect age I love, I don't want old cargoes, I want a woman I can look at in 20 years from now I will still have an erection, sex is 80 percent in marriage and anything that will keep that fired burning to me is welcome and age is one of it. So don't take me for a sex starve man or an opportunist, I want her for a wife not sex machine, I am only disturb because humans are unpredictable and I don't have the financial muscles owing to other families responsibility.

menvocate:
Get a lawyer... Sign a contract to marry her and educate her. If she breaches, she will be compelled to pay no matter the years it takes her.

If you breach your side of sending her to school, you should also pay certain amounts....

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

cococandy:
The nerve of you! You’re an old cargo who doesn’t want a fellow old cargo. Dumbass.

I hope she spends all your money and has a baby for someone else. Control freak

ITbomb:


In case you didn't notice, 30 years old man is still a guy while 30 years old woman is an Aunty

I'm 35, my wife is 25. If I were to marry my age mate or even a girl of 30, they will be calling her my senior sister if were to walk together.
Not to talk of when I'm 45 and still agile and some mama will be answering my wife. No!

Profkenny1:


Young women are naturally attracted to older men. Women want a provider and a protector. Men are attracted to beauty and youthfulness. Youthfulness indicates fertility. This is NATURE and you can't fight it.

18 is not a kid. Most of our grandmoms got married very early, some at 18 or below.

Fyi0:

Carry your foolishness out of this thread.
Mumu

chiboy1116:
how many years your papa take senior your mama ?


Just a question oh.

mapet:


Pervert? Don't use harsh words to judge him, especially when you're the ignorant one here. 18yrs is the legal benchmark age to be an adult. 18yrs is permitted to get married. You can argue the age-margins, which in itself is relative

GT07115:
U are very myopic, I am 29 to be 30 late this year and she will be 19 next month, is she not an adult? What makes u think age defines human achievement?

Babamide:
Bros, reason am now....... why would you date a girl 12years younger??

JoannaSedley:
This guy is living in ancient world. Get your daughter hooked up at 12 then, that's my own grandmother's age at marriage.

HitSong:

Ignoramus
Did he tell you he just started dating her?

Babamide:
Bros, reason am now....... why would you date a girl 12years younger??

Mcslize:


We are not talking about Old men of 60 years old. We are talking about young men of 30 to 40. If I am 40 years old, my wife should be 30 years, will you say that a young man of 40 years old is too old to marry a lady of 30 years old? Do you realize how mature 30 years old ladies look? That's the point I was trying to drive at.

Let's take an instance, if perhaps RMD is not yet married , will you say that RMD can't comfortably marry a lady of 30years old? He still look young even at his age. If perhaps he is still unmarried, do you know how many ladies between the range of 25 to 35 will be clamoring to marry him?

Women age faster than men that's the point. The ones that usually look younger than their age are the ones that are taking good care of their body, doing exercises and working out to keep their body fit and young. Some ladies, once they get married, they usually start neglecting their bodies, putting on extra weights and the rest. All that contributes to quick aging.

How many ladies workout to maintain their figures so as to look good for their men?

lonelygem:


I don't admit what people tell me 100%, I weigh things and decipher..
No one loves telling the true side of a story and implicating his or herself.

My questions are clear enough and the poster is yet to respond to them.

She's from a poor background, admitted! But was she from a wealthy background when u met her? Did the family suddenly became broke?

She's not yet in school, fine! Was she an undergraduate or seeking admission when u started with her? Did she suddenly drop out of school?

At least there must be a hidden notion behind certain actions.

He was quite aware of the age margin and other factors..

What was his motivation for dating her in the first place?


He should tell us something so that we don't assume he's one of those guys who cant take their eyes away from those small small girls with tomato breast.

mapet:


Run ong squat... You're not mature enough, neither are you intelligent

Kendumazy:
I have this feelings that you will regret sending her to school cos she is gonna leave you. She is too young to be in school and not lose focus on your love affairs in school and her parents won't help you with their attitude of you guys aren't married, she shouldn't stay long with you while they know you are about to embark on shouldering their responsibilities.

My advice. Suspend the school for now.

Marry her first, after that. Let her learn a lucrative trade. After that, establish her, look for a part time school and let her enroll in that. You won't be the only one footing the bills of her school. She will also be sponsoring herself from the proceeds of the trade.

That way, it's a win win for both of you. Firstly, you secure her with marriage, secondly, the school, you lower your financial responsibility by helping her with a trade.

Wish you all the very best. Use your brain sha.

GT07115:
well she is not naive as u think and to put the record straight I am the third guy she will be dating, I can count the number of ladies I have messed up with where, when and how it happened to this very moment , I am not a sex freak I was celibate for good 3 years without a woman no joke. When u talk about older ladies I laugh, older ladies who is either a graduate or self dependent I have come across are not submissive and ready to learn or take advice that will even better their lives, those who are graduate don't want to learn a trade to be self reliant rather they want to do business or secure a job they have no knowledge of. When I approached her I thought she was in her twenties but I was surprised to get the opposite and to me is a perfect age I love, I don't want old cargoes, I want a woman I can look at in 20 years from now I will still have an erection, sex is 80 percent in marriage and anything that will keep that fired burning to me is welcome and age is one of it. So don't take me for a sex starve man or an opportunist, I want her for a wife not sex machine, I am only disturb because humans are unpredictable and I don't have the financial muscles owing to other families responsibility.

Kendumazy:
I have this feelings that you will regret sending her to school cos she is gonna leave you. She is too young to be in school and not lose focus on your love affairs in school and her parents won't help you with their attitude of you guys aren't married, she shouldn't stay long with you while they know you are about to embark on shouldering their responsibilities.

My advice. Suspend the school for now.

Marry her first, after that. Let her learn a lucrative trade. After that, establish her, look for a part time school and let her enroll in that. You won't be the only one footing the bills of her school. She will also be sponsoring herself from the proceeds of the trade.

That way, it's a win win for both of you. Firstly, you secure her with marriage, secondly, the school, you lower your financial responsibility by helping her with a trade.

Wish you all the very best. Use your brain sha.

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

Skmoda360:

I definitely know you are from a broken home since you are uncultured bastard and you lack respect for your people to the extent that your father left when you are baby while won't you call another person father stupid......from the way you sound I can decipher you have daddy's issue and I won't troll you after this cuz I knew your pregnancy was from open field sex between your stray pop and your mum...oloshi!! sholo ro pe o mo ro so ni...omolasa ekeji aja