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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Ryan03(f): 1:03pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
[quote author=gabicon post=79256974] First of all you need to understand that the principles of marriage are still the same over a century ago but the concept has changed. In today's world women are no longer dependent on men economically hence they no longer take the crap they did 20years ago. Women now exercise a more robust Sense of freedom. If you are looking for a wife that will do your every bidding, I must let you know that she doesn't not exist anymore, some may look like it in the beginning but they will eventually metamorphose. Mother's have told their daughters how unfulfilled they were in their marriages and the daughters are not willing to repeat that experience. Making a marriage work in this age will involve both parties clearly stating their requirements, both parties have needs and those needs have to be met and the modalities of how needs are to be met needs to be discussed. may God bless you, wish everyone can see this. Can you make it into a thread please? |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Ryan03(f): 1:11pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
leonard002:Lol, six more months of shagging and deception? Free the babe joor |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Ryan03(f): 1:15pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
franchasng:Exactly why i Dont want a full time house wife in my life, she will watch your every step and marriage will become bondage for you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Kolping: 2:36pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
LasLas: Every young (and old) man, before getting involved in a long-term relationship, should spend time to understand the nature of women, especially in the current global war against men. A good book to read is "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi https://www.docdroid.net/xmhw/the-rational-male.pdf 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
LasLas:Considering you can not give a clear reason why you are feeling the way you feel, there is no clear indication, that the fault is from the lady. Meaning it's all you. You should take some time off, to figure out your shit. Maybe the realisation that marriage is just around the corner and things are finally serious is freaking you out. Seeing her parents and introducing her to yours, is obviously a big deal to you. Maybe you are not a marriage commitment nigga, I am pointing because you placed emphasis on the fact that you might cheat on her, which means faithfulness, you being faithful is an issue for you. If holding yourself is not an issue, the thought that you might cheat, would never cross your mind, more so in this situation where you are not married. You might be a relationship type, but not a marriage type, it's possible and very common with guys. So figure out your own shit, be true to yourself and get back to her. It's all you. And try not to blame the poor lady, you've not told us, that she do you anything. Push blame syndrome is common with guys in situations like this. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
jy2kbeyond: After TWO years? Now, she decides to show another "side"? And you think that men don't have different characters to them? Miss me with that BS. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
MrCuteking: Who made single ladies feel uncomfortable? Who shames and insult thriving single ladies? People like Genevieve and many others. Oh spare me that Bullsh¡t Men! Men and men! Everywhere you look, young jobless men shaming ladies, single mothers inclusive, for being single. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Profkenny1(m): 4:24pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Their choice is the problem of the society! These are men who raise emotional manginas that end up getting used and abused by females! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by James211(m): 5:33pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
Bro you will only be hate the people of the world cos of what you do but yu will not be hate God who created you this decision is for the betterment of you and the lady so for peace to reign in your family kindly explain to her what you have in mind and let go of the relationship cos everyone want to be happy in their home. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
LasLas:which kind of feminism traits? is it dat she cant expect herself to go to the kitchen to cook for a man? or she is disrespectful ? or she is fond of picking unnecessary fights or quarrels with ur neighbours? is dat wat u trying to explain? hehe in nigeria wen dem yarn feminism it is completely different from d normal feminism we all know. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
franchasng:i always dey ask why na married men full beer palour pass single men.ehn most of them are scated to go home after closing from work in d evenin cos of d wahala wey dem go meet for house. wife go dey quarrel and hala for no reason.u go just see a lady go dey squeeze her face for no reason and if d husband dare ask honey wat is wrong another set of quarrel don start. ehn weda na d wahala dey make nigerian men dey get shorter life span i dont know oo.d few lucky men married to good women are doin are dancing doin thanksgivin in church everyday whilre the unlucky ones married to toxic wives are crying in their heart and saying God why me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Tinyemeka(m): 1:13pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
LasLas: They are very dangerous. Lucky you've been seeing the signs. You DON'T wanna go down that road. Believe me. It's destiny-destroying. Your life will be changed for the worse PERMANENTLY. Better make hay while the sun shines. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by kenodrill: 2:55pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
Why committing her when you know you won't finish what you started.you better go ahead and marry her.stop deceiving women for your selfish gain. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Kolping: 3:15pm On Jun 13, 2019 |
A man should know what his goal is in life and where he is going. This must be done first before finding a woman who will want to help him achieve his goal. If as a man you have not got your act together, you might fall into a situation where the woman will dictate to you where to go. The man is the leader in the home. Every young (and old) man, before getting involved in a long-term relationship, should spend time to understand the nature of women, especially in the current global war against men. A good book to read is "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi https://www.docdroid.net/xmhw/the-rational-male.pdf LasLas: |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Emanodimo(m): 1:12am On Jun 14, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Casemiro(m): 6:35am On Jun 15, 2019 |
LasLas: listen very carefully she wants to be the man of the house. That's why she fell for you cooking and doing house chores. If she can be challenging you to do simple house chores that are naturally her responsibilities as a woman and also wants to add her dad's name, bro, then kiss goodbye to you being in control if you finally marry. women tend to get worse after marriage, and this one has started dragging who will be the head even before marriage. Just imagine what she will transform to after marriage! forget all what the females on nairaland have been saying. Do you want to be the woman of the house? if yes, go ahead and marry her, after all, love is blind. If you want to be in charge, I mean if you want to be the man, then don't go ahead, walk away and look for a lady that will be loyal and submit to you. This is a life time journey, so don't be a sisy all because of love Man up man, and be the man. Picture how your marriage will be in five years time picture how it will be in 15 years time. Two captains cannot sail a ship! |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by murphyrichy(m): 7:12am On Jun 15, 2019 |
Kolping:I have downloaded the book.... Thanks. Hope it will be helpful. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by Kolping: 7:20am On Jun 15, 2019 |
The book will change your life. Most men are still in the dark about women and female manipulation. Another eye-opening book is Anatomy of Female Power: A Masculinist Dissection of Matriarchy by Chinweizu Ibekwe (a Nigerian). http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf murphyrichy: Kolping: A man should know what his goal is in life and where he is going. This must be done first before finding a woman who will want to help him achieve his goal. If as a man you have not got your act together, you might fall into a situation where the woman will dictate to you where to go. The man is the leader in the home. Every young (and old) man, before getting involved in a long-term relationship, should spend time to understand the nature of women, especially in the current global war against men. A good book to read is "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi https://www.docdroid.net/xmhw/the-rational-male.pdf |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by murphyrichy(m): 4:54pm On Jun 15, 2019 |
Wow, I have got enough to read...Thanks Kolping: |
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